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Should I ditch my boyfriend of 3 years because he's moving to NYC for a year or two?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

26 May 2014 (F age 36-40 - My bf of 3yrs is going to NYC for 1yr (maybe 2) He is 25 and I will be 30 this year. At first I was supportive. That he applied to go and got through. Now he is leaving in 2dys and when I think of it I get angry. He expects it will be fine and he will wait for me etc. But... (146 words

I am beginning to hate the husband I once loved like life, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

26 May 2014 (F age 36-40 - Dear cupids, my problem lies with my marriage. We married out of love 4 years ago. Have a daughter and live far away from home. Recently I have been feeling less love for my husband that it disturbs me a lot. I don't feel any pinch when I see him after some days if he travels, ... (230 words

I am falling deeply for my older Boyfriend's cousin. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 May 2014 (F age 26-29 - I'm 19 and with a 34 year old man a year and half. Please don't comment on the age gap , I prefer older men. About 3 months ago I met his cousin who is 31 for the first time. He told me a lot about this guy how he cheated on his now wife when they were first dating and has ... (417 words

How hard should I try to make this relationship work, even though he has a fear of commitment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 May 2014 (F age 30-35 - My current boyfriend and I have a very romantic and dramatic start. Now we have around one year and a half dating. It's my second longest relationship and i'm very proud and happy since i went through a lot of frogs back in the day. The problem is, i began this relationship... (271 words

Is it wrong to enjoy him when the sex is amazing, even though I find him annoying at other times?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

26 May 2014 (F age 26-29 - So this guy for quite a while has been hitting on me trying to get it on etc even though he knew I found his personality completely annoying. I don't know what it is but he really irritates me. I got very drunk a few days ago and somehow ended up at his and we slept together, ... (123 words

He was my first love. But drugs rule his life. How can I stop loving him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

26 May 2014 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am a 27 years old female, when I was 15 I met a boy who was 16, just one year older than me, he was my high school sweetheart, we spent many years together after, we went to different universities I studied engineering and he went to the navy academy witch wa... (782 words

I am fit and petite but I have no boobs. He's a boob man. Is there any chance that he'll consider me attractive?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 May 2014 (F age 30-35 - Would you find a woman with a squatting bum, defined stomach/ faint abs and slight thigh gap attractive, even if she was basically flat chested? I only ask because I'm going to a pool party with the guy i'm dating this weekend and I don't want him to be put off that I have ... (219 words

Is my Bf's outlook on ever or never having children normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 May 2014 (F age 36-40 - So my boyfriend loves kids, and he's so cute playing with them etc. however we've talked and he's on the fence about actually having kids. He's absolutely fine with having them if I want em but he just can't see where people find the time for it. He's really busy with lots of ... (213 words

Whose move next?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

26 May 2014 (F age 41-50 - A man I like, whom I met several months ago and have bumped into a couple of times asked for my number when we randomly saw each other one evening a few weeks ago. I had a missed call 2 weeks ago and I sent a text back to say I saw the missed call and hope he's well. Then I ... (150 words

Don't like being friend with my ex, but there is no way

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

26 May 2014 (M age 41-50 - Hi everybody, Since ever the one in the group that is single and always dating new girls and all the past relations were like heaven. Everybody likes me, even my ex-girlfriends and I love everybody, I was happy. There was a girl whom I always liked and she always knew; she... (473 words

Twenty eight and throwing tantrums

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 May 2014 (F age 36-40 - My lovely live in boyfriend has some sort of anxiety and depression. He has spoken to people about it in the past, and been on antidepressants before my time. His recount on things I've said or scenarios that have happened where he ended up getting frustrated and angry can be q... (118 words

My ex treated me better than this boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 May 2014 (F age 30-35 - I was in a relationship for 9 yrs with my ex boyfriend who I dumped a year ago since the relationship was going no where and there was lot of trouble as it was a long distance relationship. After breaking up I immediately got into another relationship ( My Current bf ) who is a ... (148 words

Why would they be interested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 May 2014 (F age 41-50 - Two childhood sweethearts. . Looked me up after twenty years.. One grade school kept in touch more than the other from Jr high.. they have children and our grandparents. .and from different states .. I finally have a four old daughter and am not married to her father... really ... (70 words

I feel betrayed, and I want to be happy again. How can I get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 May 2014 (M age 36-40 - Ok my question is how do i get over a relationship that i just got betrayed and put all my effort into. i feel heartbroken and miserable every night i have been drinking every day and i still cant get over this. i look on social media and she is posting that she is having a... (301 words

They are all vain, shallow and racist. Will I be alone for ever?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

26 May 2014 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a 19 year old gay guy who's never been in a relationship. And I feel really terrible about it. I hate feeling lonely and depressed all the time. But I feel like I'll be alone forever. I know it seems like it should be but the gay community isn't that great. It's ... (270 words

Given the circumstances why wont he give me a key?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 May 2014 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together about two and a half years. He is 35 and I am 27. He has been married before, I have not. I am at his place often, probably about 5 or 6 nights a week. I do not have a key, so if he has to work before me he will leave me the key so I can ... (353 words

Should I run or risk a broken heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

26 May 2014 (M age - Hello, well I've been talking to this women on line, we get along ,seems real good, but I think there is some red flags poping up, her car broke down she says, talk to her on the phone she seemed drunk, she told me she was raped about two years ago, so if we meet it has to be ... (152 words

I obsess about how others think I look

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

26 May 2014 (F age 30-35 - I have a few concerns in my way of thinking. I care way too much what others think about me. It's specifically what they think of my looks. Sadly I obsess about it. I think this may stem from my childhood. I was called ugly practically everyday from ages 9 to 17. Now I kno... (368 words

He seems interested since I said I was getting a divorce

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 May 2014 (F age 41-50 - There's a guy I am attracted to we talk every once in a while. Last December he introduced to the very close friend who is now his girlfriend. Only last month I told him that I will be getting a divorce. Now he seems interested in me but I am scared. My birthday is soon ... (166 words

My friend seems selfish and ungrateful, or am I just too sensitive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 May 2014 (F age 30-35 - Why does she behave like that? Am I overreacting? So my older married friend needed a babysitter for the weekend and I love kids and was bored and needed her to do my hair so I spent the weekend with her and her family. I slept with her 2little girls in their b... (296 words

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