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Why should you listen to my advice?: If I give you it, it means I probably have experience with the situation/problem you're having

Location: Oxford - UK

Currently: Single

Profile updated: 27th of March 2011

I'm Andy. I'm something of a sentimentalist. I consider myself to be romantic and affectionate

I first found my way to Dearcupid after my first dose of heartbreak. I was in a long distance relationship (240 miles) for over two years from 2005 - 2007. I met my girlfriend originally in December 2004 over the website Habbo Hotel, she found me purely because she liked my hair (I had an Afro at the time!). We ended up talking every night over MSN. By April, she revealed that she liked me, and very soon after, I decided I felt the same way.

On the 10th of July 2005, we met in her home town. I remember getting off the train, and she was stood right down the other end of the platform, and ran towards me like something out of a movie. I threw my bags down, and she dove into my arms for the first time. Later that day, after 3 hours of being crowded by her sister and mum, we got our first minutes alone, and kissed for the first time. In my case, it was my first kiss ever. It was magic.

We met up on 13 different occaisions, including a couple of camping trips alone together as well as a holiday to Cuba as late as April 2007. Then everything changed.

On the 25th of June, just over 2 weeks before the anniversary of the day that we met on that Summers day at the train station, 5 weeks before we were scheduled to meet up again; She rang me up in tears and told me that she thought we should end things. I was completely devastated. She told me her decision came due to the fact that she didn't think we would have as much time to meet up when she went to University, and that things were hard enough as they were. Also, we had argued over stupid things a little more regularly, but I didn't think it was any thing worse than what all couples encounter. I hadn't fallen out of love with her, but she now expected me to do so and become just a friend. By breaking up with me, as of that day, I had pretty much lost my best friend in all the world, and it wouldn't take long before it was clear that I couldn't handle the transition from boyfriend to friend.

Instead of talking every night, we went back and forth from talking to not talking. Anytime I spoke to her, after a few days I would start to miss her, and even cry over her. Her father died of liver problems less than 6 months after we broke up. After he passed, me and her spoke for a couple of nights, and I told her that I would try and support her like a friend should during that time of sadness, but it didn't take long for me to start avoiding her again. I felt really guilty for that. She wanted to be my friend, and I wanted to be more than her friend. I was crushed by what she had put me through. It always stuck with me when we spoke for the last time. It was about 2 months after her dad died. She told me "I feel like I've lost so much already, I don't want to lose you as a friend." And as much as it kills me, she did. We haven't spoken since... and to this day I still feel guilty, though I have come to accept that I had to protect myself from being hurt further.

I can honestly say that that experience has been the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. But we're 5 years on from when we met each other and I have since found love and lost love again, twice in fact! My 2nd love showed me that I am capable of loving others and having meaningful relationships. The 3rd one has shown me how to be happy without having someone in my life. In truth, I have never really been happy within myself since my first love left me. I felt like I needed somebody in order to be happy. It's a shame that I have had to go through heartbreak to learn that, but for the time being I feel a great deal better about myself and even feel like I can maintain a friendship with my ex's... Maybe even my first love in time.

Throughout this whole experience, I have found out that pain only make you stronger, the first cut is the deepest and time really does heal all wounds.

Cheers for reading, and may this be an encouragement to everyone else out there who has experienced heartbreak! Things really will get better for you one day, you have to believe!

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The Last Laugh... Is it really on me? ;)

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18 April 2008: Hi, it's Andy00. I just thought I would share something with all of you. As you all know, I went through a horrible case of heartbreak 10 months ago, after my distance relationship was cut off by the girl I love (it still hurts to this day). But h...

1 Year since the holiday of a lifetime - 3 months before life as I knew it came to an end

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21 March 2008: Hi everyone. This is my second article. I just felt the need to tell the story of some occurrences that took place a year ago from today, where me, my family and my beloved girlfriend took a trip together across the atlantic ocean to Cuba. To s...

My relationship, its end, and the 7 months of confusion and hurt... that made me stronger.

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12 February 2008: Hello everybody, this is Andy00. And to all fans who like long articles, this one is a treat for you... Unfortunately, it's a true story. I have been on this site for about 7 months now. I have posted many, many questions over time, but...

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He only wants to kiss or cuddle when he wants sex

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend for only 5 months and the only time he wants to kiss or cuddle me is if when he wants sex. each time i say no he plays the guilt trip and says you would if you loved me, i just don't know whats best to do, end the ...

A.   25 April 2011: Completely agree with dirtball. He is emotionally blackmailing you when he says that and that isn't fair on you at all. Talk to him and hopefully he'll adjust his behaviour!... (read in full...)

I've been feeling anxious and I've been thinking about my ex all day. Why am I feeling like this?

Q.   I've had a bit of a low day today. I've been feeling anxious and thinking about my ex girlfriend all day. I know we all have highs and lows, but I really hate days like this and i'm trying to pinpoint where this comes from. I don't even know if I'm ...

A.   21 April 2011: Thanks for all your help, I really appreciate it! :)... (read in full...)

I've been feeling anxious and I've been thinking about my ex all day. Why am I feeling like this?

Q.   I've had a bit of a low day today. I've been feeling anxious and thinking about my ex girlfriend all day. I know we all have highs and lows, but I really hate days like this and i'm trying to pinpoint where this comes from. I don't even know if I'm ...

A.   20 April 2011: She called me today. It's amazing how different things feel between us. It was a nice chat, but we quite obviously aren't on the same level we once were and I guess that has to be expected given that we've been separated for almost two months now. I ... (read in full...)

I've been feeling anxious and I've been thinking about my ex all day. Why am I feeling like this?

Q.   I've had a bit of a low day today. I've been feeling anxious and thinking about my ex girlfriend all day. I know we all have highs and lows, but I really hate days like this and i'm trying to pinpoint where this comes from. I don't even know if I'm ...

A.   20 April 2011: I'm sure you're right. I accept that even after a while it won't be easy, but I'd like to think it's something I could do. It may sound stupid, but knowing that she is quite keen to remain friends, it makes me feel like if that isn't something I ... (read in full...)

I've been feeling anxious and I've been thinking about my ex all day. Why am I feeling like this?

Q.   I've had a bit of a low day today. I've been feeling anxious and thinking about my ex girlfriend all day. I know we all have highs and lows, but I really hate days like this and i'm trying to pinpoint where this comes from. I don't even know if I'm ...

A.   18 April 2011: Yes, I have significant items, but they have been out of my sight for weeks. I also removed her has a friend on social networks and I never give in to the temptation to try and find out what she's up to. I think the problem is that I know I have... (read in full...)

I've been feeling anxious and I've been thinking about my ex all day. Why am I feeling like this?

Q.   I've had a bit of a low day today. I've been feeling anxious and thinking about my ex girlfriend all day. I know we all have highs and lows, but I really hate days like this and i'm trying to pinpoint where this comes from. I don't even know if I'm ...

A.   18 April 2011: Thank you for putting things into perspective aunt honest. I just wish I knew where this anxiety comes from. It could be that I miss having a girlfriend to talk to. I won't lie, I probably miss having the physical side of having a relationship ... (read in full...)

My ex and I are trying to be friends, but I can't help but wonder what will happen when I leave town and we must say goodbye?

Q.   Hey all, I'm struggling to keep my mind off my ex. We were only together for 4 1/2 months, but the relationship was highly significant to me. I loved her very much. After the break up I decided that I didn't want to risk losing her entirely, so...

A.   11 April 2011: Haha, eyeswideopen, I'm also longing for that day. You know probably better than anyone how much of a regular I've been on here. On the plus side, I look back on how I was nearly 4 years ago. I've come such a long way and it's because of the help ... (read in full...)

Why do I obsess over my ex-girlfriends? How do I conquer these feelings and forget them?

Q.   Why do I obsess over my ex-girlfriends? Every time i have come out of a relationship, I am never able to get over the girls I have loved very quickly. I often find myself thinking about them through the day, and while it doesn't make me physical...

A.   11 April 2011: What a thoughtful suggestion! Thank you, I may very well look for that!... (read in full...)

My ex and I are trying to be friends, but I can't help but wonder what will happen when I leave town and we must say goodbye?

Q.   Hey all, I'm struggling to keep my mind off my ex. We were only together for 4 1/2 months, but the relationship was highly significant to me. I loved her very much. After the break up I decided that I didn't want to risk losing her entirely, so...

A.   8 April 2011: Thank you Dritball, I hope I'm not making an awful mistake. I can't say I'm looking forward to these next couple of months. I can see old wounds being opened up more than a few times before I leave town. It worries me, but unless I take the evasive ... (read in full...)

He says he wants to, but I am afraid I will ruin the relationship if we have sex.

Q.   okay, so i've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now, we've been close friends for about 5 years. I'm the first serious girlfriend he's ever had, even though i've had quite a few boyfriends before him. the thing is... i'm not a virgin, an...

A.   8 April 2011: I always say that sex is a two-way thing, and should only be participated in unless both parties want to. If you feel it is too soon to have sex with him then you shouldn't. However, if you don't feel it is too soon, if you're comfortable with the ... (read in full...)

How many positions do you go through while having sex?

Q.   When getting it on with your partner, how many different positions do you typically make use of? Do you stay put with one position until you're both finished or do you switch it up every couple of minutes like in a porn video? ...

A.   7 April 2011: Everybody's different. It depends on the couple and the mood. Some people will change around frequently, others will be happy with just a few, others will stick to just one. Myself, I'm usually happy enough with 3 or 4 positions generally. Sometimes ... (read in full...)

My ex and I are trying to be friends, but I can't help but wonder what will happen when I leave town and we must say goodbye?

Q.   Hey all, I'm struggling to keep my mind off my ex. We were only together for 4 1/2 months, but the relationship was highly significant to me. I loved her very much. After the break up I decided that I didn't want to risk losing her entirely, so...

A.   6 April 2011: I completely understand what you're saying, and I have discussed this with her more than once. I talked about making the most of the time we had left, but unfortunately she feels like it would only be harder to let go of whenever the time inevitably ... (read in full...)

Why do I obsess over my ex-girlfriends? How do I conquer these feelings and forget them?

Q.   Why do I obsess over my ex-girlfriends? Every time i have come out of a relationship, I am never able to get over the girls I have loved very quickly. I often find myself thinking about them through the day, and while it doesn't make me physical...

A.   6 April 2011: You're fantastic Deirdre, thanks for your answers, I greatly appreciate them!... (read in full...)

Why do I obsess over my ex-girlfriends? How do I conquer these feelings and forget them?

Q.   Why do I obsess over my ex-girlfriends? Every time i have come out of a relationship, I am never able to get over the girls I have loved very quickly. I often find myself thinking about them through the day, and while it doesn't make me physical...

A.   5 April 2011: I'm just a bit scared, Deirdre11. I have known people to come out of relationships lasting years and years and they seem to be able to move on far more quickly and easily than I am! I mean, I'm currently getting over a 4 1/2 month relationship and... (read in full...)

My ex and I are trying to be friends, but I can't help but wonder what will happen when I leave town and we must say goodbye?

Q.   Hey all, I'm struggling to keep my mind off my ex. We were only together for 4 1/2 months, but the relationship was highly significant to me. I loved her very much. After the break up I decided that I didn't want to risk losing her entirely, so...

A.   5 April 2011: Yes, Dirtball, you did. Thank you for all your advice so far, and please forgive the multiple questions. It's clear to me that I'm pretty obsessed to say the least. You are absolutely spot on, I know full-well that communication will naturally f... (read in full...)

He calls me his closest and best friend in his entire life, but insists on commiting to his ex!

Q.   I dated this guy for more than a year and I know that he's really into me. We have a lot in common, and the chemistry between us is just mind-blowing (that is what he says!). He told me really nice things, he bought me expensive things, he introduc...

A.   1 April 2011: I think his behaviour is appalling. You have given him not one, but two chances with you and he has managed to mess it up both times. The fact that he messed up on his second chance is inexcusable and I think he's just trying to "have his cake and ... (read in full...)

Mending a broken heart? Is there a quick way?

Q.   How do you get over a broken heart? whats the easiest and quickest way? i was with my boyfriend for two years and i am finding it really difficult to just forget about him. I finished him, i didn't want to but he drove me to it and he couldn't care ...

A.   1 April 2011: I wish there was a quick way, we all do, but if there is a quick way, I haven't found it. This became one of my most hated of all sayings, but here it is - "Time heals all wounds". I heard this soooo many times after my two year relation... (read in full...)

I asked my best friend to remove my ex from his Facebook, but intead he sends him a birthday message!

Q.   Hey Guys got an issue with Fb. I have posted time and again on this site and you always seemed to say the right thing; Anyways the issue I am having is with my ex. I posted a question about him early but needless to say he's been on my mind again ...

A.   31 March 2011: Block your ex on Facebook. If seeing him on there only annoys you then what is the point of having him on there? Blocking him is the best way to solve that part of your problem. As for your bf, let him be friends with whoever he likes! You have no ... (read in full...)

Guys: Would you dump a girl if she didnt have sex with you?

Q.   This question is for guys and guys alone. Now i want you to be completely honest with me. If you were dating a teenaged girl and you were a teenager yourself, and you wanted to have sex badly and she didn't, would you dump her?...

A.   31 March 2011: It varies from guy to guy. Everyone is different after all. However, if you really care for someone you would stay with them regardless of whether they have sex with you or not. If that were a reason for dumping somebody it would be very ... (read in full...)

I am tortured by the relationship my boyfriend had with his first girlfriend.

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year, things were great he was the best of the best. The guy who respects woman, loves her with unconditional care, and is an absolute gentleman. He had only had one ex girlfriend who lasted for 7 mon...

A.   27 March 2011: Let me give you a hypothetical - It's 10 years from now. You and your current boyfriend broke up a long time ago. You have met other guys since then whom you have dated and slept with. Then you meet a wonderful guy. One who cares for you and is ... (read in full...)

Guys Only: Answer these questions and be completely honest!!

Q.   Guys be as honest as you like!!! I'm really curious as i hear many of my friends and random girls ask this. And yes they are all female related Q's haha! 1) What do you think of the girl who wears jeans on a night out, to the girl who wears a ...

A.   19 March 2011: Okay, honest answers is what you asked for, so if it'll help, that's what I'll provide you with. 1) What do you think of the girl who wears jeans on a night out, to the girl who wears a skirt? - It doesn't matter to me in the least. Some girl... (read in full...)

Desperate for answers. Will someone please tell me why my boyfriend won't accept that I don't want to be with him...

Q.   Hey there, I'd really appreciate as much help as possible. I was with this guy for 6 months and everything was great at first. He was sweet, kind. But then he started getting really clingy, so I told him to back off a bit as I preffered casual...

A.   11 March 2011: I know it sounds a tad blunt of me to say this, but I think this is what it narrows down to - If you don't want to be with him, then don't be with him. I can completely understand why you would feel this way. I feel suffocated just READING ... (read in full...)

My ex is making sexual comments against me

Q.   Hello, i hope you can help. two years ago i started dating this boy who kept nagging me (i didnt like him and he was annoying at first) after a while i gave in and gave him a chance as a reslut of this i dumbly fell for him. it was a long year rel...

A.   9 March 2011: To be blunt - this guy is scum. There are plenty of guys out there who will treat you a hundred times better than this guy did. Guys who will appreciate you, love you and most importantly treat you with respect. I think the other advisers are rig... (read in full...)

How do I make the transition from boyfriend to friend? I don't want to lose her!

Q.   Hi everyone, just looking for some advice. Myself and my girlfriend broke up yesterday. We knew that it was on the horizon though, because we are both at university and I am in my final year and will hence be moving away in the summer. She is i...

A.   26 February 2011: Wow, that does sound rough. I know for sure that I'd struggle if faced with that situation. I feel like it's just too soon for me to know what I want. I really like my ex, I adore her in fact, and going from being a lover to a friend is not goin... (read in full...)

How do I make the transition from boyfriend to friend? I don't want to lose her!

Q.   Hi everyone, just looking for some advice. Myself and my girlfriend broke up yesterday. We knew that it was on the horizon though, because we are both at university and I am in my final year and will hence be moving away in the summer. She is i...

A.   25 February 2011: The way I see it, in 4 months time, I never have to see her again if I wish. Some time before we broke up she asked me if I would stay in touch if for any reason things didn't work out. I said that I would if that's what she wanted and it was, so I ... (read in full...)

How do I make the transition from boyfriend to friend? I don't want to lose her!

Q.   Hi everyone, just looking for some advice. Myself and my girlfriend broke up yesterday. We knew that it was on the horizon though, because we are both at university and I am in my final year and will hence be moving away in the summer. She is i...

A.   25 February 2011: Thank you for the answers. I want to give friendship a try, but I know that I have to be careful, and I want you to know that I won't put myself through something if I find it too difficult. I leave town in about 4 months so I'd like to think I can ... (read in full...)

My ex asked me if I was dating a girl, so I told her the truth... Was this wrong?

Q.   My ex girlfriend has asked me if I'm dating somebody. I broke up with her almost two months ago after an eight month relationship. I was her first love. Just recently I started seeing a girl (lets call her Sarah). I've only been out with Sarah t...

A.   14 August 2010: To clarify, mine and my ex's break up was on very good and mutual terms. We met each other at university and because of her plans for the future involving America we BOTH decided it was best to end our relationship rather than having to face a long ... (read in full...)

2 years together. 3 years since she left me... Why can't I fully move on?

Q.   Hi all, my first love has come back to haunt me again. It's coming up to the time of year where me and her first met face to face after talking over the internet and falling in love. We met in her hometown on the 10th of July, 5 years ago this y...

A.   1 July 2010: Thanks, but that's not advice...... (read in full...)

I'm only 21. Why do I refuse to believe I will find happiness?

Q.   Hi, I'm beginning to worry about being alone. But the crazy thing is, I've been single for just over two weeks! I recently came out of a relationship that lasted for 9 1/2 months. It was an okay relationship, but I've know for a long time that m...

A.   24 June 2010: I understand what you're saying about being more of a complete person, that's something I want. The truth is, I feel pretty happy with myself. I'm young, I'm not awful to look at (though I want to drop a little weight, but nothing drastic). I'm ... (read in full...)

The "boyfriend/girlfriend" to "friend" transition. What is the best way to go through this process?

Q.   Hi all, not been around for a while, but after 8 1/2 months I'm single again. Mine and my ex's relationship was pretty good to say the least. This is the first serious girlfriend I've had if you don't include the 2 year long distance relatio...

A.   9 June 2010: Sound advice, thank you very much!... (read in full...)

I moved on quickly and I still feel guilty towards my ex... why?

Q.   Hi all, just a quick question... well, quick by my standards anyway During the summer, I dated a girl for a couple of months. We had a nice time together, we really developed feelings for eachother in the short time period. When the end of the s...

A.   4 April 2010: Thanks for the answers, they've really helped put things in perspective. I don't know why this is on my mind today, but answers like these certainly help me make peace with myself. Since you asked Auntie E, I said from the start I was against ... (read in full...)

Sharing a bed with my girlfriend has become a nightmare. What should I do?

Q.   Hi, I'm having some real problems in bed with my girlfriend, but not in the way you would immediately think. Sharing a bed with her has become a total nightmare, specifically when we stay at her flat. I'm usually awoken at nights when she pulls m...

A.   18 December 2009: Just to say, we're both students at university. We don't have the money or the need to buy new beds for our houses... that student loan runs out quickly enough, I can tell you! I have two duvets at my house. I would have brought one to hers, but I ... (read in full...)

Was it wrong for my ex to sleep at my house (not in my room)

Q.   I'm having serious problems with my girlfriend. My girlfriend is extremely jealous of my ex girlfriend, for whatever reason. At the start of mine and my g/f's relationship, my g/f hated my ex's guts. She warmed to her after a pleasant night o...

A.   1 November 2009: To anon: Would I be comfortable with an ex sleeping at her house? The answer is "Not entirely". I can understand why some people wouldn't be comfortable with that arrangement, but I'm no stranger to that. In fact, the ex girlfriend I refer to ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is accusing me of being unfaithful when I've done nothing wrong...How many accusations should I put up with?

Q.   Hi everyone, I've been dating a girl for a little over a month now. She has never been in anything you could call a "serious relationship" before, so the whole thing is new to her. She has been with some nasty guys in the past, so she has some tru...

A.   1 November 2009: Thanks for the help people, but we're at breaking point. So, it's very early in the morning here in England, and my g/f calls me at about 1:15 and I have to be up for work at 8:20. She asks me to come round, and when I reject her invite because ... (read in full...)

New girl wants my relationship status on facebook to change but I don't want to hurt my ex!

Q.   Hi, I'm unsure what to do. I've started seeing a girl, and straight away she wants me to change my relationship status on Facebook to "In A Relationship". Now, before you believe that THAT is my problem then please let me continue! Over t...

A.   1 October 2009: Well, I changed my status, and now all the friends of my ex-girlfriend are angry with me and saying I'm an inconsiderate pig. My ex hasn't spoken to me for a few days. I haven't been persistent in contacting her, but there were messages she coul... (read in full...)

New girl wants my relationship status on facebook to change but I don't want to hurt my ex!

Q.   Hi, I'm unsure what to do. I've started seeing a girl, and straight away she wants me to change my relationship status on Facebook to "In A Relationship". Now, before you believe that THAT is my problem then please let me continue! Over t...

A.   29 September 2009: It seems the vast majority of you are suggesting that the right thing for me to do would be to change my status. I've changed it now, and it feels good... there's still an element of fear that my ex will be upset, but I have to focus more on making ... (read in full...)

New girl wants my relationship status on facebook to change but I don't want to hurt my ex!

Q.   Hi, I'm unsure what to do. I've started seeing a girl, and straight away she wants me to change my relationship status on Facebook to "In A Relationship". Now, before you believe that THAT is my problem then please let me continue! Over t...

A.   29 September 2009: It seems the vast majority of you are suggesting that the right thing for me to do would be to change my status. I've changed it now, and it feels good... there's still an element of fear that my ex will be upset, but I have to focus more on making ... (read in full...)

How do people say goodbye forever?

Q.   Summer is almost over, and the time has come for me and my girlfriend to part ways. We've only been together for a few months, and we always knew that the day would come where I would have to go back to Uni, and eventually, she would be starting her ...

A.   12 September 2009: We'll be nearly 4 hours apart by car when we both go back to uni. I was in a similar relationship during my college days. At college you at least get one week off every 7 weeks or so. At uni you don't get any breaks for twice as long as that. Plus I ... (read in full...)

I can't find love... What do I have to do in order for it to find me?

Q.   Hi. I'm here tonight because I'm losing hope in love. I can't find it. I've been in 4 relationships in as many years. The first one was my first ever. It was long distance and lasted for 2 years. Since then, the longest relationship I'v...

A.   18 June 2009: I understand what everyones saying, but I've been hearing the same thing for what feel like forever: Be patient, it'll happen eventually, but I just feel so alone. Every other guy out there seems to have some success of some kind, and here I am in ... (read in full...)

1 Year since the holiday of a lifetime - 3 months before life as I knew it came to an end

Q.   Hi everyone. This is my second article. I just felt the need to tell the story of some occurrences that took place a year ago from today, where me, my family and my beloved girlfriend took a trip together across the atlantic ocean to Cuba. To s...

A.   23 April 2009: Wow... I don't know if either of you are still around, but you were right. This year it didn't even cross my mind that it has been over 2 years since that holiday. It has only just occurred to me while I re-read this article. I guess this is further ... (read in full...)

I can't deal with being single. Do I need professional help?

Q.   Hi. I guess quite a few of you know me by now, but I'm asking for help tonight because I think I'm going a little crazy. I really can't deal with single life. I feel like I'm doing something wrong, and I'm some how not like other guys who seem to ...

A.   17 April 2009: It's comforting to know that people feel the same as me. I feel a little less crazy now! I wish I knew what I'm doing wrong with women. A lot of people say that I'm not doing anything wrong and it's not my fault, but yet so many more people I... (read in full...)

1 Year since the holiday of a lifetime - 3 months before life as I knew it came to an end

Q.   Hi everyone. This is my second article. I just felt the need to tell the story of some occurrences that took place a year ago from today, where me, my family and my beloved girlfriend took a trip together across the atlantic ocean to Cuba. To s...

A.   22 March 2008: Oh man! More coincidences: When I woke up this morning and it was snowing! TYPICAL!! It never snows here, and yet, one year to the day, I wake up to a snow shower. Unbelievable.... (read in full...)

1 Year since the holiday of a lifetime - 3 months before life as I knew it came to an end

Q.   Hi everyone. This is my second article. I just felt the need to tell the story of some occurrences that took place a year ago from today, where me, my family and my beloved girlfriend took a trip together across the atlantic ocean to Cuba. To s...

A.   22 March 2008: Thank-you. I guess sometimes things simply aren't meant to be. Unfortunately, that won't be much comfort when I go to my empty bed tonight. Atleast I've gotten used to that.... (read in full...)

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