My husband is still taking care of his ex's daughter
Q. My Husband is lying! My husband and I have been together for 2 years. We have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. (I have 3 children from previous relationship) The problem lies within his past relationship with another woman. He started dating t...
A. 17 November 2008: Fade ~ She isnt in Canada, the child is 7 and they are asking for big ticket items and extravagances, not just normal support.... (read in full...)
He liked me when I was underage... now I'm 24 and he wants to go out with me!
Q. I have a question. I met this guy when I was 14 and he was 25, just once and he said he liked me then. Obviously,nothing happened then since i was underage. I never saw him again till last year, I'm 24 now and he likes me now too. Obviously the age ...
A. 17 November 2008: Yes. ... (read in full...)
My husband is still taking care of his ex's daughter
Q. My Husband is lying! My husband and I have been together for 2 years. We have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. (I have 3 children from previous relationship) The problem lies within his past relationship with another woman. He started dating t...
A. 16 November 2008: I do know how hard this has been for you. As I said, I have been through it! One of the reasons you probably love this man is because he is so nice. I know thats how it is for me. He is so kind, so gentle, so loving. But I didnt like to see him ... (read in full...)
My husband is still taking care of his ex's daughter
Q. My Husband is lying! My husband and I have been together for 2 years. We have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. (I have 3 children from previous relationship) The problem lies within his past relationship with another woman. He started dating t...
A. 16 November 2008: Ok, now we are getting to the root of the problem. It is the ex! You see her as manipulative, demanding and as just using your husband. I understand. In my case the ex that I already mentioned was (IS!) manipulative, deceptive, lazy (she has been on ... (read in full...)
I think my doctor took my virginity! Should I press charges?
Q. i think mydoctor took my virginity!i was a virgin and i went to the doctor for a pap spear and a swab exam.when I told the doctor to be gentle because i was a virgin his whole facial expression changed.he was going to fast.he didn't care if i was ...
A. 16 November 2008: Every year we have wonderful doctors who leave the medical field because of frivilous lawsuits alleging malpractice by people out to make a buck or blow a mountain into a molehill. Do NOT file against this man who was JUST DOING HIS JOB!!!! You did ... (read in full...)
My husband is still taking care of his ex's daughter
Q. My Husband is lying! My husband and I have been together for 2 years. We have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. (I have 3 children from previous relationship) The problem lies within his past relationship with another woman. He started dating t...
A. 14 November 2008: I have been thinking about your problem and I think we really need to get at the root of your issue. Is it the money? Is it the fact he didnt tell you the whole truth right away? Is it that the child is really a cousin?
Look, I understa... (read in full...)
My husband is still taking care of his ex's daughter
Q. My Husband is lying! My husband and I have been together for 2 years. We have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. (I have 3 children from previous relationship) The problem lies within his past relationship with another woman. He started dating t...
A. 13 November 2008: The fact that they are second cousins somehow ruined your happiness that your husband was stepping up to the responsibility of being this girls father? I must be missing something, but that seems an incredibly stupid reason to have had a change of ... (read in full...)
I like goth clothing, is goth believing in the devil?
Q. Hey, I'm a christian. I like goth clothing. Just the way they look, dress. Can I dress goth? Is goth believing in the devil. I want to know more about goth. Any advice?...
A. 13 November 2008: You can wear goth clothes and still be a christian. Your cloths do not reflect your religeous beliefs or what is in your heart. You do not need to be a satanist to dress goth. However, I would like to point out that people will judge you on your ... (read in full...)
In love with a known lier and womanizer. Do you think he has changed for me?
Q. right iv been seeing a guy for 9 months on and off. but he told me weeks ago im the girl he loves and wants to be with. BUT he has a really bad reputation hes got 2 kids to two different mothers. i hear hes a womanizer, cheat, liar and caught lots ...
A. 13 November 2008: I think you would be incredibly stupid to trust this man. But that is your choise. Lots of women have been in your position and feel that the man has changed their ways out of the great love they feel. Then soon enough he is a man with 3 children by ... (read in full...)
My husband is still taking care of his ex's daughter
Q. My Husband is lying! My husband and I have been together for 2 years. We have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. (I have 3 children from previous relationship) The problem lies within his past relationship with another woman. He started dating t...
A. 13 November 2008: Wow! This is an incredibly emotionally loaded question. I can understand very much how you feel. Because there is not the actual biological tie you feel your husband should move on and focus just on you and yours. But the thing is, he has been this ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want a baby at such a young age?
Q. is it bad to want a baby at such a young age? i feel myself really wanting to be a mum and i don't know why. i had a pregnancy scare a while ago and i was actually happy about it. me and my boyfriend are very happy together and i just reli want a ...
A. 13 November 2008: Yes it is wrong. But it is also completely normal! Your hormones are raging. You are also so happy with your boyfriend right now that a baby seems a logical next step. Just because you feel you want a baby right now does not mean that you have to ... (read in full...)
I think my doctor took my virginity! Should I press charges?
Q. i think mydoctor took my virginity!i was a virgin and i went to the doctor for a pap spear and a swab exam.when I told the doctor to be gentle because i was a virgin his whole facial expression changed.he was going to fast.he didn't care if i was ...
A. 13 November 2008: No, dear, he did not take your virginity. You are still a virgin. He may have been alittle rougher with you than you would have liked, but it sounds like an internal exam to me! Internals are never confortable or easy and it is not uncommon to use ... (read in full...)
How does one go about getting an abortion?
Q. hia. im 15 and im pregnant. im so terrified. i dont want to keep the baby and want an abortion. can i go throught with an abortion with out my parents finding out?...
A. 13 November 2008: I am in the USA so I cannot give pertinent advice on where to go. I am glad emilyanswers is able to give you the answers you need. So I just want to say that I am so sorry you are having to go through this trauma at such a very young age. This is a ... (read in full...)
Can't reach a climax...help!
Q. I just became sexually active about a month ago. The problem that I am having is that, I am totally turned on, and it feels really good, but I can't get off before he does, even if he is pleasuring me in other ways, I still can't reach climax. ...
A. 11 November 2008: Very many women, in fact the great majority I would say, do not orgasm during intercourse. Most find orgasm to be, as the previous posted stated, elusive. You are not alone. You are completely normal. Most need other stimulation and some even then ... (read in full...)
First time unprotected sex after we've been careful for long - what is causing the bleeding?
Q. Last night my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex for the first time. We've been together for almost 2 years and we've always been very careful. I'm on birth control. We've always used a condom up until last night. And I never had unprotected sex ...
A. 11 November 2008: I highly doubt that pregnancy is causing you to bleed as the other poster suggested. Pregnancy does not generally cause bleeding and you would be all of a few hours pregnant anyway. Plus you are on other birth control, right? The condom was the ... (read in full...)
Should I say no when he proposes and just wait for another man to enter my life?
Q. Hey, I have two friends who are both inerested in having a relationship with me, I genuinely love one of them the mere fact that we share very many things in common, he is reserved, composed and above all a phlegmatic which I am as well and when nex...
A. 11 November 2008: I think you are making some big assumptions here. You write that they are both interested in you, but not that you are actually dating either one of them. Most men do not propose marriage before actaully dating. Perhaps it is differant in Uganda. I ... (read in full...)
I feel he takes advantage. What can I do as I'm so fed up right now ?
Q. Hello, my problem isnt huge, but i feel like from your profile you can help me with my situation. I am so fed up at the moment and sometimes tearful. Im 29 and live with my boyfriend, and he does absolutley nothing to help me around the house apart ...
A. 11 November 2008: I love Dr Phils idea of working when he works. If he sits down and has a drink, so do you. When he willing to clean the kitchen with you, do it it together. When he needs clean clothes wash and fold together. I only work part time so I do the ... (read in full...)
Please tell me am I just being stupid or is there something going on?
Q. hi my husband went to hospital last week and i took his phone home with me but he told me to turn it off charge it up then bring it back to him, then in the morning i turned the phone on to phone his family and tell them he was in hospital and he ...
A. 11 November 2008: I will point out to the anonymous poster who said she keeps her old phone in case her new one breaks ~ only one phone will actually work on any given acount. When you purchase a new phone and it starts working the only phone automatically goes dead ... (read in full...)
Do you think my first love ever thinks of me, too?
Q. hi would like know: does first love really last in a womens heart? eg - we went out at age of 13. she had few boyfrends, plus engaged and divorced now. but what i would like to know is does she think of me or even miss me? we see each other often ...
A. 11 November 2008: I doubt very much that she feels jealous of your current love or that she still has 'feelings' for you. You will always have that special place in her heart, but you are not there currently. You are only a nice memory. Dont go trying to mess things ... (read in full...)
Is masterbating thinking about Mother normal?
Q. is masturbating thinking about mother normal?...
A. 10 November 2008: No, it is not in the least bit normal.... (read in full...)
Why am I turned on by something which I should be VERY ANGRY about?
Q. Hi, I'm a 26 year old girl. Me and my bf have been having a serious relationship for 4 years and we intend to get married. But he fancies other girls too. He looks at photos of other girls in internet (not only porn, even very normal girls)an...
A. 10 November 2008: While many people would consider this to be cheating some wouold not. There is a big differance between fantasy and reality. Perhaps you feel deep inside that no matter how much he may talk about it, he would never actuallly do anything about it. If ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend gives too much time and attention to a child that isnt even his!
Q. I have a serious issue,my bofriend and I have been together exclusively for18mon,but we been messing around off and on for 8yrs.he has a son and daughter from previous relationship,also inappropriate talkin between them tomuch contact!he's crazy ...
A. 6 November 2008: This is a very tough situation and rather difficult to understand all the details as your writing is very garbled and unclear. I do believe from what I can garner from your post that he should be in this little girls life. She thought of him as her ... (read in full...)
He does work two jobs which I am grateful for. I just wish he would respect my job just as much.
Q. My husband and I have a couple of issues. It's usually about money or sex. We are both a little overwhelmed cause we just bought our first home. We have two children an eleven year old boy and a one year old daughter so this should be the ...
A. 6 November 2008: You do have some serious issues here. He expects you to tighten the belt, but doesnt himself. He most certainly does not need two gym memberships and the drinking and smoking are bad habits that need to stop. I am concerned that the drinking may be ... (read in full...)
Please tell me aobut your experiences with an emotional affair
Q. Hello, all - Has anyone out there been involved in an EMOTIONAL AFFAIR? Please relate you experiences if you have been (or still are) because I'm trying to move on. Thanks much!...
A. 6 November 2008: An emotional affair is exactly what the name implies. It is an affair of the heart, not necessarily one of the body. Often the two go hand in hand, but sometimes not. People often justify to themselves that it isnt really an affair since they have ... (read in full...)
Can you fall in love with someone that you have never met?
Q. Can You Fall In Love With Someone That You Have Never Met??? I have been chatting to a man for the past 9 months on the internet. We met on a roleplaying game and have talked every day since (give or take about 5 days in the beginning). Eve...
A. 6 November 2008: You are not in love with him. You are in love with the potential for love and with the image you have of him. You need to spend time, lots and lots of time with someone to really know them and love them. Talking about things that you have done on ... (read in full...)
Pregnant at 14 and in care. What do I do?
Q. I am 14 years old.I was recently put into the care system but i have just found out im pregnant. I want to keep the baby but i have no support from my family or anyone else to be hounest.the father isnt in the picture either.i also have no where to ...
A. 6 November 2008: I strongly urge you to look into adoption. Once there is a baby in the picture then that is the only person whose needs count in my opinion. And what that baby needs is an adult, two parent home with financially responsible parents who can take care ... (read in full...)
Has anyone else experienced this problem of bleeding after giving birth?
Q. I had a baby 5 weeks ago and after haveing my baby i bled for 1 week and a half but i had sex during this time and i stopped bleeding for a week and when i stopped bleeding i begun takeing the contreceptive pill and i have been bleeding ever since i ...
A. 6 November 2008: My youngest is almost 9 so I have to try to remember quite a bit back here, but if I remember right I bled for quite a bit after giving birth. Like a couple weeks. Also, you are not supposed to have sex for 6 weeks at the very minimum!! You should ... (read in full...)
He liked me when I was underage... now I'm 24 and he wants to go out with me!
Q. I have a question. I met this guy when I was 14 and he was 25, just once and he said he liked me then. Obviously,nothing happened then since i was underage. I never saw him again till last year, I'm 24 now and he likes me now too. Obviously the age ...
A. 4 November 2008: I am not concerned that he liked you when you were 14 and that he also likes you now. That he didnt pursue you when you were 14 shows he had a sence of decency and knew it was wrong at that time. Now that you are older it is fine! What does concern ... (read in full...)
He liked me when I was underage... now I'm 24 and he wants to go out with me!
Q. I have a question. I met this guy when I was 14 and he was 25, just once and he said he liked me then. Obviously,nothing happened then since i was underage. I never saw him again till last year, I'm 24 now and he likes me now too. Obviously the age ...
A. 30 October 2008: Go for it! Why not give it a shot now? As you have stated the age differance is not so important anymore as you are an adult. I had something very similar happen to me. When I was 13 I met a young man who was 20. We both liked each other very much ... (read in full...)
Could I possibly be pregnant from this first relation?
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, I had sex for the first time 3 weeks ago, at age 29, with a friend of a friend I´ve met before. It was a one night stand, we used condom, but I was on my pill break (one day without the pill). On the next day, my period c...
A. 30 October 2008: Good!... (read in full...)
Could fingering get me pregnant?
Q. Hey guys, I'm a little bit worried so I hope you can help. Last night I gave my boyfriend a handjob and he finished himself off - with cum on his hands. Afterwards he went to the bathroom and washed his hands and stuff (but I'm not sure if he used ...
A. 30 October 2008: No, even if he hadnt washed his hands the sperm could not live that long on his fingers. It would have had to be right away with big globs of warm, gooyness on his fingers. ... (read in full...)
Could fingering get me pregnant?
Q. Hey guys, I'm a little bit worried so I hope you can help. Last night I gave my boyfriend a handjob and he finished himself off - with cum on his hands. Afterwards he went to the bathroom and washed his hands and stuff (but I'm not sure if he used ...
A. 30 October 2008: No, even if he hadnt washed his hands the sperm could not live that long on his fingers. It would have had to be right away with big globs of warm, gooyness on his fingers. ... (read in full...)
I had my period, could I be pregnant anyway?
Q. iam 24 years old,i slept with someone a month ago but i had my period and they lasted for the whole two weeks and usually they take 5 days,but now my problem is yesterday i started to vomitt,so what i wanna know is could i be pregnant? are these the ...
A. 30 October 2008: Chances are extremely small. More likely you are ill. Lots of things cause vomiting besides pregnancy! Take a test to be on the safe side though.... (read in full...)
Do you think my first love ever thinks of me, too?
Q. hi would like know: does first love really last in a womens heart? eg - we went out at age of 13. she had few boyfrends, plus engaged and divorced now. but what i would like to know is does she think of me or even miss me? we see each other often ...
A. 30 October 2008: As her first love you will always hold a special place in her heart. She has fond memories of you and probably thinks of you now and again. But that does not necessarily mean that she is missing you or wants you back.... (read in full...)
Why do some people constantly disrespect others by trying to force their religeous beliefs on them
Q. This is no doubt going to be a controversial topic but here goes: I am an atheist and quite happy with my beliefs. However I quite happily respect and accept everyone else's beliefs nor do I ever disrespect anyone else's beliefs / religions etc by...
A. 30 October 2008: Christians, unlike many other religeons, believe that the ONLY way to heaven is to believe as they do. So they see themselves as compassionate and loving individuals when they try to convince you to take on their belief system. They have been taught ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is starting to ask my help in paying her bills
Q. I have a girlfriend who i love very much and she says she loves me, she works nights in people care and exhausts herself doing it to pay her mortgage and bills and the money is not going far enough so shes started asking me for money to make up the ...
A. 30 October 2008: Why does she say you are cantankerous? Why did you break up? Was it just because you refused to give her money? How long were you dating her? Please update us and let us know what is going on.... (read in full...)
I'm growing increasingly resentful about my boyfriend's daughter!
Q. When me and my boyfriend met his baby was 2 months old but because things had turned ugly with the ex he had no contact with his daughter and had only ever seen her twice. One night he broke down to me telling me he cried everynight over it and he ...
A. 30 October 2008: Please do! Keep us posted!... (read in full...)
Could this be emotional abuse?
Q. Hi I think I have been in an abusive relationship. Started dating in February, he was loving and things were good. but slowly over time he showed he had a short fuse, ranted to me on the phone about spending time with family, said our time pre...
A. 30 October 2008: I truely do understand how hard it is. Stay strong and feel free to keep in touch for support or to update me. You can PM me through this site if you would like. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Could this be emotional abuse?
Q. Hi I think I have been in an abusive relationship. Started dating in February, he was loving and things were good. but slowly over time he showed he had a short fuse, ranted to me on the phone about spending time with family, said our time pre...
A. 29 October 2008: It most certainly is abuse! And see how he has bound you to him with his intermittent love? You state he is so loveing sometimes... SOMETIMES!!! It needs to be all the time. I know exactly how you feel when you try to justify everything and say ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is starting to ask my help in paying her bills
Q. I have a girlfriend who i love very much and she says she loves me, she works nights in people care and exhausts herself doing it to pay her mortgage and bills and the money is not going far enough so shes started asking me for money to make up the ...
A. 28 October 2008: Unless you are in a very serious relationship, as in planning on getting married or living together, then I think it is inappropriate for you to be paying her bills. If you live together than her bills are your bills and it is appropriate to pay. ... (read in full...)
I'm growing increasingly resentful about my boyfriend's daughter!
Q. When me and my boyfriend met his baby was 2 months old but because things had turned ugly with the ex he had no contact with his daughter and had only ever seen her twice. One night he broke down to me telling me he cried everynight over it and he ...
A. 28 October 2008: Good for you! I think it is a wonderful idea to take some time on your own and to give him some time to be alone with his daughter. You can go out with girlfriends or get your studying done. That way when you are over there you will not feel so ... (read in full...)
Without full penetration can she still get pregnant or STDs?
Q. So yeah. My best friend just had sex for the first time. Her and her boyfriend have been dating(on and off) for just over 2 years. He's had sex plenty of times(they're polygamous and he's a whore) These 2 kids are both teenagers and 2 of my best ...
A. 28 October 2008: Yes, absolutely she can.... (read in full...)
I want to leave my husband but I can't bring myself to do it.
Q. My husband and I have been together 10 years and have 3 kids. I want to leave him but I can't bring myself to do it. We constantly fight, he curses me and even calls our kids names, I hate him for how he acts. I've asked him to go to counseling ...
A. 28 October 2008: When you got married you had planned on it being forever. One big reason you are having trouble leaving is because it is so hard to give up that dream, to admit that the marriage failed which also implies that you failed. There is a grief process ... (read in full...)
Could this be emotional abuse?
Q. Hi I think I have been in an abusive relationship. Started dating in February, he was loving and things were good. but slowly over time he showed he had a short fuse, ranted to me on the phone about spending time with family, said our time pre...
A. 28 October 2008: It is a very common abust tactic for an abuser to use what is called 'intermittent afection' with a victim. He will be sweet and loving one time and then angry and abusive the next. This is generally done with little or no provocation and complete ... (read in full...)
After having sex with me he told me "I don't want to be with you!"
Q. I am 25. My boyfriend ended things almost a month ago. Since then we've pretty much spoken everyday, and on sunday we met up for sex. I know, I know, absolutely terrible idea and I know that now. We had a great night and he stayed the morning after ...
A. 28 October 2008: Honey, you state in your post that you are afraid to break off contact because if he doesnt care about you then you will never get to speak to him again, like it is some kind of privelage. Why oh why would you want to maintain contact with him if he ... (read in full...)
I love my mistress, but she doesn't want me to leave my wife for her.
Q. I am 27 years old and have been married nearly 7 years, so yes that means I got married when I was 20. After our daughter was born my wife kind of emotionally checked out of our relationship, she held unforgivness towards me for things that were ...
A. 23 October 2008: She gets to have all the fun without any of the responsibility. That is why she doesnt want you to leave your wife. If you left for her than the two of you would have to have a proper relationship. It would not be all fun and intrigue. It would be ... (read in full...)
Do men shave their pubes? Do women like it if they do?
Q. Hey, just a quikie...do men shave thier pubes? like i always thought armpit shaving was a girl thing but i have seen men do it, and i tried to shave my crotch pubes once because i see loads of men with no pubes thier, so i thought it was normal to. ...
A. 23 October 2008: A little trim to make things neat might be ok, but personally I think shaved pubes on a man make him look like a deranged elephant! Just need to paint some little eyes on!... (read in full...)
Could I possibly be pregnant from this first relation?
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, I had sex for the first time 3 weeks ago, at age 29, with a friend of a friend I´ve met before. It was a one night stand, we used condom, but I was on my pill break (one day without the pill). On the next day, my period c...
A. 28 August 2008: Bleeding is not usually an indication of pregnancy, but of some other problem. You may be getting what is termed 'breakthrough' bleeding as a side effect of the pill or you may be suffering some other medical condition. In either case I think you ... (read in full...)
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