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He sleeps with me but doesn't end his relationship--what do I do?

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Question - (25 June 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 July 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *s273 writes:

Well, I'm gay, 20, and have fallen for this amazing guy who's exactly like me. We went on holiday for a month with 6 others (including his boyfriend) and well, on holiday we got to know each other more. We kissed and got really close. Once we came back we both admitted that we are both falling in love with each other and things have even got more tense since we had sex.

But, he's in a 3 year relationship and always complains about his boyfriend but not ending it with him...I really want him, what do I do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2007):

he is having his cake and eating it-literally. cheaters dont change, takes one to know how one is, selfawareness is the key

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (26 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntTell him if he wants you he has to end it with the boyfriend. If he chooses to stay with the boyfriend then you need to walk away from him in the romantic sense. The guy needs to choose which one of you he wants and not string you along.

xxxxxxx

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A female reader, penta United States +, writes (25 June 2007):

penta agony auntIf he cheats with you he will cheat on you. Leave him and find someone else. You'll be much happier.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2007):

flower girl agony auntYou have to tell him it's him or me as you are no longer prepared to be the other man, if he really loves you he will chose to be with you.

Take care.xxx.

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