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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Why are women so confusing?
Q. Why are women so confusing? Why can't women ever just say whats on their mind? This past semester I met a nice girl in college and I would text her regularly. We would talk about music, movies, sports and whatever else was going on with school. I ...
A. 31 December 2012: It actually sounds like you like her and she's not interested in you. Thus why she keeps rejecting your passes with flimsy excuses. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Some girls are way too nice when it comes to that. ... (read in full...)
Eight months pregnant by him and now he's broken up with me on Christmas Eve. What can I do? LDR and he's in the military. He says I've not given him enough space.
Q. I met this guy almost 12 mths ago, we were in love an every was great. Now I'm currently 8 months pregnant an recently he started talking a lot less, saying he needs space and that i message him too much. Then he then dumped me on Christmas Eve an ...
A. 31 December 2012: If he's cut off contact, then it's really over. You need to move on and focus on the arrival of your baby instead.
... (read in full...)
Is this guy just a user?
Q. When dating a guy for 2years he is laying in bed with me present girl freind a ex girlfreind calls while we are in bed making love.She tells my guy she loves him and he responds back and tells her he loves her to. Then hang up the phone and tells ...
A. 31 December 2012: It sounds like everyone is getting used. You're getting used by your boyfriend(?) for sex. You're using your boyfriend for financial means. And your boyfriend is using his not so ex girlfriend for sex and money.
There are no victims here.
... (read in full...)
Not sure if it is a good idea to date my ex's housemate!
Q. I feel really stupid asking this question but would it be unfair to date my exs housemate. My ex lives with 4 other lads one of the others parents rented houses. They have lived together 2 years and i was with my ex 1 1/2 years. Anyway we have been ...
A. 31 December 2012: Well it's a bit late since you have already been out on dates with him!
You can do what you want, and you've been broken up with your ex for a little while now. He should be over it, should being the key word here.
The only problem I see it... (read in full...)
I seen photos of b/f with girls in his hotel room. Did he cheat on me?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now. we both went out on a night out with our mates and i ended up going into the place he was and seen him with girls i have never seen before. He went on a lads holiday to zante last year and i ...
A. 30 December 2012: Eh, did he tell you all the details about the holiday (i.e. about these girls)?
Are his mates single?
If he didn't tell you, then I would be wary about this boy's holiday.
However, these pictures put the girls in his room but doesn't nec... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is acting almost paranoid about me leaving him and its really starting to get to me!
Q. I've been seeing my bf now for 4 and a half months, it started really well ( the honeymoon period) but now he's started to over react to situations, and I would almost go as far as calling it paranoid about me leaving him. I no he's had bad past ...
A. 30 December 2012: Your boyfriend cannot compare past relationship history to what he has now with you. AND you cannot coddle him by tiptoeing around his insecurities.
Sit him down and tell him what is exactly wrong with this relationship..he may not like what you... (read in full...)
How do we deal with our communication differences when it comes to expressing love for each other, be it physical or emotional/verbally?
Q. I am a 22 year old male, and I have been dating my girlfriend for over a year and we never had any big issued or disputes till yesterday. She invited me over to her place after going to the mall and threw me out, hurting my feelings, simply because ...
A. 30 December 2012: One more thing:
For whatever underlying reason she cannot handle physical contact with you, then you may have to suffice with sexual contact at the very most and respect her space. Although if the physical contact has changed, then I predict ... (read in full...)
How do we deal with our communication differences when it comes to expressing love for each other, be it physical or emotional/verbally?
Q. I am a 22 year old male, and I have been dating my girlfriend for over a year and we never had any big issued or disputes till yesterday. She invited me over to her place after going to the mall and threw me out, hurting my feelings, simply because ...
A. 30 December 2012: Now there are some people both males and females who don't physically touch each other. It could be they're not comfortable with that, since they lacked it from childhood and don't know how to express their emotions physically, or it may because of ... (read in full...)
She's making catty remarks about me. Do I ignore her? Or involve the guy we both may have a crush on?
Q. this girl might like this guy I might have a crush on. I know he used to like me but I think he likes her now though I don't know for sure. He may even like Both of us. Anyways this girl is rude to me making catty/smart comments most of the time...
A. 30 December 2012: Telling your crush about this girl's rude behavior, won't make you look anymore appealing to him. It actually makes you look bad.
This rivalry, jealousy is between you and her only. Just avoid her, you don't have to talk to her, or listen t... (read in full...)
Why are women so confusing?
Q. Why are women so confusing? Why can't women ever just say whats on their mind? This past semester I met a nice girl in college and I would text her regularly. We would talk about music, movies, sports and whatever else was going on with school. I ...
A. 30 December 2012: To find out the exact reason why, you need to ask her.
There's too many factors to give you a straight answer.
- She's busy with other engagements.
- She grew bored of texting you.
- She didn't see anything going anywhere between the two... (read in full...)
Her parents are unhelpful and her bi-polar is not medicated as her parents can't afford it. I care about her deeply, but what can I do about supporting her, now that I have less time?
Q. Bit of background information: I'm 18 and about to enter my second semester of college, my Girlfriend is 17 and in High School. We've been dating for over a year now. We started dating when I was a Senior in High School. We saw each other every ...
A. 30 December 2012: You cannot help this girl. She needs medical attention and medication to help her bipolarity.
Like the above poster posted, I'm sure there is a clinic she can be directed to for assistance and her parents to be able to afford the medicati... (read in full...)
How do we deal with our communication differences when it comes to expressing love for each other, be it physical or emotional/verbally?
Q. I am a 22 year old male, and I have been dating my girlfriend for over a year and we never had any big issued or disputes till yesterday. She invited me over to her place after going to the mall and threw me out, hurting my feelings, simply because ...
A. 30 December 2012: Just to clarify, are you groping her every chance you're alone with her? Like as in touchy-feely trying to have sex with her?
Or to cuddle and she doesn't want you touching her?... (read in full...)
I am having real issues with my boyfriend smoking weed and I don't know if I am overreacting or not.
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2.5 years now, and in the last six months he has started smoking weed regularly. I have never liked weed for no other reason that it smells bad and is a waste of time and money in my opinion, but I have ...
A. 30 December 2012: I dealt with a few boyfriend who smoked weed, which in both cases led to more drugs as in coke and meth. I drew the line there.
Like you weed never really bothered me, (except for the smell) but I did notice a pattern in those who smoked it. They... (read in full...)
I can't forget about this older guy despite following your previous advice! What's going on? I need help!
Q. Hey I recently wrote for you about this man of 31 years old and was advised delete him from my Facebook account and to focus my attention on somewhere else, so that's what I did. I deleted him from fb and I changed my way to school to not see him ...
A. 30 December 2012: If you find yourself being obsessed about this man, then I advise you to speak with your family about getting you mental counseling.
A professional medical advisor can go through exercises, techniques to help you move on with your life.
Plea... (read in full...)
A drunken text has me worried that others will find out about it
Q. Dear Cupid, I got drunk and messaged this popular kid in my school I. Didn't say anrhing stupid only that I was drunk and he said bye. But then I stared to text my friend who had a thing with him and she was like what's going on since I was drunk ...
A. 30 December 2012: So what, you drunk texted? It's NOT a big deal.
Kids will probably talk about it till the end of the weekend. In other words, your drunk texts will be old news by New Year's Eve.
I find that it's usually wise to give your sober friends yo... (read in full...)
How do I break up with my younger girlfriend?
Q. Hi I've been seeing a much younger girl now for around six months. I should have listened to everyone who said "just have fun, don't get serious, it will never work"...well now we've done the Christmas thing, her presents to me were ridiculous,...
A. 30 December 2012: I echo everyone else in telling her not to come.
Either way she's going to throw her toys out of the pram, as it's best not to do this in person. I'd break up with her over the phone (NO TEXT) and mail back the gifts you received from her.
... (read in full...)
Am I reading the signs all wrong?
Q. He is making me mad. I think he likes me, i have been working with him for a few months. Alot of people think he is grumpy because he doesn't get involved, very task centred guy. But with me: He throws things at me, He protects me- be it from ...
A. 30 December 2012: You're flirting with disaster here. This man may be physically separated from his wife, but they are NOT divorced. Keep that in mind when you engage this man.
IMO, it looks like he's missing that female attention since his wife has moved out, but... (read in full...)
Left my pot head, cheating boyfriend. So why do I feel upset that he's already talking to other girls?
Q. Okay, I am the same girl who wrote about my pot head cheating ex boyfriend and I thank you all for your lovely and supportive feedbacks :) So lastnight, I couldn't sleep. I had a lot on my mind. I was talkin to a friend of mine about him and sh...
A. 30 December 2012: Positives to dumping your pothead, cheating ex bf (in no particular order)
1. You won't have to cover up the weed smell when you go back to your parent's home.
2. You don't have to run out and get him munchies after he smoked a blunt.
3. ... (read in full...)
Fake FB account and now I'm stuck. What do I do?? I never meant to hurt anyone.
Q. i know.i messed up. i know i hurt people. i just want advice though. okay sorry if this is long.i fell fast and hard for a male friend. well i wanted to find out if he was insterested in anyone without him knowing i liked him. so i made a fa...
A. 30 December 2012: Here's your options:
1. Tell the truth. If the tables were turned and some guy made a fake FB account making you fall in love with the fake person, you'd be pretty mad when you found out it was all an act. You'd feel lied to and cheated, not bein... (read in full...)
Too much, too soon... how to recover and be a MAN?
Q. I've met a woman an hour away from me, we have many things in common and I'd like to think we've got great chemistry. Fast forward 7 weeks and we are exclusive, sleeping together and spending sat/Sundays The problem is I have almost turned mu...
A. 29 December 2012: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/early-days-dating-her-but-i-think-ive.html
So sorry didn't see your reply from the first time you posted this.
First and foremost you have to trust your woman when she hangs out with her guy friends. She has... (read in full...)
I can't tell my family about our relationship. Is it wrong to date my cousin? Is it wrong to have sex with him??
Q. I have always like him(My cousin) he like me ... He is my boyfriend too but the problem is that i cant never show it in front of My family. Me and him want to tell our family but i dont now how to tell them ?? Is it wrong to date him? And is...
A. 28 December 2012: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin_marriage_law_in_the_United_States_by_state
That will tell you what states allow marriage to your first cousin. Morally it's not correct. Your family will most likely have a problem with it, because you are bloo... (read in full...)
I exchange a few messages with girls on websites and suddenly they delete their profiles. Why?
Q. Hi, I am 23-year-old single guy who has been struggling to find a great girl for myself. I joined a dating site that is strictly for college students and alumni. This past week, I found two girls and started chatting with them. After we traded ...
A. 28 December 2012: No one on here can tell you exactly why..it could be a multitude of things...
1. Something you said to these girls to turn them off.
2. Maybe they weren't interested and blocked you from messaging them. If that's an option.
3. They deleted the... (read in full...)
Fake FB account and now I'm stuck. What do I do?? I never meant to hurt anyone.
Q. i know.i messed up. i know i hurt people. i just want advice though. okay sorry if this is long.i fell fast and hard for a male friend. well i wanted to find out if he was insterested in anyone without him knowing i liked him. so i made a fa...
A. 28 December 2012: Even though you never meant to hurt anyone, you did. Making a fake profile and tricking a person is very deceitful. That person thinks they're talking and maybe falling in love with who they see on the fake profile. When you two finally meet up in ... (read in full...)
Been having an affair. If I don't tell his wife she may be ruining her own life with a cheater!
Q. I've been having an affair with a man who's wife doesn't currently live with him because of their jobs. I am also not sure he's even married to her yet. They live in two different states. She has decided to keep her job because of seniority and ...
A. 28 December 2012: OP, SVC wasn't trying to be the bad guy. She was just trying to straighten the story out. Frankly, I was quite confused too by your updates. Maybe that's why we weren't on the same page.
IMO, I believe it's necessary to tell the truth in the even... (read in full...)
Been having an affair. If I don't tell his wife she may be ruining her own life with a cheater!
Q. I've been having an affair with a man who's wife doesn't currently live with him because of their jobs. I am also not sure he's even married to her yet. They live in two different states. She has decided to keep her job because of seniority and ...
A. 27 December 2012: Just to revert back, yes a child can pick up on their parent's unhappiness in a marriage. No matter the age..you can only keep up that false face for so long, children see right thru that act.
Well, I hope you can come to terms with this short te... (read in full...)
Been having an affair. If I don't tell his wife she may be ruining her own life with a cheater!
Q. I've been having an affair with a man who's wife doesn't currently live with him because of their jobs. I am also not sure he's even married to her yet. They live in two different states. She has decided to keep her job because of seniority and ...
A. 26 December 2012: I thought I had a lot to lose since he supported me financially. It's not that I was completely dependent, as I had a job that paid for my schooling. Regardless of engagement/marriage, I cheated on someone I could have left. I DIDN'T HAVE to cheat. ... (read in full...)
Early days dating her. But I think I've revealed too much about me too soon. How do I stop a slide into the 'friend zone?'
Q. I've been dating this woman for just over a month and I'm really into her for so many reasons. The problem is I have almost turned mushy or wussy by being too open about my emotions, my past, and what I like about her. I feel embarrassed ...
A. 26 December 2012: First and foremost, you cannot stop a woman from putting you in the friends zone, nor can you get out of it. Once you're there, you stay put. There are also particular reasons (sometimes of the unknown) of why a woman puts you in the friend zone. ... (read in full...)
Three months of dating. And still have not met his family and friends? Is this normal? Or weird?
Q. My guy and I have been together for 3 months now and I haven't met any of his friends or family nor him mine... Am I jumping the gun to soon or does that seem weird to anyone else, I don't even think his friends know about me but he will talk to m...
A. 26 December 2012: There isn't really a timeline of when you should meet each others friends and family. Although if it's been say a year and you haven't met them, then there's something fishy going on.
3 months in, there's no need to rush to meet friends and fami... (read in full...)
Been having an affair. If I don't tell his wife she may be ruining her own life with a cheater!
Q. I've been having an affair with a man who's wife doesn't currently live with him because of their jobs. I am also not sure he's even married to her yet. They live in two different states. She has decided to keep her job because of seniority and ...
A. 25 December 2012: Ah, from your original post you acted quite concerned about the wife. Really, your motive for telling her that she would be the type of woman who would kick him to the curb if she found out. High-powered, independent woman wouldn't tolerate such ... (read in full...)
I ditched my friend for a date and now I feel guilty. How do I get my friend back?
Q. i did something so stupid. i went on a date with someone who is visiting from another town and is only here for a week. he was a complete gentleman, didn't do anything inappropriate. we went to eat dinner and then drinks but now i'm thinking why i ...
A. 25 December 2012: I've done that before and the date turned out to be a disaster.
Just go round to her place and ask her to hear out your apology. Own up for the rude behavior and promise never to do it again. ... (read in full...)
My Bf is ignoring me. No contact for 2 days. Yet he's active on Facebook? What's up?
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend made NO attempt to contact me for the pass two days. He is on vacation. But usually, before he sleeps (even on vacation) he would call me. He knows what those calls mean to me. He also did not reply my msgs. He's not ...
A. 25 December 2012: Have you tried calling him, or are you leaving him messages on FB?
I'm not going to come up with excuses for him, because there is none. He's being lazy about contacting you and obviously doesn't care to talk to you.
I'd let the messages go ... (read in full...)
How should I apologise to keep this friendship? I want to stay friends. But I think all he wants is sex.
Q. I went on two dates with this guy. He seems really nice, complete gentleman. however he is only visiting for a week and i think he just wants to have a nice time while here and i don't know what i was thinking. I went to dinner and drinks with ...
A. 24 December 2012: 1. House parties are NOT a date. Bad idea.
2. If you're going to be late on a date, don't expect the rest of the date to go smoothly.
Now, I would apologize for being late, acting awkward, and accusing him of being a player. What gives you t... (read in full...)
Been having an affair. If I don't tell his wife she may be ruining her own life with a cheater!
Q. I've been having an affair with a man who's wife doesn't currently live with him because of their jobs. I am also not sure he's even married to her yet. They live in two different states. She has decided to keep her job because of seniority and ...
A. 24 December 2012: Please excuse my frankness, but since when do you care about his wife or girlfriend? Of course he's to blame for the majority of it, but you had a hand in this as well. The moment you found out he was taken, you should've moved on. Not to mention ... (read in full...)
Should I be upset about my Christmas present?
Q. Ok... I'm just wanting some opinions. Last year for our first Christmas, my boyfriend bought me some electronics. such as a DVD player and a Nintendo wii. (which was nice of him.) I know it was the thought that counts, I am more of a romantic person ...
A. 20 December 2012: I'm not sure why you're upset about your Christmas presents, he got you some really nice items.
I can understand being a little upset if it's not exactly what you want. Due to a mix-up, I'm not getting what I really wanted for Christma... (read in full...)
Is keeping a memory box lame and depressing? My friends comment upset me!
Q. I just wanted to get another opinion on this as my friends comment I thought was rude and didn't make sense... Basically, in my room at university I put in this wristband someone gave me the night before from an epic night out in this box. She as...
A. 20 December 2012: She probably said it because she's jealous she hadn't come up with the idea. Or maybe she's had a rough life and doesn't want to remember anything from her past. Either way, ignore her rude comments.
Franky, I think it's a good idea for those wh... (read in full...)
I want more then just "friends with benefits"
Q. I've been seeing this guy over the past 11 weeks at university, who happens also to be my flatmate. After breaking up for the holidays, it came up in conversation that I liked him and was interested in more, but he made it clear he wanted to stay as ...
A. 20 December 2012: He made your options very clear. There's no number 3 option to choose from. He didn't say:
1. FWB
2. Friends
3. Relationship
That's the way it is. The guy isn't going to tell you those two options and then put off like he wants a relation... (read in full...)
Haven't heard from her for 3 days, Is my Girlfriend breaking up with me?
Q. my long distant Girlfriend of a year have been going great...when we are together we are so happy with each other, we had our bumps in the road but we always manage to work it out, but 3 weeks ago she was being moody for no reason but I found out it ...
A. 20 December 2012: I'm confused because your post lacks punctuation and is very hard to read. Let me see if I got it...
Your GF hasn't contacted you back, but responded to your sister. Then your GF's uncle died so that could be the reason she hasn't contacte... (read in full...)
Why did he wait 2 weeks after our date to contact me?
Q. I'm confused by this guy. We met up for one date and I would describe it as only ok but we are both shy so I put it down to that and was willing to meet up another time. So we arranged a date a few days later but he cancelled last minute, I sent him ...
A. 20 December 2012: I know guys can be lazy when it comes to asking a girl out for a second date. I'd give them a week at the max, that's if they're interested.
It sounds as if he's either bored, or had another date that canceled and is looking for someone to go ou... (read in full...)
A boy is going to ask me out on a date, but my parents don't want me to date till I'm 16. Should I lie to them?
Q. So I am 14 and will be 15 in about 2 months, anyways there is this guy I really like and he is going to ask me out on Friday (my friends ruined the suprise) I am really happy about this but the thing is I would have to hide the relationship from my ...
A. 20 December 2012: Ah yes, I was forbidden to date until I was 16 back in the beginning of the decade. It was defintely diffciult to accept so I tried to date them behind my parent's back.
While it sounds like it would be worth it, it's really not. I had to come ... (read in full...)
Infertility and my whisky dick...
Q. Hi, my wife and I have been married for just over 10 years. We've never succeeded in having a baby over the last 8 years. Over these years we tried numerous IUI, IVF, surgeries, etc, but without luck. Now, my wife is 41 and I am almost 50. My ...
A. 19 December 2012: I'm sorry to hear that as I suffer from infertility as well. I know exactly how your wife feels.
While men can come to terms and accept never being a parent, sometimes the woman cannot. We go through the emotions of feeling broken, like less of ... (read in full...)
Why is he talking to his ex? Should I leave him?
Q. hi i have a problem and need advice. my husband, 5 years now, is talking to his ex gf almost every day he works. not when at home. at first i caught him looking at his calls on cell phone and emails. then i told him to not talk to her and i called ...
A. 19 December 2012: Maybe she's blackmailing him?
Or maybe he never got over her since you two married after they broke up.
Either way you need to confront your husband and put your foot down. Either he stops talking to her, or he can get out of this marriage to... (read in full...)
He treats me pretty badly but I still like him and don't want to give up on him, what should I do?
Q. For the past few months I've really been into this boy I met. We're both in the same major at the same school, but he's a year older. His girlfriend broke up with him at the beginning of the year and as of now they're best friends still and she has ...
A. 19 December 2012: It sounds as if he really never got over his girlfriend. I see that they're best friends and she has a boyfriend, which isn't easy for him. I suppose he sees it as friends is better than not having her in his life at all.
He uses you for hooking ... (read in full...)
Why is he talking to his ex? Should I leave him?
Q. hi i have a problem and need advice. my husband, 5 years now, is talking to his ex gf almost every day he works. not when at home. at first i caught him looking at his calls on cell phone and emails. then i told him to not talk to her and i called ...
A. 18 December 2012: Oh dear, don't try to take control of the situation and forbid her from calling him. She doesn't know you and has zero respect for you. it obviously didn't work because she's calling from a blocked number now.
You provided no informat... (read in full...)
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