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writes:HiMyself and my ex split up nearly 3 years ago. I think she had post natal depression but not sure. We have a little boy of 3. I have never stopped loving my ex and miss her and my son dearly. I also have a little girl of 12 who I have custody of. Last year I tried to move on and had a brief relationship that lasted six months hoping it would help me get over my ex. Anyway it never and this summer my ex and I spent alot of time together taking the kids out etc.Things cooled down a little and she said she didnt know if we would or wouldnt get back together. Last week she told me she has no feelings for me. I am in bits and have nearly had a nervous breakdown over this. I love and miss them both so much. Do you think there is any chance of us getting back together or am I fighting a loosing battle?Many ThanksJay
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): She did say she had no feelings for you, but you can start off a clean slate, be yourself, be a friend, maybe she can fall in love with you all over again.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (17 November 2007):
 I don't know what kind of man you are, or were to her, but that is so sweet. If she says she has no feelings for you then that is pretty straightforward. Sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2007): I would say that 'yes' there is always a chance. However, three years is a long time and as they say 'time heals all wounds'. The three years apart must have been tough especially as it involved a young child, a baby. The moving on cycle that would have taken place must have also been very difficult. Your ex may feel as though you would both be reliving the past and may not want to face or bring up any old emotions. She had three years to get her life sorted exactly the way she wants. The only way to win her back would be to show her how good it would be for you both to be a together and together as a family. What do you have to offer her and your children. Are you attractive? do you have a job? do you have an emotional connection? What sort of person are you? are you a runner at the first sign of trouble or would you stay grounded?. Ask your self some questions and think about what you need to change for yourself first and her second. I say as long as a flame is still flickering it is worth a try. You will never know if it is worth the fight unless you FIGHT. Life is about risks. However, always hold enough back for yourself - dont give your all but give close to your all. Good luck!
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