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What is a normal vaginal depth?

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Question - (14 May 2008) 10 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My question is about vaginal depth. You see. I met this guy last week and well, yesterday I asked him to my place. We were getting down to but when he . . .inserted his phallus it wouldn't go in all the way. [I wish I could articulate this better.] There was a good three inches of him left. He was only seven inches! He got angry, called me a freak of nature and left.

My question is: Is four inches in vaginal depth too small? Is it normal?

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (8 January 2010):

Not My Name agony auntI have not read all the other responses to know if someone mentioned this, ...but the vaginal canal which typically ranges anywhere b/n 3-7inches normally, elongates during states of arousal.

So tell this jack ass you had the misforune to bed that if he was any good at arousing you properly before running for the goal line then there should not have been an issue.

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A female reader, dafairlady United States +, writes (8 January 2010):

Look I am 35 and I have only had this problem one time. My ex-boyfriend who measured aboyt 13 1/2 inches and was about 6in thick could not fit it all no matter what. He always had at least 3 inches out. But let me let the gentleman in on a little secret our pleasure sensors only go 3-4 inches in, so as long as they can fit that much that ought to shut up. They will cum just like if they were ankle deep in the choo choo. If a man has a woman jerk only the top half of hi penis, does he cum? Of course!! That guy was an ass and should have took his time and he would have fit enough.

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A male reader, Tropicalman United States +, writes (14 July 2009):

You are absolutely normal. Look it up anywhere and you will see that the vagina, when UNAROUSED is 3-4 inches. Regardless of what joeb seems to think.

What he isn't taking into consideration is that the vagina will elongate when the woman is sufficiently AROUSED. Then, and only then will it accommodate the average to slightly above average length of a penis.

Whoever this ass was that treated you like dirt just because of that reason, obviously didn't really care about you as a person and only wanted you as a sperm receptacle. If he really cared about you, he would have spent some time with foreplay and took his time being a little more romantic. His "reward" would have been worth it.

As awful as he made you feel by being so shallow, I'm glad he didn't get his "rocks off". I agree with most here that hope you have a more patient man next time this happens.

Just remember that you are normal and if the man has any trouble or you feel any pain/discomfort during penetration, tell him you simply would like to cuddle or play some more before the "main event", so to speak.

Aloha For Now

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A male reader, joe B United States +, writes (21 February 2009):

I have read a few articles that are saying what is being said here, that the average vagina depth is 4 to 6 inches. That is completely false. I am a little over 8 and I have slept with close to 100 women and I can tell you from personal experience the average depth is about 8". Most women I just barely hit bottom. Only one was an inch or so shorter and there were a few that I didn't hit bottom. I don't know where people are getting their so-called facts from but any guy that has what I have and has had sex with a lot of women will tell you the same thing. By the way, did you know it's around 7" from the toilet seat to the water? Only certain guys would know that and the previous facts. The guy that this woman had sex with is an insensitive ass but I'm sorry to inform you that sex is no fun with a woman who can't accommodate all of a man and is painful to her if the bottom is hit. an if she is only 4 inches deep she is indeed extremely unusually short, sorry. Luckily I am sure she will have no problem finding a guy to match.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008):

The guy was a jerk. Maybe his dick wasn't too big for some fun, but you should try to pick him better next time.

5.0-6.5 inches is an average length for a male penis. (Yes, this includes guys of all races.)

You would probably be on the small side if you really can't handle 7 inches. 8-9 inches is a different story.

As a guy, there can be sort of an ego boost for being "big" for her. But it's not something that I look forward to. The fact that I can't just hump away with her and I have to carefully keep a few inches of myself out all the time, well, that kind of takes some fun out of it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008):

Where did you pick that guy up? The freak show or the loony bin?

He obviously didn't deserve a tight coochie. You will stretch with time. He may have been bigger than seven inches. I think a guy I was with had about 7 and a half or 8 inches on him and although it fit (I was not a virgin by any means), it kinda hurt. After a while it stopped and was pleasant.

I would have taken it as an ego boost if my penis didn't fit all the way in. But that's just me.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (14 May 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

There is a first for everything. I cant recall ever hearing a guy saying they quit sex half way through because the girl was a bit tight.

My word, what is the world coming too!

You should be able to fit 7 inches in easy enough even if you are tight.

In my experience girls vaginas vary significantly. Some are very loose and the "phallus" slides in with little friction. Others are so tight you spend the next few days nursing a bruised willy.

I prefer them on the looser side but you will find most guys will be more than happy with a tight "shame cave".

So don't worry about it, the guy was a freak not you.

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (14 May 2008):

You're completely normal. The average 'depth' is approximately 3 to 4 inches. I dare say forcing him any deeper would be pretty painful! x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008):

...Huh....What an ass....I would be happy, if I were you, that you didn't pleasure him. Serves that jerk-face right -_- Actually, I am really angry at him for you. What sort of creep....Grrr

Of course you're normal! It's him that has a brain that's two sizes too small!

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A female reader, lexilou United Kingdom +, writes (14 May 2008):

lexilou agony auntIts average and most blokes would be pleased to have a bit hanging out!!! Sounds a bit weird to me x

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