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Am I being paranoid about not meeting his parents.

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Question - (7 November 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ive been with my boyfriend now for 5 years, and I have still not met his parents, all though we do come from to different racial backgrounds, Im am white and he is asain. I love him so much and I really do want to meet his parents, and he still refuses to tell them. I do everything for him, and our relationship is serious. He tells me that he will tell them in time but I do not believe him. Do you think is he ashamed of me? or am I just being paronoid and wait till he tells them. Please someone help me x

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (12 November 2007):

sexi agony auntHi

The way that i see it is that if a guy tells his parents/family about you then he is serious about you ( im not saying that your bf isnt) It is possible that things maybe very difficult for him now as his parents are probably strict and have strong religious beliefs. Are you prepared to follow his religion if you both get married?What is your bf's religion?

Regards,mail me if you wanna talk

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007):

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Hey Guys

He tells me that 'why should they know about me im dating him not his parents'. So is he right?

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (8 November 2007):

sexi agony auntHi

Can you let me know what religion your bf is. I am asian as well.

Regards

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A female reader, cristin343 United States +, writes (8 November 2007):

cristin343 agony aunt5 years??? are you kidding me?

this is a serious problem.

i once dated a guy for 1 year and hid him from my parents. Why? because i knew they would not accept him and i was just dating him temporarily because it was so nice.

the bottom line is, if he really does want to be with you permanately... he will MAN UP and tell his parents about you.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (7 November 2007):

rcn agony auntI think after 5 years definitely time to meet the parents. There shouldn't be any "in time" junk. Who cares about the different backgrounds, it's your relationship not the parents.

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