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Location: Oxford - UK
Currently: Single
Profile updated: 27th of March 2011
I'm Andy. I'm something of a sentimentalist. I consider myself to be romantic and affectionate
I first found my way to Dearcupid after my first dose of heartbreak. I was in a long distance relationship (240 miles) for over two years from 2005 - 2007. I met my girlfriend originally in December 2004 over the website Habbo Hotel, she found me purely because she liked my hair (I had an Afro at the time!). We ended up talking every night over MSN. By April, she revealed that she liked me, and very soon after, I decided I felt the same way.
On the 10th of July 2005, we met in her home town. I remember getting off the train, and she was stood right down the other end of the platform, and ran towards me like something out of a movie. I threw my bags down, and she dove into my arms for the first time. Later that day, after 3 hours of being crowded by her sister and mum, we got our first minutes alone, and kissed for the first time. In my case, it was my first kiss ever. It was magic.
We met up on 13 different occaisions, including a couple of camping trips alone together as well as a holiday to Cuba as late as April 2007. Then everything changed.
On the 25th of June, just over 2 weeks before the anniversary of the day that we met on that Summers day at the train station, 5 weeks before we were scheduled to meet up again; She rang me up in tears and told me that she thought we should end things. I was completely devastated. She told me her decision came due to the fact that she didn't think we would have as much time to meet up when she went to University, and that things were hard enough as they were. Also, we had argued over stupid things a little more regularly, but I didn't think it was any thing worse than what all couples encounter. I hadn't fallen out of love with her, but she now expected me to do so and become just a friend. By breaking up with me, as of that day, I had pretty much lost my best friend in all the world, and it wouldn't take long before it was clear that I couldn't handle the transition from boyfriend to friend.
Instead of talking every night, we went back and forth from talking to not talking. Anytime I spoke to her, after a few days I would start to miss her, and even cry over her. Her father died of liver problems less than 6 months after we broke up. After he passed, me and her spoke for a couple of nights, and I told her that I would try and support her like a friend should during that time of sadness, but it didn't take long for me to start avoiding her again. I felt really guilty for that. She wanted to be my friend, and I wanted to be more than her friend. I was crushed by what she had put me through. It always stuck with me when we spoke for the last time. It was about 2 months after her dad died. She told me "I feel like I've lost so much already, I don't want to lose you as a friend." And as much as it kills me, she did. We haven't spoken since... and to this day I still feel guilty, though I have come to accept that I had to protect myself from being hurt further.
I can honestly say that that experience has been the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. But we're 5 years on from when we met each other and I have since found love and lost love again, twice in fact! My 2nd love showed me that I am capable of loving others and having meaningful relationships. The 3rd one has shown me how to be happy without having someone in my life. In truth, I have never really been happy within myself since my first love left me. I felt like I needed somebody in order to be happy. It's a shame that I have had to go through heartbreak to learn that, but for the time being I feel a great deal better about myself and even feel like I can maintain a friendship with my ex's... Maybe even my first love in time.
Throughout this whole experience, I have found out that pain only make you stronger, the first cut is the deepest and time really does heal all wounds.
Cheers for reading, and may this be an encouragement to everyone else out there who has experienced heartbreak! Things really will get better for you one day, you have to believe! |
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I'd offer you some, but I don't know what to suggest, other than you ask your own question.
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A. 14 September 2007: That was a good post anon, but I wonder if you could continue with it:
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A. 13 September 2007: Both of you were wrong. That is the easy answer:
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A. 7 September 2007: She's a new girlfriend. I think you should respect her wish for you to wear protection, because that is what a condom is for; protection. She wants you both to be protected. If you ask me, either you take viagra or something and wear a condom. ... (read in full...)
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A. 7 September 2007: Sorry Donna, I think I explained that this wasn't the reason before. Did you read it?... Who knows? Maybe you're right and I don't fully understand why I'm annoyed... All I know is, it got to me for one reason or another, and I truly believe it was ... (read in full...)
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A. 7 September 2007: I'd hate to sound like a broken record but; it's all normal, I'm afraid. Still, that must be better than knowing you aren't crazy! right? :)
Just give things time, and eventually happiness will completely over come the sadness.... (read in full...)
She's joined facebook and this angers me... Is this normal?
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A. 6 September 2007: Well, judging from a lot of the answers, it's lead me to think that you don't understand me. Maybe I didn't make it clear WHY I'm annoyed, so let me explain: What got me angry earlier (and I say earlier because I'm a little better now) was not WHY... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told me he's not in love with me any more and needs a break...
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A. 6 September 2007: Awww, hun, that really is terrible. It's certainly one of those stories that makes me understand human beings a little less. It sounds like you two really worked well, and had a lot of fun over the course on the 2 years. You sound a lot like me to... (read in full...)
Is my mind still too much on my ex to start a new relationship??
Q. Hello everybody. Not really sure how I'm feeling today.. a bit wierd. To take my mind off of my ex for a while I'm trying to focus on wanting to be with somebody new, as opposed to wanting to be with her. I figured, I can want and want all I like, ...
A. 5 September 2007: While I feel sorry for your friend, that is a comfort to me.
Thank-you, hlskitten! Really! You have helped me through tonight. Thank-you!
xxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Is my mind still too much on my ex to start a new relationship??
Q. Hello everybody. Not really sure how I'm feeling today.. a bit wierd. To take my mind off of my ex for a while I'm trying to focus on wanting to be with somebody new, as opposed to wanting to be with her. I figured, I can want and want all I like, ...
A. 4 September 2007: It's nice to know that it's still early days. According to my parents, I should be almost over it by now... I disagree. lol.... (read in full...)
Is my mind still too much on my ex to start a new relationship??
Q. Hello everybody. Not really sure how I'm feeling today.. a bit wierd. To take my mind off of my ex for a while I'm trying to focus on wanting to be with somebody new, as opposed to wanting to be with her. I figured, I can want and want all I like, ...
A. 4 September 2007: Sure, I think I will repost it. And you are correct, we met up usually every 7 weeks or so, for about a week, sometimes 2 at a time. Last summer we spent a week together, and then 3 more weeks before going back to College. Back before she broke... (read in full...)
Is my mind still too much on my ex to start a new relationship??
Q. Hello everybody. Not really sure how I'm feeling today.. a bit wierd. To take my mind off of my ex for a while I'm trying to focus on wanting to be with somebody new, as opposed to wanting to be with her. I figured, I can want and want all I like, ...
A. 4 September 2007: I can't believe I only got 1 answer :( fortunately it's a very good one! :)
You say "internet relationship" but I wouldn't call it that. I still say it was a long distance relationship. Internet relationship implies that we only communic... (read in full...)
Is anyone else in a long distance relationship here and worried about cheating?
Q. Hey, I have been in a long distance relationship for 11 months and 3 days now but will be back to my year and 8 month gf in less then a month what i cant stopthinking about is if things are going to blow up in my face i mean i love her and she love...
A. 3 September 2007: Hi there. I'm kind of who you're looking for. Althought I am no longer in a long distance relationship, but I have 2 years of experience under my belt, so I'll see if I can help. I think it's natural to have these fears in the back of your min... (read in full...)
He never acknowledged my birthday, and now I have no feelings for him
Q. hello, I feel slighted by my ex boyfriend. My birthday has passed, and he has not even texted me a birthday wish, or even msg me on facebook. I kind of anticipitated it, but it would of been nice for him to acknowledge my birthday, consid...
A. 3 September 2007: That is a shame. I think there must have been reasons why he didn't send you anything. Perhapps he just thought it would bring up old feelings, and he wants to blank them out so to speak. Another scenario is that he just couldn't be bothered. You ... (read in full...)
Im still not getting over her. This has been the worst summer ever. She hasn't even said thank you for the birthday card I sent her!
Q. Hi everyone. It's got to the point where I feel stupid to keep troubling you with my problems, whenever they are so small. Nevertheless, they continue to trouble me. I don't know if it's all part of being dumped by your first love or whatever, ...
A. 1 September 2007: Nah, it's never a disappointment to see you give an answer, oblivia. Anyway, I felt a little better a while after I sent this. I was sat eating Pizza and drinking Cider with my family, watching Die Hard 3. I started to feel a little better af... (read in full...)
Should I get my ex a birthday card?
Q. Should I get my ex a birthday card? We have had trouble talking since we split 2 months ago.. 2 months today, actually, and so, I'm not sure we are actually speaking at the moment. I told her I didn't think we should, because anytime we do I ...
A. 30 August 2007: Well all, today is the day.
I sent the card away yesterday, so she should get it this morning. It was quite a nice one. Had a cartoon cat holding up a sign saying "You're 18, That's great!!" and inside "Now you can legally do the things you do a... (read in full...)
Should I get my ex a birthday card?
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A. 25 August 2007: Very mixed answers, as I predicted, but all delivered very well indeed. As things stand, I feel a little more in the favour of sending just a card. This can't give mixed messages. Just a card works better for me, now that it has been explained t... (read in full...)
Do men really enjoy the way a women tastes and smell down there?
Q. Do men really enjoy the way a women tastes and smell when they go down on her. My boyfriend begged me for months. I finally felt comfortable enough and shaved real good and he said it wasn't the right time. Now I feel like if I let him do it I'd be ...
A. 24 August 2007: Well, I think it varies. I for one didn't exactly enjoy the smell or taste of my last girlfriend, but yet it was still something I really enjoyed doing. I suppose for most guys it isn't something you do because it smells or tastes great, it's more ... (read in full...)
Scared because I think I may be a lesbian... and my christian family and friends are anti-gay!
Q. HI I THINK IM A LESBIEN IM 21YRS OLD AND SCARED STIFF, NOT MANY THINGS HAVE GONE RIGHT AT THE MIN. MY FAMILY ARE ALL AGAINST GAY PEOPLE MY FRIENDS ALL THINK IF YOU SWING THAT WAY YOU SHOULD BURN I KNOW ITS BECAUSE THIER ALL CHRISTIANS. ITS HARD TO ...
A. 24 August 2007: Firstly, please don't send messages in CAPITAL LETTERS. They will not make your problem seem any more dramatic, so I suggest from now on you stop doing so.
Anyway. This does seem like a problem here!
This should all come down to your happines... (read in full...)
He doesn't like me talking to other males and I have lost all my male mates because of him.
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A. 24 August 2007: I understand you may not want to be without him, but I feel you should get rid of him. If he is that jealous when you talk to other guys, that tells everyone a lot about his personality. Plus, if he is violent towards you in anyway, this is more of ... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend seems jealous that I am going to meet someone new
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A. 22 August 2007: Ah, just to quickly explain; When I say there has been a lack of help, I don't mean that the answers have been bad. The advice has been solid, but I have just recieved little as of late. That's all I meant. I really hope people don't think that I ... (read in full...)
Am I the only one or does anyone else feel that dearcupid makes you paranoid?
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A. 22 August 2007: I can honestly say, this site doesn't make me paranoid. If anything it simply makes me aware how awful some people's problems are. If I think about my situation and think it's bad, sometimes it's nothing compared to some of the things you read on ... (read in full...)
Don't enjoy sex with my husband so should I meet this online guy?
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A. 22 August 2007: Well, I think, as bad as it is, you have to tell your husband. Holding off telling him hasn't lead to anywhere good, has it? Because now you are currently stuck in an unhappy marriage. My advice would be to sit down and tell him that you've been hav... (read in full...)
We're through! Is it possible to go back to being friends now?
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A. 22 August 2007: That really depends on the pair of you. I guess things have been made a little easier for you both, knowing that there was a problem, and you sounds like you've accepted this. Whereas I didn't know there was a problem when my relationship ended, and ... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend seems jealous that I am going to meet someone new
Q. Hi all. I've had a lack of help from people on this site with my questions recently, so I've decided to keep it as simple as possible: Last night, I told my ex long distance girlfriend of 2 years that I was meeting a girl on Thursday, as a f...
A. 22 August 2007: Also, last night I made things a little worse between us. We spoke about when she goes to university, and I was trying to suggest that maybe we could work things out, since there's a chance that we may have the same days off, ect, so I could drive... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend seems jealous that I am going to meet someone new
Q. Hi all. I've had a lack of help from people on this site with my questions recently, so I've decided to keep it as simple as possible: Last night, I told my ex long distance girlfriend of 2 years that I was meeting a girl on Thursday, as a f...
A. 21 August 2007: I see why everyone may thing that, but I don't believe it was ever my intention to make her jealous. I simply told her what my plans for the week were, and meeting this friend was one of them. I can feel that I know what I've done was somehow wrong, ... (read in full...)
From talking to her friend it looks as though she wants to stay in touch.
Q. Hi all. Something troubles me. *For those of you who don't know my situation, go to my profile, it explains everything there* So, as you know, me and my long distance girlfriend of 2 years broke up about 2 months ago, and within the past couple ...
A. 21 August 2007: ..I seem to be getting less and less help from people. I mean, this has been up here all night, and I've only had 1 answer (thank-you, flower girl). What am I doing wrong?... (read in full...)
She wants to stay friends.
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A. 19 August 2007: Oh, you prove a good point Flower Girl: I just meant all the usual aunts. By posting updates on my other page, I was only hearing from the same aunts, so I wanted to hear from people like yourself. That said, I really appreciate those who did ... (read in full...)
Is it gross to have sex while you are on?
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A. 19 August 2007: No, you don't stop bleeding. Not intentionally trying to give a gross image, but after I was done, I pulled it out of her, and there were traces of bloody on the condom. Not so nice. lol.... (read in full...)
I have put an end to contacting her. Was that the right decision?
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A. 19 August 2007: No, I thought that was very useful. Thank-you!... (read in full...)
Is it gross to have sex while you are on?
Q. I have a date with my boyfriend this Sunday, August 19. The thing is that we always do it, but I got my period today Saturday. Do you think is gross to do it, or does your period stop? Know should I tell him, im on it or what? Help??...
A. 18 August 2007: I think you should definately tell him. If it grosses him out, it's much better this way than for him to find out.. another way.
It's still something you could do. I for one used to have sex with my girlfriend while she was on, purely because ... (read in full...)
I have put an end to contacting her. Was that the right decision?
Q. Hello everyone. I'm afraid I did something very stupid yet again, and this time I think it has really blown things apart. *Check my column to hear about my situation* Last night I dreamt about her. It was us getting back together. First thing I di...
A. 18 August 2007: Hey all. I'm back from holiday with a rather dramatic turn of events, as usual.
On the 2nd day of my holiday, she text me, asking how I was and what the place was like and if I was having fun. I thought she was maybe testing to see if I'd stick to... (read in full...)
I don't want to mess it up.
Q. hey me and my gf have been going out for 4 months and we talked about sex (were both virgins) but im woried that im gonna screw up any advice?...
A. 18 August 2007: Dude, you're both strangers to sex. I don't think there's anyway you can screw up. You both know that you are new to it, and you don't know how to do it, so to speak. I'm sure if she loves you enough, she will be understanding if you shouldn't ... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 18 August 2007: I feel terrible that my return to this site begins like this, but I am so, so sorry about eveything that is happening right now. I find that things always seem to go bad all at once. I will say, atleast David has come out and told you how he feels... (read in full...)
I do stuff to my friend but it makes me feel weird
Q. ok, i m a virgin, but i don't have a boyfriend yet. but i have a really good friend that lets me do stuff 2 him, he has done stuff 2 me also, but everytime we do something, i fell really weird?? why is this happening?...
A. 10 August 2007: Could be because you know deep down that it isn't the real thing. He is your friend, not a proper boyfriend so to speak. Either that, or you are still just a little nervous about physical contact, and that makes you feel "wierd". There's a few ... (read in full...)
I have been cheating on my wife as I feel something is missing from my marriage
Q. Hi really need some advice i have been married for 3 yrs now and have a young boy of five. Things in my marriage have not been going to well i find that most days we argue over silly point less things and i feel as though we are growing apart. Over ...
A. 9 August 2007: Well, the first thing I thought of when I read the title was "No Excuse" and I must say I stick by that. Your actions can lead you nowhere good. Think of your son. He's very young, think about what you could do to him.
Talk to your wife about ho... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 8 August 2007: Aww, duskyrowe. You do sound a little similar to me here.
Before my relationship broke up, I used to ask my girlfriend if she was happy with the way things are, and wanted things to keep going. I also reminded her that she should tell me if their... (read in full...)
I have put an end to contacting her. Was that the right decision?
Q. Hello everyone. I'm afraid I did something very stupid yet again, and this time I think it has really blown things apart. *Check my column to hear about my situation* Last night I dreamt about her. It was us getting back together. First thing I di...
A. 8 August 2007: Hey, just gonna set a couple of things straight, but please keep offering advice, everyone!
To somewhat_anon: Actually, no. She is off to University in Lancashire, I am starting my 3rd year in college in Oxford. I am year behind in educatio... (read in full...)
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