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He had sex with his close friend... but now she's a lesbian and they're both cool about it - should I be?

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Question - (6 November 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2007)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi everyone, my boyfriend told me that he had sex with a close friend of his when they were really drunk it was about 3 1/2 years ago. Now they stayed good friends and today she is a lesbian. they are cool about it as they got on with their lives leaving that episode behind them. She is really cool and she really accepted me as one of their friends. we dont go out frequently with his friends as we are seeking different places. Should i forget everything about that confession or continue worrying for nothing as they got over with their lives and there was no feeling between them.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007):

try 3 sum,, its good,, but once only,, cause the first time is the best time

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (6 November 2007):

sexi agony auntHi

He was honest and you should appreciate his honesty. I would just like to know if he slept with her while he was involved with you? If it was before that then you should just move on and accept it (i know it is easier said then done). You need to just be happy that he told you and you never heard it from someone else. You have got yourself a honest guy you should hang onto him. Hope everything works out for you.

Regards,mail me if you wanna talk

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A female reader, peaches83 United Kingdom +, writes (6 November 2007):

peaches83 agony auntYou should be glad that he was honest and didnt hide the fact he had once upon a time slept with her.

The fact that they are good friends and she has accepted you into this circle of friends is also a sign that things wil be ok.

I wouldnt be woried at all hunny.

Peaches

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