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I have lived through many different experiences in my life, some happy and some traumatic. I am single and have been for 7yrs. I have lots of animals including a horse and sheep.
I work with people that are homeless, have mental illness or learning disability, ex offenders, substance misuse issues, self harm, low self esteem, fleeing domestic abuse, families going through difficulties, parents with children who are having difficulties. I work in supported housing so see all these issues regularity and work with agencies to get some help if I cannot help. |
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Since I asked her to marry me, things have gone downhill!
Q. Dear Cupid, I appreciate the role your site is offering to so many who are faced with problems of their choice. Please i encourage you to keep ahead with the good job. I fell in love with a certain girl in 2002 and we have been going on well e...
A. 6 February 2006: Good morning Gift and thanks for the up date, you come across to me as a fantastic and caring guy, she has lost a wonderfu partner and will one day realise this, but in the here and now I am sorry for your break up but in my heart I feel it is for ... (read in full...)
Why would he want her rather than me?
Q. Heres my problem..I have a hard time meeting guys. I am kind of picky but I just know what I want and dont want. I was so excited when I met this guy, and he felt the same way. We talked everyday for a few weeks (went out a couple of times)then all ...
A. 6 February 2006: hi again Picky, good to get an up date, did you go out at the weekend and find a hot guy, if not why not, have some fun, keep it safe but go get your self a man that appreciates you and will treat you like the lovely girl you are.
Dont let your stan... (read in full...)
I think that he thinks I'm involved, but I'm not. Now I live nearby, and I wonder if he feels the same attraction I do!
Q. I know a guy from work, he's about 10 years younger than me. Last May we meet at a baseball game and we talked for a long while and he kept staring at my eyes. I was married at the time and my husband had just told me he had a girlfriend and was ...
A. 30 January 2006: Sounds like you may have a new friend, you need to make the first move especially as he is shy and take it from there, ask him were is good to eat, what pubs are good etc as you are new to area, this may lead onto a conversation into which you ... (read in full...)
I just can't be friends with my ex! I'm in love with him!
Q. Went out with this guy for almost ten years, and then broke up for six because he cheated on me. We became friends for about one year, and he expressed interest in having a serious relationship again. I decided after a year that I wanted to try to ...
A. 30 January 2006: Deep down you know what you have to do, yu have even told me, ditch him and move on, painful as this is prolonging the agony will do no good, he is not interested in you in the way you want him to be. He does not know what he wants and with you he ... (read in full...)
We dated for a couple of months, but he asked someone ELSE to the prom!
Q. Dear Cupid, I like this boy and we were dating for a month or two. He had said that he had feelings for me. He then, instead of asking me, asked another girl to the prom. I felt like it didn't even matter to him that he hurt me. I was mad, but...
A. 29 January 2006: move on and get a nice boy, he is a swine and has thrown away any future relationship that you may have had by the calus way he has treated you. you are a nice girl who deserves better.... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant with my divorced, older-man's baby. Now I've seen him in town with his ex-wife...
Q. I have been secretly seeing someone that is 10 years older than me. We have been together for almost 9 months now. He has been married and has a child. He told me that I was his only one. He said that him and his wife were divorced and I should feel ...
A. 29 January 2006: Hi, I agree with fairy angel, you have a duty to find out what he is up to and your relationship shoul not be a secret if he is seperated.
He has to be told about your baby if he does not already know and if he is still with his wife or has anot... (read in full...)
Should I try to flirt with my teacher to get him interested in me?
Q. Well I'm having a problem right now. I like my teacher. He's 23 yrs old and I'm only 15. The thing is that I wanna have something with him but I understand it's gonna be hard because he has a girlfriend and he's engaged. Every time I see him I just ...
A. 29 January 2006: You must not take this any further, he is not allowed to have a relationship with you and will loose his job, if he is flirting with you then you need to stop this, tell someone like another teacher.
I know this is not what you want to hear but what... (read in full...)
Haven't told her how I feel, and now she and her boyfriend are about to have sex. Anything I can do?
Q. Hey, I really really like this chick and I haven't really gathered the courage to tell her how I feel. I think she feels the same way. I found out recently she and her new boyfriend are going to have sex! Should I just let my feelings slip away or ...
A. 29 January 2006: Tell her that you fancy her, let her know you would like a relationship, nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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Don't feel emotionally stable enough to have one-night stands... Anything wrong?
Q. hi , i havent had a boyriend for two years it doesnt bother me because im enjoying going out with friends the only problem is i haven't had a sexual partner since then either i just cant have a one night stand my friends all do but i dont feel ...
A. 29 January 2006: stick to your values, don`t sleep around if you don`t want to, this is your life not your friends, you have a set of morals that are your own so don`t be swayed, stay strong and remember you dont need to have a partner to get rid of your sexual ... (read in full...)
I'm happily married....but my heart aches for my wife's married friend! Help!
Q. I am 42 male happily married for 14 years. For the past few months I have developed strong feelings towards one of my wife's friend (she is married too). It doesnt mean that I dont love my wife any more. But my heart aches be with her friend, ...
A. 28 January 2006: This is a dilema for you as you dont know if this lady feels the same as you, you can love people in different ways, I guess by what you say that you think she is not happy that is why you want to hold her and heal her by loving her, You are ... (read in full...)
We are married and in our 20's...but he wants to wait until we are in our 40's to have children. Should I agree with this?
Q. I am 22 and my husband is 24. I was talking to him about the possibility of having children soon and he said, "Wait till we're between 40 and 44 years old. Then we will have enough money to raise a family." He is hard-working, but also very af...
A. 28 January 2006: Ther is no right time to have kids, younger is good because you are fit, you have more energy and you are still young when they grow up but you dont have as much money or stability, older is good because you are mature, you have travelled and you ... (read in full...)
I'm in a relationship of 10 years...but fell love with a married woman. What should I do?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 10 years,but in the last 6 months I have met someone else, and I have fallen deeply in love with her. We have started to see each other more regularly..as often as we can..and I believe we want the same thing. She ...
A. 28 January 2006: All relationships go through boring periods as well as lively and exciting periods, you have been together for 10 years and went looking for something more exciting and you found it, so from here it looks like you need to make some seriouse ... (read in full...)
My husband chooses his friends over me. Why?
Q. Hi, I have been with my husband for 6 years and married for one year. I love my husband and he loves me. We have lots of friends and everyone gets along really well. However my husband seems to have four other guy friends, that I can't get along ...
A. 28 January 2006: Hi,I suspect your husbands four friends are not attatched and so living the single life, your husband is attracted to some aspects of the life they have, whilst most of the time he is happy to be with you, when he is with them he likes the single ... (read in full...)
Scared to go all the way... How can I get over my fears?
Q. I have been with my bf for almost a year. We had many talks about wanting to go all the way. We have tryed many times but i always get scared. I want to so badly. He has even given me a ring. We love one another very much. Will i ever be ready? How ...
A. 28 January 2006: good morning, How old are you, is this what is holding you back or are you just afraid of actually having sex, if you are totally relaxed and have taken the correct precautions, you already say you want to move your relationship to a physical one so ... (read in full...)
Like a bull in a china shop...
Q. my husband has a hard time controlling his andger, when he gets to angry he breaks things. how can i hwlp him control himself?...
A. 28 January 2006: Hi, right well some people do have short fuses, that is just how they are, blow up one fast and then its all over, me I sulk that is my way, neither is right but both are acceptable. what is not acceptable is when his anger and temper is hurting you ... (read in full...)
Why would he want her rather than me?
Q. Heres my problem..I have a hard time meeting guys. I am kind of picky but I just know what I want and dont want. I was so excited when I met this guy, and he felt the same way. We talked everyday for a few weeks (went out a couple of times)then all ...
A. 28 January 2006: hi Picky, you are right to take your time in choosing relationships, but have some fun doing it, not all dates have to turn into marriage, you kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince, it sounds like you need to widen your circle of friends, ... (read in full...)
Feel like there is a war on singles... And I'm in the firing line!
Q. Why do people ALL of a sudden wanna rush into marriage, kids, "the works". I'm only 22 and most of my mates are asking when you gonna find "a chick" "mess around alittle", what is this WAR on the singles? I'm not in any relationship and I'm not ...
A. 28 January 2006: good morning frustrated, well you are right about peoples percieved idea about what you should and should not do, this is normal as you are not in this world alone, you have friends, maybe family and by the sounds of it some people close to you are ... (read in full...)
I like his career advice... But I like *him* even more! How can I subtly let him know?
Q. Advice appreciated! There are some truly amazing agony aunts and uncles out there and I would love your input on this one! I know this amazing guy and we have great chemistry. We talk and laugh and have so much in common and I find him soooo a...
A. 27 January 2006: hi, well it does sound like you have a good friendship, do either of you have a partner, you really need to know if he is free before you advance this further, if he is then why not send him a text or e-mail thanking him for the advice and telling ... (read in full...)
He only think sbaout the gym and doesn't care for our children or me...
Q. My partner of 15years is obessed with himself and the gym,Two years back my partner joined the gym and i was happy for him,but he has taken it to far now.He started spending all his free time down there.I was left on my own alot,so i started my own ...
A. 27 January 2006: Wow wht a selfish person he is, sadly people do become obsessed about things and his gym has taken over his life and imacted heavily on yours and the kids, normally i would say ditch him and manage on your own but it seems you may have to work ... (read in full...)
Since I asked her to marry me, things have gone downhill!
Q. Dear Cupid, I appreciate the role your site is offering to so many who are faced with problems of their choice. Please i encourage you to keep ahead with the good job. I fell in love with a certain girl in 2002 and we have been going on well e...
A. 27 January 2006: Hi, It is time to get out of bed and take controle of this situation, you are grieving for something you know you have lost, what she did was wrong and you did the right thing in giving her a second chance but something preciouse has been betrayed ... (read in full...)
Should I tell about my bipolar condition? Won't that frighten him off?
Q. I need some help here...I suffer with bi polar manic depression, and I think it is affecting my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for 4 months and I haven't told him about my illness. I am afraid to tell him because then he will ...
A. 26 January 2006: Hi, my advice is to gather all the information you have on bi polar and sit your partner down in a relaxed atmosphere. Be brave, as this is for you a big step, and one you need to take. Remember, he may not understand what your condition, is so try ... (read in full...)
Why haven't I kissed a girl?
Q. Hi, im fourteen and now im feeling kind of awkward! All of my friends have gone out with girls, kissed them and whatnot. Im now just wondering why i haveNt. Not trying to be arrogant, but i'm good looking, brainy, muscular and nice, and i've had a ...
A. 26 January 2006: Dont worry it may be that you are just thinking about it too much, this is causing you stress and you may just be missing the girls cue, my guess is that because you are stressing over this it has become a huge issue and you are in danger of ... (read in full...)
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