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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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He was my best friend and now I don't know who he's pretending to be
Q. I need you to please tell me what happened here: Last year, I became really good friends with a boy in my choir. We spent one whole night together for a feild trip and, suddenly, we became really close. He had such a fun, cute, personality and ...
A. 29 May 2012: It's unfortunate, but it will happen all throughout your life. We grow apart from friends due to chosen lifestyles, lose touch with them when life happens, etc.
BUT you will find those rare friends who are worth hanging onto as the years go by. ... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing by washing my hands of his kids and focusing on my own son?
Q. What it is.. I have a baby son who is 6 months old. My partner the babys dad has 6 other children, one of them that we don't know cuz he didnt wanna meet... 3 of them, his ex-wife's ones, used to come to ours every single week as I was inviting them ...
A. 29 May 2012: His actions regarding his other children should be a major red flag for you.
He takes responsibility in the sense that he has to provide a paycheck for them, that's it.
This is NOT a man that I would be having any more children with, s... (read in full...)
The girl I like is friends with both my ex girlfriends!!
Q. There is a girl that I really like, and I've known her for a long time, and I'm pretty sure she likes me. The problem is, is that she is good friends with my ex, and even more strangely, recently friends with my other ex? How should I approac...
A. 27 May 2012: Don't lie about anything your exs may have told her...but don't volunteer any information about the past relationships either.
Also as much as your exs may trash talk you, DO NOT do the same. It will make you look bad in this girl's eyes.
... (read in full...)
The girl I like is friends with both my ex girlfriends!!
Q. There is a girl that I really like, and I've known her for a long time, and I'm pretty sure she likes me. The problem is, is that she is good friends with my ex, and even more strangely, recently friends with my other ex? How should I approac...
A. 27 May 2012: Did you have a bad dating history with these two ex's? Or will they be so quick to bad mouth you?
I wouldn't let the fact she's friends with your exs intimidate you. If you genuinely like this girl then pursue her, regardless of her friends.... (read in full...)
Why do girls cheat on their boyfriends?
Q. Do they do it because they are horny over another guy? I'm not trying to make it sound like guys don't cheat but I already know why guys cheat, because they're horny....
A. 27 May 2012: The sex is the cheating action but not because they're horny. Girls cheat for several different reasons....in no particular order....
1. Pressure. An opportunity presents itself and the girl has difficulty saying no or walking away.
2. Tire... (read in full...)
What is the best way I can persuade her to be with me?
Q. I need a quick answer to this problem, any advice is appreciated. I am going to have a one on one meeting with my girlfriend this week, she is going to decide between myself and another man. Im assuming her mind will be made up What is the bes...
A. 27 May 2012: Clearly if you're the better choice, then there's no need for persuasion techniques.
If her mind is made up, you should be adult enough to accept her decision as it comes. There's no need to basically beg her to stay with you. I'm sorry, but tryi... (read in full...)
This 18 year old girl really likes my cousin but he's married!
Q. So in camping with a lot of people and this 18 year old girl really likes my cousin and has told her friend that she is gonna try something tonight with him. He just got married a few months ago and has a kid on the way. That girl knows he's ...
A. 27 May 2012: Why couldn't he bring along his wife? Being pregnant doesn't mean you're disabled.
There's nothing you can do. The 18 year old doesn't care that he's married, and your newlywed cousin doesn't seem to be respecting his wife by encouraging this gir... (read in full...)
He was my best friend and now I don't know who he's pretending to be
Q. I need you to please tell me what happened here: Last year, I became really good friends with a boy in my choir. We spent one whole night together for a feild trip and, suddenly, we became really close. He had such a fun, cute, personality and ...
A. 27 May 2012: You know what has happened with him. He has succumbed to the popular kids and are now their friend. Unfortunately, he threw your friendship under the bus and isn't really even your friend anymore.
You've done what you could. HE should be the one ... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing by washing my hands of his kids and focusing on my own son?
Q. What it is.. I have a baby son who is 6 months old. My partner the babys dad has 6 other children, one of them that we don't know cuz he didnt wanna meet... 3 of them, his ex-wife's ones, used to come to ours every single week as I was inviting them ...
A. 27 May 2012: I suppose this explains why he has an ex wife.
As I've said if you two are boyfriend and girlfriend, HIS children aren't your responsibility. They're his. I don't understand why they're being unloaded onto you when they reside with their mother. ... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing by washing my hands of his kids and focusing on my own son?
Q. What it is.. I have a baby son who is 6 months old. My partner the babys dad has 6 other children, one of them that we don't know cuz he didnt wanna meet... 3 of them, his ex-wife's ones, used to come to ours every single week as I was inviting them ...
A. 27 May 2012: If you two are indeed married then you need to be focusing on all the children left in your care. Your partner is bringing in the income for all these mouths to feed...so that leaves you to keep the children in line. Unless of course the others are ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend brings my confidence down!
Q. My x bf and I still talk after 2 years of being broken up. Well recently I found out he got his 15 year old fiance pregnant when he's 19 and in the Army! So I decided to ask him about it because I saw pictures/status's from his friends and family on ...
A. 27 May 2012: I'm sorry but this story sounds off. A military man cannot be engaged to a minor and impregnate her. He would get kicked out of the military, arrested, and have to register as a sex offender.
... (read in full...)
Do I tell him to get new swimming trunks?
Q. My best friend and I go swimming all the time. We have a great time and have lots of fun, the only problem is his swim trunks. He has worn the same pair for years. They are white and have a black pattern down the leg. This was fine when the were new ...
A. 27 May 2012: Maybe he can't afford to buy new swim trunks or these are his favorite pair?
If you're getting turned of by the display, then it doesn't sound necessary to tell him he needs new swim trunks.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is spending his inheritance money and hasn't even bought me a bouquet of flowers!
Q. Ok so my bf and I have dated 2years in which was long distance. Recently he moved in with me. Hes 18 I'm 17. He's originally from were I live. When he was 1 his mom left his dad and moved 4 hours away. So his dad lives here. He's been living with me ...
A. 15 May 2012: You two live on your own and split everything in half (utilities, rent, living grocery bill, other living expenses)?
Does he OWE you any MONEY?
I'm confused at what the real problem is here. Because he's not spending any of the $$ on you? O... (read in full...)
A man wearing pink skinny jeans?
Q. First reaction/ thought that comes to mind when you see a male wearing red/pink skinny jeans???...
A. 14 May 2012: Honestly? In America, metrosexual borderline homosexual.
Other parts of the world, say Europe...you would be on trend and fit in with the rest of the trendy straight men. Who seem to dress as well as females, if not better.
... (read in full...)
Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?
Q. Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...
A. 14 May 2012: Would I (a 27 year old woman) find a 42 virgin with social anxieties datebable? Most likely not, because I like to date near my age. Social anxiety can be overcome.
Would a 32+ single or divorced woman with potential retroactive jealousy find you... (read in full...)
Girlfriend setting unrealistic standards for me in the bedroom?
Q. So, my girlfriend told me she had a one night stand with a guy who was rather well endowed. She said it hurt, a lot, but it was good by the end of. We of course had some tension over this, I was jealous, she cried because she felt upset about ...
A. 13 May 2012: I'm confused as to why she would volunteer this information about her previous sex life. Unless you forced her to tell you? Previous sex partners do not matter and shouldn't be discussed. Men (including you) can get very hung up on penis size. When ... (read in full...)
I'm going to pharmacy school. Will that get me more girls?
Q. So my friend told me that seeing that i'm going to pharmacy school girls will be more intersted or is this just a myth? and girls don't care about this stuff? or do you say that it does help you get that girlfriend?...
A. 13 May 2012: Erm, no. I've worked for a pharmacy and all the male pharmacists are socially inept, balding nerds.
I've seen 1 hot male pharmacist. Don't expect to be a chick magnet. Now do expect girls to date you when you land your pharmacist position... (read in full...)
I need some feedback please on what it'll be like for my Gf if I join the marines?
Q. I'm 26 my girlfriend is 21. We're doing quite well together, going on 2 years. I've been wanting to join the Marine Corps for a few years now. I have a son with my ex and I want him to have someone to look up to. My current job not only isn't ...
A. 12 May 2012: Being a military girlfriend isn't easy at all. Having a brother serve in the military IS NOT the same as having a boyfriend or husband in the military.
You will be stationed at a base a considerable distance from her. Is she willing to be in a LDR... (read in full...)
I reconnected, got a little bit stalky, he disconnected
Q. I use to see a guy in highschool that contacted me on facebook he was excited and I was to get in contact again he is still attractive. We talked for a bit on chat and exchanged numbers so he can text or call me. Things went a bit awry and I think I ...
A. 11 May 2012: How about he just doesn't want to talk to you?
You should probably give it a rest...being that persistent is a MAJOR turn off for guys. ... (read in full...)
Why did this girl say she would never go out with me? Is it because I'm ugly?
Q. Today at lunch I was hanging out with my two friends, their girlfriends, and their girlfriend's friends. Well my friend Alex asked this girl something that I overheard, it was either "Would you go out with josh?" or "would you **** josh?" and she ...
A. 11 May 2012: No offense, but at 16-17 you don't exactly know women just yet. You may know what girls in high school want, but it's another story when you get into the real dating pool (after high school).
You say you're quiet and you have this lonely, ... (read in full...)
Why is he acting this way now?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly two years. Overall, we have a pretty good understanding and respect for each other. Recently, however, he's been acting different. We do a lot of outdoor activities together. Sometimes when it's hot, ...
A. 11 May 2012: Unless you have limited dating experience, you should know exactly what this is.
He's controlling. This guy was on his best behavior (honeymoon phase) until a couple of months ago. Now his true nature is coming out.
The question is....a... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents I can't stand their parenting style?
Q. I'm 25 yet my parents have always been overly strict, controlling and verbally abusive. I can't stand how they never want me to leave home even though I'm a grown adult. I've always done the right thing and been a A grade student. Yet I'm always ...
A. 8 May 2012:
You can veto their parenting style all you want, tell them you hate it, but it's not going to change after all these years and you're on their turf. As long as you live in your parents home (no matter your age), you still abide by their rules.
... (read in full...)
Reconnecting with a lost half brother isn't going as I expected
Q. I located my half brother we share a mother. He is 4 yrs older than me we have been exchanging emails now that he is back from afghan and deployment. We have never met he hasnt seen our mom in 20 years. I have been filling in the gaps for him and ...
A. 8 May 2012: I'm assuming you contacted him?
First off, give the man a break. He just got back from Afghanistan! The poor guy has seen stuff enough to mentally scar him for the rest of his life. It's hard adjusting back to regular life when you've been in ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said I cant see my ex to get closure
Q. Hey everyone. I need some serious help with this. I'm sorry this is gonna be long but I need to start at the beginning of this story. Well. Last year I started dating this, what I thought, was an amazing guy. He and I had some real chemistr...
A. 8 May 2012: We understand what position your in. We're just calling out the part you're in denial about.
Your mind is made up of what you're going to do. You want to rekindle something with your ex. Just don't expect it to be much since he cheated on you i... (read in full...)
My ex is keeping tabs on me!
Q. I honestly can't figure out why my ex continues to drive by my house and call me with a private number after leaving me almost 2 yrs. ago. In those 2 yrs. he has been with 4 different woman, the first being the longest (several mths.) and she ...
A. 6 May 2012: How about because he's a creep??!!
I HAD an ex who kept tabs on me until I deleted my FB and cut contact with people who probably let information about me slip.
Some men are just cowardly and are nosey. I suppose my ex still had a thing for ... (read in full...)
I reconnected, got a little bit stalky, he disconnected
Q. I use to see a guy in highschool that contacted me on facebook he was excited and I was to get in contact again he is still attractive. We talked for a bit on chat and exchanged numbers so he can text or call me. Things went a bit awry and I think I ...
A. 6 May 2012: The only thing you can do is leave him alone.
He doesn't sound at all interested if he blocked you on FB. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said I cant see my ex to get closure
Q. Hey everyone. I need some serious help with this. I'm sorry this is gonna be long but I need to start at the beginning of this story. Well. Last year I started dating this, what I thought, was an amazing guy. He and I had some real chemistr...
A. 6 May 2012: Call me crazy, but shouldn't you have gotten this "closure" before you started dating your current boyfriend? You know close that chapter of your life and start fresh with the guy you have now.
Why are you trying to backtrack and reopen this can... (read in full...)
We're a bit rocky right now, I'm not sure where to go with our relationship
Q. I'm in love with a guy who's ten years my senior, in my mind I'm a lot older than seventeen however, I know you'll all think I'm just young, but I've been through so much in my life that I've grown up a lot faster than boys my own age. So, I met a ...
A. 6 May 2012: No offense, but you're a bit naive. And that's ok, because you are still a teenager who has very little dating experience when it comes to men. I've been there too.
Now, a 26/27 year old claims he was just kissing another woman?? And he didn't g... (read in full...)
I no longer love my boyfriend and have met somebody else.
Q. so a little about myself I am 20 currently pay for everything on my own and ive been taking care of myself since I was 18. I have a puppy.and a fish. NOW for the issue..... ive been allowing my current bf to live with me. he is my highschool ...
A. 6 May 2012: Technically, you've already moved on. You've met this man already and you said you, "LOVED" (past tense) your boyfriend.
You need to tell him it's over. Yeah, high school sweethearts is sweet..but you have grown out of him. It's just not made to ... (read in full...)
I really want her to be my girlfriend but every time I ask she says no! How do I get her to go out with me?
Q. hello everyone! I am 13 years old and in year 8. there's this really cute girl at my high school in my class and i really have very strong fellings (and thoughts) about her i even think about her when i masturbate. 5-8 times a week by the way....
A. 6 May 2012: Yeesh, how many times have you asked her to be your girlfriend?
No, never mind, I already know the answer....TOO MANY!!! Stop asking this girl out. You're showing signs of desperation which is a MAJOR turn off for girls.
INSTEAD, act ... (read in full...)
Why are girls wearing clothes you can see their butts in?
Q. It is starting to get warm out now and why do a lot of the girls wear their shorts so short? I have seen sport shorts and cutoffs and they all seem to be extemely short, to the point that their cheeks are hanging out. I have also seen dresses that ...
A. 5 May 2012: Eh, not just young spring chicks are baring their bum!! I was in the store grocery shopping and saw this middle aged woman in shorts that wear on the edge of her rear!!
IMO, it's tacky..there's no fashion sense behind it. Not even common sense. I... (read in full...)
I want to live with my boyfriend, but because we have no money, he'd have to move in with me and my parents!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. We are VERY serious with one another and plan a future together (marriage, kids etc). We don't have any children or live together right now. However, lately I've been thinking we are ready to live to...
A. 5 May 2012: You would actually have to ask your parents first. It is their home, their rules.
Unless they're incredibly generous, I highly doubt they're going to fully support you AND your boyfriend. You two would NEVER move out.
You need to find out... (read in full...)
He wants to move in asap, but no mention of marriage. If we move in now, will we still marry?
Q. Hi there. My boyfriend of 2 years wants us to live together and I want to wait until we're married. I know for sure if I said let's move in together he would do it tomorrow but I have realised over the past month or two he's not exactly rushing ...
A. 30 April 2012: Personally, and this may be what your boyfriend is thinking, I like to live together before marriage to see if we can comfortably mesh our schedules together. Not to mention when a couple lives together, they really get to see one another for who ... (read in full...)
I told this girl that I was having an online romance with, that I want to see her naked, and now she wont respond to me even though I've apologized
Q. I was engaged in an online romance with a very shy girl. We spoke online all day most days and hung out a few times. I said something risque suggesting that i don't care about love but just want to see her naked. It was just a joke and i was trying ...
A. 29 April 2012: If I were you, I'd drop it instead of trying to justify your comment. It wasn't funny or something you should be joking about. Period. Women are sensitive when it comes to men cracking jokes about taking advantage of them.
Anyways, she gave you... (read in full...)
Are most Friends with Benefits relationships usually kept secret or not?
Q. Hi everyone just a quick question about Friends With Benefits (fwbs) I am currently in one with a guy I really like I was just wondering if all fwbs are usually kept secret or do people tell each other they are in one? I have asked this question...
A. 29 April 2012: A FWBs is NOT a relationship.
What would a person in a FWBs go around telling their friends???
"Hey, I've been boning (insert name here) for the past 6 months".
I'm sorry that doesn't sound like something I would go around boasting to my... (read in full...)
Boy swapping gone wrong?
Q. Ok, last night my best friend and our boyfriends were hanging out at my moms place. She and her boyfriend are out of town for the week. Anyway, we were partying pretty hard, having a lot of fun. We started playing truth or dare, long story short we ...
A. 29 April 2012: Call me crazy, but due to your boyfriend's reaction of screwing your friend's boyfriend, I highly DOUBT he's going to agree to an open relationship.
If he gets mad at you for cheating numerous times, what makes you think he's going to give you... (read in full...)
Should I tell him about my pregnancy? He does not want a baby!
Q. Ok to start off yes I know how stupid I was, but it happened and I can't change it now. This guy and I had been on about 2 dates at the time. we had sex and the thing I never expected to happen...happened. I got pregnant. The issue is, he talks ...
A. 29 April 2012: Birth control is 99% effective IF taken correctly.
YES!!!!
Not only because he deserves to know, so you can get child support and your child can receive good medical care.
Even with PTSD, he's not going to hurt an innocent infant. A baby ... (read in full...)
Boy swapping gone wrong?
Q. Ok, last night my best friend and our boyfriends were hanging out at my moms place. She and her boyfriend are out of town for the week. Anyway, we were partying pretty hard, having a lot of fun. We started playing truth or dare, long story short we ...
A. 29 April 2012: This is relevant before I answer.
During your drunken stupor, are you absolutely SURE that your best friend and boyfriend got it on?
Because it sounds as if they didn't and you went on to screw her boyfriend in front of them. ... (read in full...)
Abusive ex boyfriend won't pay back money after our split, how do I deal with this?
Q. I desperately need advice as I have nowhere else to turn. I broke up with my boyfriend of over 2 1/2 years recently as he was very abusive both verbally and recently, physically. My friends noticed I had changed and was depressed and so they ...
A. 29 April 2012: Well first off give yourself credit for getting out of an abusive relationship. Most women are battered, in denial and can't bring themselves to get out of the relationship.
I've been in an emotionally abusive relationship and after it finally ... (read in full...)
I told this girl that I was having an online romance with, that I want to see her naked, and now she wont respond to me even though I've apologized
Q. I was engaged in an online romance with a very shy girl. We spoke online all day most days and hung out a few times. I said something risque suggesting that i don't care about love but just want to see her naked. It was just a joke and i was trying ...
A. 29 April 2012: Erm, what a funny joke. Seriously, never say anything along those lines to a girl you wish to date ever again.
Definitely back off. If you're lucky she won't block you and respond to you next time she's online. However, I believe with that com... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't like it that my job is as an exotic dancer
Q. I really cannot understand why guys get so Jealous ..But this has been a Really serious problem . My work as an Exotic Dancer pays very well , and is a Fun way to live life , Its all harmless fun . Yet my boyfriend is constantly trying to get me ...
A. 28 April 2012: Is this temporary or is this your career?
Were you honest about your chosen profession before you two started dating? If so then he has no reason to complain about you dancing. Point this out to him. Do you two live together and your income p... (read in full...)
Afraid to tell my parents that we're getting married?
Q. Hello all! I am 20 and my now fiance is 23, so we're pretty young, but we are so excited to get married! My only problem is that I am EXTREMELY nervous to tell my parents. We want to tell everyone and get the plans going (we want to get married n...
A. 28 April 2012: You could always elope. In fact, I would've rather done that. My small wedding was incredibly stressful.... (read in full...)
This jerk is dating behind my back!
Q. This guy that I am seeing is on a dating site. A friend found it and showed me. I Hate him so much for leading me on. He dosent know I know that he on a dating site.I thought it was old but he just logged in hours before so I know he uses it. My ...
A. 28 April 2012: You state you are seeing him. "Seeing" someone is not at all exclusive and you have free range to see other people as well, i.e. keep your options open.
So have you two agreed upon exclusivity or not? ... (read in full...)
Advice for 2 friends who are having an affair with the same man?
Q. Advise on possibility of two close ladies friends to have full love affair with same person. Bearing in mind their minds that the same man have seduced both of them before and they kmow....
A. 28 April 2012: Erm, do these ladies even want advice??
No one here is a victim, certainly not your female friends for dating a married man. The only victim is the man's wife!!
If they're friends with each other, then they'll find out they're dating t... (read in full...)
Afraid to tell my parents that we're getting married?
Q. Hello all! I am 20 and my now fiance is 23, so we're pretty young, but we are so excited to get married! My only problem is that I am EXTREMELY nervous to tell my parents. We want to tell everyone and get the plans going (we want to get married n...
A. 27 April 2012: You fear telling them because they may disapprove due to your age. 20 is young to get married and you're at that stage in your life of trying to figure out who you are. Being a wife may or may not be it.
Anyways, you need to tell them soon see... (read in full...)
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