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Threesome with her virgin friend?

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Question - (25 August 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *. writes:

i have have been dating this girl for about a year that i care strongly for and she cares for me the same but i was wondering if it would be okay if we had a threesome with her friend? there is only one thing her friend is a virgin what should i do? i dont want to end p hurting our relationship.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009):

I have to agree with the majority with this one. I mean, I like threesomes as much as the next guy however I really don't think that they're the best way to introduce someone into the world of sexual relations. I can tell you right now that the idea of having sex for the first time is intimidating in itself let alone having sex with two people simultaneously. As a result, I strongly advise against involving the virgin.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009):

No matter what that girl says, if she's 18+ and still a virgin, she's waiting for something special. Have all the 3-somes you want, but I'd leave the chick with the V-Card out of it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009):

I think you should talk to your girlfriend and really ask how she will feel about you taking her friend's virginity. Just make sure your gf and her friend's relationship is alright and nothing will happen to her. I've been in a similar situation where I let my best friend sleep with my girlfriend for a few times and it was the best thing ever! I liked the idea, she liked the idea, everyone liked the idea so we all set it up...and it was daunting at first to see my friend having his way with my gf...but i got used to it..we all did! now whenever he's over every now and then, i just let my gf go to his room...it made her so happy knowing that we somehow pulled this off! Me n gf still have the best sex ever..so talk to her..if she wants it to happen...then go for it!

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A male reader, jackinthebox474 Canada +, writes (28 August 2009):

if you like worms, go ahead and do it cause your going to be opening a big can of them...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009):

please what you do in your sex life is yours, but please leave this "virgin" girl alone. her first time should not be in a sordid 3some.

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A female reader, busy04 United States +, writes (25 August 2009):

busy04 agony auntWhy would you even think to include the "virgin friend" in something like that in the first place?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009):

You are asking for trouble taking your GF friend virginty and then expect to just be friends.

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (25 August 2009):

xanthic agony auntConsidering your girlfriend's friend is a virgin, chances are she's not going to be ready for something as emotionally complicated as a threesome.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009):

I can't imagine that what you're describing would be a good "first" for your g/f's virgin friend.

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A female reader, devastated2008 United States +, writes (25 August 2009):

devastated2008 agony auntNO! Its not okay!

If you care deeply for your gf why would you even consider this? And the other girl deserves to be in an exclusive loving relationship... where her virginity will be valued.

They both deserve a man that wants to be with them and only them.

If you were standing before me, right now I would be hitting you upside the head... NO NO and NO!

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