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Location: Oxford - UK
Currently: Single
Profile updated: 27th of March 2011
I'm Andy. I'm something of a sentimentalist. I consider myself to be romantic and affectionate
I first found my way to Dearcupid after my first dose of heartbreak. I was in a long distance relationship (240 miles) for over two years from 2005 - 2007. I met my girlfriend originally in December 2004 over the website Habbo Hotel, she found me purely because she liked my hair (I had an Afro at the time!). We ended up talking every night over MSN. By April, she revealed that she liked me, and very soon after, I decided I felt the same way.
On the 10th of July 2005, we met in her home town. I remember getting off the train, and she was stood right down the other end of the platform, and ran towards me like something out of a movie. I threw my bags down, and she dove into my arms for the first time. Later that day, after 3 hours of being crowded by her sister and mum, we got our first minutes alone, and kissed for the first time. In my case, it was my first kiss ever. It was magic.
We met up on 13 different occaisions, including a couple of camping trips alone together as well as a holiday to Cuba as late as April 2007. Then everything changed.
On the 25th of June, just over 2 weeks before the anniversary of the day that we met on that Summers day at the train station, 5 weeks before we were scheduled to meet up again; She rang me up in tears and told me that she thought we should end things. I was completely devastated. She told me her decision came due to the fact that she didn't think we would have as much time to meet up when she went to University, and that things were hard enough as they were. Also, we had argued over stupid things a little more regularly, but I didn't think it was any thing worse than what all couples encounter. I hadn't fallen out of love with her, but she now expected me to do so and become just a friend. By breaking up with me, as of that day, I had pretty much lost my best friend in all the world, and it wouldn't take long before it was clear that I couldn't handle the transition from boyfriend to friend.
Instead of talking every night, we went back and forth from talking to not talking. Anytime I spoke to her, after a few days I would start to miss her, and even cry over her. Her father died of liver problems less than 6 months after we broke up. After he passed, me and her spoke for a couple of nights, and I told her that I would try and support her like a friend should during that time of sadness, but it didn't take long for me to start avoiding her again. I felt really guilty for that. She wanted to be my friend, and I wanted to be more than her friend. I was crushed by what she had put me through. It always stuck with me when we spoke for the last time. It was about 2 months after her dad died. She told me "I feel like I've lost so much already, I don't want to lose you as a friend." And as much as it kills me, she did. We haven't spoken since... and to this day I still feel guilty, though I have come to accept that I had to protect myself from being hurt further.
I can honestly say that that experience has been the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. But we're 5 years on from when we met each other and I have since found love and lost love again, twice in fact! My 2nd love showed me that I am capable of loving others and having meaningful relationships. The 3rd one has shown me how to be happy without having someone in my life. In truth, I have never really been happy within myself since my first love left me. I felt like I needed somebody in order to be happy. It's a shame that I have had to go through heartbreak to learn that, but for the time being I feel a great deal better about myself and even feel like I can maintain a friendship with my ex's... Maybe even my first love in time.
Throughout this whole experience, I have found out that pain only make you stronger, the first cut is the deepest and time really does heal all wounds.
Cheers for reading, and may this be an encouragement to everyone else out there who has experienced heartbreak! Things really will get better for you one day, you have to believe! |
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A. 8 August 2007: I just noticed I didn't answer Justaguy.
Yeh, it was good of her to ask in some ways, but in other ways I think it was very stupid. I mean, maybe I should have been more trusting, but after all, he's still another guy, and she was my girlfrie... (read in full...)
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A. 7 August 2007: I feel like there is more to this than you're saying. Other than the fact that you're very young, I hear no reason why she wouldn't allow you both to be together. There must be a reason for her to go to such drastic measures to keep you both apart, ... (read in full...)
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A. 7 August 2007: I'm afraid to me it sounds like he needs more time to get over his troubles. He was with her for a good while. and with him having a child together with her only makes it harder. That said, it simply isn't fair on you that you should have to wait ... (read in full...)
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So yes, a few of those things obviousl... (read in full...)
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For you, due to the abortion (I'm sorry). Also, it doesn't help that he ignores you. It isn't nice to be ignored, and I know what that's like. And for him; there's ... (read in full...)
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I suggest holding things off a little while longer, and then, if you s... (read in full...)
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Can somebody please tell me what she might be thinking?
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Can somebody please tell me what she might be thinking?
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Can somebody please tell me what she might be thinking?
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How can I get a girl? I need a girlfriend!
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How can I get a girl? I need a girlfriend!
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A. 2 August 2007: You sound just like I used to my friend. Trust me, things will happen for you soon enough, probably when you least suspect it. Take things as they come, and trust me when I say: Relationships are not something you should try to rush into.... (read in full...)
He says I'm getting too clingy. What should I do?
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A. 2 August 2007: I think the two of you just need to talk about things. Discuss why he's acting the way he is with you.
From there the two of you can decide what you do to fix things, if of course things CAN be fixed. You sound like a very honest and caring g... (read in full...)
My boyfriend stays an hour away and I miss him so much that I want to start crying.
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A. 2 August 2007: Sorry, mate, but I have to tell you; an hour is not a big deal.
It's understandable that you should miss him, but surely, a meer 2 days away from seeing him, you should feel more excited than upset.
I have just come out a relationship wit... (read in full...)
Need perspective on what to do about this other long distance girl I still like.
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A. 2 August 2007: Sorry Chrissy, but you are assuming things. My fault. I didn't explain. Me and my ex met up on 13 different occaisions, including 2 camping trips and a holiday with my family to Cuba (only 4 months ago). And for the record. I loved her with a... (read in full...)
I feel like i'm more of a taker than a giver!!
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A. 2 August 2007: Gotta agree with hlskitten. The only way to help you past this is by, as she put it, "Biting the bullet"
Just keep telling yourself; he's your boyfriend. If there is one person you can hug, kiss or ask out, he's the one. What possible reason c... (read in full...)
Can you still snog a boy if you have braces on?
Q. can you still snog a boy if you have braces on?...
A. 2 August 2007: Hehe, a nice questionYes, to swiftly answer your question, yes you can still snog with braces on. You will probably just have to make more of an effort not to clash his teeth with them. Should be easy to avoid, as long as you're careful... (read in full...)
Do girls enjoy giving oral sex?
Q. Do girls actually like giving oral sex to guys or what? So many girls seem to have a real issue with it, like feeling subservient or degraded or something. But they don’t have any problem getting it!? What is all this double standards? I...
A. 2 August 2007: It really varies. Some girls will gladly go down on you, others will be completely against it.
It's all about decision. You may decide that you really like the idea of going down on your girl, but you have to understand she maybe wont be as enthu... (read in full...)
What really happens to the soul when we die???
Q. I know someone who commited suicide. Now that I am dealing with ok - she had a pretty hard life; I often thought - I wonder how she copes and carries on with life. So that I do not need advice or counselling for - I am ok with it. What I am conc...
A. 1 August 2007: I'm afraid I look at it that; There is just no way of knowing till we go ourselves.
Death is too mysterious to question. There is absolutely no way of knowing where we go when we go. So why worry about it?
There could be nothing. But if ... (read in full...)
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