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writes:just split up with my girl of 2 years and i worship the ground she walks on we split up coz she sed she didnt love me anymore ,but theres a guy at her work who she talks about she said she doesnt fancy him justs likes his pesonality im realy torn up about this i want her back so much.ive talked to her since and she has been up set and down y would she be like tht if she didnt love me
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007): I am in a similar situation at the moment. I have not yet split up with my boyfriend but even thinking about it makes me upset, I have not ate properly for days and feel sick at the thought of doing it, the real reason for this is that I feel so guilty doing this to him when he has done nothing wrong. He has been the best boyfriend ever but deserves to be loved in a way that I do not anymore. It is cutting me upset inside to hurt him so much
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2007): because she is only human, she has to ajust to life without you as much as you do. i went through a very similar thing myself.
your ex girl probably feels so many mixed emotions right now and that cant be good for ne1.
i sujest u arrange a night to tlk, buy her some flowers, tell her she means everything to you and that u will change what ever you need to change for her b4 its too late x x x
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (8 August 2007):
She may have feelings left, or she may not. She might just be confused. After two years of being there for her, you are now gone and it is a shock to her system. Change is scary and sticking with what is known has a certain comfort. In fact step back and see if this applies to you also.
However, the reverse could be true. Maybe things were really going well and she freaked out. Ever hear of the fear of success? Remember the first Matrix move when the agent said that the original design for the Matrix was a world without consequences and the human mind could not accept it so everyone woke up? There is great wisdom in that. Now she might be realizing what she lost.
These are just maybes though. I wish we could give you more, but we can only give insight, it is you that will have to do the hard work to figure it out.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (8 August 2007):
 maybe shes upset and down cos she was so used to being around someone for awhile. im not trying to squash ur hopes and dreams, but maybe her feelings are not always about u.
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