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... Send *ummyMummy a private message | | | *ummyMummy's profile:I'm 22 years of age and have just become a Mum for the first time! Bethany Molly was born on the 9/11/07 at 12.51pm weighing 8 pound 3. Apparently I'm a lucky so and so as my waters broke at 9am and only was in labour just under 3 hours. It still hurt though. But she is worth every bit of it though!
I'm not qualified to give out advice, but feel due to experiences I've had that I can give out a bit of friendly advice that might be helpful. I am currently thinking of doing a counselling course at home while my baby is young. Then once baby goes to nursery am hoping to do the uni course I was supposed to start this Sept just gone. I want to be a teacher :)
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I visit prostitutes about once a week and it taking it's toll on me! Any advice?
Q. Hi! I´m a 27 years old guy who has a problem with prostitutes. I have not girlfriend for long time and everytime i feel the need of have sex i go to see prostitutes or i even call them to visit me to my house. I usually have sex with a prost...
A. 27 June 2007: You need to find something to do when you get the urge to call a protetute. Maybe go for a walk or go out for drink instead. You have got in to a habit and you need to break the bond holding you to calling these prostetutes.
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I'm confused about my new friend's behaviour
Q. Hello I have a doubt about a friend of mine, he acts very cheery and nice when we're with other people but when we're alone or something, I just have to keep the conversation going if I wanna talk and he behaves a bit strange, he starts reading ...
A. 27 June 2007: Your welcome. I'm glad things are working out. xxxxxx... (read in full...)
Green discharge?
Q. i have a greenish discharge which is quite thick wot is it?...
A. 27 June 2007: Go see your doctor and get tested for infections asap.
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I know he doesn't fancy me so why is he meeting up with me all the time?
Q. hi im 14 and im really in love with this boy we've been meeting up for a thew months now and hes the first boy that ive really fallen for. most weekend nights i sneak out of my house at 11 and go down his till about 3 in the morning. but it seems ...
A. 27 June 2007: He's using you sweetie. You need to set him an ultimatum. Tell him that if there isn't going to be a relationship you are going to stop seeing him. You sneaking out the house that late a night to see him is also putting you in great danger. I ... (read in full...)
How do I lose weight?
Q. how do i lose weight? well you see i am 15 years old and i am over weight i am a size 14/16 clothes and weigh 12 stone. it is really embarrasing but i cant seem to get rid of the weight! i eat at least 4 pieces of fruit a day. i get up have ...
A. 27 June 2007: Do you eat a lot of carbohydtares? Maybe try seeing your doctor and see if they can come up with a healthy balanced diet for you to try.
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She's an online gf..is it possible to be in love with her as we have never even met??
Q. Heya guys, I love this gal but have neva met her. i chat to her on the fone and stuff but i have no idea of what she is like in real life so i guess my question is can i be in love with some1 i have never met ? Is it possible ? I'll be very grat...
A. 27 June 2007: I met my partner through a wap (mobile internet) chat room and we talked for months through there and over the phone. So I knew what he sounded like just not what he looked like. I wouldn't of said I loved him at that point but there was derfinetly ... (read in full...)
Are you still a virgin if your hymen is broken without sex?
Q. If your hymen is broken some way other than sex, does it mean you're no longer a virgin? Does the term virgin mean only someone who's not had intercourse?...
A. 27 June 2007: If you haven't had sex you are still definetly a virgin whether your hymen has broken or not :)
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Can I get in trouble for kissing her....?
Q. I posted a similar thread previously... I am seeing a girl a year and a half younger than me. She isnt 18 yet. Can her parents press charges on me for kissing her?...
A. 27 June 2007: As long as its only kissing then her parents can't bring the law in. Why not talk to them first about how you feel about their daughter and how you are not thinking of having sex with her at the moment. They may respect you for talking to them about ... (read in full...)
He lied to me about his virginity
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for seven years. I was a virgin when i first met him and he told me that he was too.But just this past weekend he admitted to me that he had lied to me and that he had actually slep with three other girls before me.And ...
A. 27 June 2007: He may of lied because he was scared that his experience would scare you away.... It could be any number of reasons.
Ask him why he lied. Does it really matter now the truth is out? He's been honest before you get married, maybe wanting to start... (read in full...)
I feel nothing when having sex!
Q. why can't i feel noting when i have sex? does this mean im never going to have an orgasm?...
A. 27 June 2007: Talk to your boyfriend/person you are having sex with about your sex life. He may not be hitting your spots because he doesn't know what you like.
Learning what excites your partner and yourself is the fun part of having sex with a new person. ... (read in full...)
I believe he's after just one thing... and I want it too, but will I get hurt?
Q. theres a guy i like, and we flirt and regually send each other bad messages, pictures etc. however i believe he is just after one thing. but because im so attracted to him it doesnt bother me. his asked how far i would go with him and iv said all ...
A. 27 June 2007: If you have feelings for this lad then a one night stand is going to leave you feeling shitty and used even if you consented. This lad does seem to want to get his leg over with you, but you sound like you want more.
Ask him what he wants- i... (read in full...)
I like a new lad... but still have feelings for my ex?
Q. I havn't been going out with my ex now for three months, a girl split us up becaus my ex still had feelings for her whilst we were going out but insisted they were just mates. I knew about this so I was paranoid and jelous and we argued a lot. W...
A. 27 June 2007: To get over your ex you need to stop seeing him and talking to him. This lad obviously didn't miss you all that much as he kissed this girl. He also obviously has no repect for you. It's not fair for you to wait around while he decides what he ... (read in full...)
She used me then started meeting up w/ her ex and lying about it! I split w/ her, but want her to realize the pain she put me through.
Q. My "ex" gf doesn't always log out of her yahoo email account properly so I checked her email after she uses the PC. I have been doing this for a little while now without her knowing and realise she has been meeting up with her ex. I told her tha...
A. 27 June 2007: Do you believe her when she says nothing was going on? To go to that extreme to lie she must of had something to hide. She only got angry cause she got found out. You aren't a nut job or a stalker- you just wanted to know what was going on with her ... (read in full...)
He always hides little things from me from his ex and child and I wish he wouldn't.
Q. Female from San Francisco. I have been married for 5 years. My husband was married before and has one child. He always hides little things from me from his ex and child or other things. everytime I comfront him he says that that life is over and...
A. 27 June 2007: What kind of things is it he hides? I would agree with DV1 when it comes to his child- respect his privacy but it depends what stuff from the ex he's hiding. Talk to him about how you feel and explain that you want to hear things from him not other ... (read in full...)
Does he just want to play the field?
Q. me and this guy were friends for three years and then we got closer so we decided to date or w/e and then after we were "talking" for 3 months until he called and said that he doesnt think we should try any more just because he was going off to ...
A. 27 June 2007: It may mean he wanted to play the field or the talking to the girl could signal he's just moved on from your relationship with him. Try to move on from him and have fun with friends and stuff. You will find someone who makes you happy, and doesn't ... (read in full...)
I don't think she loves me any more
Q. I've been dating this girl for 3 years now and the first 2 years of our relationship was the best 2 years of my life. We both work so its difficult to see each other but she has become bored of me i guess. like when we are together she doesnt want ...
A. 27 June 2007: I would sit down and ask her what she wants, out of life and from your relationship. You two can't continue in something that makes you unhappy. Tell her how you are feeling and how you want the old feelings and happiness back. Maybe suggest going ... (read in full...)
After 4 years together, he confessed he cheated. Then they moved in together. He seems so unhappy and I want him back!
Q. Me and my boyfriend had been together for 4yrs.One day he made a confession to me and told me he had cheated on me with this other girl,and now they live together.But here is the twist,he still has his clothes at my house with his important ...
A. 27 June 2007: If you want him back you need to tell him. If he decides to stay with this other girl then give him his stuff back and move on. He needs to choose who he wants to be with- all you can do is show him what he's missing with you.
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My fiance treats his sister the same as he treats me! I doubt anyone would be able to tell who he is actually in a relationship with!!
Q. My fiancee has a very close relationship with his sister if we are all together no one would be able to tell who is the sister and who is the girlfriend. I get very jealous as eveything he does with me he does with her and 9 out of 10 times when we ...
A. 27 June 2007: Chat to your boyfriend about how you feel but don't ask him to change the relationship he has with his sister. Ask him if you two can have some alone time, maybe go out to dinner or have a weekend away.
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My boyfriend doesn't understand how upset his porn viewing makes me!
Q. My boyfriend doesnt understand how I get hurt if he watches porn, pictures of naked females and mastrubates to it... Hello, my bf of 2 years and i broke up 9 days ago. We want to get back together but only after we both read the book on a relati...
A. 27 June 2007: I get funny when my guy materbates to porn to often but I am ok with it occasionally. It's not the same as masterbating over you. They are just naked girls where as you are his partner. Did he masterbate to porn while you were together because while ... (read in full...)
Is there anyway to tell if your girlfriend is faking an orgasm?
Q. I've recently read quite a lot of questions from women about faking orgasms so I was just wondering if there is anyway to tell if a girl is faking it? Especially physical signs, because I want to make sure I really please my girlfriend....
A. 27 June 2007: My guy recons he could tell if I was faking it by the way I tense up when I cum and parts of me throb and stuff so I suppose there is. He also thinks he could teel by my moaning..... I don't know if he could as I've never had to.
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I'm a girl--is it normal that I like lesbian porn?
Q. I'm a female--is it normal for me to love and get very turned on by lesbian porn?...
A. 27 June 2007: There is nothing wrong with it at all. I began feeling turned on by females in my teens and have come to realise I am bisexual as I do enjoy sex with females as much as I do males. It's nothing to be ashamed of!
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I don't want to be tied down, but I feel an urge to have a baby!
Q. This is really weird. I'm nearly 16 and I've had sex twice with my boy-friend. My cousin is 18 and has a daughter and has just moved in with her boyfriend. My mum is a child minder so I see a few babies around the house sometimes. Recently I rea...
A. 27 June 2007: Its called being broody and is perfectly normal. I wouldn't give in to the broodiness just yet and live your life a little first. I was very broody after my mum had my little sister when I was 16. I looked after her a lot and did things with her as ... (read in full...)
My partners sperm doesn't stay in my vagina!!
Q. Me and my partner have decided to try for another baby we already have a 4 year old. When we have had sex me partners sperm doesnt seem to stay in my vagina it comes straight out. Please could you tell me why this is....
A. 27 June 2007: Its called gravity and the fact some sperm decides to swim the wrong way. Not ALL sperm will come out. If it concerns you that much after sex lay still for a little while and don't move or sit up and see if that helps.
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Can you get your period when you're pregnant?
Q. Quick question my mate is going to get a pregancy test. She hasnt missed a period but is on the pill and says its best to check now and again. She wanted me to do but one too, i said no i use protection and havent missed a period. She told me her ...
A. 27 June 2007: Some people do bleed through their pregnancy. I did my first month but then it stopped. I just get the PMT now which sucks.
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I like him and I know his girlfriend is cheating, should I approach him?
Q. i like a guy but he does not know and he has a girlfriend but she cheating on him how do i tell him i like him and that his girlfriend is not who he think she is ?...
A. 27 June 2007: I wouldn't tell him both at the same time. If you decide to tell him his girlfriend is cheating then be prepared for backlash as he might not believe you. If you tell him you like him he may not believe you at all. Onve things have settled down then ... (read in full...)
He seems to have stopped trying
Q. what does it mean when a guy knows that you like him that he all of a sudden sort of stops trying? i started seeing this guy 2 months ago and he would always text me and want to see me and always say i can;t wait to see you and now i always have to ...
A. 27 June 2007: Chat with this guy and explain how you feel. It might be he's baking away, or he could be scared where the relationship is going or something. xxxxxx... (read in full...)
He's acting suspiciously and I think he's cheating; should I leave him?
Q. i am currently with a man whom for 4yrs we have been going out as a couple. recently things aint been great due to the fact that he`s a selfish,self centered pig,and i love him. i am 99% sure hes having an affair,secret txts,silent phone ...
A. 27 June 2007: If you are that doubtful about his faithfulness I would dump him. All the lack of trust will drive you crazy and madke you insecure. You said your self you're sure he's having an affair. xxxxx... (read in full...)
We broke up over a misunderstanding and I still love him
Q. i know im only 11 but i was in love with my best girl friend's (E) 15 year old brother (O) and the day started out normal, it was the 6 day we were dating me E and O went to his work near the end or the day we were playing around and i tried to grab ...
A. 27 June 2007: All you can do is apologise to him agagin and if he doesn't forgive you then it's time to move on. It may take some time but this lad won't be the only lad you will be attracted to xxxxx... (read in full...)
My friend was sexually abused by her uncle and I don't know what advice to give her, please help me?
Q. A friend of mine has been sexually molested and she doesn't know what to do... She is afraid that it might wreck her family since it was her uncle that did it... please help me... I dont know what I should tell her...?...
A. 26 June 2007: Advise her to speak to a family member who she is close to about this. She can't let her uncle get away with what he has done!
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We're going to have sex for the first time this weekend--how do I make it good for her?
Q. Hey guys, I'm 25 and am dating a gorgeous girl who's 21. She's perfect for me and we've decided that we're ready to start sleeping together. This weekend we're gonna have sex for the first time but I'm really nervous because it's been a while fo...
A. 26 June 2007: Relax, make ure there are clean sheets on the bed and have fun. I'm sure she is not going to chuck you because the first time you sleep togther didn't completely blow her mind. Get a bottle of wine a couple of candles to set the mood :)
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I faked an orgasm to please him now I don't know if I should do it again
Q. Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months (I'm 22, he's 25) and we started to have sex a month ago. I enjoy the sex but I haven't had an orgasm. He said last week that he would like it if I showed him when I was having one because he likes to know ...
A. 26 June 2007: I wouldn't keep faking as it'll make you unhappy and frustrated. If my guy doesn't hit where I want him to I move his hand to where I do or whatever. You could try that. Or try talking to your guy about the issue.
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Is it wrong to want to cheat on my husband with a married man?
Q. I'm in a bit of bother! I have feelings for my friends husband, and he has feelings for me too (More sexually driven). We love our partners but have this urge for each other that is so so so strong. We dont see each other anymore but we still cha...
A. 26 June 2007: Yes it is wrong!
I would cut contact with this man and sort your marriage out or leave you r husband and wait for this man to leave his wife!
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After sex for the first time, I feel a burning sensation downstairs..
Q. i recently had sex for the first time.since then whenever i pee or masturbate it burns.what should i do?or is this something that always occurs?please help...
A. 26 June 2007: I would book in to see your doctor asap to be tested especuially if you had unprotected sex.
Sometimes when you aren't lubed up enough you can get friction that causes burning when you pee and stuff. If its gone on longer than a couple of hours... (read in full...)
He makes me feel insecure about myself and picks out things I hate myself for.
Q. he makes me feel insecure about myself, he sometimes picks out the things i hate about myself. he knows about this and his way of talking is to involve his d*ck and think it makes it all better. i told him it wont fix the problems or what im ...
A. 26 June 2007: Im assuming you are talking about a boyfriend....
Drop him like now. If he puts you down and picks on the things you hate about yourself than love he isn't worth your time! he shouldn't be picking out your bad bits, but complimenting and making y... (read in full...)
I want to kiss but not tell!
Q. Hi please help. I want to kiss my new bf so so so bad but how do i let him know with out telling him. PLEASE HELP!...
A. 26 June 2007: Just lean over and kiss him. He doesn't have to kiss you the first time!
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My fiance says he'll dump me anytime he isn't getting his way
Q. what does one u do or should do when ur significant other sabotages the relationship to get it their way. i mean, my fiance threatens to break off the relationship when he doesn't get it his way, so i always give in for him. what can i do about ...
A. 26 June 2007: I would seriously think about ending it with this guy. It's not fair for him to get his own way all the time. And there will come a point where you can't give in to him. He needs to grow up and realise he can't have his own way all the time as that ... (read in full...)
My bf won't show me his penis after a year's realtionship! Any ideas as to what's wrong?
Q. Right..I've bin havin sex with my b/f for a few months now..when he "broke me in" it was really difficult..it took us at least 4-5 attemps..he has done probably everything imaginable to my body but even after a YEAR! he refuses to show me his penis ...
A. 26 June 2007: I would say you aren't going to do anything he wants until he explains to you why he wont show you his body. It sounds extremely odd to me and worries me the way you say he demands you to stand naked in front of him. Just because you love him ... (read in full...)
The guy I used to chat online with is now harassing me! He follows me to any website I visit and slanders me!
Q. Dear Cupid, HELP! My life is a bit of insanity right now. Currently, I am in a rocky long term relationship. On top of that I thought I had liked someone else. Well, I started talking to this other person via the net and realized that I ...
A. 26 June 2007: If the guy continues to do what he is doing or gets worse then contact the police rather than suffer anymore. I do understand why you have said you aren't contacting the police.
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Can the sperm just slide back out so that you cant get pregnant?
Q. If you have sex and the guy comes inside you and you sit up afterwards and there is a wet patch from you does that mean the sperm have come out of you and you wont get pregnant...
A. 26 June 2007: Not all of the sperm comes out but due to gravity some does come out. If you had unprotected sex I would get to your doctor to do a pregnancy test and ask about going on the pill to stop the panic of pregnancy in the future. Or try using condoms!
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We've never kissed anyone before--how do we get the first kiss?
Q. I know this guy who really likes me and I really like him too... I want to kiss him and he told me that he would kiss me, but he's never kissed anyone before--neither have I. What do I say to him to persuade him? ...
A. 26 June 2007: Kissing isn't as scary as you think it is and it will come very naturally to you when the moment arises. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself and enjoy the moment.
When he walks you home, or whatever just lean in and peck his lips and go f... (read in full...)
My fiance gets angry that I don't perform oral sex well enough
Q. My fiance is constantly complaining that i am not satisfying him sexually. he gets really angry that when i perform oral sex on him, i don't do it to his liking. he says that i do not satisfy him the way he satisfies me, and i am selfish. could you ...
A. 26 June 2007: WoW I would get him to tell you what you can do to satisfy him. It just seems he wants to create a problem with out helping you with a solution. The fun side of a relationship should be playing about and finding what the other person likes and ... (read in full...)
I'm confused about my new friend's behaviour
Q. Hello I have a doubt about a friend of mine, he acts very cheery and nice when we're with other people but when we're alone or something, I just have to keep the conversation going if I wanna talk and he behaves a bit strange, he starts reading ...
A. 24 June 2007: Maybe this guy doesn't do the whole getting involved with someone at work thing. Talk with him and get him to explain what he means better so you are less confused. If this guy wants to be friends then go along that line.
Good Luck!
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