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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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How can I stop losing my temper and beating my girl up?
Q. hey man i have a girl who love me so much and am also very crazy about her but any b tyme i get mad at her i beat her up but yet still she love me canu tell me how to stop cos i love my baby girl so muchits all about my temper....
A. 31 March 2010: Man, I thought I had issues... I have anger, abandonment, and low self-esteem, but I certainly don't go around beating people up. If you love someone, you just DON'T hurt them. I agree that you should leave the relationship, if you can't control ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my insecurities and say "hi" to this guy?
Q. I'm so insecure, it's really bad. I cant give people eye contact because I'm so scared they're gonna judge my face. I know they do it anyways but im scared of what they think, even though I know I should'nt. For example ,I really wanna talk to ...
A. 31 March 2010: Well, what do you know! I see you're 13-15 years old.
When I was exactly the age you are now, I was PAINFULLY shy. I'm twice your age now, and people are shocked when I tell them this, because I'm the last person anyone would suspect of being sh... (read in full...)
I made a HUGE mistake last night!!!
Q. I made a HUGE mistake last night. In a moment of passion (during sexual foreplay) I asked my GF a hypothetical question of "If I wasn't in your life, and you had to be with one of our/your friends/acquaintances, who would it be? The problem is...
A. 31 March 2010: All girls have fantasies about celebrities (eg, movie stars)... this girl just happens to have a fantasy about an ordinary person. You feel threatened because she fantasizes about someone "attainable." Look at it this way... the fact that she's ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get over this unrequited passion?
Q. I have a fairly new male friend. I have strong feelings for him, I told him about them. He was nice about it but said he could only ever see me as a friend. I said to myself ok, I can live with that, but here is Where it gets confusing... He is ...
A. 31 March 2010: Your friend is playing some weird mind game with you! Maybe he's not sure what he wants.
I've been in unrequited love, and it SUCKS... a LOT!!!!
I believe in being sincere and direct with people. It's not that I'm insensitive and ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get over this unrequited passion?
Q. I have a fairly new male friend. I have strong feelings for him, I told him about them. He was nice about it but said he could only ever see me as a friend. I said to myself ok, I can live with that, but here is Where it gets confusing... He is ...
A. 31 March 2010: Your friend is playing some weird mind game with you! Maybe he's not sure what he wants.
I've been in unrequited love, and it SUCKS... a LOT!!!!
I believe in being sincere and direct with people. It's not that I'm insensitive and ... (read in full...)
Should I come out to my friend? How do I get my mom to believe me?
Q. *OP's own title* My mom always says that I can tell her anything. So two weeks ago I told her that I was gay. She took it okay but she thinks that it's just a phase and that I'm not sure. I'm positive that I like girls and every time I tell her that...
A. 31 March 2010: There's nothing wrong with being gay, and you know whether or not you're attracted to girls, but I WILL tell you this. I'm totally straight but when I was your age I wondered if I was gay. What I'm saying is that perhaps your mom thinks that you're ... (read in full...)
Which do you prefer: a female or male Gynecologist?
Q. Hey Aunts, Pretty trivial one here: I'm planning on going on the pill, and I just made a doctor's appointment. It only just occured to me that most people would probably want to see a female doctor about this, but when they asked me if I would ra...
A. 31 March 2010: I don't know why, I just feel more comfortable with a male. I think it all chalks up to I just tend to have better rapport with guys. There's nothing wrong with a female. You should do whatever makes YOU feel comfortable. :-)... (read in full...)
I feel rejected by my man. What could be wrong here?
Q. Im been seeing this guy in his 36 years old, he went to jail for 2mths, he came out he stop having sex with me and he do kiss or touch me like Im his woman. If i get any kind of love from him it would be one a month. I try to show him how i love ...
A. 31 March 2010: It's difficult to say; have you talked to him about his lack of passion?
I can imagine how frustrating this situation is for you. In order for a relationship to work, there has to be trust and communication.
This is just a shot in the dark... (read in full...)
I feel rejected by my man. What could be wrong here?
Q. Im been seeing this guy in his 36 years old, he went to jail for 2mths, he came out he stop having sex with me and he do kiss or touch me like Im his woman. If i get any kind of love from him it would be one a month. I try to show him how i love ...
A. 31 March 2010: It's difficult to say; have you talked to him about his lack of passion?
I can imagine how frustrating this situation is for you. In order for a relationship to work, there has to be trust and communication.
This is just a shot in the dark... (read in full...)
He says I'm a great dancing partner, does this mean more?
Q. I cant tell if this guy at my salsa class fancies me... lol. Doesnt sound like the biggest issue of the week but, I've been hung up over a guy for a long time and this is the first man i've looked at since, so I want things to go ok... A week ago i ...
A. 31 March 2010: Some guys are pigs who flirt with girls and set them up for disappointment, just for an ego boost. I don't want to set you up for disappointment, there's a good chance he's one of "those" guys... who just wants an ego boost, but, I could be wrong. ... (read in full...)
I think I have commitment phobia!
Q. I think I might have a serious fear of commitment... getting even slightly involved with a guy freaks me out. Last year, just as things were starting to get serious with a really nice guy who I'd liked for a while, I freaked out and backed out after ...
A. 31 March 2010: I know you need love, and it's natural to want to share your life with someone.
However, I think that "phobia" isn't the most accurate word to describe your feelings.
A phobia is an intense, irrational fear. For example, some people have a ph... (read in full...)
How can I stop losing my temper and beating my girl up?
Q. hey man i have a girl who love me so much and am also very crazy about her but any b tyme i get mad at her i beat her up but yet still she love me canu tell me how to stop cos i love my baby girl so muchits all about my temper....
A. 31 March 2010: I hope this is a joke.
I don't judge anyone, but I don't sugarcoat the truth either.
If you truly loved her, you wouldn't beat her up.
How do you stop doing it? You simply stop. You are in control of your actions. No matter HOW ... (read in full...)
I am completely in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do.
Q. I am completely in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do. It started a few months ago when we first met and i'd just split with my ex boyfriend and he really cheered me up. i have told him i like him and he says that he does too but ...
A. 30 March 2010: It seems like neither one of you is in a relationship right now.
You KNOW what you want, go grab it. If you don't strike while the iron is hot, sometimes you miss your opportunity.
Je repete: You know what you want, why aren't you makin... (read in full...)
Is he just being an idiot or does he really like me?
Q. Umm.I really like this boy. He always fools around with me in my last class at school that we have together. He does things like blows me kisses and touches my butt or tells me im hot or like says if I wanna go to his crib with him and flirts and ...
A. 30 March 2010: "Coming back to his 'Crib'" means that his little pee-pee wants in your pants.
This is true. He's no good!... (read in full...)
My best friend is being really nasty to me... Help!
Q. Hello! Okay, my best friend and I fell out last year (she was dumped by my other friend and had become OBSESSED with him, I told her I didn't want to be stuck in the middle and she turned on me, that's the jist of it). Anyhow, we have a few mutua...
A. 30 March 2010: It sounds like your friend is playing mind games, but I could be wrong. Have you confronted your friend about how hurt you are?
If she's been telling lies about you, you need to stick up for yourself. Make sure that you tell these mutual f... (read in full...)
I still love my ex, and to make matters worse, I just started a relationship with someone else!
Q. So, here's one for the record books! It's a bit long, but it's worth reading...you will be amused! I met a girl nearly a year ago. We don't live in the same city, but both of us are professional athletes and we travel around the country a lot fo...
A. 30 March 2010: You say you don't know if you love your current girlfriend. If you truly love someone, you'll know it. This ex of yours doesn't seem to know what she wants, and you're not sure who you really love.
In spite of all this, you have to do what's r... (read in full...)
Is it appropriate to go to a guys house on a second date?
Q. BIG question...What's appropriate for a first or second date? I went to dinner with this guy for our first date and now, he wants me to come over his house and he admitted that he was really attracted to him and joked we might end up in bed or ...
A. 30 March 2010: I don't want to scare you but the majority of sexual assault victims know their attackers; usually, it's an acquaintance. If you don't know this guy well, don't get alone with him. ... (read in full...)
Is he just being an idiot or does he really like me?
Q. Umm.I really like this boy. He always fools around with me in my last class at school that we have together. He does things like blows me kisses and touches my butt or tells me im hot or like says if I wanna go to his crib with him and flirts and ...
A. 30 March 2010: Tell him to GET HIS HANDS off of you!!!!
Don't EVER accept disrespectful treatment from anyone.
He's an immature, disrespectful jerk. I know that when you like someone, you see them in a different light. I'm an objective person, with no ... (read in full...)
Are you likely to fall pregnant having sex during your period?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had sex well i was on my period and we did it the pull out way cuz we both herd that it was unlikely to get pregnit well your on it. Does any one know what the chances or percentage that i could be pregnit? I wouldnt really mind ...
A. 30 March 2010: You can get pregnant at any time during your cycle!
Any time that an egg and sperm are present, conception can occur.
If you're not ready to get pregnant yet, you need to talk to a doctor or nurse about birth control. It's really important... (read in full...)
I don't know how to cook and need some tips
Q. Ok I know this doesn't have anything to do with sex,relationship or love but I have to ask sombody...... well im 21 years old and I have a two year old and im preg.... I live with my boyfriend and my two year old. Well we always eat out, because ...
A. 30 March 2010: I'm a bit older than you and I can only make the basics, but I am thinking of learning how to cook well. I can still think of some ideas that might help you:
I bet that your local junior college offers a cooking class. Do you have time to take ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend raped me. I'd say 'no' but he wouldn't listen!
Q. I was with my boyfriend (21) for 2 and a half years. Im 22. We broke up 8 months ago as it was a terrible emotionally abusive relationship. He was so so nasty that I just cracked and eventually developed some type of anxiety. He cheated on me, ...
A. 30 March 2010: If you said "no," and he forced you to have sex, then by definition that is rape. It doesn't matter if you're in a relationship, what he did was criminal. I hope you press charges against him because he belongs in jail.... (read in full...)
Signs that he's gay vs. signs that he's not...
Q. Give Me your Opinion Please! Signs he IS gay: 1)He Likes Big Time Rush 2)He Listens To Nick Jonas and thinks he is "raw" 3)He Watches The Show "Glee" 4)He Flirts with me and His overall interactions with me are completely different fro...
A. 30 March 2010: Eeew! Who the hell would be turned on by a "blue waffle?!?
I don't gross out easily, and I'm not squeamish, but that really grossed me out. The average person would probably throw up at the sight of that.
You can't stereotype guys,... (read in full...)
What's the best way to act round about a guy you really like?
Q. Hey all, I'm 14 and i'm confident, ive been told im okay-looking etc. But when im around a boy i like, i get very uncomfortable and awkward. classic right? I'd just like some help, whats the best way to attract him, keep him thinking about m...
A. 29 March 2010: Be yourself! If he falls for a facade, rather than the real you, then it defeats the purpose. Always look your best and take care of your appearance. Be friendly but don't fawn on him.
If there's someone you like... smile and make eye cont... (read in full...)
My molester is going to be at this dinner. Should I go?
Q. today me and my boyfriend will be going out to dinner along with his mother and brother it was all payed for his brother's company. ok here is were it get's interesting i found out last night that my mother whom i dont get along with will be there ...
A. 29 March 2010: Your mother's behaviour is horrifying! That shit ought to be locked up in prison to this day; how the hell did he only get three years in prison?
I can see why this dinner makes you uncomfortable. If you don't want to go, then you certainl... (read in full...)
Is it normal for straight males to sometimes have a crush on another male?
Q. I am a senior in all boys high school. I play football so I know students from th 9th grade thru the 12th grade. I have a problem. I am not gay, but I am starting to have a crush on a freshman that is 14 years old. He can make me laugh and we ...
A. 29 March 2010: You're familiar with the Kinsey scale, right? Google the Kinsey scale.
It's a scale that measures exactly HOW straight, gay, or bisexual a person is. In other words, it's based on the premise that most people are NOT 100% gay, 100% straight... (read in full...)
Saw bruises on my brother that he won't explain ...
Q. My younger brother (13) is staying with me for a few days and yesterday I noticed he had bruises on his lower back and I think they go lower but I couldn't see. It looked like he'd maybe been whipped with a belt but I'm not sure. I asked him about ...
A. 29 March 2010: You should definitely tell your parents about this. I'm concerned that whoever abused him probably threatened him and that's why he doesn't want to tell anyone. An adult needs to know about this. Ebony is correct; if this abuse continues, or if ... (read in full...)
Married for 21 years and the spark is gone
Q. i been maried 4 21 yrs the love andthe spark is gone i dont know wat to do i am so lonly ...
A. 28 March 2010: Have you talked to a marriage counselor? It really could help... they're trained to deal with this situation and they see it all the time. I'm not "passing the buck" and don't mind helping you but I feel like this situation lends itself to the ... (read in full...)
Do boys never make passes at girls wearing glasses?
Q. What do guys think of girls who wear glasses?I wear them and I seem to get a lot of attention but I was just wondering...
A. 28 March 2010: I wear glasses, and contacts, and it depends on the person. Some frames are very fashionable and stylish. I think that there are some people who look really good in glasses... it's "them." I think that glasses lend themselves naturally to some ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is still actively looking online and he avoids discussing the subject
Q. mi feel jealous of my bf's web usage. we live together. he still meets girls online. he keeps his singles/dating profile active. he tells me they are just friends that he chats with. what gives? i don't know what to think. to me this is cheating. is ...
A. 27 March 2010: Your boyfriend has way overstepped the boundaries.
There's nothing wrong with talking to PLATONIC female friends. The trouble is that your boyfriend is presenting himself as single and available and he's meeting girls for more than friendsh... (read in full...)
I am attracted to the characters on South Park! Is this cause for concern?
Q. I find the characters in "South Park" kind of attractive, is this a reason to be concerned? I mean, they are nine years old. And they are not real....
A. 26 March 2010: Haha, at least you're not attracted to Mr. Hanky. Did they ever make any more Christmas specials with him? He was really gross. That episode cracked me up but I couldn't stand to look at Mr. Hanky because he was so nasty. ... (read in full...)
I am attracted to the characters on South Park! Is this cause for concern?
Q. I find the characters in "South Park" kind of attractive, is this a reason to be concerned? I mean, they are nine years old. And they are not real....
A. 26 March 2010: I don't think there's anything wrong with not finding Chef sexy. It's all relative. Like we say in Spanish, "En gustos se rompen géneros."
"Stan lemme sing you a little song about the menstrual cycle"
??Ooh baby, yeah, baby hey baby...??... (read in full...)
I am attracted to the characters on South Park! Is this cause for concern?
Q. I find the characters in "South Park" kind of attractive, is this a reason to be concerned? I mean, they are nine years old. And they are not real....
A. 26 March 2010: Chef died?! Oh, no. How the hell did he die? :(
I don't think you're weird, by the way... I think most of us have had a crush on a cartoon character or two. @ everyone else: C'mon, admit it. Now that we have the internet, we can admit it... (read in full...)
What physical attributes do you like in a man?
Q. What physical attributes (body parts) do you like in a man? Ladies, here is a question which I hope you take your time in answering. I bet you Women hear that most guys love a women's "butt" or Breasts" or even "Height"...so now its your turn....
A. 26 March 2010: The movie I saw is by FilmIdeas and it's part of the Travel Odysseys series, "Andalusia" (Andalucía). I hope that doesn't sound strange but I saw my physically ideal guy there... in case you're wondering, I was in Spain for SCHOOL, I'm not a creepy ... (read in full...)
I'm gay but falling in love with a woman
Q. Hi, I am a gay man. In my life i've never been sexually attracted to a woman, only men. My dilemma i now I think I am in love with a woman. Im not sexually attracted to her but I believe I love her. Is this normal? ...
A. 26 March 2010: Being in love means sexual attraction witha foundation of friendship. Do you have any sexual attraction at all, or do you just love her in a sisterly way?
Remember, most people are NOT 100% gay, straight, or bisexual. You've heard of the Kins... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so sad all the time?
Q. Do you think that it's normal to feel sad most of the time? sometimes i'm happy not always. i feel a sadness inside that i can't get rid of. it feels like i'm dead already. i try to keep a happy face 4 my kids and family... but deep down i just want ...
A. 26 March 2010: It sucks to go through depression. You don't say if you've just been feeling depressed, or if there's something in your life that you can pinpoint as the cause of your sadness.
Tell us more about what's going on in your life. You may talk us,... (read in full...)
My loyalty is to my deceased wife, ... so how can I stop other women hitting on me!
Q. I have four beautiful daughters who mean the world to me. They range from 13 months-8 years. I became a widower 8 months ago and my daughters and I are still dealing with the shock and grief. There isn't a second that goes by that doesn't make me ...
A. 25 March 2010: I'm very sorry to hear about your wife.
This woman is being really disrespectful; you're obviously feeling sad about your wife and she knows that you're not interested. You need to be direct and tell her that you are not interested. It's not... (read in full...)
What physical attributes do you like in a man?
Q. What physical attributes (body parts) do you like in a man? Ladies, here is a question which I hope you take your time in answering. I bet you Women hear that most guys love a women's "butt" or Breasts" or even "Height"...so now its your turn....
A. 24 March 2010: @heartfulloflove... that's what does it for me at the end of the day. If someone doesn't have certain emotional qualities, it's a dealbreaker, regardless of what he looks like.
Has to be nice and sweet, a good listener, someone who understa... (read in full...)
I am attracted to the characters on South Park! Is this cause for concern?
Q. I find the characters in "South Park" kind of attractive, is this a reason to be concerned? I mean, they are nine years old. And they are not real....
A. 24 March 2010: Well, Isaac Hayes has a hot voice.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zh8qu7Z-NJ0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UPv1tclfCkU&feature=related
Chef cracks me up!!!!! He's pretty much the life of that show. I think Eric Cartman is a little ... (read in full...)
What are my rights??? Airport Human Body Scanning?
Q. I am due to be flying in about a month's time. I really really detest the idea of this whole human body scan thing where any odd person can view my private parts and genitals. Most men don't seem to think it is a big deal, but as a woman it is a ...
A. 24 March 2010: @Lyra Anna... I don't think it's immature!
I can understand why someone would feel violated.
But you have to understand that they're doing this to protect the passengers; to keep anything from happening to them.
God knows I don't wan... (read in full...)
Sensitive girl dating very sarcastic man.....will it work out or end in tears?
Q. im 22 goin out wit my 26 yr old boyfrend 7 months for the first 3 months we had so much fun we used to always go out dancing in clubs go to pubs and go out drinking and go to cinemas. we said i love you after only 3 months which is very quick i kno...
A. 24 March 2010: What are you doing with this asshole??
He's lazy, doesn't even TRY to get a job and treats you like SHIT?!!! This is madness. Any girl deserves better than this. ... (read in full...)
What are my rights??? Airport Human Body Scanning?
Q. I am due to be flying in about a month's time. I really really detest the idea of this whole human body scan thing where any odd person can view my private parts and genitals. Most men don't seem to think it is a big deal, but as a woman it is a ...
A. 24 March 2010: Bear in mind also that the person who can see your scanned image is in another room and doesn't ever actually see you or see your face. You are pretty much an abstract thing as far as they are concerned.
Yeah, I don't think that it's a crystal ... (read in full...)
What physical attributes do you like in a man?
Q. What physical attributes (body parts) do you like in a man? Ladies, here is a question which I hope you take your time in answering. I bet you Women hear that most guys love a women's "butt" or Breasts" or even "Height"...so now its your turn....
A. 24 March 2010: @Not my name: Blue eyed and blond surfer types? You should have gone to my Jr. high and high school- 99 percent of the boys there fell into that category!
Nothing wrong with them, but I never thought they were attractive.
I've always b... (read in full...)
I am attracted to the characters on South Park! Is this cause for concern?
Q. I find the characters in "South Park" kind of attractive, is this a reason to be concerned? I mean, they are nine years old. And they are not real....
A. 24 March 2010: Is this a joke? I could understand if it were the Chef but seriously, grade school kids?... (read in full...)
What are my rights??? Airport Human Body Scanning?
Q. I am due to be flying in about a month's time. I really really detest the idea of this whole human body scan thing where any odd person can view my private parts and genitals. Most men don't seem to think it is a big deal, but as a woman it is a ...
A. 24 March 2010: I can understand why you feel the way you feel. But you're not being singled out... they do this to EVERYONE, and I mean everyone. You'll probably never see these people again. Just try not to think about it. ... (read in full...)
What physical attributes do you like in a man?
Q. What physical attributes (body parts) do you like in a man? Ladies, here is a question which I hope you take your time in answering. I bet you Women hear that most guys love a women's "butt" or Breasts" or even "Height"...so now its your turn....
A. 23 March 2010: Damn, I don't have a link... I'll see if I can find one. ... (read in full...)
What physical attributes do you like in a man?
Q. What physical attributes (body parts) do you like in a man? Ladies, here is a question which I hope you take your time in answering. I bet you Women hear that most guys love a women's "butt" or Breasts" or even "Height"...so now its your turn....
A. 23 March 2010: I think tattoos are sexy on guys, but it isn't a dealbreaker if he doesn't have any.
I like dark hair, either dark brown or black, and olive or dark skin, and I really notice eyes. I really like dark brown eyes.
I don't like facial hair... I... (read in full...)
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