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Why does he choose to not invite me to functions where the Gfs and wives are invited? I am feeling excluded.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

12 May 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi all, I'm feeling a little left out and rejected. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over four years. We got together at 17 and have been together since. We have a really good relationship together and normally I find we can talk about anything and resolve it,... (651 words

My Bf says that talking to this other girl is "different" and he's not going to stop talking to her. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3664 days ago

12 May 2014 (F age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 years lived together for 6 and half years. For a long time now he has been ignoring me and i have felt pushed away and unloved. he has said he feels that i dont love him anymore and says i am pushing him away because i never give him spac... (288 words

LDR and suddenly he's harder to contact. Am I overreacting?

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12 May 2014 (F age 30-35 - My bf works for UPS and goes in work at either 3, 4, or 5am and gets off no later than 11. He always text me after he's done which he did today at 10 am "goodmorning sleepy head :)" I text him back about 5 mins later and never got a text back. I sent 3 text 2 hrs later so I... (155 words

He and I have a mutual friend who is a girl he once had a crush on. Should I allow what our mutual friend said to so unsettle me?

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12 May 2014 (F age 30-35 - I'm in a curious problem and don't really know what to make of it. As it goes, I've been besties with a guy over the internet for nearly four years now. We've spent hours talking to each other about practically everything, fighting, arguing, joking etc. We even met up a fe... (663 words

Is it time to close the door on my current relationship?

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12 May 2014 (F age 36-40 - my relationship seems to be on the rocks with my boyfriend of over three years. I have a 5year old daughter from a previous relationship, which ended because i couldn't take anymore lies, disrespectful behavior which of course lead to distrust. However i just had a baby with my ... (382 words

How can I get my husband to step up in the personal hygiene department?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

12 May 2014 (F age 36-40 - Hello. I have a problem that I really need advice for. Thing is, it's kind of gross, and I don't mean to offend anyone. My question is, how can I get my husband to step up in the personal hygiene department? I'll give you some back story. He isn't circumcised, and... (211 words

We were friends only earlier, as I was in a relationship. How can I now let him know I'm single?

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12 May 2014 (F age 30-35 - While I was dating my old boyfriend, I became friends with a guy who I later realized was interested in me. I informed him I had a boyfriend, and our relationship remained platonic. I have since broken up with my boyfriend, but don't know how to inform this guy I am now single ... (110 words

On being a University student and an unpaid Carer for family member. How do I cope with the stress?

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12 May 2014 (F age 30-35 - I'm a university student, but I'm also an unpaid carer for a family member, it means I can't get a job as I have no time to. It's already resulted in my having to leave uni once, and I'm scared I won't be able to get a job after uni, or that the stress will cause me to fail... (86 words

How can I get my mother to view my fiance and upcoming wedding more positively?

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12 May 2014 (F age 41-50 - My Mother is completely against my future marriage and it's creating a lot of arguments/tension/and anger. My mom lives overseas, so she has never met my fiance. I have tried to tell her about him and the wonderful guy I think she is, she barely wants to hear anything about h... (309 words

The passion has left the marriage. What more can I do?

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12 May 2014 (M age 36-40 - So my wife and I have been married for 18 months. We have lived together for 4 years. Best way to put this is I am basically the woman of the relationship. I do about 90% of the house work, cooking cleaning ect. I was just raised that way to be very clean and to cook. Our prob... (259 words

I want to move on from a girl I fell for. Is it OK to ignore her if she texts me?

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12 May 2014 (M age 30-35 - Last year a girl joined my college course and straight away I fell for her. We became friends and then I asked her out at the end of the year and she turned me down. After that nothing changed, we were still friends although she did move into the same apartment block as me./ ... (333 words

Depressed and deliberately avoiding my friends. Any advice?

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12 May 2014 (F age 36-40 - This is hard to explain, but I am going through a difficult time at the moment. Sometimes, I have ignored my friends when they have tried to contact me. I don't know how to explain to them that I am going through a difficult time at the moment. I feel embarrassed and feel like ... (172 words

How do I distance myself from this woman who has a fiance?

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12 May 2014 (M age 30-35 - There's a woman I've known since we were 16 (we're 24 now) and I've always found her attractive, though we've never been close friends. Always just acquaintances. She was always in a relationship while I've always been highly focused on my career. But now she's engaged to be m... (343 words

She wanted to be 'just friends' but cant handle my chasing other girls!

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12 May 2014 (M age 26-29 - Hey guys, this is about a girl that I met at my university a few months ago. When I saw her, I was instantly attracted to her. Beautiful, great body, nice personality, the works. My mistake was trying the nice guy act when I approached and attempted to get to know her... (452 words

I need help in moving on from a nasty breakup.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3665 days ago

12 May 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi. I really really need help. I was in a relationship with this guy for 5 years. I loved him way too much and endured a lot for him. I forgave all his blunders but when I made a mistake of fighting, he dumped me. I made so many efforts to make him feel special and finally... (283 words

I am seriously questioning myself as a man

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12 May 2014 (M age 51-59 - I am a 46 year old married male who has been married for 24 years to the same way too beautiful wife, I have a type 1 diabetic since age 3 and I have been physically disabled after getting hurt on the job and needing dual knee replacements and a rotator cuff tear ,so for the ... (558 words

Post Break-Up Blues....

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12 May 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi all So I met this guy through my friend and we started hanging out a lot. Anyway, so I really liked him as a friend and I had just come out of a painful breakup so I was strictly not looking for anything. He started liking me and started to hit on me constantly without me... (331 words

After all this time I'm suddenly thinking about my ex again?

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12 May 2014 (? age 26-29 - i keep thinking about my ex and feel awful as i have a boyfriend that i am head over heals in love with. i have been with him for two years now and literally never even looked back, until recently when an up coming event will meen that we will meet again after almost 2 and a ... (209 words

Sick leave means trouble paying the bills

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12 May 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi all. This isn't a relationship problem but it involves my partner, so here it goes... Basically, I moved in with my boyfriend of four and a half years about three months ago. Everything was going great. We both had jobs and although both of them not highly paid, we managed... (421 words

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