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I don't want to mess it up.

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Question - (17 August 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 August 2007)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey me and my gf have been going out for 4 months and we talked about sex (were both virgins) but im woried that im gonna screw up any advice?

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A male reader, daglish Uganda +, writes (19 August 2007):

daglish agony auntCome on big oy, by the time you hook a honey, and even get to intimately talk about sex, what else is left that you cant discuss with her? May you just dont know how to get her to bed and are worried that u might do it the wrong way. But remember a man is that person who handles challenges without fear and one who always tries to get what he wants in the best way possible. Like all succesful men, try to ask this girl to bed in your own way NOT in anybodys. In otherwords Be original.

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A female reader, broken babe United States +, writes (18 August 2007):

broken babe agony auntif shes a virgin to then she'll be just as inexperianced but also girls expect the guy to take control just have confidence in yourself make sure to soothe her and another thing she knows your a virgin right just ask her in a sweet tone if she wants to really do it with you make her sympthesive you its a mean trick but this way she wont care if you screw up and she probably thinks that shes gonna screw up to

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A male reader, Andy00 United Kingdom +, writes (18 August 2007):

Andy00 agony auntDude, you're both strangers to sex. I don't think there's anyway you can screw up. You both know that you are new to it, and you don't know how to do it, so to speak. I'm sure if she loves you enough, she will be understanding if you shouldn't satisfy her, first time around.

I'm sure whatever happens, it will be a special experience you will always carry with you. For the record; The first time is NEVER the best time, so try and remember that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007):

Don't do it!!!

You are much too young to "go all the way". Stay with the petting. Experience all the pleasures that feeling and touching a body that you love brings. Having intercourse is extremely over rated. Trust me, I'm 43 years old. Just the thought of concieving a child at your age should be reason enough.

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