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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2007): yes i trully beleive that you can love someone else at the same time your loving your partner your with now because life is not easy we see and feel all these different feelings about other people but i think you finally realse who you are meant to be with in the end wether you have to search long and hard i think its a phase people go through in there life about being in love with someone else when all it actually is over thinking but anyway good look x0x
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (22 September 2006):
 well what your proberly feeling is sexuall attraction, or you think you like him as more than a freind but you dont occasionally you do get carried away with your feelings! but give it time and your feelings will become clear as for now stay faithfull to your boyfreind it isnt worth throwing away 3years for a thing that could be mistakened!
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reader, Dr Pete + ♥, writes (22 September 2006):
 I agree with M.
Of course other people are attractive. But, as soon as you start fantasizing about being their partner, or thinkign about them sexually then it is a clear warning sign.
Don't do what 90% of the question answers do on this website. Work at your relationship and see if you can get some closeness back - you might be able to quite easily fix things.
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reader, Jesse +, writes (22 September 2006):
It is perfectly ok to window shop as long as you dont buy. I have been with my fiance for almost 4 years and i still find other men attractive. Although i would'nt go behind his back, but it is ok to look.
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 September 2006):
 I've always believed that when you truely love someone you don't have feelings towards someone else but other people may disagree.
I would say what you are feeling is attration towards this other person along with curious about the unknown.
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reader, bonym +, writes (22 September 2006):
 I dont think it is, if you truly are IN LOVE with your man, you may indeed find another man attravtive, thats normal, there are billions of other attractive people in this big bad world but you cant be liking someone to the point where you may be thinking about being with them or sleeping with them if that is the case. Dont jeopardie your relationship. Good luck. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2006): yes it's possible. It happened to me once. But usually these type of situations are not sustainable in the long run. It's not for everyone.
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