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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now. we both went out on a night out with our mates and i ended up going into the place he was and seen him with girls i have never seen before. He went on a lads holiday to zante last year and i really bealived he hadnt been with anyone until yesterday i seen pictures of him and his mates on holiday last year. There was pictures with him out with girls and also picturs of him and his mates and girls in a hotel room! I have told him i have seen these pictures and he is saying he has not been behind my back there was nothing in it with the girls. I do not know what to believe as i seen that the other night and seen them pictures yesterday! do you think my boyfreinds has cheated please helpp!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (31 December 2012):
 I have pictures of people in hotel rooms with me. It does not mean I had sex with them.
other than the fact that you have seen him with women and seen pictures of him with women (the same women?) does not mean he's cheating..
Heck if I saw a picture of my husband with a woman sitting on his lap I would not think he was cheating... I would ASK him... "honey why was that girl sitting on your lap in the picture in the hotel room?" but it would not immediately mean he cheated.
what else is going on that makes you right away assume he's cheating?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (30 December 2012):
 Eh, did he tell you all the details about the holiday (i.e. about these girls)?
Are his mates single?
If he didn't tell you, then I would be wary about this boy's holiday.
However, these pictures put the girls in his room but doesn't necessarily mean he cheated on you. You could quietly talk to a few of his mates to see if anything happened. Although you risk that coming back on you and spawning a fight. Either way you don't really trust him atm.
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reader, Darrell Goodliffe +, writes (30 December 2012):
 Right I have to say here having girls in your hotel room and/or going out with them is a long, long way from sexual intercourse. I am a great believer in going on what you have, you know the facts. All you know for sure is that he had girls in his hotel room, fully clothed I presume, with guy mates, what are you suspecting? An orgy?
Unless you have more to go on, another reason for not trusting him, these photos are certainly not enough to convict him of cheating.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (30 December 2012):
 I think the only way that someone/anyone could more clearly make you see that this guy is a creep... would be for them to imprint those pictures on a baseball bat (a cricket wicker?) and smack you on the forehead with it....
WHY bother to give this guy even ONE more thought????
Good luck...
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