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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My gf recently got very mad at me for having girls on my msn and my facebook. she even found out that i had a conversation with an ex gf of mine, i ensured her it was nothing and just a catch up (which it was) but now she says she doesnt trust me, she says i wont cheat on her but she doesnt trust me to not flirt with girls and things like that. im totally commited to her and wouldnt ever do nething to hurt her, but now with her saying she doesnt trust me it makes me suspicious about what shes doing. almost as if she has a "well hes doing it so i can do it" kind of approach, i just dont know what to do to fix things because i love her and i want to be with her but problems keep arising....HELP!
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (26 June 2007):
 Explain to your girlfriend that you can't drop your girl friends for her. I would seriously think about if you want a relationship like this or not. If your girlfriend really doesn't trust you then there isn't much hope as that is one of the foundations for the basis of a relationship. It sounds like you are beginning to doubt her faithfulness aswell.
You both need to sit down and have a serious chat about what you both want. If you both want this to work she has to start gaining a little bit of trust. A little bit of harmless flirting is just that- harmless.
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female
reader, Variety +, writes (25 June 2007):
 You are allowed friends who are girls. I can understand her feeling insecure about you chatting to your ex, but on facebook you add everyone you know and so she cannot blame you for having girls on them. Message me if you want to chat. xxx
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