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Should I tell a guy I like him before he leaves?

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Question - (25 June 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2007)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I like this guy and he is 15. He used to live in my neighborhood and I like him a lot. But I am only 12 right now. He is only visiting his grandmother for the summer and will be going back to Alaska in August. I like him a lot, but he will be leaving soon and plus I never see him anymore. The next time I see him should I tell him how I feel?

Signed,

Hopeless in Love

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A female reader, alteran05 United States +, writes (2 July 2007):

alteran05 agony aunttell him, but BE careful.. even though its not that big of a gap in yrs... at ur ages.. its huge! dont jump into anything quickly.. take things slowly and see how it turns out... good luck, and if hes not interested... there will be others

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A female reader, rammsteinfan United States +, writes (26 June 2007):

rammsteinfan agony auntI agree with everyone else here....I think you should tell him before he leaves!!

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (26 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntI agree with Jamer70- go for it and tell him how you feel. I doubt what you are feeling is love right now, but it sounds like you are attracted to this guy. I've been in a long distance relationship for 3 years and at times it is hard but it's worth it at the same time!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007):

Dear one

You are way too young to be in love. Sure, you can be friend with that young man but there are some limits in life that you have to respect.

you will meet plenty of man in you life and all of them will be different from the last one (even though we may seem the same to you). But the reason they are different is that you are changing as well. Your point of views to life will change during your teenage years and when the time comes, you will know.

Good luck

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntI reckon you should.

I mean you will be kicking yourself your ages if you dont. And if you do only 2 things can happen. He can say no - you'll be hurt for a while, only a while though. Or he can say he likes you and ou could have a sumer love and even after he moves you could talk on MSN etc.

Believe me telling him your feeling is the best thing, no matter the outcome, though its not that easy finding the right time and setting.

Good luck

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