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I want to cheat with a taken guy--can I justify it?

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Question - (25 June 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *ulips writes:

Hi

Hoping you guys can give me some advice, I have a crush on a guy who comes into my place of work (not a colleague) I really like him and I'm certain the feeling is mutual, but he has a girlfriend. I know we can't have a relationship, which suits me fine (I'm in a relationship too) but can I justify a night of passion with this man or do I need to leave well alone? Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated (regardless of how harsh they might be!)

Thanks everyone

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (26 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntGood for you hunni!

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A female reader, tulips United Kingdom +, writes (26 June 2007):

tulips is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for the advice everyone, Im going to avoid the guy in question and forget all about it!

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A male reader, agony_uncle_r United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2007):

let me get this clear... you want someone to help you be the most calous,heartless emotionless human you can be?

you dont care you cant have a relationship with him because your in one? well you should be caring, about where your hearts gone.

i suggest if you have so little respect for your bf that you do the decent thing and spilt up with him before you hurt him.

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntNo you cannot justify even kissing this guy never mind a night of passion. NOTHING can happen with him until he breaks things off with his girlfriend. Or should that be IF he breaks things off. How would you feel in her shoes? I would leave well alone and avoid the guy so you don't get tempted!

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2007):

flower girl agony auntOh my god no you can not justify a one night stand with this man you are both in relationships, so if you want to take it further you should end with your partners and if you don't want to do that then you should stay clear as people always end up getting hurt.

Take care.xx.

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