He made this comment when I was giving him a handjob! What did it mean?
Q. I was giving my boyfriend a hand-job today and he smiled and said "if you carry on like that you're going to tip me over the edge" any ideas on what he meant? x...
A. 25 April 2007: he means you were going to make him have an orgasm. You were doing a good job and making him feel good.
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Does a lot of 'wetness' from a woman's vagina, gross guys out?
Q. Does haveing alot of vaginal secretion when a guy fingers you, does that gross guys out? And how can you temporarily get rid of some of the "wetness"?...
A. 24 April 2007: The wetness is the vagina lubricating itself to get ready for penetration and does not gross out guys at all! It shows that a woman is excited and turned on by what the guy is doing. Most guys get more excited when they feel how wet a woman is, it ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out in a note, so she has time to think about it?
Q. i want to ask this friend of mine out. but this time i want to ask her out by writing it all in a letter/note. whenever i've asked a girl out before via a friend was bad, on msn they also dont respond well. so i thought if i write a letter and ...
A. 24 April 2007: Asking her out by doing it in person or on the phone is much better than doing it by note, friend, or msn.... (read in full...)
One emotion says I love him but the other says I wants to cheat on him! Am I in love to feel this way?
Q. I feel like I'm in love but am I right? I've slept with my boyfriend and we feel perfect for eachother in many ways. After every phone convorsation it always ends up in an 'I love you'. I don't want to lie about loving him. Because I really feel I ...
A. 24 April 2007: You dont. You dont get to break up with someone for a few days so that you can 'legally' mess around with someone! There is no such thing as a time out! Either you break up, or you dont! The big problem here is that you are just way too young for ... (read in full...)
Would a girl say no to dating me, by saying her parents don't approve rather then telling me the real reason?
Q. This is going to sound a bit of a silly question: If you want to go out with a girl but there is an age difference, can she say no because of oher factors, like worried about parents, rather than what she really wants to do?...
A. 24 April 2007: It is not all that long until she is 18. Hang out, be her friend, but dont push it. Show respect for her and her parents. Do NOT ask her to defy her parents or to sneak around behind thier backs. As penta said, her parents will be her parents for ... (read in full...)
Im married and bisexual, if I were to hang out with a women and have fun etc! Would that be considered cheating ?
Q. Hi, I am a married, bisexual woman. I feel in a difficult position. If I were a lesbian, I would be a faithful partner to only one woman. If I were straight, I would be a faithful partner to only one man. But since I'm bisexual, I have a need ...
A. 24 April 2007: Congratulations! I am very glad you decided to be open and honest with both your husband and your girlfriend. You are now officially in a polyamorous relationship.I love the idea of polyamroy, but I think it is just too hard for most people because ... (read in full...)
Ladies, do you like your man's genitalia...shaved, trimmed, or manly as possible??
Q. Shaved, trimmed, or manly as possible? Wondering if girls prefer a guys pubs to be shaved, trimmed or all together hairy, personally I always assumed shaving it all off was the gently thing to do for a chick. That and doing so makes your penis...
A. 24 April 2007: To me natural or a nice trim is fine, but shaved looks like a deranged elephant! Blech! My guy is all natural!... (read in full...)
She orgasms within seconds then tells me "it's over"...
Q. Hi, I've been with my girlfriend for a few months but sex is very frustrating for me. She becomes very wet as soon as I put it inside her and comes almost instantly.... she assures me that she is not faking and it does feel genuine as I can...
A. 24 April 2007: Wow this girl is selfish! Talk to her. Explain to her that it isnt fair and it is very frustrating for you that you never get to be sexually satisfied. Only she matters? Only her orgasm is important and you are not ALLOWED to have one? She wont give ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out before or after my face surgery?
Q. i've never had a girlfriend although i'm very popular amongst girls. i've tried to make my personality really good to make up for the bad looks and it works. well i've asked out few girls and got rejected. recently i really like my friend but not ...
A. 24 April 2007: Looks and personality. They go hand in hand. If you are a fabulous looking, but dead boring shallow guy, forget it! If you have a great personality, but look like a troll, you will also have trouble. Looks are what first attracts us to someone, they ... (read in full...)
In love with my Turkish MSN boy...
Q. hey. its been a year now and ive been talking to this turkey boy on msn for a while now and at first he wasnt sure of english. But now he know's alot of it. i am only 17 years old. and we talk on the phone about little things although he needs more ...
A. 23 April 2007: You do not really know this boy. Talking on the phone and chatting on the net do not equate spending time with someone. To really KNOW them you need to spend time actually in their presence, LOTS and LOTS of time. Just cause he says lovely words ... (read in full...)
Nervous about announcing our engagement... We've not been together long!
Q. My boyfriend and I are talking about getting engaged. We're both thrilled, we know we've found our other half, but I'm nervous as to how and when to tell my parents (before or after I get the ring). I'm nervous because my boyfriend and I have been ...
A. 23 April 2007: If it is true love and you are meant to be together forever, than waiting a few months will not affect your relationship and will probably make it a bit easier on the folks to accept. Get the ring first, before you tell your parents. This will show ... (read in full...)
Am I stupid to say I am in love with someone whom I have never met before?
Q. i'm 18 years old and i live in birmingham (england), but i'm really attracted to a guy who lives in cardiff (wales) and he's 19. i've never met him before, but i've seen him on webcam so i know he's genuine and not a middle aged pervert. i've know...
A. 23 April 2007: No, you can like someone you have never met. But you cant truly KNOW them until you spend time together, LOTS of time together. Talking on the phone and chatting online just arent the same thing as spending time in each others presence, because what ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for normal people to masturbate?
Q. I just want to know is it normal for people to want to masturbate? Is their anything wrong with it aslong as it doesn't become excessive? I must admit I'm 14 and I find myself wanting to sometimes, I do it privately is this wrong? Chee...
A. 23 April 2007: It is totally normal. It would be strange if you DIDNT masterbate! Most guys do it 2 or 3 times a day well into thier 20s, even if they have a partner! The only time it would be excessive is if you become so obsessed that it begins to interfere with ... (read in full...)
We are the best of friends and I want to be more, (I'm male) but why does he shut me out sometimes?
Q. I have a friend who I've known since last July, but we really started hanging out a lot since the end of October. I always found him cute but just that, and I didn't think he was gay because he is very sports oriented. But as we started to really ...
A. 23 April 2007: Personally I agree with your own assessment of the situation. I think he is gay,or at least bi, and that he cares a great deal about you, but is having a hard time coming to terms with his own homosexuallity. He pushes you away because he is not ... (read in full...)
Im married and bisexual, if I were to hang out with a women and have fun etc! Would that be considered cheating ?
Q. Hi, I am a married, bisexual woman. I feel in a difficult position. If I were a lesbian, I would be a faithful partner to only one woman. If I were straight, I would be a faithful partner to only one man. But since I'm bisexual, I have a need ...
A. 20 April 2007: Personally I never 'cuddle' with my girlfriends in our pajamas or give them back rubs. That is overstepping the bounds of friendship, I think. And, no, it is not just physically pleasuring someone or being pleasured that is cheating. You can have an ... (read in full...)
The condom split but he didnt cum, could I still be pregnant ?
Q. i recently had sex with my boyfriend and the condom split, however he had not come and had only been inside me for a short while, is there a chance i could get pregnant?...
A. 20 April 2007: It is possible, but not very likely. The man may excrete a small amount of semen before cumming, but generally speaking a large amount of sperm is needed to give even one a chance of getting to that elusive egg.... (read in full...)
Im married and bisexual, if I were to hang out with a women and have fun etc! Would that be considered cheating ?
Q. Hi, I am a married, bisexual woman. I feel in a difficult position. If I were a lesbian, I would be a faithful partner to only one woman. If I were straight, I would be a faithful partner to only one man. But since I'm bisexual, I have a need ...
A. 20 April 2007: You are bisexual. That means you are equally attracted to men and women. So you would be satisfied with a man OR a woman, not that you 'need' both. This is definately cheating. Any romantic relationship that is out of the bounds of your marriage, ... (read in full...)
His parents are having a big problem with me because I have a child and he's having doubts, too. What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 1/2 months. We were getting very serious, but then he started having doubts about our relationship. So we backed it down a notch. Now he is saying he wants a break. I'm 28 and he is 20. I have a child ...
A. 18 April 2007: I agree with rythemandblues. You are at a differant life stage than this young man and it needs to slow down, for everybodies sake.... (read in full...)
Bf said it's all fine between us but he won't text me back! I'm hurting..can anyone help?
Q. Help i don't know what to do my bf says everything is fine between us but he wont text me back or return my calls i haven't seen him in a week as things were bad but now he says everything is sorted and said he would try to sort something out so...
A. 18 April 2007: When he texts you on Thursday to ask to see you Friday do NOT change your plans to accomodate him. Tell him you are so sorry, you would love to see him, but you already have plans. If he really wants to see you he will soon get the message that he ... (read in full...)
I have friends and family in my life, but all I do is cry and feel alone. Please help.
Q. I still really need some help. Things have gotten to the point were all i do is cry. I just feel so lost and alone even though i have friends and family around. How ever i have not been able to talk to any of them. Not even my boyfriend as i feel as ...
A. 18 April 2007: You need help. Now. You are suffering from depression and that is not something that is going to get better all by itself. I suffered depression when I was your age and it took me years to get past it. I know exactly how it feels. You need to be ... (read in full...)
We broke up and he told me he wanted to be on his own but 2 weeks later he's got a new gf. Why did he do this?
Q. i broke up with my bf a month ago!i think i can move on but just want to know that why he told me he wanted to be on his own 2 weeks later he's got a new gf?...
A. 18 April 2007: Sorry Sweetie, he was a coward. It wasnt that he wanted to be on his own. He just didnt want to be with you. This probably has nothing to do with you or how wonderful you are. Sounds to me like you dodged a bullet.... (read in full...)
Would a girl say no to dating me, by saying her parents don't approve rather then telling me the real reason?
Q. This is going to sound a bit of a silly question: If you want to go out with a girl but there is an age difference, can she say no because of oher factors, like worried about parents, rather than what she really wants to do?...
A. 18 April 2007: She may really like you, but be worried about her parents reaction due to the age differance. You dont say what the ages are so it is hard to tell. My parents would not let me date a man who was 20 when I was 13. Understandable? Sure! I really liked ... (read in full...)
I asked him why he 'hid things and lied' to me! Now he's really mad..what should I do?
Q. im engaged and me and my boyfriend are finally getting a house, well his ex, the mother of his child for some reason i think she is trying to come back into his life in that certain way, problem is i dont know how he really feels, he recently quit ...
A. 18 April 2007: He told you that he quit smoking to save money for a house, but now you think he quit smoking because it is healthier for his little girl and you are mad that this is somehow deceptive? Get a grip! Both reasons may have been contributing factors in ... (read in full...)
One emotion says I love him but the other says I wants to cheat on him! Am I in love to feel this way?
Q. I feel like I'm in love but am I right? I've slept with my boyfriend and we feel perfect for eachother in many ways. After every phone convorsation it always ends up in an 'I love you'. I don't want to lie about loving him. Because I really feel I ...
A. 18 April 2007: What you are feeling is called infatuation. It is the wonderful high of FEELING in love without actually being in love. Your feelings are very real, but they are not love. Love takes time and maturatiy. Give yourself a chance to be the young girl ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 years old with a baby on the way and I'm incredibly afraid about my future. I need help badly!
Q. I'm a 15 year old girl with a baby on the way and has a 20 year old boyfriend. I really don't know what to do. I am incredibly afraid and I have no idea what's going to happen. I am NOT getting an abortion, it's totaly against my morals, plus I ...
A. 18 April 2007: Love this child enough to give it up for adoption. This will be an incredibly painful thing to do for you, but it is the right thing for the baby and the baby is the only one who counts right now. You need to get a good education and a good job and ... (read in full...)
Still in love and doing stuff with my ex of 5 years... but he doesn't seem to feel the same
Q. I was dating this guy five years ago. We both told each other that we loved one another, but then he ended it because he told me he didn't love me anymore. We decided to stay friends and everything was great. A year later we moved in to an apt. ...
A. 18 April 2007: He is using you to masterbate. It is just that your mouth feels better than his hand. You might as well be a blow up doll for all he cares. Stick to being friends and forget about something more. In fact, if you are able to, I think you should ... (read in full...)
If I stop twiddling so much could I have a better chance of orgasming with a man?
Q. I masturbate quote alot, once a day, and I have trouble reaching orgasm in any sexual activity with guys, infact I have never had an orgasm with a man. If I reduce the amount I masturbate, will this increase the chances of me reaching orgasm in sex?...
A. 17 April 2007: No, masterbating does not 'ruin' you for orgasm with a man. Many women, myself included, have a hard time climaxing from intercourse and need direct clitoral stimulation which is exactly what you get from masterbation. Listen to Dr Mark. He has got ... (read in full...)
Am I fat? I have bigger measurements than my friends and its bothers me!
Q. Am I fat? I'm 5'7''. 14 years old and.. Bust-33 Waist-27 1/2 Hips- 39 Thigh- 31 My friends, who look worse than me, have much smaller measurements, and it's getting me down. Please let me know, and be honest! x...
A. 17 April 2007: No, not at all. My measurements were similar to yours when I was your age and it sounds to me like you have an hourglass figure. You have the most feminine shape there is. My measurements are a bit bigger than yours are now, but hey! I am more than ... (read in full...)
My partner of 9 years is snappy and moody and only seem happy when hes having a go at me!!
Q. My partner and i have been together 9 years. Recently he has been moody, snappy and seems only to be happy when he's having a go at me. We have 3 kids and he has no time for them either. My friends say he either is cheating or he wants to leave but ...
A. 17 April 2007: I am so sorry. I went through something like that too and ended up making the painful decision to get divorced. My husband had no time for us at all. I felt like I was a single Mom most of the time. He was angry and blamed me for everything. If I ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends is touching me more than I want him to, What should I do ?
Q. Hi!Well I have a really bad problem.well my boyfriend is really sweet and everything and I do luv him but the other day we were snogging like we always do and he tried 2 go a little further and I didn't want 2 go further he tried undressing me and ...
A. 17 April 2007: If he cannot take the subtle hint, you may need to be a bit more forceful. Tell him gentlely, but firmly, no that you dont want to be touched there yet. You are not ready for that and he is making you unconfortable. If he really cares about you and ... (read in full...)
He went to buy an engagement ring... Then said we are moving too fast!!
Q. my boyfriend of 4 months went out on saturday to buy me an engagement ring (he thinks i don't know) we have been very happy and he has always been very loving and attentive. on sunday he left saying he needed some space and time to think and that he ...
A. 17 April 2007: He may have scared himself a bit. He got all excited and went and got you a ring, but then checked himself and said it was going too fast. He may have been the one that was going too fast, not you, but he still realized that the pace was wrong. Four ... (read in full...)
He went to buy an engagement ring... Then said we are moving too fast!!
Q. my boyfriend of 4 months went out on saturday to buy me an engagement ring (he thinks i don't know) we have been very happy and he has always been very loving and attentive. on sunday he left saying he needed some space and time to think and that he ...
A. 17 April 2007: He may have scared himself a bit. He got all excited and went and got you a ring, but then checked himself and said it was going too fast. He may have been the one that was going too fast, not you, but he still realized that the pace was wrong. Four ... (read in full...)
Worried that hes already done the get married have kids thing, It wont happen for us, scared its not me anymore!
Q. I think I am just feeling sorry for myself, but I dont know what to do. I live with my partner, have done for just under 4 years. I love him immensely and that isnt in any doubt on either count of us. He adores me and does do alot for me. We ...
A. 17 April 2007: I feel for you, I really do. You sound like such a wonderful and supportive person. He is very lucky to have you. Lots of women would not be so supportive. Like I said before the best way for a man to show how much he loves a woman is to want to ... (read in full...)
Was walking away from this cheating, lying, disrespectful man the right thing to do!?
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been dating this guy for about two years and I just broke up with him and I'm feeling a little depressed. In the begining of course, everything was good then he started becoming verbally abusive. He would call me out my name, and...
A. 17 April 2007: Yes, Sasha, you did the right thing by leaving and I personally know how hard that can be. Give yourself a chance to mourn the ending of this painful relationship, but know that it will get better. If he has physically harmed you once, he will do it ... (read in full...)
My bf of 2 months, has his ex on his my space account claiming to be his gf, What should I do ?
Q. hi me and my b/f have been together for only two months but i recently saw on his myspace page that his so called ex saying she is his g/f and soon to be wife. mind you she stay in illinoise and his in tennessee i havent talk to him all week (his ...
A. 17 April 2007: I am afraid you have been a fling had by a liar who is about to marry someone else. You need to confront him about this. If you want to be sneaky, you could also confront the 'ex' using my space. Ask her what is going on. Tell her he has been seeing ... (read in full...)
He denied that the violent porn was his, now that hes admitted it I feel decieved! I feel hurt and stupid and dont know what to do!!
Q. Cheating? About a year ago I found violent porn on my boyfriends computer. for months on end questioning him he told me his friend downloaded it but he was grossed out by that sorta stuff. I believed him for a while. Then after some more question...
A. 17 April 2007: well put, Wendy!... (read in full...)
Im underage and he wants to have sex with me, I love him, but I dont want to get pregnant and I dont want to dump him!
Q. hi,I have this boyfriend who I luv 2 bits but he wants to have sex with me.plus I'm under age!I don't want 2 get pregnant but I don't want 2 dump him either what should I do? ...
A. 17 April 2007: Please dont have sex before you are mature enough to handle it, and the possible consequences of sex. If he leaves you because you wont have sex with him then good riddance! He wasnt worthy of you. When I was a teen there were several relationships ... (read in full...)
Not sure if Im love with him or just infatuated ? Either way I want to forget him, but how!?
Q. Dear sir, i have been dating a man and later on i find out that he is married and have one kid also.after that i didnt go to met him and didnt call him also, i thought i dont love him much and i can let him go easily but i found myself in love w...
A. 17 April 2007: It is an infatuation, and one you are best rid of. Do not chat with him on line or anywhere else. You are missing him and that is ok, you have to mourn for what you lost. Or thought you lost. The fact is he was lying to you and didnt deserve you. ... (read in full...)
Worried that hes already done the get married have kids thing, It wont happen for us, scared its not me anymore!
Q. I think I am just feeling sorry for myself, but I dont know what to do. I live with my partner, have done for just under 4 years. I love him immensely and that isnt in any doubt on either count of us. He adores me and does do alot for me. We ...
A. 17 April 2007: No, you cannot say dont see your daughter. She is the most important person in this equation. I dont mean to belittle your importance, but she is. Is it possible for him to see her one evening during the week? Again, I am looking at typical custody ... (read in full...)
How do you get over your first real girlfriend? Any advice?
Q. I need advice now, yet again. My main question is, how do you get over your first real girlfrined. I had one for almost a year, it got serious. We were open and honest with each other. It never hit a rough spot at all. I think someone was just more ...
A. 17 April 2007: Your first real girlfriend is someone very special and she will always have a place in your heart. Even 20 or 30 years from now you will still feel just a little something for her and will remember her fondly. But it is very rare indeed for a ... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with sex because hes not putting out! How can we get it back ? I'm scared Im gonna stray!!!
Q. Hi, We have been together 4 years and are still very much in love, we are a young couple in their 30's. I feel as though the relationship is going slowly downhill. We do equally do things for one another, I mean we both share the cooking cleaning...
A. 17 April 2007: I think there is definately something wrong here. Differances in sexual libidos between partners are common, but 6 weeks is not just your ordinary differance in libido. Especially when that is not how he has been for the prvious four years that you ... (read in full...)
Worried that hes already done the get married have kids thing, It wont happen for us, scared its not me anymore!
Q. I think I am just feeling sorry for myself, but I dont know what to do. I live with my partner, have done for just under 4 years. I love him immensely and that isnt in any doubt on either count of us. He adores me and does do alot for me. We ...
A. 17 April 2007: Wow! You have a very difficult question. First off, help me with the math here. You have lived with him for 4 years and his daughter is 5. So you have lived with him since she was one year old. Did you move in together right away, cause if you got ... (read in full...)
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