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... Send *ummyMummy a private message | | | *ummyMummy's profile:I'm 22 years of age and have just become a Mum for the first time! Bethany Molly was born on the 9/11/07 at 12.51pm weighing 8 pound 3. Apparently I'm a lucky so and so as my waters broke at 9am and only was in labour just under 3 hours. It still hurt though. But she is worth every bit of it though!
I'm not qualified to give out advice, but feel due to experiences I've had that I can give out a bit of friendly advice that might be helpful. I am currently thinking of doing a counselling course at home while my baby is young. Then once baby goes to nursery am hoping to do the uni course I was supposed to start this Sept just gone. I want to be a teacher :)
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My fiance gets angry that I don't perform oral sex well enough
Q. My fiance is constantly complaining that i am not satisfying him sexually. he gets really angry that when i perform oral sex on him, i don't do it to his liking. he says that i do not satisfy him the way he satisfies me, and i am selfish. could you ...
A. 26 June 2007: WoW I would get him to tell you what you can do to satisfy him. It just seems he wants to create a problem with out helping you with a solution. The fun side of a relationship should be playing about and finding what the other person likes and ... (read in full...)
How do I come up with a pet name for my boyfriend?
Q. So I need help concerning my boyfriend. He has a lot of "pet names" I guess you'd call it for me and I'd really like some for him but I can't think of any. I was wondering if you could use "babe" for a guy too... umm, any help would be great--names, ...
A. 26 June 2007: My partner is babe, hunni, darling, etc. Not pet names as such. Only time I call him by his name is when we argue lol
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His mother won't approve of our two year relationship--should I end it?
Q. I am a 43 yr old Englishwoman. My boyfriend is 24 and from an Eastern European country. We work together and have lived together for over 2 yrs. We are totally in love but his mother doesn't approve of our relationship. Our problem (his mother) ...
A. 26 June 2007: What does your boyfriend think of the matter. If he wants to be with you risking the loss of his mother then you should stay. Talk to each other and you find find you come to a decision together rather than both going through the torment you are ... (read in full...)
I want to cheat with a taken guy--can I justify it?
Q. Hi Hoping you guys can give me some advice, I have a crush on a guy who comes into my place of work (not a colleague) I really like him and I'm certain the feeling is mutual, but he has a girlfriend. I know we can't have a relationship, wh...
A. 26 June 2007: Good for you hunni!
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I married him after 6 months only to feel secure - I feared that I wouldn't find anyone else. Now I'm so confused!
Q. Not Sure If I Should Stay With My Husband... My husband and I have been married for a little over 3 years now. We met at a stressful point in my life and he was a strong support for me. We only dated for about 6 months before getting married....
A. 26 June 2007: Don't stay with this guy just because you are scared of breaking him. That isn't fair on him. And don't start proving your family right just to stay with him as that isn't fair on the husband either. I am sure he would prefer you to be completely ... (read in full...)
I want my friend, but she has a girlfriend--what can I do?
Q. Hi again, I recently posted a question title: "I got her to kiss me and now I don't know what to do". (please note I didn't force her to--she wanted me to lol). Basically, I really like my friend, and have the feeling she does me. I had some gre...
A. 26 June 2007: Just ask this girl what she wants. Does she want to be with you or not?
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My husband and his brother's wife had an affair. I feel his brother needs to know, but I don't want him to hurt as I do. Children are involved - what should I do??
Q. I found out my husband had an affair with his brother's wife. I am now going through a divorce. Learning about the affair has almost destroyed me. His brother knows nothing about the affair. I know my soon-to-be ex-husband and his broth...
A. 26 June 2007: Maybe what the others are saying maybe true. That the truth will come out one day. Especially if they continue the affair. I really don't know what I would do to be honest. I would make sure I wasn't doing it out of spite or revenge.
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I love my boyfriend, but I think he's trying to manipulate me into having sex! I want to wait. What should I do?
Q. okay I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months, we haven't had sex yet but we've been close to so many times, I really love him and all but sometimes he acts like it is going to be the end of the world if we don't do it. I sometimes feel ...
A. 26 June 2007: Explain to him that you don't want sex yet. He should respect you for your decision. Explain to him that you don't want to sex with him until you marry and see what he says. He may not be prepared to wait that long and if that's the case then he's ... (read in full...)
When I told her I liked her, she said she didn't want to lose me as a mate! How can I convince her to give us a try?
Q. I told a girl I like her and then we became close. But now if I say can we get together, she says she doesn't want it because she doesn't want to lose a good mate. How can I get her to see I'll always be there for her as a mate? And how can I get ...
A. 26 June 2007: Explain that you want to take things slowly as to not spoil the friendship. And how you really don't want to spoil the friendship.
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I'm just about to turn 17 - is it possible that I'll have another growth spurt?
Q. Hi, I'm 16 turning 17 in august. I have a concern about my height. I'm just over 5ft 10 and wonder if I'll grow anymore, maybe to 6ft. The reason being is that there are some of my friends that are quite tall and I get a bit intimiated and e...
A. 26 June 2007: You may still have a groeth spurt but then you may not. I wouldn't worry about people being taller than you. 5ft 10 isn't exactly short.
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Shall I study in England for a while???
Q. Hi... I'm 25yrs old and am from India. I'm moving to England in November to be with my sister for a while. My sis and her husband have been living in London for the past 8 yrs. They are both citizens. Although, I'm not particularly kee...
A. 26 June 2007: I'm sure you can handle a part time job aswell as studying. I completed my second year at college this year and up until april had been working in a nightclub to earn money. It's not easy but you just have to remember to sleep and eat and do your ... (read in full...)
I really really like him, my parents dont approve, I cant let him go, what should I do ?
Q. Ok this i really hard for me im 15 yrs old and i really like this boy i mean i really like this boy!! he makes me so happy its unbelievable, people may think im only 15 this cant happen its just thier hormones or whatever but its not, thats what my ...
A. 26 June 2007: If can at 15 feel really attracted to somebody I think, I just don't think love plays a complete factor at 15. Anyway....
If you really like this guy then date him and see how it goes. Your parents may come round to the idea. They are probably... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't like oral sex!
Q. Why does my boyfriend not want to go down on me? He says he doesn't like to do it but I'm worried that it is me....
A. 26 June 2007: Not all guys like going down on a girl. Just the same as not all girls like giving blow jobs. Explain to your guy that it would be nice for him to do it once every so often as you enjoy it or whatever.
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Been trying to fall pregnant, but no luck after a year! What's next?
Q. Hello I'm 18 and I want to have a baby. I would like to know if anyone knows what I have to go through to get pregnant. I have been trying for about a year and no baby. What dr. do I go see? What can help my chances? I have been with my boyfriend ...
A. 26 June 2007: You pt your boyfriend would love a baby! Shouldn't that have said we would love a baby? anyway.....
Try going and seeing your local family planning clinic or doctors, both you and your partner and get tested to see if things are in working ... (read in full...)
Can I have a short fling with the Italian boy, and not ruin my perfect relationship?
Q. Hi I'm a girl, nearly 18,and I've been with my boyfriend for a year now (who is the same age as me), I love him to bits and we have been engaged for ages now, and everything's just perfect. But there's a problem, last week my mum invited round a ...
A. 26 June 2007: If you want to stay with your fiance then don't meet this guy. Cheating on your partner isn't fair. You want to have fun with this other guy then end things with your partner first!
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Dumped by text... and I want my ex-boyfriend to regret doing it!
Q. I am 15. How can I make my ex boyfriend regret dumping me? He is a coward and dumped me by text. I want to make him regret it... but how?...
A. 26 June 2007: I don't think you can make him regret it as such. I would just forget him and move on sweetie. He's a coward for dumping you that way rather then coming and talking to you. Show him you aren't torn up by what he did and you are loving life. That'll ... (read in full...)
How do you know if men fancy you???
Q. Does anybody know what the signs are that a man fancies you? You know how he acts around you and treats you? ...
A. 26 June 2007: Some become flirty with you and treat you "different" to other females. It depends on the guy and how shy he is.
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Why am I not invited to go with him to his brothers wedding!?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 15 months. We are both well in our thirties and have been married before. I have met his family and they all really like me. His brother is getting married in August and it looks like he wants to go to his bro...
A. 26 June 2007: Definetly sit down and chat with him about it. He may just think you don't want to go or something silly like that. You may find showing an interest in going he may change his mind about going alone and invite you along
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Breast feeding my new baby has some ... interesting effects on me!
Q. Hello, I am a 27 year old new mom. This will sound weird but I'm very embarrassed to ask this to any friends or family, as it is obviously a little strange. I breast feed, and every time I do so, I get turned on. Now I would NEVER do anything...
A. 26 June 2007: Congratulations on the new baby.
This is something that came up with a group of people I chat with about all this pregnant and baby orientated. I myself will be a mum in under 4 months and at first found this quite shocking, but when I sat and ... (read in full...)
Our relationship is an endless cycle: argue, split up and get back together. How do we stay together w/out breaking up??
Q. Me and my boyfriend (ex for the time being) keep on splitting up and getting back together. when we split up we both seem its the best thing to do and say horrible things to each other and are glad its over, but then a week later, maybe less we end ...
A. 26 June 2007: Stop ending it with each other then. Rather then ending it with each other take some time out after an argument to chill out then talk about things. If you can talk to each other before an argument kicks off then that's even better.
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I can't stop thinking about this other guy! How can I split with my husband?
Q. hi, recently i've been having feelings for an ex, we have spent a bit of time together, problem is he has a girlfriend and i am married. I have been unhappy with my husband for quite a while now, long before this other guy came on the scene again....
A. 26 June 2007: Sit down and talk about how you feel with your husband. The fact you don't feel happy in the relationship and haven't for some time being a main factor. Then take some time out for you to get over the break up. If your ex wants to be with you he'll ... (read in full...)
My bf and his parents know that I'm 9 weeks pregnant, but how do I tell MY parents??
Q. Hi I need help breaking the news..... adive and tips I'm 9 weeks pregnant and going through a very tough pregnancy i developed hypertension and this could be come critical for me and the baby.I have told my bf about everything and the only other p...
A. 26 June 2007: Sit down and chat it through with your parents one evening. Don't rush tell them but sit down and chat it through properly. I am currently 23 weeks pregnant and I was petrified of telling my parents but it has to be done. It's not something you can ... (read in full...)
Things with my bf of 7 months are going downhill quickly. We're on break now, but I'm not sure what to do with it anymore!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 7 months and we've had our fair share of arguments but we're very much in love, up until recently. We'd been pretty much living together until a couple of weeks ago when I decided to move home because of probl...
A. 26 June 2007: Talk to him about it hunni. It's not fair either of you hanging waiting for the other to decide what to do. Explain how you feel and ask him how he feels then go from there. :)
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I'm worried that the pill will cause me to gain weight - I have a knee injury and can't exercise!
Q. I've been having severe break-outs on my face (acne/pimples) for the last 6 months. They are also very painful. I never had any problems with acne before. I also noticed that my periods have not been regular in the last 6 months. And very scanty ...
A. 26 June 2007: I don't think the pill makes you put weight on but if you can't exercise be careful what you eat. I don't mean cut out everything like chocolate. Just remember to eat a varied diet until you can start exercising again.
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My teacher is so hot and I am in love with her!
Q. I'm a 17 year old. And I'm in love with my teacher. What i would like to know is if she likes me back. hear are some things that have happened that makes me wonder. on my birthday she smiled and winked at me and gave the class a free day. the ne...
A. 26 June 2007: DO NOT ACT ON THIS. She is your teacher and it is against the law. She'll loose her job. It doesn't matter if she likes you back or not, just be a student and try and move on from the the feelings you have.
She shouldn't be acting the way she is e... (read in full...)
Girls tell me he cheats. Is it just cause they want him for themselves or is he really cheating?
Q. I love my boyfriend to death but girls tell me he's cheating. Most of the ones who tell me want him for their self. When I ask him he swears he's not, but sometimes I dont see him for like days. Then he comes back and tells me he stayed with one of ...
A. 26 June 2007: Don't believe what these other girls tell you unless they have proof. Unfortunetly people get jealous and will try and split you and your boyfriend up. If you trust he hasn't cheated on you again then tell these other girls to shut up because you ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my female teacher
Q. I am a 16 year old girl and I have a crush on my teacher. That would be fine if it was a man, but it isn't. She's a very hot woman I just have to be around. I need help to get her out of my mind. What can I do? If my parents found out they'd shoot ...
A. 26 June 2007: You can like other females. I never felt attracted to a female teacher, but I felt attracted to female celebs in my teens. It's a completely normal thing to go through, as strange as that sounds.
As Penta says do not act on the attracti... (read in full...)
My ex says she misses me and I think I feel the same but I have a new love interest
Q. My ex and I had a rough going of separate ways. After a month she has contacted me and told me that she misses me. I am currently seeing another woman... although not my girlfriend, we have went on a few dates. My ex has quite the past in drug...
A. 26 June 2007: I would say to your ex that you have moved on. You sound like you really like the woman you are dating and that could have a future.
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Jealous of my 'friend with benefits''' new boyfriend
Q. i feel like in a 3rd wheel. my friends with benifits has a boyfriend and at 1st i was cool with that. she knows i love her and she says she loves me too.i want to be more than just friends w/benifits but she wont dump her boyfriend. i know i cant ...
A. 26 June 2007: If you love this girl then being a "fuck buddy" isn't a wise thing to do. I would walk away especially since she has a boyfriend. You need to set her an ultimatum. It's the boyfriend or you- end of. She can't keep playing the both of you along and ... (read in full...)
Rememberance
Q. In remembrance- For one time, I thought it might be ok to skip a question and just give condolences to someone recently past. WWE wrestler Chris Benoit, and his family were all found dead in the their Atlanta, Georgia home. Chris Benoit was a tru...
A. 26 June 2007: RIP Chris Benoit.
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Should I let this row just be our break up, or should I patch things up even if it's only temporary?
Q. Should I let this row become a break-up? We are both in our 40s, have gone through our separate divorces since knowing each other 4 years ago and we are looking to move together. The problem is that we live 70 miles apart and because of our ...
A. 26 June 2007: If you really believe she is wrong. Apologise for your part of the argument and explain why you think she was wrong to her. She may not see that she was in the wrong.
A long distance relstionship is hard. I'm pregnant by my partner with no other... (read in full...)
Broke up with him because the sex was too painful... should I give him another chance?
Q. Hi, I broke it off with my boyfriend because sex with him was extremely painful. It was my first time and i felt he was not as gentle as i would have liked him to be. We never even kissed for he said he hates kissing and there was no fore play. wh...
A. 26 June 2007: Sit down and chat with him. A girl needs foreplay to loosen up and its not fair just because he doesn't like it that he shouldn't give any. Tell him you don't want sex like that again.
If there was a lot of blood I would get checked out at your ... (read in full...)
Should I tell a guy I like him before he leaves?
Q. I like this guy and he is 15. He used to live in my neighborhood and I like him a lot. But I am only 12 right now. He is only visiting his grandmother for the summer and will be going back to Alaska in August. I like him a lot, but he will be ...
A. 26 June 2007: I agree with Jamer70- go for it and tell him how you feel. I doubt what you are feeling is love right now, but it sounds like you are attracted to this guy. I've been in a long distance relationship for 3 years and at times it is hard but it's worth ... (read in full...)
I'm about to have a baby and I can't get my man to get a job--do I leave?
Q. I am 8 and a half months pregnant. I am supporting my fiance because he will not get a job. I pay his child support for his 7 year old, his cigarettes, food, car, gas- everything! He drives my car and lives in my house. I'm running out of money fast ...
A. 26 June 2007: Kick him out or at least stop giving him money. You need to think about you and your child. While you pay this guys way he won't get off his ass. Cut his funds and let the mother of his other child start demanding he pay. It's his responsibility, ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't trust me because I have girls on my facebook and myspace pages!
Q. My gf recently got very mad at me for having girls on my msn and my facebook. she even found out that i had a conversation with an ex gf of mine, i ensured her it was nothing and just a catch up (which it was) but now she says she doesnt trust me, ...
A. 26 June 2007: Explain to your girlfriend that you can't drop your girl friends for her. I would seriously think about if you want a relationship like this or not. If your girlfriend really doesn't trust you then there isn't much hope as that is one of the ... (read in full...)
I like a girl who is with someone else--what do I do?
Q. I am 12. There is this girl and she has a boy friend and they have been together quite a while. I really want this girl to like me too, but if I get between her and her boyfriend it might spoil our relationship so WHAT DO I DO? ...
A. 26 June 2007: Just be friends with her. You have no right to come between her and her boyfriend and she may never forgive you for doing so. Stay her friend and you may find her and this guy don't work out for other reasons. Then you can have a stab at asking her ... (read in full...)
How do I win a girl's heart?
Q. How do I get rid of my spots and what do I need to get to a girl's heart? I have no success with woman and I feel this site is my only hope. ...
A. 26 June 2007: If you have bad acne and nothing seems to work on getting rid of the spots try seeing your doctor as they may be able to give you some medication to help keeping the spots at bay.
As for a girl's heart all you can do is be yourself and someone ... (read in full...)
Has masturbating changed me?
Q. I am 15 and have been masturbating since last year and I've noticed my "stuff" has stretched and become a brownish purply colour...what does this mean??...
A. 26 June 2007: If you are that worried get it checked by your doctor. But I think it something called "Wanker's Ring". Tend to appear after lots of masterbation on some guys. As far as I know its harmless.
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He sleeps with me but doesn't end his relationship--what do I do?
Q. Well, I'm gay, 20, and have fallen for this amazing guy who's exactly like me. We went on holiday for a month with 6 others (including his boyfriend) and well, on holiday we got to know each other more. We kissed and got really close. Once we came ...
A. 26 June 2007: Tell him if he wants you he has to end it with the boyfriend. If he chooses to stay with the boyfriend then you need to walk away from him in the romantic sense. The guy needs to choose which one of you he wants and not string you along.
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I want to cheat with a taken guy--can I justify it?
Q. Hi Hoping you guys can give me some advice, I have a crush on a guy who comes into my place of work (not a colleague) I really like him and I'm certain the feeling is mutual, but he has a girlfriend. I know we can't have a relationship, wh...
A. 25 June 2007: No you cannot justify even kissing this guy never mind a night of passion. NOTHING can happen with him until he breaks things off with his girlfriend. Or should that be IF he breaks things off. How would you feel in her shoes? I would leave well ... (read in full...)
I haven't had my period, but a pregnancy test was negative--help?
Q. I'm really really confused--my boyfriend and I had sex about a month and a half ago with no contraception. I still haven't had my period, so I did a pregnancy test and it said I wasn't. Can you help me? I don't know what it could be....
A. 25 June 2007: Worrying yourself silly makes your period late. It's part of sod's law that one. You can wait a few days and do another test. Or go see your doctor who will test you for free and get a result right away.
I would also see about finding out abou... (read in full...)
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