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i am 30 year old women with nice looks. i like to make friends and i belive real relationships.

I might be pregnant and I don't know what to do, please help me!!

Q.   Okay, I am only 13 years old and I recently had unprotected sex. My period was about a week before the sexual intercourse. And i'm so stressed because i'm bleeding unregularly and i'm afraid that i might be pregnant or even worse have a STD. It...

A.   12 April 2008: Dear you must use proctection otherwise anytime you can concive. well try to see doctor as soon as possible at this age if you are late than there would be a problem for abortion. dont waste time for any home remedy or any pill just go and see ... (read in full...)

What is the true meaning of love?

Q.   What is love? \\...

A.   12 April 2008: well ae i saw your flag i think you are from pakistan....if yes than you may be you understand my hindi " yeh woh ehsaas hai jo zindagi badal deta hai. pyaar ya mohabbat ka matlab jaan na etna assan nahi hai, hum lafjo mein bayan karna namumkin ... (read in full...)

My inlaws are making trouble in my marriage and my husband wont stand up for me.

Q.   my in-laws are disturbing my life and my husband dont understand even though he knows that sometimes they are wrong. but he never told them that they are wrong. he love me a lot but like them too so he want everything together. i fighted alot, ...

A.   11 April 2008: thank you all!!!!!!!!!!! well i read all answers and finally decided to discussed with my husband but i am sure that it is not eacy to change him still he thinks about them evn they have everything ..............i must remember him that he promised ... (read in full...)

My boyfriends a real mamma's boy

Q.   Hey all... i can really do with some advice on this topic. my boyfriend is a real mamma's boy. i know you can't change a person but what can i do about this. he phones his mom every day and then i'm not allowed to know what they discuss. he says ...

A.   10 April 2008: what to suggest you i am also spending my living with mamma boy........but i am trying to making distance betwen them well i am not tellinh that just broke their relationship but i am telling that if they are right and giving you love as same as ... (read in full...)

Since I have become pregnant my partner has gone off sex completely!

Q.   Since I have become pregnant my partner has gone off sex completely, he used to be very loving and affectionate but now looks at me as if I'm one of his mates and he even talks to me differently, I have asked him why he has changed and he says he ...

A.   10 April 2008: well when i was pregnant he was nice to me and almost most of the time we enjoyed a lot but your case is little differsnt if he say im worried weather h will hurt baby so this is quite ok but he is donig bulls#it i think he thinks now you are ... (read in full...)

I am pregnant at 16 and my boyfriend doesn't want the baby

Q.   i am 16 and i am pregnant. my boyfriend (now he isn't my anymore) just tuned 18 and he does not want the baby. he told me to abort the unborn child. but i don't want to. i want to have this baby.is this the right decision?...

A.   10 April 2008: he dont want because he was not serious with you that is sure and now he is thinking that may be one day you will ask him to support you to taking care of baby even at this time i mean at your age guys are not serious about relationship only ... (read in full...)

Yuck! I hate my body after having 2 kids in the last 2 years!

Q.   I'm 26. I have had 2 babies in the last 2 years, and we do not want anymore. My stomach is really stretched out, the skin is loose and flabby. I have a "ledge" of loose skin that just hangs at the bottom of my stomach. I had really large babies and ...

A.   10 April 2008: first of all congrates!!!!! you are mother of two sweet babies. second thing now its your time to think about your body. better after some time when you will recover than start to do something like ......body massage, little walking, dancing this is ... (read in full...)

If my boyfriend pulls out, could I still become pregnant?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have unprotected sex everyday yet he pulls out. what are the chances of me falling pregnant? ive heard there high but yet for four months ...nothing. could something be wrong?...

A.   7 April 2008: better you use proctection it is safe and also without tension ..........u can enjoy if one day or may be without knowing or knowing something happen that you will be problem for the women it is dengerous to do abortion not good for good women rest ... (read in full...)

How can I trust him again? What can I do?

Q.   Hey guys, Ive got myself into s suituation and now i cant see any light at the end of the tunnel. Ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 year and now im living with him. in the beginning of our relation i was happy until i read a message...

A.   7 April 2008: dear friend i am so sorry to know abt your problem but you dont worry i have just caugt my husband also mailing ti his old gf using dear darling and missing you so much type such words i also felt cheated nut i straight away talk to him even i ... (read in full...)

My wife abandoned me and our kids for her online lover!

Q.   I am 49, and my wife is 31. A year ago she started an online relationship with a man in Hungary, which she physicaly carried out by taking a vacation with my 4yr old daughter for two months, leaving me with my 12yr old son. While there she ...

A.   6 April 2008: thanks friend for your reply well i am fine and yes i am still toghter my husband came back to me and relised his mistake even i told him to follow to advocate but he didnt he said he dont have any relation with that girl she is just friend and i ... (read in full...)

My wife abandoned me and our kids for her online lover!

Q.   I am 49, and my wife is 31. A year ago she started an online relationship with a man in Hungary, which she physicaly carried out by taking a vacation with my 4yr old daughter for two months, leaving me with my 12yr old son. While there she ...

A.   5 April 2008: i can understand your problem friend cause im going through same situation. my husband also have online gf and now he is mailing her regularly and telling her to visit him. i also dont know how to tackle but as far sa my situation is concerned ... (read in full...)

My fiancee is still seeing his ex, should I be worried?

Q.   My fiancee would not stop seeing his ex wife. I would understand if there are kids involve, but they dont have any kids. He tells me that he loves me, but he wont stop seeing her. i confronted him and he said that they are just friends and he only ...

A.   4 April 2008: there is no reason to see each other i think may be that women is attracting your partner again or your partner want both sides he wants to marry and on the other hand he wants that women for fun or enjoy........better you keep an eye on him just ... (read in full...)

I have had post-natal depression and my partner left me, how do I get him back?

Q.   i have a 13month son, and have been suffering with postnatal depression. my partner, has left us. saying that we no longer get on as i'm not the same person anymore. how do i get him back ...

A.   3 April 2008: before answering your question i would like to ask you something.....what is love to you? is it related to your beauty of face or beauty of your heart. true love never love beauty it can see only true heart feelings and that type of relation will ... (read in full...)

Is it true one can fall pregnant from a man's pre-ejaculatory fluid?

Q.   My boyfriend and I had sex 14 days after my period we started out unprotected but then he put a condom on meaning he did not ejaculate inside of me but I've been having some cramping,lower back pains and i've noticed a change in my appetite.. I read ...

A.   19 March 2008: yes i it could happned so better take pill and test your pregnancy.... (read in full...)

I didn't want to move again, especially as so much time, money and effort had been put into the first move... so my wife left me! Was I wrong?

Q.   Hi, My partner of 3 years has just left me, took my son. I'd like to explain what happened; because I'd like another point of view on things to help me understand what I did wrong. Basically, we were both very young. We both made mistakes (she ...

A.   19 March 2008: dear dave just try to confirm that why she left? waht is the reason i think there must be any strong reason coz if you are earning good and that place is nice so that mean may be feel feels insecure there (where you stay). better you keep in ... (read in full...)

Are people required to change because their married now?

Q.   My husband and I dated for 4 years before marriage and we have been married 1.5 yrs, are in counseling already. There is no emotional, physical or spiritual connection anymore and I don't want to live like this. I have a habit that is not ...

A.   18 March 2008: well dear friend....as fas as my experienced concern dont change yourself just because someone wants you to change yeah just try to adjust yourself for him. May be i am wrong but my husband is also same like yours. just try to make a healthy ... (read in full...)

After five years, my fiance says he doesn't love me....What am I supposed to do?

Q.   I have been with this guy for 5 years we have two children together he always seems i was every thing to him in 2007 we plained to get married in october 2008 and in the mean time we both were trying to have a baby we tryed for almost a year and i ...

A.   16 March 2008: I think he is very smart ..he use you anbd last when finaly he found you pregnant so he is trying to leaving you. Dear i dont know how much you love him but i know only one thing that if a man dosen't respect women he is not a man he is a eunuch as ... (read in full...)

Risk of pregnancy in 4-5 days after her period?

Q.   my condom broke and my girlfriends period ended five days ago what are the chances that she'll get pregnant?...

A.   16 March 2008: better she will take any pill........with that tell her to eat raw pinapple that will work sometimes and tell her buy pregnancy test kit and the next due date of period, must check.... (read in full...)

I noticed an itchy, sore and burning sensation around my vaginal area, should I be concerned?

Q.   I was recently married, and after a few weeks of being sexually active for the first time, I've started noticing an itchy/sore/burning sensation around my vaginal area. Is this normal, or should I be concerned?...

A.   8 March 2008: dear you need to see doctor might be infection.........always use good quality panties and always wash your vagina after sexual relation. ask doctor any wash to clean vagina. ... (read in full...)

How to get back my husband from in-laws?

Q.   I am 30 year old women and married with a nice guy but he never stands up for me if my in-laws fight with me. Well I tried to make them happy so many times but I can't. I just had 26th week miscarriage but still my in-laws never call or come to ...

A.   8 March 2008: thank you very much friends. yesterday i had a phonice conversation with my husband and just in 3 min we had a fight even i couldn't talk so much with him later i send him a mail and now i am not talking to him even he called me 1 time and i don't ... (read in full...)

Why would she cheat on me? We had been dating for 7 months at the time.

Q.   Earlier today I went on my girlfriend's myspace and started checking her messages because a guy from her past had been talking to her so then I went back to the last time they had talked and I saw her posting shit about me and then out of suspicion ...

A.   5 March 2008: well dear friend i understand your situation but its a time to find that is she really loves you or just playing with your emotions. i personaly belive that there would be a strong reason for cheating may be i am wrong but i had that type of same ... (read in full...)

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