Anal sex is painful for my wife but I like it. Advice please!
Q. Anal sex is painful for my wife but I like it. Is there any way to have anal sex without hurting my wife?...
A. 4 September 2007: I HATE and I mean HHHAAATTTEEE anal sex. I used to just dislike it, but my husband always liked it and even though it was painful to me and I didnt want to do it he would insist. I would tell him no over and over and he would tell me how much I (not ... (read in full...)
He says I am frigid but I think I am too young!
Q. I am 13 and i like this 19 year old boy..he really likes me and i like him but he said i am frigid..i think i am to young and he is a dad what shall i do?? help...
A. 4 September 2007: You are not frigid, you are sensible. Dont rush growing up! It happens all to soon anyway. Enjoy being young while you can. You will spend the rest of your life being an adult. nobody looks back and regrets waiting, but plenty of people look back ... (read in full...)
I was going to get back with my ex but on holiday she got off with 2 different guys. Should I trust her?
Q. This Summer I finished my studies and was meant to go on holiday with my sister, my uni friends and my ex-girlfriend who theres always a chance I would get back together with. However, last minute I found I had a problem with my passport and could ...
A. 4 September 2007: She did not cheat on you as the two of you were not 'together', however any girl that would sleep with two guys in three days is a major slut and not worth a decent guys time. ... (read in full...)
He says he will never forgive me if I dont give him rent money
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend and am in process of moving out. Movers come Wednesday. I gave up my apartment the first week in May. We never put any kind of lease in writing and he has me pay him for everything in cash so he does not have to ...
A. 4 September 2007: It sounds to me like he is just using you as a cash cow and doesnt really give a hoot about YOU. He wants to marry you so that YOUR family money will protect HIS house? And he got the house with his EX's divorce settlement? And you are paying 2 to 3 ... (read in full...)
Does feeling up your boobs cause them to grow?
Q. hiia, i recently herd off a friends mum that feeling and playing with your boobs stimulate the cell tissue and makes them grow, is this true? i was just wondering because she always says to my friends who have bf that there boobs have bin man hand...
A. 4 September 2007: No, not even a little bit. I had size c cups before I was ever touched by a man, ever. And there are many very experienced women out there that have a cups after many years of 'stimulation'. ... (read in full...)
I'm a 15 yr old guy and I cant stop masterbating???
Q. how do i get myself to stop masterbating? im 15 years old and im a guy i have problem. ive been masterbating for a long time. i mean a real long time about 3 years and some months. i cant stop idk know y i jus cant help like when i try to control ...
A. 3 September 2007: You are not a sex adict. You are completely normal. ALL teen males (and up into their 20s) have a very strong sex drive and will masterbate daily, even when they have a sex partner! Some days they will masterbate several times. This is all normal ... (read in full...)
My guy is going through a tough divorce and is saying we're now taking a break. Was I just a passing fancy or should I just wait it out?
Q. I'm 28 years old and have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. When we first started going out he told me that he was int he middle of a divorce. The soon to be ex and him seemed to have an okay relationship for the sake of the kids. When we ...
A. 3 September 2007: Divorce is extremely stressful, agonizing and just plain awful. Try to be supportive and loving during this time and know that his behavior is not necessarily what is 'normal' for him. His neglect or even lashing out at you could very well be due to ... (read in full...)
My ex husband thinks we never got divorced!!
Q. Hi, I wonder if anyone in the Uk can help me out here. I was speaking on the phone to my ex husband on Saturday night. Havent seen him since we split 16 years ago (apart from once about 6 years ago at his and his girlfriends house for a b b q, i u...
A. 3 September 2007: Yikes! I would think you would have made sure of all this when you were going through it! I am in the US, so I cant speak definitively, but you should be able to check with the courts. All these documents would be filed with the courts. There should ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and i can hear my mum and her boyfriend in the next bedroom. I also found some condoms in her bag! I'm sickened!
Q. I'm 14 and my mom and dad are split up but my mom has a boyfriend and after about 3 months of them going out he started to sleep in our house sometimes, he is nice but at night i cry myself to sleep because i can hear my mom and him moaning and ...
A. 30 August 2007: As a divorced mom of two little boys I can answer somewhat from your moms perspective. I understand your moms need for physical intimacy with a man she cares about. You should understand that she is an adult and making adult choises and that she has ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to not be able to orgasm with penetration only?
Q. I have been married a month but have known my husband for 2 years. I cant orgasm with penetration on when he fingers me, is this normal? I have always assumed it is but then he gets upset with me and says its because all i want him to do is finger ...
A. 28 August 2007: You are completely normal. I have heard that only 30% of women can orgasm with penetration. I personally cant. I cant even orgasm with fingering. The only way for me to achieve orgasm is with clitoral stimulation. I have to say that while the clit ... (read in full...)
How can I please him in bed?
Q. How can I please my 27 yr old bf of almost 7 months in the bedroom department?...
A. 25 August 2007: you shouldnt be. He should not be having sex with a teenager 10 years younger than himself. ... (read in full...)
He cheated online , and now I dont trust him and am a jealous maniac!
Q. I have recently found out my partner of three years have been 'cheating' online with a girl he claims he never met. I came across a saved msn conversation on the computer which was quite graphic, this girl knew I exsisted as she asked where I was, ...
A. 25 August 2007: You are right to feel this way. He did indeed cheat. Just because it was online and didnt involve any physical sex does not mean it wasnt cheating. Right now you are going a bit overboard, but that is understandable. You are in pain! If he really ... (read in full...)
Can getting fingered damage you?
Q. When being fingered can your body be damaged? so you can't have kids or anything like that? thanks...
A. 25 August 2007: Unless you are talking about something pretty severe, no it wont damage you.... (read in full...)
When you get older and your hair turns grey, does the same happen to your pubic hair?
Q. This is just something i wondered out of curiousity, when you get older your hair turns grey, does the same happen to your pubic hair?...
A. 21 August 2007: Yes, it goes grey. My boyfriend has as many grey pubes below as he does hairs on his head. He is so vain, though! He actually plucks them! ;-p Silly!... (read in full...)
I cheat on my fiancee all the time, but its his fault cause he got me into computers
Q. I am engaged to a wonderful man who i love,but i am addicted to cheating.It seems so easy,they are all available on the internet. He has almost caught me twice,but luckily i turned it around on him and now he has to prove to me that he`s not a ...
A. 21 August 2007: Yes, you are a bad person. Blaming him and turning things around on him when you almost got caught show some serious charater flaws. You are unworthy of him.... (read in full...)
I am getting ingrown hairs and shave bumps
Q. Alright, so I recently gota gf and decided to start shaving my pubs (from what i gather girls my age prefer shaved). so anyways, i have a problem and i'm wondering if its normal... getting ingrown hairs. sounds nasty i know, but i'm wondering if ...
A. 21 August 2007: I agree with supersquirrl. I dont like a shaven man either. Reminds me of a deranged elephant or a child. A trim is nice, but not full shave. That is only my personal prefferance.... (read in full...)
He's got no money and can't work because of his bad leg... so his solution is for me to sell my body (sex-wise) for money!
Q. i gt bk with my bf in april after breaking up in dec.we gt engagd recently and he took me to his country to meet hiz parents.he says he loves me and does nearly everything i say we plan a lovly future but the onlything is he does nt want to work ...
A. 18 August 2007: I agree with the other posters. Run like your pants are on fire, girl! Any man who would ask you to sell your body so that he doesnt have to work is a Loser and doesnt deserve you.... (read in full...)
What is the consensus on the difference between men and women's differences in fantasy and drawing the line with including other people for visual stimulation versus tactile?
Q. I need some discussion on masturbation, my mate only wants sex with me 1-2 times a month but masturbates to porn almost daily, it has become a huge issue since I would like sex more often and feel sexually frustrated. Recently he told me that I ...
A. 15 August 2007: Dear Hugs,
In responce to your question of have I ever seen something I wish I hadnt. Yes. My husband did like porn, too, quite a bit. When we first married he would occasionally get porn and it was 'normal' porn. I admit I got turned on by it some... (read in full...)
What is the consensus on the difference between men and women's differences in fantasy and drawing the line with including other people for visual stimulation versus tactile?
Q. I need some discussion on masturbation, my mate only wants sex with me 1-2 times a month but masturbates to porn almost daily, it has become a huge issue since I would like sex more often and feel sexually frustrated. Recently he told me that I ...
A. 10 August 2007: I am going to be very cynical here because I dont see this a relationship that is going to last. I agree with the other aunts that he is being selfish and this isnt going to work. Sex is about connecting to another human being, masterbation is about ... (read in full...)
She sent an email..please read it and tell me what you think?
Q. Help, After 18 month split(We lived together for 3 years), I still desperately love my ex girlfriend. Saw her tonight with new boyfriend. Received the below. How do you interpret it? Penny lecture Re your earlier email - I haven't "broken...
A. 10 August 2007: Without further info I interprate it this way. You still care about her and kind of would like to get back together. You were hoping to at least be able to see her on a friendly basis, ie lunches. She, however, is not ready to do that. She still ... (read in full...)
What kind of game is this guy playing with me?
Q. I dont Understand him at all...A couple days ago he wanted me to sneak out of the house so I could spend the night with him...I didnt sneak out of the house because I wuz to afraid...SO today when I check my myspace friends I find out that he had ...
A. 10 August 2007: He was saying the things to you that he thought would convince you to have sex with him. He doesnt actually care about you in the least and when he didnt get the sex he wanted he 'broke up' with you. Dont fall for this kind of BS from any guy. A guy ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I can handle having sex for the first time with someone who doesn't want a relationship!
Q. URGENT HELP NEEDED i have been seeing this guy for less than a month.(he has been single for a year after being in a 5yr relationshp.his ex hooked up with his friend and they are getting married soon.)we are very attracted to each other.by the end ...
A. 9 August 2007: You are INFATUATED with this young man, do not mistake that for love. You have held onto your virginity for a long and very admirable time. Dont throw it away on someone who doesnt care about you the way he should. He sounds like an admirable young ... (read in full...)
What are the chances of me getting pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and I just had sex last night and he ejactulated into me for the first time ever, we usually use a condom. I have been on the pill for 5 months and have never missed a pill and take it at the exact time everyday. I just got my period ...
A. 9 August 2007: While it is better to double up on protection and use the condom, too, you chances of being pregnant now are as close to nill as they can get.... (read in full...)
My bf just said he's no longer going on holiday with us! We leave August 14. How can I make him change his mind?
Q. hi there, i dont know what to do. on the 14th august my family and i and also my boyfriend for nearly a year are going on holiday to florida, the other night he said he didnt want to come with me. i cant change his mind and dont no what to say to ...
A. 7 August 2007: I am sorry to say, but I think what he is really saying is that he no longer wants to be with you. He is willing to just chuck $800 out the window and refuses to go on the trip with you and your family. This is a HUGE red flag that the relationship ... (read in full...)
Our first week together we talked about marriage and kids. Now it's been 7 months and he still hasn't said he loves me!
Q. hi, im madly in love with my boyfriend of 7 months, when we got together i told him i was looking for a husband not just abit of fun, he was fine with this, our first weeks together we talked about our future, our wedding, our house, our children, ...
A. 7 August 2007: Talk about putting the cart before the horse! You were planning your wedding and talking about your future children when you had only known him a few weeks?!! This was the infatuation stage and the getting to know you stage. You need to get to know ... (read in full...)
I have 2 boyfriends and can't decide what one to choose
Q. Hey i have this boyfriend and i really 3 him and every thing. But this other guy really lyks me and i said yes to him to. Now i have to bf's and i only want one. I really 3 ma first bf he is perfect for me but the other guy i lyk to. Wat can i do ...
A. 1 August 2007: What the heck does it mean to '3' someone? And please use proper english so that you can be understood!... (read in full...)
Why has my boyfriend of a year cheated on me?
Q. Hi Well My Name Is Kristal and I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a couple months and he has ben cheating on me not sexually but in other ways why has he been doing this?? i am very sad i need to know??...
A. 1 August 2007: There are other ways to cheat than sexually. Emotionally, financially, romantically (that does not involve sex). How exactly has he been cheating? If you can be a bit more specific it might be a little easier to give advice. However, I would say ... (read in full...)
I have been sleeping around, but wonder if this will turn off the guy I really like
Q. Hi. I'm 16 years old and I have slept with 5 people.. All being within the past 3 months. 3 of which were on holiday, so they don't matter to me. However, 2 were in England, one being one of my good friends (we've discussed it and have decided to ...
A. 31 July 2007: Yes, this will turn off any decent guy worth having. You will only get the dregs of society. Clean up your act, girl!... (read in full...)
I live with my fairy tale boyfriend, but he has a wife!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together and living together for a year and a half now. He is truely the most amazing person I've ever met! Our relationship is almost perfect. We spend every day together and every second is REALLY like a fairy tale. I ...
A. 31 July 2007: Could you please clarify? How is it that you live with your boyfriend, but his wife hasnt noticed? Are you the live in nanny or something?... (read in full...)
I'm 14, 8 months pregnant, the father of this baby has left me! So many problems..I need advice badly!
Q. Hey, so im 14 8 months pregnant and for the first time im doubting if i want this baby, my ex who i was with for a year and 6months well he left me, spread lies about me denied he was the dad then refuses to speak to me, hes making it so hard, ha...
A. 28 July 2007: It is time to talk to adoption ajencies. The very best thing for this baby would be to give it up to adoption to a ADULT couple who can care for it and raise it properly. I have no doubts you could be a loving mother, but the most loving thing you ... (read in full...)
What symptoms of pregnancy are there besides weight gain and missing periods?
Q. Hey there, just a quick question what are the symptoms of pregnancy? Not like missed period or gaining weight i mean other symptoms before you know....
A. 28 July 2007: They can vary from person to person. Many people, myself included, dont get morning sickness at all. Breast tenderness is extremely common though.... (read in full...)
Should i teach my friend?
Q. I have a friend that i like. He is 12 and i am 16. is it ok to teach him how to have sex and give blowjobs and have sex and how to make out and how to drink pee and other stuff? Also, I have not gone through puberty yet. Should i be worried?...
A. 26 July 2007: No, you shouldnt. But what the heck are you drinking pee for? That is body WAISTE, not lemonade!... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex with another man and worry I could be pregnant
Q. I always have unprotected sex with my boyfriend. Two days before my cycle was to begin, I had unprotected sex with another man. I did not receive my period. Is it likely for the other man to have gotten me pregnant?...
A. 26 July 2007: No, if it was 2 days before your period was due the egg would have already been dead and this man would not likely have gotten you pregnant. More likely is that your boyfriend got you prenant the previous week or so when you had unprotected sex with ... (read in full...)
We are married and both bisexual and want to pursue others.
Q. I am a married bisexual woman to another bisexual man. Recently, we spent some time with a girlfriend of mine (non-sexual girlfriend); we have a few drinks, and then next thing I know, we are playing strip poker and her and I are making out. The ...
A. 26 July 2007: Dear anonymous,
I am happy to have helped. Feel free to private email me on the site if you want to chat more about it!
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We are married and both bisexual and want to pursue others.
Q. I am a married bisexual woman to another bisexual man. Recently, we spent some time with a girlfriend of mine (non-sexual girlfriend); we have a few drinks, and then next thing I know, we are playing strip poker and her and I are making out. The ...
A. 26 July 2007: He took advantage of you, and in my opinion, cheated. You had set boundries on to how this was to be handled and he imdiatly went out and crossed those boundries and now is trying to claim that it was all ok because you said you were open to ... (read in full...)
Whats the difference of being in love and just loving someone?
Q. what are the definate signs that you love someone. and what are the signs that you are in love with someone, i ask b/c i dont know if i simply love him or if i am in love with him and i dont want to hurt him....
A. 25 July 2007: I am sorry, but I really have to disagree with quite a bit that the previous posters had to say. Love. What the previous posters described as being in love was merely describing infatuation, which is not the same thing as love at all! When we ... (read in full...)
Advice please on oral sex.
Q. what is oral sex, how is it done.can someone get pregnant after oral sex or get infected with hiv...
A. 25 July 2007: Yes, you can get HIV from oral sex. HIV is transmitted though contact with blood or body fluids. It is present in both cum and precum. If you give your boyfriend a bj and ANY of his cum or precum get in your mouth, even if you then spit, and even if ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if he's a virgin?
Q. how can you tell if a guy is a virgin...
A. 25 July 2007: Physically you cant tell at all. Sex does not alter a man as it alters a woman. But you may be able to tell by attitude and inexperience. Best thing to do is ask! There should be total honesty between two people engaging in intimate relations.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to give your virginity away as a birthday present?
Q. is it wrong to give your virginity to some1 you love for his birdthday? after 3 months ? or should i wait :S ...
A. 24 July 2007: Yes, it is absolutely wrong. You have not been together long enough, especially at this young age. You should wait.... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and live in the UK; can I get a home by myself? I'm worried what I'll do to my parents
Q. dear cupid i would like to know is it possible to leave my house at the age of 16, because i am finding it difficult to live with my parents as i am always causing them problems and trouble. i am living in the UK by the way and just want to kno...
A. 24 July 2007: Just how do you propose to support yourself? That is, pay for housing, utilities, food, clothing, etc, etc. Certainly you cant expect your parents to foot the bill if you have moved out of their home? If you want to live as an adult, then you had ... (read in full...)
How can I stop hating my boyfriend when he's away? I love him to pieces when we're together!
Q. when ever my bf is at home (we long distance) i start to hate him every small thing he does i hate him for. if he forgets to put xxx in his texts i hate him. when he tells me he be online when he knows im at work i hate him. when he takes 6 weeks to ...
A. 24 July 2007: I understand how you are feeling. When I am away from my boyfriend (and we live in the same town) I miss him. Missing him makes me sad. Being sad makes me think negative thoughts. Negative thoughts make me focus on everything bad that has happened ... (read in full...)
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