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We're both dating other people but still want each other; should we cheat on our partners?

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Question - (8 August 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 August 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been knowing a boy for about 5 years. We used to like each other but then went different ways. He now has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend. We still like each other so he asked me to cheat on my boyfriend with him. I don't know what to do. What do you suggest?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007):

Don't cheat. Simple as that. If you have feelings for another guy, and he has feelings for you, and you like him more then your bf, and if he likes you more then his gf, then you two should both BREAK-UP with your now partners and then get together. but explain to your bf why you're doing it, don't just leave him out to dry.

Cheating is the worst possible thing someone could do to a loved one, I have a boyfriend, we love each and I know if I cheated on him he'd be heartbroken, and I know me personaly would feel horrible.

Oh, and fyi if you were gonna try and do it it secret, the word would get out eventually, someway, somehow, but it would.

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A female reader, Basschick Australia +, writes (8 August 2007):

Basschick agony auntWould you want someone you loved to cheat on you?.....Therein lies your answer.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (8 August 2007):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntCheating is wrong.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (8 August 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntI suggest that you both break up with your partners BEFORE you do anything. Try to behave with honor and integrity. Be a class act and don't purposely hurt people.

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A female reader, myp United States +, writes (8 August 2007):

myp agony auntif u want him more then ur bf then BREAK-UP with your bf, cheating is wrong and i dont encourage u to do it, but if u like him more then ur bf then like i said dump the bf.

-Myesha

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