How can I stop hating my boyfriend when he's away? I love him to pieces when we're together!
Q. when ever my bf is at home (we long distance) i start to hate him every small thing he does i hate him for. if he forgets to put xxx in his texts i hate him. when he tells me he be online when he knows im at work i hate him. when he takes 6 weeks to ...
A. 24 July 2007: I understand how you are feeling. When I am away from my boyfriend (and we live in the same town) I miss him. Missing him makes me sad. Being sad makes me think negative thoughts. Negative thoughts make me focus on everything bad that has happened ... (read in full...)
I want to wait until she is old enough to date
Q. Following up from my previous question whereby I asked for advice concerning the 4 and a half year gap (14/19)between myself and the girl I met I just want to thank everyone for reassuring me about how I am no 'monster' as I put it. Going on the a...
A. 21 July 2007: I was in a similar situation years ago. I was a 13 year old girl and he was a 20 year man. We cared very much for each other, but the age differance was too great AT THAT TIME! He, too, waited for me. Unfortunately by the time I was 18 (the age set ... (read in full...)
Hypnotism and sex combined has become a real fantasy for me!
Q. Hello. I've just turned 18, and I have recently discovered hypnotism. Well, actually, I was aware of it before, but I've just started looking at it in a new light. It has just come to mind that hypnotism and Sex combined is quite a turn on for ...
A. 19 July 2007: If you have someone you are confortable with, and involved with, you could ask their permission to do this. As long as they consect ahead of time and you are completely trustworthy it would be ok. Kind of like tieing someone up, right? Consent is ... (read in full...)
He said he wants to meet me, but then he said he might be too busy! Is this a brush off?
Q. I met a guy a week ago and kissed him, we have txt each other and he says he wants to meet me but when i asked him if he was ok for a drink tonight he says he might be busy. He's sent me messages saying i am beautiful and very sexy but should i take ...
A. 19 July 2007: He may actually be busy! If you repeatedly asked him out and he was always busy, then I might see a problem, but this guy does have a life you know!... (read in full...)
I came off my period last wednesday, had sex without a condom - could I be pregnant?
Q. I came off my period last wednesday, had sex without a condom with my boyfriend on Friday twice during the evening. He didn't come in me, he pulled out but he does have a bit of clear what I call pre-cum. Could I be pregnant?...
A. 19 July 2007: Chances are very small that this encounter would impregnate you, but do be more careful in the future. Use a condom EVERY time!... (read in full...)
He hasn't totally gotten over past relationships; does this mean he might not be fully committed to me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months. We have a great, honest, loving relationship. He's been in a few more serious relationships than I have. I know he's still not completely moved on from 2 of them. He doesn't talk to them, or ...
A. 19 July 2007: I know exactly how you feel, Sarah, as my boyfriend hasnt gotten over his past loves either and it is destroying our relationship. He has had 3 major 'loves' in his life. The first was 23 years ago and he is still in touch with her and sends her and ... (read in full...)
Is there anything to prevent me from getting sun damage to my skin???
Q. Are there any lotions/creams out there that I could put on that prevents me from getting sun damage and tan before I step outside? [Moderator note: Sunscreen.. sunblock... suntan lotion... ???]...
A. 18 July 2007: Yes, go into any drugstore and you find dozens of sunblock lotions. Put one on, being sure to use a sufficient amount, about 20 minutes before going outside to ensure effectiveness. I dont mean to sound mean here, but have you been living in a cave ... (read in full...)
Can sperm die in chlorine water?
Q. Can sperm die in chlorine water?...
A. 18 July 2007: It is absolutely postively possible to get pregnant having sex in a swimming pool. The chlorine does not make it safe. He will be ejaculating inside of you where there is no chlorine and no water.As a matter of fact plain water, air and even grape ... (read in full...)
My wife is cheating on me and wants a divorce
Q. Hi, I found out 6 days ago that my wife is having an affair. I have known in my heart things have not been right for quite a while and understand that this has been going on behind my back for 2 or 3 months. I am having a very tough time deali...
A. 18 July 2007: You need to consult a good divorce attorney ASAP. You should be able to keep the house if you pay her off. She cannot force you to sell or give it to her if you do that. You both own the house equally and are each entitled to half. You give her her ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesnt want to use spermacide because he says it is painful for the girl. Is that true?
Q. Hi There People,I Have Just A Quick Question. My Biggest Fear Is Getting Pregnant, But Im SO In Love With MY Boyfriend (and he loves me too :) ) That We Started Having Sex The Problem Is, I'm Getting On The Pill But I Want To Be Safer Than That ...
A. 18 July 2007: I have used spermacides and have never had a reaction or found it painful in the least. It is best to use a combination contraception as you and penta suggest. Either condon and pill or condom and spermacide are both excellant ways to ensure that ... (read in full...)
Could I have caught HIV from biting my tongue in a restraunt???
Q. Today I went and ate at a buffet restraunt with my family and friends. While I was eatting I bit my tougue by mistake and blood was coming out. It looks a bit puffy now. Since I bit my tougue, could I be expose to any diseases since this took place ...
A. 18 July 2007: No, as everyone else has said, you cant contract HIV from biting your tongue and eating in a restraunt. Stina put it all very well so I wont repeat it. But lets just pretend for half a second that you could/did. You would not be sick from it within ... (read in full...)
How can I find out whether he loves me or not?
Q. I want to know how would I know if someone loves me? I broke from my fiance a year ago and now I see him regularly but each time he sees me he just runs away. we were on bad terms when we broke but now I have feelings for him and I want to know if ...
A. 17 July 2007: I would say that the fact that he runs everytime he sees you means he does not care for you. How and why would you be developing 'feelings' for a man that you are not talking to or spending time with? I think you are fantasizing and building him up ... (read in full...)
Is it true that even psychologists abuse their patients/clients for the sake of making their own credit rise?
Q. Is it true that even psychologists abuse their patients/clients for the sake of making their own credit rise? IS it possible to trust anyone for that matter in this world?...
A. 17 July 2007: The vast majority of psycologists, psychiatrists and coucilors out there are good people who want to help their clients and would never dream of abusing their clients. But, as with anything, there are always a few bad apples out there and if someone ... (read in full...)
Is he right for calling me selfish?
Q. My man admitted to me that he has second guessed our relationship because I asked that we speed up the process of us getting married so his insurance will cover my infertility treatment. He says I only think about myself Is he right for calling ...
A. 17 July 2007: Why are you having infertility treatments if you arent married? You are putting the cart before the horse. Get married and THEN have the infertility treatments and then the issue of whether you have to pay for it, or the insurance is moot.... (read in full...)
What's the chance of getting pregnant if you use a condom properly and you pull out?
Q. What's the chance of getting pregnant if you use a condom properly and you pull out?...
A. 17 July 2007: Slim to none. Although the chances are extremely remote, it is still possible. For greater assurance use a spermacidal foam or jelly next time in addition to the properly used condom.
... (read in full...)
What's the chance of getting pregnant if you use a condom properly and you pull out?
Q. What's the chance of getting pregnant if you use a condom properly and you pull out?...
A. 17 July 2007: Slim to none. Although the chances are extremely remote, it is still possible. For greater assurance use a spermacidal foam or jelly next time in addition to the properly used condom.
... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant without sex?
Q. okay. well about 2 weeks ago my boifriend and i had a small encounter we didnt actually have intercourse but i feel like im experiencing signs of being pregnant can you get pregnant this way or is a very very slim chance?...
A. 17 July 2007: Chances are highly unlikly, but you need to be a bit more specific about what the 'encounter' was.... (read in full...)
I have been having an online affair and I need to end it!
Q. I am deeply involved in an online affair with a much younger man - Im 35 - he is 21. He thinks I am his age and unattached. He says he wants to marry me. I am married with 4 children and I want to end the online affair. It has been going on for 2 ...
A. 17 July 2007: You are a perfect example of why I get on peoples cases about internet and long distance relationships. They are not real! This young man says he loves you and wants to marry you. But he isnt in love with you, as the person you have presented is ... (read in full...)
I didn't bleed during my first time, am I still a virgin?
Q. i had sex with my ex fiance for many times but i didnt bleed! does this mean im still virgin? because we separated and im afraid of the future, i dont want to tell any body that i had sex.how can i hide this thing from my future fiance? other than ...
A. 15 July 2007: Being a virgin or not has absolutely nothing to do with bleeding, it has to do with penetration. If his penis has been inside your vagina you are no longer a virgin.... (read in full...)
Is it ok to pay for sex as long as you're very careful?
Q. I am male, who is mssing sex. is it okay to pay for a shag, as long s you are very careful.....
A. 15 July 2007: No.... (read in full...)
Can you get STDs without intercourse?
Q. A quick question can you get any diseases from REAL passionate wet kissing with tongue and mutual masturbation, or dry humping? I had my undies on the whole time, while he wanked and I tried not to come into contact with it....
A. 15 July 2007: Oh, and I just found out, you can get meningitis from kissing.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to have asked for the expensive ring back?
Q. I just bought a $3K ring for my girlfriend and then she announces she is moving out after 10 months. I asked for the ring back and that offended her? Am I wrong to have asked?...
A. 13 July 2007: Ok, several subtleties here. I dont get the idea that many have on here that it was an engagement ring. If it was then no holds barred she needs to return it. If it was a love gift, it becomes a bit more tricky. Such a very expensive gift as a $3000 ... (read in full...)
Can you get STDs without intercourse?
Q. A quick question can you get any diseases from REAL passionate wet kissing with tongue and mutual masturbation, or dry humping? I had my undies on the whole time, while he wanked and I tried not to come into contact with it....
A. 13 July 2007: Yes, you can get hepatitis C from kissing, I believe. Also, contact with the sperm can lead to STD, so be careful.... (read in full...)
I want to swing, but my wife doesnt
Q. My wife and I are still young, We are both 34 and we have been together for 17 years, highschool sweet hearts and I love her very much. But lately, I have been expressing to her how much I would like to be with another couple. She is a very ...
A. 13 July 2007: First let me say that you should not force your wife to something that she is totally against. She will make you regret it!
Now, swinging is a lifestyle that is not for everybody and your wife may feel insulted and turned off that you want to see ... (read in full...)
Could the fact that I had early sex be the reason I dont orgasm now?
Q. i had my first sex intercourse when i was only 14, i learned to play my ---- when i was just a kid. until now that i'm already 16 and having my regular sex intercourse with my bf, i never experienced orgasm but sometimes, i feel its coming then it ...
A. 13 July 2007: No, having had sex at a (way too) early age is not the reason you cant orgasm now. More likely you need direct clitoral stimulation. Very few women are able to achieve orgasm just by intercourse, so you are in the majority. Add clitoral stimulation ... (read in full...)
I have been married 2 years, but I am still a virgin!
Q. I am in need of urgent help. I am almost 28 years old and married since last two years now. it was a love marriage and we both love each other a lot. But i am still a virgin. I am just so scared of the pain even before we start kissing that i do not ...
A. 12 July 2007: Yes, the first time hurts, but not anywhere near as badly as you obviously fear. And once you get past that initial pain, making love with the one you love... well, there is nothing better! He seems a very understanding, loving and patient partner ... (read in full...)
My breasts are differant sizes!
Q. Hey, I'm 16, and I have one breast that is a fair bit larger than the other. I suppose that I am still quite young and I am most likely still growing, but will they even out in time? ...
A. 12 July 2007: Not necessarily. We are all somewhat asymetrical, some more than others. My breasts (and I am 39 so I sure hope I am not still growing!) are 2 differant sizes. Most people dont notice this unless I point it out to them though, so it really isnt a ... (read in full...)
How can I get my guy to last a bit longer in bed?
Q. My boyfriend dont last long at all in bed. When we do have sex it is good even though it is not long. How can we have him last longer in bed then just a few minutes?...
A. 12 July 2007: As he is getting close to orgasm you two need to slow down for a moment and calm down a bit. This can be very hard for a male as he just wants to go faster and attain that orgasm because it all feels so good!! As he gets better at doing this he will ... (read in full...)
He had his penis indide me with no condom; is it possible to get pregnant?
Q. ok.......me and my boyfriend hav not had sex but he has put his penis in me. we didn't move but then his parents came and got him. we did not use a condom and i'm not sure if i can get pregnant or not.....can anyone help me??? ...
A. 12 July 2007: Honey, let me explain one thing to you: if he put his penis inside of you then you have had sex with each other. Penetration is sex even if there was no ejaculation.... (read in full...)
Am I bisexual, or just a cross dresser?
Q. hi im 24yr straight male who likes to dress in girls clothes. not very often. Recently i met this guy and have became good freinds. he is bi and we started having sex a few months ago and meeting each other once a week with me dressing as a girl ...
A. 10 July 2007: You may not have realized that you were attracted to men before because you were concentrating on women. But you are having and enjoying a sexual relationship with another man. I think that qualifies you as being bisexual. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is done having kids, but I dont have any yet, and I really want one
Q. Im 29 and living with my girlfriend, 34, and her two boys 10 and 12. We have been together over a year now and i realise now that she doesnt want any more children and i do. She has had her boys and now want some time of her own, which i underst...
A. 10 July 2007: My boyfriend went through the same thing, right about at the same age. He was with an older woman who had 2 kids. He knew he wanted a child of his own, and that he would never marry this woman and have a child with her, but he stayed anyway. He was ... (read in full...)
We don't choose to be attracted to people. It just happens. When it does, should we just dismiss these feelings under the aegis of "respect"?
Q. I recently posted regarding my problem, that is, I have very strong feelings for a married female co-worker. I got the expected responses (i.e. stay away from her!!!) but my feelings persist. I simply cannot stop thinking about her. I won't bore ...
A. 5 July 2007: "Maybe she made a mistake. Maybe she is with the wrong person and should really be with me." Yea, maybe. But if she made a mistake in choosing her husband, it is not your problem to solve. If she were to leave her husband because she were unhappy ... (read in full...)
Can anybody give me some advice to as why my ex abusive partner does not approach me when we split up and apologize even when he knows that he was in the wrong?
Q. Can anybody give me some advice to as why my ex abusive partner does not approach me when we split up and apologize even when he knows that he was in the wrong? We have had a stormy realationship for many years and he has been emotionally and ...
A. 5 July 2007: No body wants to see themselves as the bad guy and they will twist things and justify things to make sure that they arent the bad guy, at least in their own head. My ex husband was verbally, financially and sexually abusive. I had fears towards the ... (read in full...)
I belittel my long distance relationship to other people and want to stop
Q. Hi everyone, I'm involved in a relationship with a wonderful man whom I love very, very much. The problem is, it's long distance. A huge distance actually - international. However we're lucky I suppose because we see one another every 2-3 mon...
A. 5 July 2007: I tend to be rather critical of long distance relationships,especially those that are that far away. You say you love him, but you only see him every 2-3 months. I dont believe you really know him! Anyone can be wonderful for a week at a time while ... (read in full...)
I am confused about when to try to have a baby
Q. Ladies I really need help from you. My husband and I are really wanting to have a baby but there is one thing that comes between us, its my period I am very inrregular sometimes I go a year with out it. the doctor put me on loestrin24 fe a birth ...
A. 5 July 2007: If you are on a birth control pill to regulate your period you cannot get pregnant at all while taking that medication. The period you are having is not a real period, no egg is released. That is why it is birth control, it prevents pregnancy! ... (read in full...)
What 'welcome back' present will match his ex-girlfriend's?
Q. Please somebody help--my boyfriend is traveling for a week; do I make a welcome party when he comes or bring him a present? Please tell me what kind of a present I must bring because his ex brought him one the last time he traveled. ...
A. 4 July 2007: Norah,
I am sorry, but I need a little clarification to your question. Is your boyfriend traveling to visit you? Or is he normally with you and traveling for a week away and coming back to you? If he is coming to visit you, then a party for him ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and she is 12; is this age difference a problem?
Q. Dear All I'm 14 and I have feelings for this 12 (nearly 13) year old young lady and vice versa, she is very mature. Do you feel it's appropriate to have such an age difference, I don't mean this in an inappropriate way I mean to be loving one ...
A. 4 July 2007: Absolutely, it is appropriate for you to be this young ladies boyfriend. The age differance is not too great and since you both seem to be sensible enough to know that being boyfriend/girlfriend at this age doesnt involve anything sexual in nature, ... (read in full...)
Update : I don't want anything else but him.
Q. this is in relation to the " i dont want nythin else but him" question i rite earlier on in the week .... one of the advice givers sed dnt b so stupid 2 me. wel id jst lyk 2 let eveyone no that wen i sed i spent the most amaixng night of my life...
A. 3 July 2007: You need to say what your question is and you need to write in in English, NOT text talk! Use actual sentances and actual words!... (read in full...)
I want to meet my Irish boy without my parents knowing. What can I do?
Q. I met this boy, on Habbo Hotel a popular chatroom for teenagers, i am 12 years old and he is 13 he lives in Ireland and we got on really well, we started going out a while ago its a hard relationship because, i am from england and he is from Ireland ...
A. 30 June 2007: Never ever sneak out to see some guy, especially some guy you dont even actually know, behind your parents back. That is so stupid and dangerous I can hardly control myself! And to think you would travel to another country? If you really think this ... (read in full...)
My wife and I are increasingly sneaking off for 'quickies'; I think we're becoming addicted!
Q. Hi im 33 and have been maried to my wife for 7 yrs. Our sex life has always been great and dispite having a teenager and a baby. Well this all started a wekk last thursday so about 9 days ago the baby was asleep and our teenage daughter was out with ...
A. 30 June 2007: This is all really a good thing. You dont have a problem, you have a fabulous marriage! good luck!... (read in full...)
My online boyfriend doesn't seem as keen as he used to be
Q. I met this man on the net, he promised me all what a lady will want. I trusted him. for more than 10 times he promised me but never fulfiled his promises. He hardly calls these days, when i call he complains of time difference (He is in New York ...
A. 30 June 2007: Honey, find a real man in the real world and forget about this fantasy man who doesnt really exist. He made all sorts of promises at first because it is so easy to do. I dont think he ever had any intention of following through. It is just a game. ... (read in full...)
| *eejuliet's friends
These are mutual friends, so *eejuliet has
added them and they have added *eejuliet!
|
