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Is he just being an idiot or does he really like me?

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Question - (29 March 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *axy7 writes:

Umm.I really like this boy. He always fools around with me in my last class at school that we have together. He does things like blows me kisses and touches my butt or tells me im hot or like says if I wanna go to his crib with him and flirts and stuff like that. he is really funny and nice and athletic and my type I liked him last year but he didnt even know I existed and now I like him again. He asked me out in front of his friends and then said that he liked me but he was just kidding. He always does something every day to make me fall for him more and I really wanna go out with him but I don't know if he just wants me cuz of how I look and is trying to show off in front of his friends or if he really likes me but is just too wimp to ask me out. He always touches me and stuff in front of his guy friends. But the thing is in any other class he doesn't even talk to me or pay any attention. I can't believe im falling for him again. What do you think I should do? And do you think he really likes me? or he's just bieng an idiot.

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (30 March 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony aunt"Coming back to his 'Crib'" means that his little pee-pee wants in your pants.

This is true. He's no good!

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (30 March 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony auntTell him to GET HIS HANDS off of you!!!!

Don't EVER accept disrespectful treatment from anyone.

He's an immature, disrespectful jerk. I know that when you like someone, you see them in a different light. I'm an objective person, with no bias. I can see him for what he truly is. He's being rude, disrespectful, immature, and a player. What his behavior is saying to me is that he just wants to impress all of his little friends by sleeping with as many girls as possible. Don't ever let a guy pressure you into doing something that you know is wrong, just because you like him. I hope that you know right from wrong, don't lose sight of that in the heat of the moment.

I'm not sure if he likes you or not, but he sounds immature. Boys this age don't know what they want, and he doesn't seem like the type who would care if he hurt someone. You deserve someone who will treat you with respect and be considerate of your feelings.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010):

He sounds like a player with pimples. If he really likes you, he'd be a gentleman and do nice things that you truly appreciate. Right now he sounds like he's strutting around like a pea-cock in heat... just fluffing out his feathers and his infantile sexuality for all his guy-friends to see. "Coming back to his 'Crib'" means that his little pee-pee wants in your pants. Stay away from this loser!!!!

When you meet someone who truly likes you, this boy will suddenly look like the biggest jerk in your life right now.

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A female reader, caribe United States +, writes (29 March 2010):

If I were you I would set him in his place.

It seems he is just showing off. Girl you are being too easy. Don't let him touch you, don't play his stupid game... brush him off and move on... this guy is a jerk. Stop talking to him altogether. Maybe, then if he does like you he'll come to his senses. But regardless you need to realize you are letting him disrespect you. I would not hang around someone who treats me the way this guy is treating you. Value yourself girl.

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A male reader, Kenj United Kingdom +, writes (29 March 2010):

Kenj agony auntTell him when he grows up to try asking you out again, but make sure you say it loud enough and say it in front of his friends.

If hes playing games he should give in, if its genuine he will apologise.

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