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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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My boyfriend is marrying another girl, which is now making me stressed!
Q. My boyfriend is married with some other girl. She doesn't keep him happy in any way. She is arrogant and doesn't respect him. He himself tells me all this. He is 15 years elder than me. We had three years intense relationship. I suggested him to get ...
A. 7 September 2011: I'm sorry but you bring this upon yourself. You keep on walking, you don't sit on his bike. Tell him to stay AWAY from you, that you don't love him anymore. You DON'T talk to him on the phone at all!!!
In order to get thru this, you have to have ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is marrying another girl, which is now making me stressed!
Q. My boyfriend is married with some other girl. She doesn't keep him happy in any way. She is arrogant and doesn't respect him. He himself tells me all this. He is 15 years elder than me. We had three years intense relationship. I suggested him to get ...
A. 6 September 2011: You're bringing this stress upon yourself. Not to be mean, but your aren't anything his life. At the most you're a mistress. Is that something you want to be? I think not. He IS MARRIED to another woman. He is TAKEN.
You cut off contact, tell him... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is marrying another girl, which is now making me stressed!
Q. My boyfriend is married with some other girl. She doesn't keep him happy in any way. She is arrogant and doesn't respect him. He himself tells me all this. He is 15 years elder than me. We had three years intense relationship. I suggested him to get ...
A. 5 September 2011: Ok that was confusing, don't know where it started and ended.
Whatever, the past is irrelevant. You need to look at present day and what is going on.
He is in an arranged marriage now. Happy or not, I'm sure he has to stick it out to appeas... (read in full...)
Should my brother have told me?
Q. I have been torned up about my ex's cheating thats why he is now my ex...but all through my 22 yrs of marriage I always thought we had a fairytale marriage until 4 years ago ...I was devastated to say the least.....so now we're separated I am ...
A. 5 September 2011: If you knew he was cheating on you 4 years ago, who's to say it hasn't been this whole time throughout your marriage? Maybe you suspected it was going on but chose to ignore it.
Regardless, the next move is yours. You two are separated, I'd take... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is marrying another girl, which is now making me stressed!
Q. My boyfriend is married with some other girl. She doesn't keep him happy in any way. She is arrogant and doesn't respect him. He himself tells me all this. He is 15 years elder than me. We had three years intense relationship. I suggested him to get ...
A. 4 September 2011: He's mentally unstable and needs professional help. Please stay away from him, for your own good. ... (read in full...)
Guys seem all over me. But I do not dress slutty. Why does this keep on happening to me?
Q. I don't dress slutty nor do I look slutty. But most of guys I meet all say am sexy. I do have nice features and I would say am cute. But of these guys I meet say am sexy and they just come on me so sexually strong. When I go out I wear clothes that ...
A. 4 September 2011: Who knows? If everyone keeps calling you sexy then it must be true.
You don't have to show skin in order to be sexy. Perhaps you carry yourself well and with confidence. Guys find that sexy.
... (read in full...)
Sudden outbreak of acne at 25? Help!
Q. Hi cupids I know this isn't a relationship question but I just would like some advice about my skin. I have never had acne in my life until recently, I turned 25 a few months back and have heard this may have something to do with my recent outbreak...
A. 4 September 2011: Adult acne is common. You probably displayed a few pimples in your teenage years and when you got in your mid 20s your skin just did a complete 180.
I also have adult acne, I will tell you that there's nothing over the counter that is worth a ... (read in full...)
He ignores me and lied to me, yet I want him! Why does he keep me around if not interested?
Q. i have been talking to a guy for a year and some months, before in the beginning he was so caring and sweet , always wanting to see me, and of course i was kind of stand off ish to him. when i decieded i really cared deeply for him, he turned ...
A. 4 September 2011: Did I miss the part of where you two became boyfriend-girlfriend?
I'm sorry but it sounds as if you're voluntarily staying around. There is nothing tying you two together so you're hanging around him at your own free will.
You don't con... (read in full...)
How do I find out if my boyfriend's family dislikes me?
Q. Ok I,m a 19 year old Damsel in Distress who needs a little help! I don't think My boyfriends family likes me. They never actually said it but I don't think they do I may just be paranoid but I think myself i,m a strange girl. Like I,m really shy a...
A. 4 September 2011: Sounds like you're being paranoid. Unless they're flat out rude to you, then they like you.
When it comes to boyfriends/girlfriends families don't hold back on their opinions. ... (read in full...)
Is she retaliating or am I reading too much into this?
Q. Question here for the ladies. i went on a couple of dates a year ago with a girl from my building and i found out she was crushing on me for months before i asked her out and she told me she was reffering to me as the hot guy on the third floor. i...
A. 4 September 2011: STOP trying to mind read when you haven't a clue as to what she's thinking. Don't even try it. They're nothing but assumptions that are driving you mad.
You are reading WAY too much into this. Take it at face value. She's going with her boyfrien... (read in full...)
An old bf is back in my life but now he's ignoring me??
Q. I dated this guy in high school. I broke up with him cause we were leaving for college and I heard that he was heartbroken for years thereafter. And although I moved to another city after graduation, I always thought about him for all these ...
A. 4 September 2011: In my experience, it's best to leave old boyfriends back where the belong in your high school memory.
Maybe he hasn't checked his email because he's been busy. I slack off on checking my email often.
Unfortunately, I'm not a virtual mind rea... (read in full...)
My partners friend hates me..
Q. My bf says we're still together but he left. He went to another state and says he just wants to work all the time so he can give my son and I everything we want but he is with a friend of his who hates my guts and has already hacked into his fb 3 ...
A. 4 September 2011: So I have this straight, your boyfriend moved to another state (in with his friend?) for a job and basically doesn't have any contact with you because his friend says so?? Is his friend male or female?
Since when does your boyfriend let his frie... (read in full...)
I'm in an awkward position and I don't know what to do..
Q. ok so theres this guy we will call him iggy pop. then theres a guy named....button. so iggy pop asks me out and i said yes we kissed and stuff but then we both had other stuff to do(such as school,after school events, and so on) and we havent hu...
A. 4 September 2011: Button and Iggy Pop? Okkkay.
So Iggy Pop basically dumped you without you being aware of a breakup? Rude little kid for not telling you!
If you haven't talked in a month and you're supposed to be "going out" then you two are broken up.
T... (read in full...)
My 'friend' used me, what do I do about it?
Q. ok guys this is long but any opinions would be gratefully recieved. ive known a guy 3 years and ive always had strong feelings for him but we've always stayed friends-he always come up with some reason like he thinks of me like a sister or somethin...
A. 4 September 2011: What a crap friend. There's no need to try to stay "friends" with this guy when:
1. You have more than platonic feelings for him-It's only going to hurt your further because you've sort of settled for friends but still get jealous over him chat... (read in full...)
I'm not sure what to do or say?!!?
Q. Who gets a cold sore days before her second date? I DO! what do i do? i bet he's gona expect a kiss and i am NOT telling him i have labial herpes! what if what if what ifffff........i know he cant kiss me in public, he prob expects me to ask himm to ...
A. 4 September 2011: When's your second date? Untreated the cold sore will go away in 1-2 weeks. If you don't have that long, then I'd make a doctor's appointment to see if you can get some topical gel to make it go away within a few days.
Cold sores will keep com... (read in full...)
I feel like I've been played but I'm not sure?
Q. I'm just a nice girl from New Jersey who came to West Virginia to make new friends and get away from the stereotype of NJ. I'm a really nice person I am honest though with people and I don't let people walk all over me too much. I'm really book ...
A. 4 September 2011: Really they don't have those typical males in NJ?
What this young man is a guy (and they have them all over the US) who sweet talked you, may even used a little pressure to get into your pants. Then after he gets what he wants (sex) you don't he... (read in full...)
I've cheated and she forgave me, but why can't I forgive her?
Q. my wife had one afair, not a one night stand, after i had cheated for 6 years and while she was pregnant. We are suppose to put all this behind us but what i didnt tell you is ive been lying to my wife, telling her im going to the bank, then i go to ...
A. 4 September 2011: Wait a minute.
" We are suppose to put all this behind us but what i didnt tell you is ive been lying to my wife, telling her im going to the bank, then i go to my wifes friend."
Are you saying you're still cheating??? Please explain.
So ... (read in full...)
We're just friends but my partner thinks differently, what do I do?
Q. I am 39 and have a male friend that I had since I was 11 that every few years we get back in touch. I spend my entire life practically up my boyfriend's a$*, but I'm happy. Actually people consider us the perfect couple because we are a couple t...
A. 4 September 2011: Something seems to be missing here. You say you only have 1-2 arguments a year..so at what point did he stop trusting you? What happened in order for him to lose all trust in you (prior to those texts)?
You say your stuck up his rear, it's obv... (read in full...)
Should my brother have told me?
Q. I have been torned up about my ex's cheating thats why he is now my ex...but all through my 22 yrs of marriage I always thought we had a fairytale marriage until 4 years ago ...I was devastated to say the least.....so now we're separated I am ...
A. 4 September 2011: Ouch sorry to hear that.
Yes and no. It's not really his place to get involved then again, I'd rather hear it from a close family member than a mistress or an anonymous tip.
I see it as a brother looking out for his sister. He's probably kn... (read in full...)
I suspect she is having an affair but I have no proof! Am I just being paranoid?
Q. I have been married for 8 years, this is my 2nd marriage. We are a middle aged couple, she is in her upper 40's. For the main part of our marriage she has been a good wife, but she has seemed unhappy, her adult children all live overseas, and i ...
A. 4 September 2011: Unless you have physical proof, let's face it you got nothing but a suspicion. Based off of what? Her changing appearance and more of an interest in sex? You got nothing.
I don't know of ANY husbands who would complain about their wife being to... (read in full...)
Are there any good stories about being conceiving despite the odds?
Q. I don’t quite know what I want to say here, I guess I am looking for some kind words, anyone who can say something inspirational, maybe I just need chearing up? Me and my bf have been trying for a baby for over a year and we havnt managed as yet. ...
A. 4 September 2011: I assume you're going thru NHS instead of private? Here in the US, you only have to try for at least a year, until you can get referred to fertility treatments. Even then we don't have a health system like NHS, and we have no choice but to go ... (read in full...)
She wore another guy's engagement ring for several months before we were dating, I didn't know that till just now, what do I do?
Q. My wife if nearly three years, and the mother of our 6 month old, was engaged before we were married. She was also proposed to several times. When we were dating, she told me that one serious boyfriend who proposed, she denied him and they bro...
A. 3 September 2011: Then perhaps a separation is good idea for you.
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Is my boyfriend ever going to marry me?
Q. dear all,i am with my current bf for nearly 5yrs. We experienced many ups and downs, of course nearly broke up and patch back again. We ever argued over minor or major issues like married or some other disagreemts. He is very much aware of me...
A. 3 September 2011: He may or may not be lying about 3 years. No one knows..you'd have to wait 2-3 years to find out if he's telling the truth.
The question you have to ask yourself is how long are you willing to wait for this man? 2-3 more years? 2 years max?
... (read in full...)
Too soon to like her?
Q. I met this girl on holiday in Spain and i only knew her for a week and a bit, but i really like her, is it weird that i can like someone after such little time?...
A. 3 September 2011: To just like them? No.
It's fair to say you like what you know about her so far...you just barely know the girl at a week. ... (read in full...)
I'm at a loss as to what to write in our 1 year anniversary card?
Q. Hi, I'd love some ideas from both male and female readers about what to write in my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary card, please. Obviously we've been together a year, and we've been through a lot....good times and not so good times, including a ...
A. 3 September 2011: How happy you are to be with him, and how he's stuck with you through the hard times. And how he's been your rock. ... (read in full...)
Should I let him go or not?
Q. Hey I have a question should I let him go?? ....... Ima try to Make it short :) Ok so there's this Guy who I have history with. Going on 4 years. When we meet he had a gf so we became friends than we lost contact than like 10 months later we ...
A. 3 September 2011: He's been floating in and out of your life for the past 4 years. Stopped talking for 10 months, had sex for 8 months straight, then stopped talking for 8-9 months. So you've known him for about maybe a year and half, maybe 2? It takes years to get ... (read in full...)
Are there any good stories about being conceiving despite the odds?
Q. I don’t quite know what I want to say here, I guess I am looking for some kind words, anyone who can say something inspirational, maybe I just need chearing up? Me and my bf have been trying for a baby for over a year and we havnt managed as yet. ...
A. 2 September 2011: Only the doctor can answer your questions when it comes to the odds of you conceiving naturally.
Have you asked the doctor what would be the odds with Intrauterine washings, or IUI? Since there's no male issue, that may work and it's tons che... (read in full...)
Do women want to see men dressed provacatively?
Q. We All know men love to see womens' bodies - especially the private bits. Women often play upon this in how they dress, to get attention. My question is whether there is any reciprical feeling in women. Do women like to see any part of the anatomy ...
A. 2 September 2011: The only part a woman can show up in her cleavage, and dress in body hugging clothing to accentuate her rear end. It's not like we go around showing off our genitalia. A camel toe isn't sexy, it's quite gross and a fashion faux pas.
Tryin... (read in full...)
Do women want guys to see everything?
Q. Why do so many women wear tops that, when they lean over, give everyone a full view of their boobs? I have been noticing this more and more, from women of seemingly all ages. It's not just seeing cleavage, but rather all of their chest and bra. Are ...
A. 2 September 2011: Some women like to give a free show, just because it makes them feel confident and sexy. Or they're trying to bait a hookup for the night hoping you'll bite. When really it looks trashy and distasteful. Leave something up to the imagination!
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My fiancee spends no time with me.....
Q. iv been with my fiance for 7 years and been living togather in my perents basment for 2 years, she got sick 4 months ago and went to the hospital for 1 week then she went to her sisters house after the hospital just to feel better and come back ...
A. 2 September 2011: I know times are tough in this economy and a job is a job these days. But is it a good idea to be engaged while living in your parent's basement? I mean it sounds as if you're just trying to get back on your feet. How will you pay for a wedding? ... (read in full...)
I'm stressed from all the bills, my dad doesn't work, I need help!
Q. i'm beginning to stress a lot, like everytime i get my paycheck there's always something i have to pay n by the end of the week all my money is gone and i want to save but i can't....I work at this restaurant only on the weekends i get 325$ for the ...
A. 2 September 2011: He has diabetes which if treated correctly and his lifestyle altered then it can be maintained...it doesn't affect his work life. Sounds as if he's too lazy to go out and get a job. Your father is not disabled or terminally ill to the point of where ... (read in full...)
Fed up of living at home with my family!
Q. This isn't a relationship question but a college question, and I would like input. I'm a sophomore and unfortunately have to live at home while I go to college. No offense to my family but it drives me crazy. My younger brothers are very noisy and ...
A. 2 September 2011: Unfortunately, it's your parent's home and as long as you live there, it's their rules. Not to mention they're probably paying for your schooling, so they call the shots.
So you've tried the whole you're legally an adult so maybe it's time for... (read in full...)
I suspect she is having an affair but I have no proof! Am I just being paranoid?
Q. I have been married for 8 years, this is my 2nd marriage. We are a middle aged couple, she is in her upper 40's. For the main part of our marriage she has been a good wife, but she has seemed unhappy, her adult children all live overseas, and i ...
A. 2 September 2011: Unless she's cheating with a woman??? I don't think so.
How about she's reinvented herself with a new look and attitude!!! It sounds like she didn't have much self confidence before. Like the other poster said, your wife probably just pushed h... (read in full...)
Should I let him go or not?
Q. Hey I have a question should I let him go?? ....... Ima try to Make it short :) Ok so there's this Guy who I have history with. Going on 4 years. When we meet he had a gf so we became friends than we lost contact than like 10 months later we ...
A. 2 September 2011: When you first had sex with Guy was he single or dating someone?
I believe you should let him go and move on. Guy has been floating in and out of your life and you two never had anything. Just sex. How are you two going to have love when you have... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 2 September 2011: I can understand that. You couldn't help but take it a little bit farther because you liked her. But then again you should've understood fully what "not serious" meant. She could have been more clear on it.
Ouch, I don't think I've been that cru... (read in full...)
She wore another guy's engagement ring for several months before we were dating, I didn't know that till just now, what do I do?
Q. My wife if nearly three years, and the mother of our 6 month old, was engaged before we were married. She was also proposed to several times. When we were dating, she told me that one serious boyfriend who proposed, she denied him and they bro...
A. 2 September 2011: My answer still applies and yes you're overreacting. Her previous engagements are a thing of the past. It doesn't matter that she told you about the second one right away and the first years later. So what? They don't apply to you. You've conjured ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend ever going to marry me?
Q. dear all,i am with my current bf for nearly 5yrs. We experienced many ups and downs, of course nearly broke up and patch back again. We ever argued over minor or major issues like married or some other disagreemts. He is very much aware of me...
A. 2 September 2011: You know I can understand you wanting to settle down, get married and start a family etc. Women have a certain age in mind when they want to start achieving those goals. Although repeatedly asking your boyfriend when and if he's going to propose ... (read in full...)
She wore another guy's engagement ring for several months before we were dating, I didn't know that till just now, what do I do?
Q. My wife if nearly three years, and the mother of our 6 month old, was engaged before we were married. She was also proposed to several times. When we were dating, she told me that one serious boyfriend who proposed, she denied him and they bro...
A. 2 September 2011: If she didn't cheat on you and wear this engagement ring while she was dating you then what's the problem? So what if she was proposed to by several other men? You are the one she chose to marry and have a life with.
It's a thing of the past...t... (read in full...)
Am I being immature for being annoyed by finding a male friend of hers asleep on her sofa?
Q. I am a 51 year old male that have been seeing a gal for a few months. I am not really the jealous type. I work graveyard shift and had been pretty much staying with my girlfriend every day. I came home for lunch at two a.m. to find a male friend of ...
A. 2 September 2011: At least you didn't find them cuddling on the same couch. Before you go jumping to conclusions, stop and think why he might be there. Maybe he had a fight with his significant other and needed a place to crash for the night.
She is right, it's her... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is marrying another girl, which is now making me stressed!
Q. My boyfriend is married with some other girl. She doesn't keep him happy in any way. She is arrogant and doesn't respect him. He himself tells me all this. He is 15 years elder than me. We had three years intense relationship. I suggested him to get ...
A. 2 September 2011: I'm almost certain that this is an arranged marriage for him. Not sure if adultery is frowned upon in your country though. Regardless, it's not a good idea to carry on this relationship with a married man. It only gets you hurt in the end. Doesn't ... (read in full...)
I did Snoop. Did I read too much into this? What's the next step to rectify the situation?
Q. I read my girlfriend's journal to find that she has nothing but scathing personal thoughts about me: "I don't love him anymore...I don't respect him," and I also found her transcribing conversations with an ex-bf whom I think she may have stayed ...
A. 2 September 2011: Let me see, she's cheated before, has contact with her ex, covers her tracks, but can't hide her diary that well, and there's no trust in this relationship. So you're still with her why??
Either A. let it go because you have no physical proof, o... (read in full...)
Does my mum have the right to take away my computer?
Q. I'm 19, I've completed a year of university and have recently decided to take a gap year and earn money because I'm not sure if higher education is for me. My mum is threatening to take away my laptop (which she gave to me when I started uni) ...
A. 2 September 2011: Are you still living under your mother's roof? Her house, her rules. She can still take away your laptop, she bought it for you..and has the right to take it away if she thinks it's being misused. Even if you or her got the police involved, it's ... (read in full...)
Does my mum have the right to take away my computer?
Q. I'm 19, I've completed a year of university and have recently decided to take a gap year and earn money because I'm not sure if higher education is for me. My mum is threatening to take away my laptop (which she gave to me when I started uni) ...
A. 1 September 2011: If your mother paid for it and can provide proof of purchase, then yes she can take it away from you.
The more you resist, then the more she's going to want to take it away. I would just maturely explain to her that you have uni on pause. Y... (read in full...)
Should I give b/f a birthday present even if things are strained?
Q. dear cupid, i've been dating this guy on and off since april. here pretty recently, we've kind of been having some struggles--he decided that he doesn't feel as happy in our relationship as he used to. i've talked to my mom and his mom about it...
A. 1 September 2011: If you've already spent some $ on it and it's non-refundable, or you don't have the receipt to return it..then go ahead and give it to him.
Usually, I don't give guys who I'm in an off relationship with a gift. Just because it's not a normal, ... (read in full...)
Is she just with me because I pay for everything? I'm not whom she would normally date
Q. im 24 yrs old and my girlfriend is 28 yrs old. We have been together for abt 2 months and have been living together for 1 month. I recently got out of a relationship and was very hurt. I love this girl alot and even though she says she loves me alot ...
A. 1 September 2011: Wow, like the other poster stated you two have been dating for 2 months and you've already shacked up together for a month now? Moving pretty fast isn't it?
So in the 2-3 weeks time she got to know you, is that when she lost her job? Is she even... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 1 September 2011: :( Sorry to hear that. I was shooting for me being wrong...
In her defense she did specify friends in the first place, so you can't be entirely angry with her. You chose to ignore that. However, it was taken a bit further into the couple zone wit... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 21 August 2011: Ehhh, you're still lingering in purgatory. Either shit or get off the pot with her. If you want more with her, then ask her if it's possible to have more than just friends!! Be honest, and tell her that you've developed more than platonic feelings ... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 13 June 2011: It's understandable to get ticked when a friend bails on you, especially at the last minute. You have to keep in mind that you guys aren't an item so you can be pissed off forever. Just wait till you get the opportunity next week.
Anoth... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 12 June 2011: Lol, dear you have to KNOW what you want!
FWBs and an actual relationship are complete bipolar opposites. From your post, starting a FWBs at this point would do more harm than good. You already like her. When you have a FWBs, you're only sexually... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 8 June 2011: What exactly is it that you want?? A relationship? A FWB is NOT the same as a relationship. It's just casual sex with no feelings.
Non-serious is friends or FWBs. Think about it you two hang out when it is permitted which isn't much and do thing... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 7 June 2011: Your problem is you have to actually listen to what the girls say. Women mean what they say, they're not bullshitting you. Nursing school is extremely involving..what medical career isn't??
No matter how much you like this girl so far, if a gir... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 7 June 2011: Then you're wasting your time with her. You want an actual relationship that she can't give you due to her busy lifestyle.
She specified from the get go she didn't want anything "serious" and you agreed. So you're basically settling for less tha... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 6 June 2011: Let me say this when a girl says what she wants upfront she means what she says. Don't question otherwise. When women say "I don't want anything serious" it means she wants either a friendship or to have a no strings attached deal.
Since you two ... (read in full...)
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