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writes:I am new to this lifestyle but after 3 years my partner and I ran into so tuff time, we sperated for 2 months, I so loved him but had serious jealousy issues, He would come to see me often while we were apart, We had gotten back togeather and I found out that he had 2 sexual partners while we were apart, He insists that he thought we would never be togather again. Can you trust someone who is that promiscuous, I try to hide my feelings, but the thought sickens my stomach, I do love him more than anything which is why I took him back, but am I just delaying. He swears he loves me and would never do that while he was with someone but his nature or personality has him surrounded by alot of temptation. I want us to survive his encounters but I please need someone to help me.
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (19 May 2007):
 I can understand that you are disturbed by his promiscuous behavior. It makes you wonder if you are anything special and if someone who jumps in the sack so easily with others is someone you want to be with. I understand. My current boyfriend engaged in quite a bit of promicuous behavior before we were together. Even though it was years ago and really had nothing to do with me because we werent even together yet, it bothers me that he could be that kind of person. However, you have to decide if the person he is with YOU is a person you like and can see a future with. You have to look at the now, and I know that is hard. Try to separate out the person he is from what he has done.
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reader, AdamPayseno  +, writes (19 May 2007):
 You just have to trust him mate..
If you were broke up he didn't do anything wrong.
If you ever get worked up about him doing somthing...
Close your eyes, and remember him telling you he woulden't.
You can get through it.
Good luck x
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reader, cd206 +, writes (19 May 2007):
 Well technically he didn't do anything wrong. You weren't together when he slept with the other two men. Some people take comfort in affection from other people when they're feeling insecure about themselves and it sounds as if your boyfriend is one of those people. Do you trust him to be loyal to you when you're together? Trust is what it comes down to in the end. If you decide to get back with him on a permanent basis I would ask him to have an STI screening too just to be on the safe side.
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