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I feel like it's tarnished the beginning of our relationship and don't know if I can get past that.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

5 May 2014 (F age 41-50 - I started seeing a guy 5 months ago. At the beginning we weren't serious and he took some time out when he had a few problems with his daughter. Things are now good between us but the trouble is I have suspicions he slept with 1, maybe 2 people when we weren't in contact for a ... (190 words

How's a nice way to ask her ex in laws to get to know me so they can see I'm not a monster and how does everyone else deal with the ex dad?

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5 May 2014 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I'm in a relationship with a girl that is going through a divorce and a mother of two kids. Her ex is an ass and that's being nice to the guy, he cheated on her,was emotionally and verbally abusive to her and really broke her down. She is trying to make the split as easy as ... (384 words

Am I wrong for being mad about these 'friends'?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

5 May 2014 (F age 41-50 - How do you see this situation? Am I wrong for being mad about them? We have a vacation house that we come to from another state approximately 6-7 times a year. Ussualy for kids holidays, just a short break away from work, long weekends, etc. We ve been doing it for 14 yea... (900 words

Lack of emotional closeness in otherwise good relationship?

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5 May 2014 (M age 51-59 - I have learned to accept that my girlfriend of three years is a little bit emotionally distant by nature. In three years I have never seen her cry, she's just not one who gets sad or has her feelings hurt or needs an abundance of affection, etc. She just likes to be happy and ... (771 words

Does my impatience with my puppy mean I'm going to be a terrible mother?

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5 May 2014 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone, This might be an odd question to ask but here goes! I have a 4 month old puppy. I love animals, always have. I have previously had grown dogs but this is my first puppy since I was a child. I walk him, train him, clean up after his poops and pees, he's not a... (333 words

Is the lack of trust in this relationship fatal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

5 May 2014 (F age 36-40 - I have been with the same man for three years...but before i met him i was married for 8 years to someone else. The man i was married to cheated and lied to me multiple times. It took me a long time to trust the man im currently with because of my ex. And apparently he doesnt ... (127 words

Am I obligated to stay because he supported me through school?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

5 May 2014 (F age 51-59 - My husband of six years has a good heart, generally, and we have a three year old daughter together. I care about him a lot, but I can't stand living with him anymore. He is often very moody, controlling, and can have massive temper tantrums. He can be super controllin... (229 words

She said she's lost passion for the relationship

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5 May 2014 (M age 30-35 - my girlfriend broke up with me last Thursday because of some mixed feelings and confusion on both of our parts. I pushed her away because I was starting to smother her too much and she lost interest in the relationship and was feeling miserable, at the same time she feels lost ... (359 words

Was I right to conclude that he isn't over his ex?

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5 May 2014 (F age 51-59 - I am so confused. I met a guy I used to date 25 years ago on facebook, we fell immediately back in love. He is separated and from what both he and his family tells me, his soon to be ex is a horrible person. I have witness first hand. She texts him and his family horrible ... (322 words

I need advice on meeting new people because I'm beginning to feel that some people are meant to be single and I'm one of them.

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5 May 2014 (F age 36-40 - Nobody to love? I have always been unlucky in love. I never had a long term relationship. I think some people are meant to be single and im one of them. It seems men only see my body and not me as a person. Im not vain or bragging. But i feel they only want sex and see a ho... (163 words

He always wants sex

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5 May 2014 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so my boyfriend won't stop trying to have sex, we can never stay in a just watch a dvd, he always trys it on, and I tell him no but he will carry on until he gets it, should I say something? Thanks ... (47 words

I need to stop liking a co-worker

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5 May 2014 (M age 36-40 - Hello Thanks for reading if you do . This is probably a daft question but see how it goes , I have been working with this girl nearly a year now and we get on rather well . Well we have always had a banter and she winds me up and I wind her up, not in a rude w... (284 words

I am not a needy person but I feel like I need an explanation. HELP!

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5 May 2014 (F age 36-40 - Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice on this one as myself and all my close friends are stumped! Basically I met this guy last summer and we were meeting for about 2 months. He initiated everything but he told me that he had literally just broken up with his ex after she ... (368 words

How can me and my family help our brother after his divorce? He has given up on life.

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5 May 2014 (M age 30-35 - I know this isn't much of a relationship question but we really need help. My brother was married for about 7 years and divorced. He tried to be strong but after a while he completely gave up and now he has no self esteem. We as a family have no idea what to do. He has compl... (136 words

Fed up with always being there for others?

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5 May 2014 (? age 41-50 - I am fed up of being a responsible person. I am so lonely and starved of support myself and have become sick to death of people sucking my blood for support. I am the type of person who doesn't brag about how successful I am at being independent and resilient, but people ... (424 words

How to find love in your mid 50s.

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5 May 2014 (F age - Hello aunts and uncles I am 54 and broke up with my husband 7 years ago and we have been divorced for 5 years. I have 4 very close girlfriends who I have known since I was married. They are all in their 40s, so slightly younger than me. We were all single divorced women a... (553 words

How do I explain to my family how I met my girlfriend?

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5 May 2014 (M age 30-35 - Ok. So long story short.... Me and my gf of 3 years, are planning to get married. However since we haven't told any of our patents yet, we need to Annouce and tell them how we met. I am Indian, so culture reasons don't make it easy for us to mix randomly (which was what ... (119 words

My girlfriend wants to settle and have kids. I'm going to lose her if I don't act on it within the year?

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5 May 2014 (M age 41-50 - So sorry for venting out but I have no one else to talk to about this. You see, I'm with this very wonderful woman for almost 5 years now. For me, I think she's the girl of my dreams and she's God's gift to me. Lately, questions about getting hitched and kids are being brou... (608 words

I want to try to work it out -- do you think there's a chance?

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5 May 2014 (F age 30-35 - Ive been seeing a guy for about 3 months and he has been good to me except when he texted his ex.. We had differences where we would argue about certain topics but we always managed to work through it. I was insecure and didnt trust him after he texted his ex and I was always ... (369 words

I went out with this guy I have a crush on but I couldn't eat anything because I was so nervous!

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5 May 2014 (F age 30-35 - Ok, so I feel like a total idiot after this, but I met this really nice guy a while ago, and seemed to sort of hit it off, I can actually say that I have small feelings for him. We decided to meet up. We were going to hang out earlier in the day, but ended up hanging out at ... (303 words

I feel like I have to choose between studing for my career and having a family

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3669 days ago

5 May 2014 (F age 36-40 - Oh Dear Cupid... What can I say...I feel so lost at this point in my life right now. I feel that I'm having some sort of mini crisis and my brain is going crazy all over the place whilst I try to figure the answers out. It's causing me a'lot of stress and I can't concentrat... (877 words

What thoughts comes to a woman’s mind when a 25 year old guy says that he has never been in a relationship and is a virgin?

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5 May 2014 (M age 30-35 - Just looking for some straight forward answers. Question: What thoughts comes to a woman’s mind (as well as guys) when a 25 year old guy says that he has never been in a relationship and is a virgin. Why: Initially, it was a religious reason, the whole wait unti... (217 words

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