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Heyyy to all the beautiful people out there,

I guess you could say I'm just another teenager trying to help the world :) Its a good thing really

Anyway, if anyone needs any help then message me

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My best friend said he'd go out with me and kiss me if I lost weight. Is it worth the effort?

Q.   So there's this guy I like, and we have been friends for about 2 years. He's my best friend, and I love him. Well a couple weeks ago I told him that I liked him. Which he thought was a little weird,thankfully it wasn't really awkard. Anyways a ...

A.   31 December 2011: NO NO NO NO! No guy is worth you losing the weight or whatever- you do it for YOU. not for some guy that (not trying to be harsh) could be really nasty for all you know! You and he should love you for you. Not for what he wants you to be- your not ... (read in full...)

Deep throating without gagging?

Q.   Looking to hear from fellow females on the subject of deep throating. I have been trying to do it for my man but end up gagging within seconds. Is there a good way to do it without gagging? I heard if you lay on a bed with your head hanging over the ...

A.   29 December 2011: There is the refusal to do it or (and this sometimes works sometimes doesn't) roll your hand into a fist and hold it into whatever surface ur on, you concentrate more on that than your gag reflexes x... (read in full...)

The timing is perfect - so how do not mess things up?

Q.   Hi. I've known this one girl for a very long time (25 years to be exact). Always been friends and we were even next door neighbors for 16 years... and then she moved an hour away the summer after sophomore year of high school and we lost touch for ...

A.   26 December 2011: Well if your talking as much as you say, and have as much in common, ask her if she wants to go out for dinner or something, at first just as friends and see where that takes you. Drunken sex shouldn't be the start of a relationship but if you have ... (read in full...)

I'm 19, he's 33 - can it work? Opinions please.

Q.   Hello, I am 19, and have only had one other relationship with a boy who was 21. He was a kind person and a good first boyfriend, but he didn't want anything serious and was more interested in going to the bars all night with his friends (somethi...

A.   26 December 2011: I have to admit, it does depend on the two people. I recently had the same kind of situation but with a 29 year old. We didn't get as far as a relationship (no matter what he may have said to the contrary) but it became very fast paced and very ... (read in full...)

How do I hide that I'm no longer a virgin?

Q.   I am deeply in love with a day i mate((sex) with a condam) with his at that time my hyman was broken and bleeded. now he doesn't have any interest in me so can i get marry another person? if so can that person know about my virginity? what i ...

A.   26 December 2011: I don't know exactly what the rules are where you are from regarding your question. Using pelvic floor muscles (look them up on Google if your confused) you might be able to "tighten up", but if it does come to crunch time and your confronted about ... (read in full...)

Tips for time management?

Q.   Lets get all the issues out there. I have a huge problem with time management and my lovely wife has decided the way to try and punish me is to be passive agressive. I want to fix the lateness issue. Example tonight was xmas eve. She got dressed ...

A.   24 December 2011: I have three tips. One a watch. Two a diary and Three quicker showers :) Make it your new years resolution! :) xxx... (read in full...)

What did he mean by this?

Q.   A guy said this to me: "I get worried when we both start flirting because I don't know if were both still joking or being serious". I'm not really sure what he meant. What did he mean by this??...

A.   24 December 2011: Sounds to me like he's scared of yours and his feelings, if things are serious from either end then you need a chat me thinks! Its best that your both on the same page, because if your both not joking and you think you are, you could be about to ... (read in full...)

My b/f's ex calls every month to remind his to pay his support and its stressing us out!

Q.   My boyfriend pays his child maintenance on the first of every month and he has never defaulted, pays the full amount plus extras, but the ex phones him first thing in the morning every single first day of the month, every month without fail to tell ...

A.   24 December 2011: Get a regular standing order set up to her. That way she can't whinge as it will go in about 1am every first of the month :) most banks can do this for you x... (read in full...)

What vibrator should I get?

Q.   Hi everyone this is a question for the women lol I was thinking of buying a rabbit vibrator as I can't have a orgasm on my own which rampant rabbit vibrator is best do you think I was thinking of getting the thrusting one is this any good thank you ...

A.   30 November 2011: Hey :) If your new to this, I'd personally recommend a bullet. There bloody awesome and perfect for the first few go's. I've heard the thrusters are better if you are used to the vibes and the sizes that they come in :) SB x ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to have sex four or five times in one night?

Q.   I was having a lighthearted chat with my boyfriend this morning about first-time sex. I'm a virgin, he's not, and after almost a year together we're planning to go through with it soon. So we were talking about condoms etc. and to cut a long sto...

A.   25 November 2011: To put it bluntly. Yes it can happen :) For me it only happens when my boyfriend is rather drunk- but the sex drive of males and females varies from day to day as you probably already knew :) It can hurt after a while to warn you, so just try once ... (read in full...)

Taking the pill while pregnant?

Q.   if i'm pregnant, and i dont know, and i keeep taking my birth control regularly, when it comes time for my period, will i get it? or spot? or not bleeed at all? please help mee....

A.   14 July 2010: Hey sweetie. If your taking the pill properly and reguarly etc you shouldn't get pregnant. The pill has like a 98% (or something near to that figure) chance of working so you shouldn't really get pregnant if taking it correctly. And as for the ... (read in full...)

Is there REALLY an age limit on love???

Q.   Hi! My boyfriend of almost six months is 19 turning 20 in August and I`m 15 turning 16 in September, I look older for my age and I`m also more mature than most 15 year old girls. I know a lot of teenagers say that, but, no, I REALLY am. I`m going to ...

A.   8 July 2010: my best friend is 17 and her boyfriend is 25, they've been together for two years and have got everything they could ever wish for in each other. that's eight years difference and they are perfect together just an insight :) SB :) x... (read in full...)

Is my body changing or am I getting fat?

Q.   I'm a 14 year old girl. I play sport and I have been skinny my whole life .. until now. the past few months I've noticed I have stretch marks on my inner thighs, my hips, and my boobs. I also gained bad love handles and a small gut. I weigh 121 lbs ...

A.   22 June 2010: Hey sweetie :) Your body is trying to balance out with itself- hence creating your figure at the moment- it will change but you need to bear with it. On the side of the stretch marks, you can get products to heal those up it's not a life-lon... (read in full...)

Why does my boyfriend not want me as much as I want him?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 8 months now, and our sex life has decreased quite a bit. For the first two months, we were having sex at the least once a day. Ever since 2010 started, our sex life has taken a major decline. Now, we ...

A.   22 June 2010: Hey sweetie, Maybe there was a little too much sex at the start of the relationship to which you got your hopes up of this carrying on, however with his issues of debt are going to stress him out meaning you are less likely to be able to have the... (read in full...)

Could I be afraid of a long term relationship?

Q.   So, I need some advice or maybe some pointers in the right direction. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months this Thursday. I had a trust issue with him, but I'm learning to trust him now. I think I may almost completely trust him but a ...

A.   22 June 2010: Hey sweetie :) There is such a thing as being scared of committement, this can come from anything like an ex boyfriend or just your personality in general (as in you don't like being tied down to one thing or person) and trust issues are understa... (read in full...)

Is it wrong not to tell someone you plan to sleep with?

Q.   how wrong is it to not tell someone you're going to sleep with that you have genital warts? i mean is it that big of a deal?...

A.   22 June 2010: Oh and to add another point I add to this equation ( even though its english it raises a very good point) http://ww... (read in full...)

How can I increase my chances with this girl I just met?

Q.   Hello, My quesion today is very important to me! The situation im involved in consist of these events. I met a 17 year old girl at a Party on Friday night, and we just conversed among ourselfs for about an hour. and I mentioned remembering her ...

A.   22 June 2010: Hey love :) Loooks a bit messy from where I'm sitting, but if your going to try and win her over, just be yourself and let her do the leg work- she's got the boyfriend after all. If she wants you as badly as it seems then SHE needs to dump her... (read in full...)

She's doing a really good job at keeping me guessing

Q.   Just really quick. Im 17, girl in question is 16. I met this girl and her friends maybe a month ago at a graduation party, about a week before my 7 month relationship ended. Since we broke up, we only hung out once (were supposed to hang out ...

A.   22 June 2010: Hey love :) Try for another day out, that way you can either keep her guessing or work her out for yourself, the signs are looking good however I wouldn't want to assume too quickly, and if you like her as well your setting yourself up for a go... (read in full...)

Is it wrong not to tell someone you plan to sleep with?

Q.   how wrong is it to not tell someone you're going to sleep with that you have genital warts? i mean is it that big of a deal?...

A.   22 June 2010: Hey sweetie, If there is a risk of passing them on then YES its A VERY BIG DEAL. Things like that should be discussed definetely at risk of passing it on. SB :) x... (read in full...)

My friend doesn't want me to go to strip clubs but why???

Q.   Hi i have a question... the situation is my friend gets mad when i go to the strip club... im a virgin but i still go for lap dances... there's strippers that would have sex with me though or at least a bJ and some werent even going to charge.. ...

A.   18 June 2010: Hey :) Looks like your friend here cares more than you both realise. Maybe for your feelings or maybe for you as a person. As I'm not this girl I couldn't enlighten you on that one. And being with a stripper.... I wouldn't say that's a bright m... (read in full...)

I'm done with my friend's emotional games!

Q.   Ok i have this close friend that was my gf but she broke up with me for this other guy..... well i stayed freinds with her and eventually she broke up with that guy, and weve been talking a lot recently she told me i should marry her i said ok after ...

A.   18 June 2010: Hey :) Think you've already got this situation down to a tee. YOU SHOULDN'T BE PUTTING UP WITH THIS. She is obviously playing mind games- and you shouldn't think that this other guy is better, who knows he might be a troll (!). If she can't ma... (read in full...)

Weird question about my friend... help!

Q.   I can't seem to define this relationship I have with this girl and its starting to bug me so I thought I could ask for some help because I don't want to tell her about it since i think it would be weird after. Basically she's my best friend but ...

A.   18 June 2010: Hey :) Okay. Stop trying to define it. IT doesn't need defining just yet, its good that you have this relationship (I wish I had more like them!) just let it progress, how do you feel towards her? Cause this may be where your asking from. Her reli... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing? If so why does it hurt so much?

Q.   Okay so I've been crushing on a teacher of mine for maybe 2 years now, and well, I haven't done much to hide it, and he hasn't done much to stop it. In fact, we're really close like we talk almost every day and we completely understand each other ...

A.   18 June 2010: Hey sweetie, HELL YES YOU MADE THE RIGHT DECISION! No matter how much it hurts at the moment if anything happened with you two it could still get you into trouble as in some cases because you are a former student and so they could assume you w... (read in full...)

Why won't she let me get close to her?

Q.   i'm sorry this is so long, but i really need help, thanks :) basically, for the last 8 months i've been seeing this girl (we're both 19). its not really a 'relationship' but when we go out we always hold hands, hug and kiss each other. the probl...

A.   18 June 2010: Hey :) I don't know about most other females, but myself personally I have a barrier at the moment, due to being hurt a few times etc etc. And when people get close to that barrier I back away. Give her time to work out that your worth trusting... (read in full...)

Is he being really friendly or flirtatious? He has a girlfriend.

Q.   Well, there is a boy in my life of whom I am very fond of and really fancy in all fairness. He has a girlfriend, of whom I am friends with, not really close friends, but a friendship is there. A part of me loves liking him, and the other thinks...

A.   18 June 2010: Hey sweetie, If she is even slightly a friend, then tell him that its not good for their relationship. It doesn't matter (harsh as this sounds) about your fancying when his relationship is on the line, I don't know how old or how long theyve been... (read in full...)

I like him, by my self-esteem is pretty low just now

Q.   Hi all, recently ive fallen for this boy, im 14, so is he. i want to ask him out, but theres such fuss around it, it will spread and become embarassing, and my self-esteem is really low at the moment, from arguments at home to my looks, which is ...

A.   18 June 2010: Hey sweetie :) TALK TO HIM :) Its the best way to initiate anything in the world, if you both have feelings for him then let them grow slightly, you DO NOT want to be rushing into anything to regret it later ( Trust me, I myself have done this man... (read in full...)

Why is he blanking me now?

Q.   on the boy i likes birthday i put happy birthday on his wall but a couple of days later he asked me whether or not i liked him on facebook chat. everyone in the class believd he liked me, he always talked to only me and ALWAYS stares at me in class ...

A.   18 June 2010: Hey sweetie :) Listen if he's blanking you now after all that then either wait for a little while and find out what he's playing at or just ignore it, if he's not going to be clear with you then why bother trying eh? Blunt but true m'love Sor... (read in full...)

Why is porn bad?

Q.   *OP's Original Title* This is more of a question for females. I watch porn and I hate that it upsets my girlfriend. I love her more then anything and try to be a good boyfriend in every way. I clean up after myself, I don't cook a lot but I pay for ...

A.   12 June 2010: Heyyy :) As the ex of a guy who frequently watched porn I can safely say that (well in my opinion at least) its the fact of the choice. My ex was someone that seemed to enjoy asian porn. Skinny asian girls who were pretty and beautiful and ever... (read in full...)

Does it sound like he still has feelings for me?

Q.   I've been in love with a guy for more than half my life. He asked me out when we where younger, but we grew apart. Our mothers are best friends and work together so we go over to their house allot. Im going to be working with him soon. His friend ...

A.   12 June 2010: Hello again :) If you like the one boy, then stick to him, life is too short for someone to decide that they want you straight off and if you have liked the original for a long time then you might as well stick to that :/ But maybe that's me bein... (read in full...)

I feel like theres nothing I can do to improve our friendship. Whats going on in his head?

Q.   Hello :'( I need help. The bottom line is i should cut my friend - this guy out of my life for good. I dont need this but its all got to weird. I know he wants to be friends but i just want to know why? Because this has truely recked my life and ...

A.   9 June 2010: Hey sweetie :) Its pretty obvious as you say that cutting ties wouldn't be possible- there are so many social connections you would end up interacting again. Yet his feelings are confusing and potentially confused for him (I sound like I'm talk... (read in full...)

Does it sound like he still has feelings for me?

Q.   I've been in love with a guy for more than half my life. He asked me out when we where younger, but we grew apart. Our mothers are best friends and work together so we go over to their house allot. Im going to be working with him soon. His friend ...

A.   9 June 2010: Hey sweetie :) It does sound like there is something there, however I'm not quite sure as to what extreme it is, see if you can hang around more often, as it's obvious that there may be a connection there but you both need to relax around each othe... (read in full...)

Pill problems!

Q.   I went to my doctor as I kept feeling dizzy, and she checked me out and couldn't find anything wrong with me. I have been on the pill for about 2 1/2 years and she told me to come off the pill for a couple of months as it could be that. Has anyone ...

A.   9 June 2010: Hey :) If you only use the pill as a form of contraception you might want to get that seen to, as it can be more risky if you forget to take it at the right time etc etc. I had the same problem myself and for me it was that my body got too depe... (read in full...)

How can I win her over and make her see it's worth a shot?

Q.   Okay, So i'm bisexual and there is this girl that I really, really like. She's a year older, and we met through friends in college. She's a lesbian, and has said that she likes me too... But I think I may have blown my chances with her, and I ...

A.   9 June 2010: Hey sweetie, I guess all you can do at the moment is let her have her say- she's obviously confused after the whole guy incident and has every right to be really. If she does come back just give her the truth, tell her your sorry and work for her ... (read in full...)

How long are you supposed to be casually dating before it becomes a proper relationship?

Q.   What's the longest amount of time you've 'seen' someone before you make it a proper relationship. I've been seeing this boy for about 4 months now but he doesn't want to take it further into a relationship yet. It's basically a relationship anyway ...

A.   16 November 2009: you could say ive been seeing a very dear person of mine for the last nine months. if you want to move it on then tell him x... (read in full...)

What should I get my bf for christmas?

Q.   Well we all know xmas is nearly here. me and my bf have been going out for 2years now i really dont know what to buy him for xmas im 15 his 16 ive brought him a silver chain for his bday last yr ive brought him a canvas of us, teddys n that but can ...

A.   10 November 2009: i would do a stocking as well! thats wat im doing for the special guy in my life this year- made harder by the fact his bday is on christmas day but ho hum :P just like socks and chocolates and aftershave, maybe some funny little things =] if u n... (read in full...)

What is the theory on being friends with exes?

Q.   I'm looking for some advice on being friends with ex's. I've gotten some great answers here to other relationship questions. The girl I'm seeing wants me to commit to her in a relationship, but she told me that she still keeps things from every ex ...

A.   20 October 2009: Im friends with both of my exes still now. After everything thats happened with them you learn to accept the flaws and end up moving on really easily if you just give them time :)... (read in full...)

How can I show my long distance girlfriend of 2 months that I love her?

Q.   Okay how can I show my long distance girlfriend of 2 months that I love her? She said I'm not allowed to send her antyhing because she's not a materialistic person and there's more to dating than gifts. So any ideas?...

A.   20 September 2009: write her poetry, corny as it sounds, or a love letter/email :) Sparkiibunny#... (read in full...)

Gift ideas for my boyfriend as we are dating for a year!

Q.   i need help getting a gift for my boyfriend for our one year and /or christmas. we will be dating for a year in the very beginning of december. we're both 16, but we've been friends since we were about 13 and i've helped him through other ...

A.   19 September 2009: how about gig tickets? or one of those experience packs you can get- there must be one musically related in there or even something basketball related, maybe you could find a vintage signed print of his favourite player or one of their shirts/balls? ... (read in full...)

She's committed to him but we sleep naked together. What is going on?

Q.   I met a girl whom I honestly believe is The One for me. We were dating for barely 3 weeks when she told me that she was seeing another man. I accepted that and continued on with the "relationship" because we never said we were exclusive, and t...

A.   19 September 2009: could be one of two things and both of them aren't very nice from what i can see- shes using you because she knows you still have feelings, or she wants the attention, to be honest i dont see how this can work out positiviely for you- there will ... (read in full...)

Husband hit me while drunk and I no longer love/respect him

Q.   I have been married for 18 years, the marriage has always been alittle rocky but for the most part ok. A few months ago when my husband was drunk he hit me in the mouth. He has since stopped drinking and is rather very nice but I no longer love or ...

A.   1 September 2009: Okay I hate to say it, because I know to you this may be hard especially considering my age and stuff, but surely if he's hit you thats an instant ticket out of your life? How do you know that he's not going to do it again? And if he does it again ... (read in full...)

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