My e-crush unexpectedly called me his gf! I want to be happy, but I feel weird. Why?
Q. Hello, I have a strange problem. I'm a young woman living in Canada, and for the past 3 years I've had feelings for this man that I met while on vacation in France. We met, traded numbers and addresses, and became penpals. I developed a weir...
A. 22 May 2007: You dont feel it is real because it ISNT real. Because of the huge distance you can only see each other rarely and in a vacation setting. This isnt real life. If you could see each other regularly and in 'normal' situations you might feel ... (read in full...)
Is full of poo or is it actually possible that he is being the logical and smart one out of the two of us?
Q. ok so i meet this guy through mutaul friends it wasnt planned , and i wasnt looking for anything or even thought anything of him but bam we hit it off like right away he took me home that day and he asked for my number so i gave it to him and 2 days ...
A. 22 May 2007: He is going to be gone for a long time. You hardly know each other and to ask you to wait for him is unfair and burdensome to you. If the two of you were a long time couple then to ask you to wait would have been reasonable, but under the ... (read in full...)
Is a 15 year old girl dating a 22 year old different from a 18 year old girl dating a 26 year old? Any views?
Q. Hello, I'm 19 years old and dating a 27 year old guy. We've been dating for a year, ever since I was 18 and he was 26. And everything's fine, no problems here. Recently though, my cousin came and told me that she's dating a 22 year old - and s...
A. 19 May 2007: When I was 13 I met a 20 year old man and we both really liked each other and wanted to date. My parents, rightly, said no. The age differance was too great ~ AT THAT TIME. We were 7 years apart, just like your cousin. And when I was 15 and he was ... (read in full...)
Is being loud during sex a good thing or a bad thing?
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time the other day, and I was a bit...loud. Couldn't help it really! Anyway after it was over, all he said was, "Wow...you were quite loud." I always thought that was supposed to be a good thing, but ...
A. 19 May 2007: Being loud, if it is real, is great. You are enjoying yourself and it is what is coming out naturally. He may have been a bit suprised, but that doesnt mean he thinks it is a bad thing.... (read in full...)
How to cope after a very close death???
Q. Hi Everyone, AskEve here. I just wanted to let everyone know I lost my wonderful partner 2 days ago so won't be on for a bit. He was over in Switzerland on business when he passed away. (I wasn't even with him...) I loved him terribly and now...
A. 19 May 2007: I wish I could give you some wise words of wisdom on how to cope with this terrible tragedy, but I dont have any. I am so very very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you. Please accept my condolances.
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We seperated for two months and he slept with two other people... can this be overcome?
Q. I am new to this lifestyle but after 3 years my partner and I ran into so tuff time, we sperated for 2 months, I so loved him but had serious jealousy issues, He would come to see me often while we were apart, We had gotten back togeather and I ...
A. 19 May 2007: I can understand that you are disturbed by his promiscuous behavior. It makes you wonder if you are anything special and if someone who jumps in the sack so easily with others is someone you want to be with. I understand. My current boyfriend ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 12 May 2007: I am glad to hear about the positive things that came out of the counciling session. It sounds like you two are connecting a little better. Yes, jobs take us away from loved ones quite a bit. We cant all be lucky enough to work from home or only ... (read in full...)
He keeps sending his ex girlfriend's teenage daughters money.
Q. My boyfriend has an exgirlfriend that lives thousands of miles away. He has met her teenage girls a handful of times, but says he loves them like they were his own children. In the past he has sent them large checks ($1000 or more) and extravagent ...
A. 12 May 2007: What so many people on here seem to be missing is HE IS NOT THEIR EX STEPDAD!!! HE HAS ONLY MET THEM A COUPLE OF TIMES!!!! He dated the Mom before the kids were born. They live 3000 miles away and he has only seen them in person a handful of times. ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 9 May 2007: What did the councelor have to say? And you still have never made it clear how your job as a teacher causes her to be neglected. Does she not want you to work at all? How will you get by then? You mentioned in a previous post how you had to work 2 ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend will only love me if I loose weight. Should I dump him?
Q. My boyfriend told me that I need to lose weight. We just got back together after we broke up for a couple of months and he said that I looked like I gain weight. So I told him you don't love me the way I am? He said I'll love you if you lost some ...
A. 9 May 2007: Absolutely dump him! And I agree with those who say to mention that it has to do with HIS penis size and add that you are worried he may be losing his hair! HA!... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 8 May 2007: Good luck on your counceling today! I sure hope it goes well! Having an outside, unbiased, professional look at the situation will be very helpfull, I think. Sometimes you need someone outside the situation to clue you into what is happening and a ... (read in full...)
Am I being emotionally abused?
Q. Is this emotional abuse?? hey, im 16 and in a relaionship with a 25 year old guy. but thats not the problem. We've had our fair share of problems, especially with other people trying to get in the way. A lot of his friends don't think I'm ...
A. 8 May 2007: Yes, this is emotional abuse and you should get out of the relationship. My ex husband used to use a similar tactic. Whenever he wanted to control me he would threaten to divorce me. He would tell me how horrible I was and that he didnt want me ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to fall in love after a short time?
Q. Hi, I've been going out with someone for almost a month now, but I feel like I'm starting to fall in love with him now. I just feel so special when I'm with him, and always get excited when I get to see him. (I only get to see him him every weekend, ...
A. 8 May 2007: What you are feeling is infatuation. It is the excitement and new relationship energy that we have at the beginning of a relationship, that 'love' feeling where everything is wonderful. But it is not actually love, at least not yet. Love takes time, ... (read in full...)
Was I raped?
Q. is i rape if you wake up to find someone having sex with you?...
A. 8 May 2007: Yes, you did not give concent and therefore it is rape. Absolutely.... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and think I masterbate too much! How can I stop?
Q. Im 17 and like most guys, i masterbate. I started when i was 13 and have dun it at least once a day, sumtimes up to 4 times a day. All i can say is that i have lost all feeling for it and now i do it because i am either bored or just been watchi...
A. 8 May 2007: It is completely normal, you are not excessive AT ALL. Most boys your age do it that often and well into their 20's, even if they have a girlfriend. There is absolutely no need to stop. The only problem would be if you PREFERRED doing it yourself to ... (read in full...)
Are spanking games normal, sex-wise?
Q. are spanking games a normal part of sexplay if both the boy and girl like to play. ...
A. 5 May 2007: As long as both partners are into it, then yes! it is absolutely normal!... (read in full...)
I was warned that losing one's virginity, in the case of a female, can be very painful.
Q. I was warned that losing one's virginity, in the case of a female, can be very painful. I wasn't prepared for how intense the pain would be!! It was awful, even my boyfriend was surprised (he is more experienced than me, but bygones are bygones) ...
A. 5 May 2007: For me the first time was very painful and each subsequent time was a little less painful untill it became all pleasure. I think it took me about 1/2 dozen times until I experienced no pain at all. ... (read in full...)
If you have sex before you start your peiod does it do any damage inside you?
Q. hi. i am just wondering if you have sex before you start your peiods does it do any damage inside you. i have posted this questions 4 times and it doesnt seem to come up. i really need to know. i am sexually active although i am 16 i havnt yet ...
A. 1 May 2007: You ovulate before you get your period, so you can still get pregnant, even though you havent started menstruating. The lack of a period does not, however, mean that sex will somehow damage you and the lack of bleeding on your first time probably ... (read in full...)
She's not his ex, she's STILL his girlfriend even though I've been seeing him for 2 months.
Q. I stumbled on this site and read a lot of sensible answers to questions. My boyfriend of two months and I seem to be on and off all the time. We seem to get close physically (we have not gone all the way) and then he wants to meet and tell me that ...
A. 1 May 2007: He seems to be having a push pull thing going on in his head. He likes you, hence the pull. Then he feels guilty because he is cheating on his girlfriend while she is out of the country (and lets face it, he is cheating), hence the push. I think it ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 30 April 2007: I am very concerned by her saying she refuses to go to therapy because it is your problem, not hers. That right there tells me that it is indeed her problem, not yours. She claims it is your depression and your problem, yet I think she may have some ... (read in full...)
I am in a serious relationship but have a "friends with benefits" relationship with my ex.
Q. Hi, I have been in a serious relationship with a man I am deeply in love with for eight months now. I have a gut feeling that he will be the one I marry. Before we were in a relationship, we kissed a few times within a period of a week. The ...
A. 30 April 2007: I am a bit confused. You kissed your ex one time eight months ago before you were officially involved with your current beau and you worry NOW if you should tell him? Unless I am missing something here, this is so far in the past and so not ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether to work on it and hopefully get a good end result or just go back to being friends and find someone who does want to go serious.
Q. What does it mean honestly? I am 28 and came out of a 6 month relationship a month ago. Met a girl who is 21 and came out of a 5 year relationship 2 month ago. We got on as friends for a while, last monday we actually hooked up at the pub and came ...
A. 30 April 2007: Relax. You have been dating this girl for only a week and have known her for not much longer than that. You should not be trying to make it all serious yet. Just enjoy each others company, have fun, get to know each other. If you really get on well, ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 in one month and I'm with someone that's only just 25 is there anything wrong with that?
Q. I'm 15 in one month and I'm with someong that's only just 25 is there anything wrong with that?...
A. 30 April 2007: I met my current boyfriend when I was 13 and he was 20. We were both very interested in each other. He was my first kiss. However my parents put a stop to the romantic relationship because of the age differance and they were right to do so. I do not ... (read in full...)
Do women shave their private parts for anything other then sexual reasons ?
Q. Are there other reasons women shave down south besides sexual reasons?...
A. 27 April 2007: Some people who are nudists feel you arent truely nude until you are COMPLETELY nude. ... (read in full...)
Do women shave their private parts for anything other then sexual reasons ?
Q. Are there other reasons women shave down south besides sexual reasons?...
A. 27 April 2007: Some people who are nudists feel you arent truely nude until you are COMPLETELY... (read in full...)
Having an online relationship with her, but she flirts with other guys and doesn't seem to care about me! What should I do?
Q. She says she's confused, now I'm confused and paranoid. Hello, Currently I'm having an online relationship with someone that I met almost around two years ago. At first I was the type of guy who thought when I was a kid that I would never mar...
A. 26 April 2007: I am going to be very mean here and you are not going to like it, but it is the truth. You do not LOVE this girl. Talking on the phone and chatting online do NOT equate with actual time spent in anothers presence. You need time to actually do things ... (read in full...)
Having an online relationship with her, but she flirts with other guys and doesn't seem to care about me! What should I do?
Q. She says she's confused, now I'm confused and paranoid. Hello, Currently I'm having an online relationship with someone that I met almost around two years ago. At first I was the type of guy who thought when I was a kid that I would never mar...
A. 26 April 2007: I am going to be very mean here and you are not going to like it, but it is the truth. You do not LOVE this girl. Talking on the phone and chatting online do NOT equate with actual time spent in anothers presence. You need time to actually do things ... (read in full...)
Having an online relationship with her, but she flirts with other guys and doesn't seem to care about me! What should I do?
Q. She says she's confused, now I'm confused and paranoid. Hello, Currently I'm having an online relationship with someone that I met almost around two years ago. At first I was the type of guy who thought when I was a kid that I would never mar...
A. 26 April 2007: I am going to be very mean here and you are not going to like it, but it is the truth. You do not LOVE this girl. Talking on the phone and chatting online do NOT equate with actual time spent in anothers presence. You need time to actually do things ... (read in full...)
Having an online relationship with her, but she flirts with other guys and doesn't seem to care about me! What should I do?
Q. She says she's confused, now I'm confused and paranoid. Hello, Currently I'm having an online relationship with someone that I met almost around two years ago. At first I was the type of guy who thought when I was a kid that I would never mar...
A. 26 April 2007: I am going to be very mean here and you are not going to like it, but it is the truth. You do not LOVE this girl. Talking on the phone and chatting online do NOT equate with actual time spent in anothers presence. You need time to actually do things ... (read in full...)
Having an online relationship with her, but she flirts with other guys and doesn't seem to care about me! What should I do?
Q. She says she's confused, now I'm confused and paranoid. Hello, Currently I'm having an online relationship with someone that I met almost around two years ago. At first I was the type of guy who thought when I was a kid that I would never mar...
A. 26 April 2007: I am going to be very mean here and you are not going to like it, but it is the truth. You do not LOVE this girl. Talking on the phone and chatting online do NOT equate with actual time spent in anothers presence. You need time to actually do things ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 26 April 2007: She is saying two opposite things here. First she says it is just sex, just her body being pleasured and she will not be emotionally involed. Then she says she only wants to do this with friends, ie people she cares about and is emotionally involved ... (read in full...)
Our sex life and intimacy is dysfunctional! Is it time for me to walk away from all this?
Q. I wrote a question asking for advice about me refusing to have sex with my boyfriend because it's always about him and causes too many problems. That's still ongoing but now I've noticed something else: now we don't have sex, we have no other ...
A. 26 April 2007: I am afraid it may be time. How do you relate otherwise? Do you talk, have fun, laugh together, have similar interests? These other things can be just as important as sex. If you dont relate well outside the bedroom and you already have stated you ... (read in full...)
I think I love her like a family member now, am I falling out of love ?
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend for nearly a year. I have started to notice a change in my feelings, and I just wanted to know what you guys thought. I used to be super-excited to see her every time that I did. Now, I am still happy to see her...
A. 26 April 2007: The beginning of a relationship is always so very exciting. You get butterflies when she walks into a room and obsess about when you will see her next. This is called infatuation, or as the previous writer called it, the honeymoon phase. As you ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 26 April 2007: How is your job possibly the reason she wants to have sex with coworkers, friends and who knows who else? It cant be that you work too much as you have been able to make love to her 3 - 4 times per day as she requested. Sex always means something. ... (read in full...)
Im attracted to my bf's friend "Bob"! Is this the 7yr itch at 4 yrs?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4yrs, and lived with him for 2. While I still find him attractive and think I would like to marry him and have a family, we dont have a lot of time to spend together, as we both spend alot of time working. I've ...
A. 26 April 2007: Eddie is right on the money with his advice, and I hope you listen to it. Cheating is never acceptable and if you truely see yourself marrying and having children with your boyfriend, you better back off.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cheated on me with my friend. Should I take her back?
Q. My girlfriend cheated on me with my friend. i gave him her number while we were broken up but i seriously didn't think he would succeed with her. He called her and they met the next time then started spending time at her house while she was ...
A. 26 April 2007: There was no cheating involved here. The two of you were broken up, and you are the one that suggested he go after her! What exactly did you think you were playing at? She was allowed to date, sleep with or whatever she wanted with any other guys ... (read in full...)
Why does he not see himself with me when we are so good together? How can he love 2 girls like this
Q. Ok, agony aunts, let me know your thoughts on this one please cos i am all out of answers!! I have been seeing a guy for about a year and a half. We work together and started seeing each other pretty much as soon as i started at my job. We have ...
A. 26 April 2007: What Keira is trying to bring up, I think, is the concept of polyamory. The idea that you can love more than one woman at the same time. It is entirely possible that he does truely love both of you. But the problem here is that he is not being open ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to still have feelings for your ex?
Q. i have recently got with a boy and i dont know if i'm over my ex.. i scared i'm on the rebound and will just hurt my boyfriend if i stay with him is it normal to still have feelings for your ex? ...
A. 26 April 2007: Yes, it is normal to have feeling for your ex for a while. Especially if he was your first boyfriend. But eventually you move on. ... (read in full...)
What obligations do we have in our various relationships and what is the nature of those obligations?
Q. What obligations do we have in our various relationships and what is the nature of those obligations? I suppose an obvious relationship in which there are clear obligations is a contractual relationship. What about in marriages? Do we have ...
A. 25 April 2007: Wow! Very complex and hard to answer. All relationships come with expectations and obligations. Even a casual friendship comes with certain expectations and obligations, common courtesies. Those relationships that are closer to us, more important to ... (read in full...)
Bf wants me to have sex with me on top. How do I do that?
Q. i recently got with my boyfriend and he wants to have sex. While talking about it he told me he wanted me to go on top however i have only had sex with my ex boyfriend and he always went on top so i dont know what to do. i'm scared he might be ...
A. 25 April 2007: To have sex with the woman on top you straddle the man with your legs on either side of him. You can hold onto his hands for support or the headboard to move up and down. Or you can lean over and put you hands on his chest or on the bed and move ... (read in full...)
He made this comment when I was giving him a handjob! What did it mean?
Q. I was giving my boyfriend a hand-job today and he smiled and said "if you carry on like that you're going to tip me over the edge" any ideas on what he meant? x...
A. 25 April 2007: he means you were going to make him have an orgasm. You were doing a good job and making him feel good.
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