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writes:I use to see a guy in highschool that contacted me on facebook he was excited and I was to get in contact again he is still attractive. We talked for a bit on chat and exchanged numbers so he can text or call me. Things went a bit awry and I think I annoyed and stalked him a bit. He said When we were in high school I thought so highly of you and even years and years after that I was like wow, and even when you added me and contacted me I thought wow. Now I see your not what I thought. But the truth is he only feels that way because I got a little annoying I am not that way been through a hard time after the death of someone and was acting a little to needy. He blocked me on facebook. Anything I can do at all?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (11 May 2012):
 How about he just doesn't want to talk to you?
You should probably give it a rest...being that persistent is a MAJOR turn off for guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2012): I wrote him a text today so we shall see wrote it wisely I'm in hopes but he may not reply all I can do is try. It really made m came feel bad that he did that I may of just came of unflattering.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2012): I don't think I would call it stalking it was more so I was being annoying.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (6 May 2012):
 I agree with tennisstar88 - leave him be.
Stalking people, even "just" a little is rarely perceived as flattering. More like scary.
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reader, dude27  +, writes (6 May 2012):
I reackon 1 text msg laying it all out on the table explaing yourself and end it with if i dnt here a reply i hope u have a nice life and sorry if i hurt u in any way thanks for the chats we had... something in between those lines..... its important if he dosent reply back off and forget about him cause then it will be stalker.... so write your msg wisely if your going that way... good luck hope it works out :)
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reader, person12345 +, writes (6 May 2012):
 No. If you've pushed him to the point of blocking you from contact, regardless of why, there's nothing you can do except to leave him alone. Sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2012): Well u have his number don't txt more than once just tell him u enjoyed talking to him and got a lil excited witch u could see how that would get annoying and that ur usually not like that and would like a second chance her advice though he may want time 2 think about it don't blow up his phone just wait and anytime ur txting only txt once don't blow up phone messages nothing relax I'm sorry to hear about ur hard time though and just remember 2 relax!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 May 2012):
The only thing you can do is leave him alone.
He doesn't sound at all interested if he blocked you on FB.
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