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I doubt anyone has ever been in such a situation with his girlfriend

Q.   Before everyone begins with the "nah bro, dump her dump her" stuff, read it completely, and put yourself in my situation, and atleast TRY to understand how I feel. I'm with a girl right now, and quite frankly, she is amazing. Whether we're talking ...

A.   18 March 2008: hi i have read your problem and i have tried to keep a open mind on it as i can relate to most of it anyway can i start of by sayin you have a partner tht obviously loves you. ok shes cheated but it sounds like shes been honest about it and reg... (read in full...)

How do I tell my family he's older than me?

Q.   This sounds really stupid but my parents are quite strict and i'm worried they wont let me see my bf who is 16 and in college (i'm almost 15 and in year 10). I don't tell my parents much anyway and this would be the first guy i've told them about. ...

A.   3 October 2007: Hi you need to tell your parents. Im 16 and my girlfreind is 15. i wouldnt worry esspecially if he is a nice lad and will get on with your parents. If he doesnt you have to think is he the right 1 for you. Im sure he is dont wory about your ... (read in full...)

She thinks she's pregnant!? All she did was suck me off while I used a condom!!

Q.   Argh... my girlfriend's freakin out coz she thinks shes pregnant! and now she has me worried. she cant be pregnant from suckin me off while wearin a condom can she? but thats not the only things shes worried about becoz i went down on her and ...

A.   30 July 2007: theres no possible way she could be pregnant bu only if you had sexual intercourse. Best thing to do is try to put her mind to rest and si her down and talk to her . if all else fails go and buy a pregnacy test. then she will understand that there ... (read in full...)

Mum won't let me go round his house, because she thinks we're going to have sex.

Q.   what to do when your mom don't let you go to your boyfriends house because she thinks that ya'll are gonna have s.e.x ...

A.   30 July 2007: ya i believe in what kenny said you are old enough to make your own decisions in life and perhaps you should just put your mum straight at the end of the day your mum has the right to be worried especially if your boyfreind is extremely older or... (read in full...)

I am a 12 year old girl and I really want to have sex with my boyfriend who is 14. Should I do it with him?

Q.   I am a 12 year old girl and I really want to have sex with my boyfriend who is 14. He wants me to come over to night and have sex with him. Should I do it with him?...

A.   22 June 2007: I think you get the piont by now wait til your older at 12 you are in a bigger mess if you get pregnant especially with your studies. Over here the age of consent is 16 I know its 14 in Canada but i am unsure what it is in America but still ... (read in full...)

Shall all the dear cupid advisors meet?

Q.   I know you have aunts from all over the world, but I wondered whether it may be a nice idea for us to meet at a convention of some sort...somehow? Perhaps several....

A.   22 June 2007: ok but why not meet half way lets say Hawaii it in between and we can all have a holiday while surfing lol or we could just stay at London i duno but somewhere exotic sounded nice!!! I think thats very nice of you Andrew to pay for our flight... (read in full...)

My boyfriend said he'll wait for sex; I'm ready now but am I too young?

Q.   heya :D im a muture 14 y/o and iv got a boyfriend 16 y/o .. we both want sex but am i too young? hes a honest guy .. he sed hed wait if i wern`t ready but im 95% sure i want to .. (he sed hed use a condom ) what do i do? i dont wanna wait ....

A.   22 June 2007: Well to be honest your only 95%. Why are you 5% of a hundred? If you was ready you would be a 100% and you wouldn't be asking for help. The age of consent is 16 and personally I would wait a bit longer until you are positive that you both are rea... (read in full...)

Am I too young to really be in love with her?

Q.   So many say I am too young to feel love. I would lke to know when it isn't so young. how will I know I love someone. Cause I feel something toward a girl. I talk to her when she feels down. I don't let her pay for anythign when we hang out. I think ...

A.   22 June 2007: To describe the word love is very hard and many people experience it in different ways. To decide whether you are 'in love' its down to your own judgement. However in my own eyes I think you maybe in love. However have you tried telling her how you ... (read in full...)

She tell her Mum everything that we get up to!! What can I do?

Q.   Hi me and my girlfreind have been going out for 4 months now and I really do love her. However when we sleep together or talk on the phone she tells her mum eveything. She even tells her what we do and i cant look at her mum the same way now. Can ...

A.   21 June 2007: Just to fill you in on whats happened so far.. well i spoke to her tonight and i gently dropped the subject in and she said sometimes her mum asks what happens. I now feel that this is worse however she told me she didnt tell her mum everythi... (read in full...)

Should I start all over or just let him go?

Q.   Alright I had a baby girl about 2 and a half months ago and the other day I told my boyfriend (not real father) That I was giving cusody to my parent's until I finsh school ect. But he didnt know he thought I was just giving up on my daughter which ...

A.   21 June 2007: well ok im a little young to be answering this but i know what it is like for you daughter. (ok im a lad but i understand what its like not having a dad around while being young). I understand you want a father figure and the best for your chi... (read in full...)

I had oral sex with a guy I'm not going out with. Now I'm getting called a slag! What should I do?

Q.   hello, recently iv been doing oral sex with a boy im not going out with. we havnt had sex but people think im easy and a slag. i dont no wht to do i realy like him. please help. do you think what i am doing is wrong?...

A.   21 June 2007: Hi Hun Well i can't think of anything being 'wrong' unless either of you have partner then I can see why you feel guilty. I would ask him out if you feel so strongly about him (but im a lad so that would be wrong) However it sounds like he's str... (read in full...)

Attractive or not? - dense black pubic hair.

Q.   I have lots of black dense pubic hair and I don't shave or trim. Do guys find this attractive or do they hate it?...

A.   21 June 2007: Hi Most men preffer it shaved or trimmed nicely.My advice is to experiment and do what you want. like what the other witers have said if the guy your with likes it then keep it but if your single, shave, its a lot more attractive and less likely ... (read in full...)

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