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Why the sudden change in my wife with sex?

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Question - (26 October 2011) 8 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2011)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My wife made me beg her for sex for 13 years. I went out of town a couple of weeks ago for the weekend and ever since I got back that's all she wants to do now

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2011):

She will not tell me what was said she just keeps saying it was girl talk

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2011):

You begged for sex for 13 years and one outing to the club with her friend changed her sex appetite. What did her friend say and do to get her to do a 360?

Is she trying new tricks? What exactly did her girl talk entail?

Since u are enjoying the benefits of her "girl talk" , then enjoy the extra loving? But keep an eye out bec this seems too good to be true after just one talk.

LoveGirl

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2011):

I went out of town for work that weekend and the next for work the second weekend her and a female friend of hers went out to a club and the sex got more interesting than ever I asked her why the sudden change and all she kept saying was that it was girl talk with her friends

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2011):

OP more insight is requested by us from you please.

While we wait for your update these are just my thoughts:

Either she realised that she is losing u and therfore the sudden burst of sex levels

Or she is going through her own mid life crises and the hormones are raging. This has happened to me personally. After 35 I couldn't get enough of my hb. We did have a good sex life previously but after 35 my hb was amazed and concerned about my need for sex.

Or she is cheating or about to. I know often when a man cheats he also increases sexual activity at home so that the missus doesn't suspect any thing. The wife walks around on cloud 9 not suspecting that hubby is playing elsewhere. Is this what has happened to your wife? Is she trying desperately to please u so that u do not expect that she's found another playmate?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2011):

Maybe she had an epiphany and realized you could be cheating on her and she decided to step up her game. Or it could be a side effect from medication or maybe she's going through menopause or her hormones are shifting?

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A female reader, Plexi Canada +, writes (27 October 2011):

Plexi agony auntMaybe shes afraid of losing you and read too much into your "weekend get away" Be happy and enjoy yourselves and reassure her of how much you still love and desire her:)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2011):

I've noticed the same trend with some of the guys I dated. They have a one track mind as soon as they get off the plane from a long trip...but a weekend away? I'd be suspicious too.

I wouldn't assume it's cheating if she's so specifically interested in sex with you, but I might suspect she's become emotionally close to someone else. Women can be purely physical about sex too. She might be hot and bothered about someone she's met and you are the benefactor of those feelings. I'm not sure if that makes your feel better or not. You might want to ask her why the sudden interest?

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A female reader, KittieS United Kingdom +, writes (26 October 2011):

KittieS agony auntYou need to explain more about your situation, this doesn't give people much to comment on

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