I want to look more feminine for my boyfriend (but I HATE pink). Any advice?
Q. Hi. I want to look more feminine for my boyfriend but I don't know how. I'm 22 so i should know but I don't. Usually I wear jeans and t shirts sometimes a skirt but I look really fat and horrible and don't feel at all girly. I'm a size 14/16 and ...
A. 21 July 2008: okay
wear a really nice floaty skirt and a nice top (this is working for me today. my boyfriend is loving it ) it doesn't have to be really long, but something patterned or floaty. don't try to hide your body!!!!
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I'm dreading his last day but what can I do?
Q. Ive been mates with a lad now for just over two years and I really really really like him. Not just as a mate...I think Ive fallen for him too. Hes in my thoughts CONSTANTLY, I stay awake thinking of him at night, everything about him is perfect to ...
A. 20 July 2008: I know it may sound cheesy and even immature but why not give him a letter the day before he goes, tell him to open it once he gets there and for him to contact u as soon as hes done. In the letter u tell him how u feel even how much it hurts, tell ... (read in full...)
What can I do to see if this boy likes me?
Q. I've liked a boy for quite a while and we've become quite good friends now. At first we didn't get on that well but now all of a sudden he's been really nice to me and asked me for hugs and stuff like that. I don't know if he likes me or not and ...
A. 20 July 2008: Have you got his msn or bebo (something like this?) this would be the first way of contact and working it out. Get to know him, obviously if hes having deep conversations and your getting along pretty well I would say there is something there
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Do guys REALLY want skinny girls?
Q. ok heres my question do guys really want really skinny gf's???? i know its talked about all the time but nobody ever asks real everyday men! i'm 14/16 is that too big? is that normal? what do you guys think of women and their bodies...
A. 20 July 2008: My boyfriend loves my curves don't worry about your size. Bigger is definetely beautiful (:
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Would you cheat on a boat with George Clooney?
Q. If you were married and knew it was going to be the end of the world and you were on a boat with George Clooney, would you cheat? What movie star would get you to cheat?...
A. 15 July 2008: Why George Clooney?
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How did you meet your partner?
Q. Hi everyone, I've had a lot on my mind today so to lighten the mood I wanted to find out somthing dreamy. You see, every guy I have ever been with I have met after a big night at a party or the pub/club. Im not an alco or anything I just like (well ...
A. 15 July 2008: my boyfriend is best friends with my ex :P (see thats a good starting point!)
we met up like loads. i worked out my ex wasn't what i wanted...found out my current boyfriend liked me. we waited and ended up asking each other out at the same time :)
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I'm auditioning for a play, any advice to calm down nerves?
Q. Hey, It's not a relationship problem but I was wondering whether anyone had any advice for calming nerves and to feel confident as I'm auditioning for Les Miserables this evening!! Any advice would be great! ...
A. 12 July 2008: deep breathing and believeing in yourself can help wonders :)... (read in full...)
How do I get her to stop worrying about my adolescent sexual experiences??
Q. Hi I've been with my gf for 2 years now, I love her to death. She is the second woman I have ever slept with, the first was my girlfriend that I had between the ages of 13 and 16 (on and off, mostly off- I dumped her for good a few weeks after I ...
A. 12 July 2008: just sit her down one day and tell her how you feel and what happened. she should trust you and if she doesn't this may need to be addressed.
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Is there a particular age that a woman, is assumed to be sexually active or not a virgin?
Q. At what age is it assumed a woman is sexually active? For men, is it a turn off to find out a woman is a virgin? Especially, of those men that are of mature age? For women, how old were some of you when you lost your virginity? What sort of pre...
A. 12 July 2008: i would agree with lotus mama but 12-13 is an insane age. i was slightly more sensible and lost it just after my 15th birthday. and there were no pressures.... (read in full...)
I am in need of a website, or magazine, which show different hairstyles, can anyone help me, thanks?
Q. i really want to get a new hairstyle. i have been growing my hair for quite sometime and am wondering weather or not i now want long hair. i dont really have a clue about boys hairstyles aorund my age and have been trying to find a website or mag...
A. 11 July 2008: google it. go through different rock magazines, female magazines anything you can go through. google and any hair stylists will have some. can i recommend you not go to extreme however- school rules and all that
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She's shy, we have talked on-line, but not in person, going to ask her out on actual date, any advice?
Q. There's this girl I have known for a while, I met her through a friend and our friendship built online. Eventually me, her and our friends would have to go out together as friends...and apparently she had the hots for me which made everything ...
A. 11 July 2008: okay. just say to her how would u want to go out one day or something (give ideas like the beach, a picnic, bowling, cinema that kinda thing). see how she takes it and work around that
good luck
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Will a teen boy accept a girl with braces?
Q. Does anybody know if braces turn a boy off. I mean I'm trying to get a boy to notice me and like me, but with acne, glasses, and bad hair, braces aren't going to help me very much. It kind of lowers my self esteem on how I look. I just don't know if ...
A. 11 July 2008: i have braces.
they do not make you talk funny and they are perfectly fine with the looks wise. my current boyfriend has had them and doesn't mind them either.
not many people notice them now. only when i have the colours changed rather dramatic... (read in full...)
I feel terrible about my looks, even though people tell me I'm pretty,
Q. Is it true that you don't see yourself the way others see you? Everyone tells me that I am so pretty and so beautiful. Not a day goes by that I do not get a compliment like that. Even from complete strangers, they come up to me and tell me that I am ...
A. 10 July 2008: people have different perspectives and you grow to live with them. fight them all you want there will always be someone out there with an opinion as you just can not stop that :) try and take it in your stride and don't be too shocked its good that ... (read in full...)
Do some girls object to receiving oral sex
Q. is it true that some girls dont like being eaten out?...
A. 9 July 2008: That is true. I completely refused it before my current boyfriend... I now love it :)... (read in full...)
What should I do about my vile friend? She's getting mean!
Q. hello ! i have a freind and shes my best freind and she has started to be mean to me for no apparent reason. she comments on things i say even if they dont involve her she constantly has a little go at me for no reason.today a girl who i am not fon...
A. 30 June 2008: talk to her and find out what is going on and why she is being like this. if she continues...well to be honest she probably isn't worth your upset...
good luck
mail me if you want to chat
sparkii x... (read in full...)
Do I need to apply sunscreen in the evening?
Q. I have a question about sunscreen. Do I need to apply sunscreen spf 30 in the evening? Such as around 8:00pm and there is still a bit of sun outside. I usually excercise in the evening outside....
A. 24 June 2008: you could go for a lower one at more frequency. it depends on how hot it is and how quick you burn
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The girl my mate likes likes me. And I like her too!
Q. I have some problems and i dont no what to do. You see my bestfriend kept talking about this girl he likes so one day he took me to met her and she was nice. We all had a laugh so we decided to carry on going out as a kind of group. The problem is ...
A. 24 June 2008: do you know that your bestfriend definetely likes the girl? if he does i would say wait just a couple of weeks and make sure this is wat you want. if he definetely doesn't then talk to her see how she really feels and whether she would be ready to ... (read in full...)
I need to find a birthday present. He loves God, music, lSU, the Dallas Cowboys and Jessica Simpson...
Q. Dear Cupid, My crush/best guy friend has a birthday coming up, and I need some ideas as to what I should get him. He's turning eighteen, if that helps any. As for his likes, he's VERY into music (he sings and plays the guitar), and God is absol...
A. 24 June 2008: gig tickets would definetely be an idea here :)
or
don't they do like nascar experiences over there where you get to have a go in one?
or was that just in the bonus features on films (if it wasn't that would be a good idea :) )
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I really love my best friend but she is going out with one of my best friends... what do I do?
Q. I love my best friend but she is going out with one of my good m8's for the past year and a half ,and i have loved her for 4 years now! And i can't tell her how i feel or it could ruin our friendship. He has lost intrest in her and she kinda knows ...
A. 24 June 2008: love is just a feeling and can dissolve in time, your friend shouldn't be scared to leave her boyfriend, if she really is try and support her through it. but i do think you should tell her, just to get it off your chest and even to work on the ... (read in full...)
My dance teacher and I were a couple for about a month, next week I will see him again, should I talk to him or ignore him?
Q. hey everyone...well i liked this guy who was my dance teacher..he liked me too and he asked me out...we were together for a month and i fell inlove with him.. we were together everyday and on the fone everyday....then he called later then usual to ...
A. 22 June 2008: see how it goes. if it feels right to talk to him then do. don't make the conversation really "heavy" keep it chatty (eg. how hes been, "up to much"?). don't worry about him so much that you don't enjoy the party
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I'm caught up between my best friend and boyfriend - help!
Q. my boyfriend and best friend hate eachother...but for some reason i think its because there attracted to each other...but they are cousins so idk...and everytime i wanna be with my best friend my boyfriend's wants me to be with him and i dont wanna ...
A. 15 June 2008: okay if they both want you to see them then there is one easy solution in my mind. there are two days to a weekend each gets you for one day. and for the attraction thing- give it a couple of weeks and if your still seeing red talk to him. why don't ... (read in full...)
I've missed coursework deadlines and now I'm worried my overall grade may suffer. How can I calm myself down??
Q. Hello all. This may not be a relationship question, but I could really use your advice. All of my college assignments must be handed in by Monday afternoon. I have been a good student. I've put a lot of effort into my work over the past 2 years...
A. 14 June 2008: okay get some music tell no one to call you and get on with it. there is still time i'm sure. and if not and you get to monday and its not done ask for an extension of just one day to boost you up.
good luck
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How do I go about getting a boyfriend?
Q. This is going to sound so strange... I'm sixteen and I've never had a real boyfriend. I had a girlfriend for about seven months late last year/early this year which is now a complete train wreck (I think I'm bi), but I haven't kissed a guy sin...
A. 9 June 2008: find a guy you really like the look of and maybe just ask outright for his msn or mobile to get to know him better? it will get easier once your schools become co-ed trust me :D
good luck
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Is it bad to keep painting and repainting your nails?!?
Q. Hey everyone I don't know if any of you will know the answer to this question but every question I have asked so far has been answered so maybe I'll get lucky and someone will know this one I like to paint my nails alot and I like to change ...
A. 9 June 2008: not going to repeat what everyone is saying :] but why not use a clear strengthening varnish for a couple of days, i can understand why you would want to match your outift...but is there a colour you wear most..if there is wear that nail ... (read in full...)
How can I make her see that we'd be perfect together as we share the same interests?
Q. I fell in love with the most beautiful, talented, amazing girl in the world and well she dosn't fell the same. I love her more than anything in the world. There was a time when I thought that perhaps she loved me and it was the best moment of my ...
A. 9 June 2008: try and continue the friendship even though it hurts, be yourself and don't let her see that your in pain with this but also try and move on, if she has feelings for this other guy then it is clear you will only get hurt.
if u want anymore ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I are both really shy around each other. Does anyone have any tips?
Q. dear cupid, my boyfriend and i have been going out for over a year now and we are both still really shy around each other. can you please give us some tips on how to overcome that shyness? ...
A. 8 June 2008: when you say shy what do you mean? just try a bit more talking, ask about the day try a few hugs and see how he takes it
good luck
email if you want anymore advice
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Should I let her know how I feel before she leaves forever?
Q. Ive known this girl for 2 years now. At first things were kind of confusing and many awkward/embarrassing situations occurred. We got to know each other and over time, we became good friends and after a while best friends. During the first year o...
A. 7 June 2008: definetely tell her :] itll not only make you feel better but give you closure and you can then both decide what to do. keep chatting to her and keep in touch make sure she knows that your not gonna forget about her.
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I need both guys and girls points of view!
Q. I need both guys and girls points of view! Basically,I am 14 and have given and recieved oral and today at school i stupidley let it slip. None of my friends have even given a hand job. i am very old in my year (year 9)as my b'day is in sep and wi...
A. 6 June 2008: its fine not to regret it. just keep to yourself for a while. don't let anyone know whats going on and work out who and who not to trust with your problems and life. we will always be judged by what we do...its really stupid :(... (read in full...)
How often do people see or contact their boyfriends and girlfriends each week on average?
Q. I'm just curious as to how often people see their bfs/gfs each week on average? And on the days that you do not see your bf/gf do you always contact them by phone/email/text message to see how they are going? Thanks for the replies in advance :...
A. 3 June 2008: Id have to say me and my boyfriend see each other 3 maybe 4 times a week and we text constantly...my poor phone bill :(
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Any suggestions on how to reach an orgasm?
Q. I've tried masturbating but i cant orgasm. i think i might have orgasms when i let water run on my clit in the bath but im not sure. Any suggestions on how to reach and orgasm?...
A. 28 May 2008: not many women can orgasm but if you think you can just try out different methods...vibrator maybe? there should be some ideas on google if that is any help
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Can circumcision be reversed?
Q. i have a girlfriend and we been together for like 6 months and were planning on having sex but i have a circumsised penis....can i asked a docter to uncircumsise is or no??...
A. 27 May 2008: it is not possible to uncircumscise a penis but there are other ways of being together and horny or whatever, not just sex. it says your 10-12 and that really isn't a good time to start having sex, as said below your girl's hormones are prob all ... (read in full...)
We know what a 69 is but whats a 35?? Are there any more numbers that mean sexual acts??
Q. me and my friend were wondering whats 35, we know whats a 69...and would there happen to be more of these that mean sexual acts??...
A. 27 May 2008: http://www.sensualinteractive.com/si/position.php?posID=1035
[NSFW]
not sure if this is what your looking for but hey :]
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Please take a minute to pray for me...
Q. My heart cant take much more! Well i've still been sticking it out with my boyfriend who is still talking and kissing his ex's behind, just so he can have a calm relationship with his kids. I need a prayer request please!!! I want to be strong eno...
A. 21 May 2008: Your in my prayers darling :]
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Are teenage girls so worried about pubic hair?
Q. Hello I was talking to my girlfriend about "stuff" yesterday and turns out that herself and most of her friends are all a little worried about how their pubes look, like how they shave them or how they don't shave them. Can any other women ...
A. 11 May 2008: well yeah im a teenager...and i gotta admit i do worry, its worse when a girl gets into a relationship because then its like "will he laugh at me for having them" and "should i shave them off" etc.
why do you ask...if i'm allowed to wonder?... (read in full...)
What's a corsage, where would I get one, and how much?
Q. People suggested for prom a corsage. What is it? How much? Where from in uk?...
A. 11 May 2008: most florists will do them, just a small bunch of flowers, tie it in with the colour of your dates dress :]
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I want to go on the pill. Will the doctor tell anyone?
Q. hey i am worried i am 14 and want to go on the pill but i cnt let my mum find out so i was just wondring if i sneack to the doctors will they tell my mum or any of the family ...
A. 4 May 2008: They can't its patient confidentiality, unless the parents demand to see it.... (read in full...)
I don't think he went all the way, but he said he did cum. Now I don't know what to do. Help!
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesteday, i don't think he went all the way but he said he did cum. I'm so worried i don't know what to do! I can't tell my parents, and i don't know if i can go doctor's without them? HELP!...
A. 4 May 2008: you should be able to go to the school nurse and get help. but can i ask where the condom was? try and remember next time so that this doesn't happen again hun :]... (read in full...)
What can I do for our 2 years anniversary?
Q. its coming up to me and my girlfriends 2 years together and i wanted to do something for her that shows her how much i love her because last year we just went to dinner and came home and she didnt seem too impressed. any ideas? ...
A. 27 April 2008: something completely romantic...whats she like with heights and things? but make it romantic AND enjoyable think what she likes and work round that
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In medicine school and only one month until exams-how many hours a day study should I do?
Q. hey i am in medicine school and i have less than one month for my exams..i wanted to know how many hours per day of study is required???i tend to get distracted by phone,or just log on facebook for hours.how do i keep myself foucussed.....
A. 27 April 2008: i would say keep the music but get rid of facebook and the tv. it might just be me coz i love music but i do find with something tiny in the background it does help :] and it depends how large the topic is. couple of hours a night, give it a break ... (read in full...)
How to I get the guy who is my almost boyfriend to kiss me?
Q. How to I get the guy who is my almost boyfriend to kiss me? He and I see each other on average once every two weeks, because we go to different schools, and he lives near my BFF and every time i go to her house, we head over to his on bike and ...
A. 27 April 2008: okay see how he feels...but why not try starting the kiss...if he reacts then he likes it...if not well then u really know whats going on.
just another perspective on it :]
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