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*ENSHURTIN
writes:my name is jen i am 16 years old me and this boy(the love of my life) started goin out april 2006 he broke up with me a couple weeks ago we went out a year and a half...he told me he just wants to be friends he never wants to be with me again in his personal opinion but the other night he called me baby but called back and said he was sorry and he will never say it again, he wants to move on but then 2 days ago he said he doesn't want to move on and he keeps tellin me he cares, then he doesn't, then he thinks about me and then he doesn't i doesn't know what to do, i cant get over him, i wrote him an 8 page letter i always tell him how i feel i dont know what to do, anymore, he is my life i dont want to lose him, please please help me what should i do *J3N*
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reader, JENSHURTIN +, writes (11 October 2007):
JENSHURTIN is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso an update is that he didnt talk to me at all for almost to weeks until monday he messaged me its like he is tryin to hurt me he wants to date a girl names danielle but i think they might be goin out not sure....but he is leavin for the army july 9 2007 its sux for me i wish that he would just realize that he would want to be with me he told me he fell out of love with me n now has no feelings what so ever i dont understand it though how u can be in love with someone n get over them so quick he says once in a while he will wonder how i am doin but not often n never think about anything serious about me i dont know..but he never wants to be with me ever again i cant stand this its sux bad i wish i could get over him but cant he said he wishes i could get over him to but i love him n always will he just got over me so fast n him not havin feelings anymore i just cant believe that ya know well if anyone else can give advice i would love it thank u so much for those who have givin some already!!!.....x3 J3N x3
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): look.
you just need to tell him that he needs to make up is mind.
he cant love you and not love you at the same time maybe he is confused.
you guys need to jsut sit down and talk about everything and work it ut then tell hi that he needs to cometo a conclution on what he wants.
beccuase you cant wait forever(even tough he and i both no you would) but i defently think that you uys should try and work thigs out cuz you wouldnt want to let that long ofarelashinship go to wastee.
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i hope everythig works out let me know.
3sarah
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (17 September 2007):
 You shouldn't have these problems at sixteen. If he can't make up his mind, bye bye. You deserve better.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (16 September 2007):
This guy will continue to be a hearache for you unless you break away completely. The wait awhile before you look for a new boyfriend.
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