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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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I'm not a virgin but I want a virgin wife
Q. Okay, so... I have been very active in my life, more so than most people. I put it down to my confidence levels but many put it down to me being an ass. Except for this I'm always good, never harm anything or anyone and any chance I get I help ...
A. 7 August 2010: Thanks :) No mean answers from me here.
This is a really sensitive topic, but I want to help you, which is why I asked where you're from.
Sometimes, when there are cultural differences in a relationship, misunderstandings can arise. Ther... (read in full...)
Is there anyway that you can get rid of a tan?
Q. This may sound like a stupid question - everyone wants to get a tan: how can you get rid of a tan??! I am a model and naturally dark skinned so I tan in ridiculously short spaces. A week ago, I walked to the store (10mins walk) and when I returned I ...
A. 6 August 2010: Miammine I'm sorry if I offended u... I didn't mean to.
Never been to Britain... but only two weeks?
Don't forget, though, I'm from the Sunshine State (Florida) and went to college in Sunny Mexico... and going back to sunny Mexico... so I'm... (read in full...)
I'm not a virgin but I want a virgin wife
Q. Okay, so... I have been very active in my life, more so than most people. I put it down to my confidence levels but many put it down to me being an ass. Except for this I'm always good, never harm anything or anyone and any chance I get I help ...
A. 6 August 2010: Hi new guy,
No problem. I'm glad my answer helped a bit.
I'm just curious. You say that English is not your mother tongue. Where are you from originally, if I may ask? ... (read in full...)
Stuck in a LDR. Is it ok to look for a FWB?
Q. i am a 23 year old lady who is in a stable relationship.however my boyfriend and i are miles away we see each other once in a while like once a month or once in two weeks.when we see each other we make love and we both get contented however the rest ...
A. 4 August 2010: That's cheating!! You know it's wrong... it's just that doing the right thing is hard. But, it's still the right thing to do. Ask yourself, "Do I love this person enough to be true to them?"
Long distance relationships are hard, period. ... (read in full...)
I'm not a virgin but I want a virgin wife
Q. Okay, so... I have been very active in my life, more so than most people. I put it down to my confidence levels but many put it down to me being an ass. Except for this I'm always good, never harm anything or anyone and any chance I get I help ...
A. 4 August 2010: No mean answers here; I think that there's not real connection betweeen virginity (or lack thereof) and honesty... unless someone was sexually unfaithful. the problem here is that she's told you a series of lies, and you found out.
You need to ... (read in full...)
Is there anyway that you can get rid of a tan?
Q. This may sound like a stupid question - everyone wants to get a tan: how can you get rid of a tan??! I am a model and naturally dark skinned so I tan in ridiculously short spaces. A week ago, I walked to the store (10mins walk) and when I returned I ...
A. 4 August 2010: You've GOT to be kidding me!!
But yeah, I understand why tan lines can hurt you in modeling. Still... in this digital age, can't they just airbrush or photoshop your picture?
I'm sure it will have faded in a few weeks. Just wear a big hat t... (read in full...)
Is tossing the salad a reglular part of lovemaking?
Q. Mod Note...OP's own title: Hey everyone. Is it normal for a man to be turned off by the idea of having anal sex with a woman and by the idea of tossing a woman's salad (pleasing her anus orally). I'm in love with my girlfriend and I find h...
A. 4 August 2010: The thought makes me toss MY salad!! And my cookies!! ("Toss one's cookies" in an expression in US English which means, "to barf.")
I love my dog, but like all dogs, she loves to lick her butt, and the smell of her breath would peel paint. ... (read in full...)
I just wanna get out of this place...
Q. Hey.. I am a 17 year old boy.. I live in syria.. I am gay and I am struggling here in my country.. I really wanna go out and I am applying for my visa to the usa now.. and wanna apply for an asylum.. but please help me to know how to get my request ...
A. 3 August 2010: I'm sorry that you've encountered such unjust treatment because you're gay. It makes me sick to see people being treated with cruelty just because they're gay.
There's NOTHING wrong with you. You deserve to be accepted and happy.
I would... (read in full...)
Sensitive subject and at a loss...
Q. I have a 5 year old who will be 6 in August and I recently noticed when putting her to bed that her hands smelt like they were near her "Daisy" or vagina. I asked her aboút it and she became stiff, so I told her that IF she was going to do that she ...
A. 1 August 2010: No problem :-)... (read in full...)
My dad molests me in my sleep. What should I do?
Q. It started when i was 12 (atleast i think). I am now 14 and going into highschool. I moved in with my dad and step-mom when i was 7. And we moved to another house when i was 8. It started after my grandfather killed himself after my cousin now 16, ...
A. 1 August 2010: You need to tell someone- ANY adult- what your father is doing to you. He's telling you not to tell anyone so that he can get away with this... you shouldn't have to endure this abuse. If your parents do divorce, and you choose to live with your ... (read in full...)
Help!!! How do I tell my mom I'm gay???
Q. Hey, I really want to tell my mom about what I'm going through with my sexuality (I think I'm gay) but I need some advice on how to go about doing that. So any help would help a lot. Are there any teens out there who feel the same way? I'd love to ...
A. 1 August 2010: Perhaps you could have a chat with a school counselor if you're not ready to tell your mom. If you're not in danger (you're not gonna jump off a bridge or anything) then they should keep it confidential.
Also... does your school have a gay-stra... (read in full...)
Eating disorder thoughts are slowly becoming worse.. What should I do?
Q. I am 17 years old and I'm terrified about the thoughts that have been entering my mind lately. When I was 6, my parents got a divorce. My dad dated off and on, then finally got 'serious' with a woman when I was 13. She was a complete psycho; sadly, ...
A. 1 August 2010: Hi Angel (nice name btw),
You don't sound even CLOSE to fat!! I don't think you need to lose weight but I think you're just insecure.
There's nothing wrong with you!! You've just encountered some horrible people... just remember, you're... (read in full...)
No matter what we try, I just can't have an orgasm
Q. my boyfriend and i who have been together for over a year and regularly have protected sex. but ever since we have been together, he has never given me an orgasm! i usually have to fake it because it makes him feel bad when he asks and i tell him, ...
A. 1 August 2010: Most women can only experience orgasm through clitoral stimulation. Have you tried that? It's a rare woman that can orgasm through plain intercourse. ... (read in full...)
I feel like everyone hates me and that I just don't matter.
Q. Hi All, My life feels so weird lately, I have friends on Facebook that take their friendship away without giving a reason, I get ignored on Facebook, anything I post doesnt even get a response! I feel like I dont exist, at a works party recently...
A. 1 August 2010: I sense that you're feeling really badly about yourself!
Just remember, YOUR value doesn't depend on what other people do. The world is full of assholes unfortunately, but that certainly doesn't mean that YOU don't matter.
I think it would h... (read in full...)
Landing strips for men???
Q. Ok so i got bored this morning and when i was in the shower i gave myself a landing strip... I feel a little weird since its usually girls that get them. Is it ok for a guy to have one? Will people think I'm gay or something, will girls laugh at me ...
A. 1 August 2010: I don't think anyone will think you're gay because of the way your trimmed your pubic hair. Besides, what's wrong with being gay?
If a girl sees you naked, she'll probably figure our that you like girls, given the context of the situatio... (read in full...)
Sensitive subject and at a loss...
Q. I have a 5 year old who will be 6 in August and I recently noticed when putting her to bed that her hands smelt like they were near her "Daisy" or vagina. I asked her aboút it and she became stiff, so I told her that IF she was going to do that she ...
A. 1 August 2010: I've never heard the term "daisy" as a euphemism for "vagina." You did the right thing. If you had told her that it was wrong or bad, then that could have instilled some unhealthy ideas or feelings, such as guilt. You handled it well. Just one ... (read in full...)
13 and never had a boyfriend!
Q. I am 13 and have never had a boyfriend! I read most of the questions on here and sometimes I get so upset and sad because I see others people my age talking about their relationship and how they love them and ect. At school pretty much everyone ...
A. 31 July 2010: Me too! More time to play the guitar... I'd practice now but my fingers are bleeding from playing the guitar too much and my dog is trying to sleep... being single is awesome :)... (read in full...)
Why do I date outside of my race?
Q. Help, I can't understand why I've never dated a guy my own race or age. It's so weird...the other day, a man asked me if he was the first white man I've gone on a date with. I said no and this led to me admitting I always dated outside my race. He ...
A. 31 July 2010: Hello Kid, how are you?
I think you are quite correct! In my case, though, it's more than just I wish I were Latin and more than just a liking for the Latin culture. Of course I love it, but I feel like I was meant to have been Latin.
On t... (read in full...)
Never had an orgasm at 22....
Q. I previously posted a question regarding lack of sex drive with my amazing partner and how its been really getting me down. A few people have suggested it may be due to never having had an orgasm. Not even with previous partners. Does anyone have ...
A. 30 July 2010: Most women- I believe it's 90 percent- can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation, you don't have to answer- personal question I know- but have you guys tried that? It's unusual for a woman to be able to orgasm just through intercourse.
As fa... (read in full...)
How do you meet people in a gym or a grocery store?
Q. How do people meet in a gym or a grocery store? I know it sounds odd because there's tonnes of people at those places, but they always seems like places where people are just there to do there own thing (get fit or buy food) and seemed to get anno...
A. 30 July 2010: Well, some gyms have classes, like aerobics or pilates. I haven't met a bf there yet but I made a couple good friends. One of my best friends... a lot depends on the gym. The gym I go to now is awesome; the one I used to go to sucked... the ... (read in full...)
Can women determine genital size just by looking at a guy??
Q. Can women tell if you are well endowed just by looking at you or a part of you? Or what are some things women look at on a guy to try and guess what size a guy is?...
A. 30 July 2010: If Bill Clinton has been in the neighborhood then it probably bends to the left a bit!... (read in full...)
Guy I'm dating has a foot fetish, how do I get him to talk about it with me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for a few months now, and we are really compatible sexually. One night, after many a drink, he told me that he has a foot fetish (which I had subliminally picked up on in any case). He got really upset about it - saying ...
A. 30 July 2010: yeah!! You could have him paint the nails for you!! Seems I saw that in a movie once...... (read in full...)
Why do I date outside of my race?
Q. Help, I can't understand why I've never dated a guy my own race or age. It's so weird...the other day, a man asked me if he was the first white man I've gone on a date with. I said no and this led to me admitting I always dated outside my race. He ...
A. 30 July 2010: Maybe it depends on the person, I'm not sure.
I despise racism and racists but you like who you like. I've just always loved Latin culture and its magic, and thought Latin guys were amazing. If I fell in love with someone then I wouldn't... (read in full...)
13 and never had a boyfriend!
Q. I am 13 and have never had a boyfriend! I read most of the questions on here and sometimes I get so upset and sad because I see others people my age talking about their relationship and how they love them and ect. At school pretty much everyone ...
A. 30 July 2010: You're only 13! You say that your friends all have boyfriends or girlfriends. The "relationships" in middle school are almost always ephemeral; they last a week or so. They're not the same thing as the serious relationships people have later.
... (read in full...)
Why do I date outside of my race?
Q. Help, I can't understand why I've never dated a guy my own race or age. It's so weird...the other day, a man asked me if he was the first white man I've gone on a date with. I said no and this led to me admitting I always dated outside my race. He ...
A. 30 July 2010: I always date outside of my ethnicity too! Most likely Cerberus is right, you like who you like.
I'm super attracted to Latino guys. There's just something magical about the Latin culture. I've never really identified with my own culture ... (read in full...)
How many sexual partners in your most "productive" year?
Q. A quick poll: how many sexual partners did you have your most "productive" year? I am male and had around 5-6 partners in one single year. Anyone else mind responding. My theory is that most people sexualartners are not spread out evenly but ...
A. 29 July 2010: I don't mind responding, I just haven't had any sexual partners. I hope I don't get flack from anyone for saying that! I wouldn't judge anyone for their sexual past (unless they're a rapist or pedophile) but be careful... I hope everyone is ... (read in full...)
Guy I'm dating has a foot fetish, how do I get him to talk about it with me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for a few months now, and we are really compatible sexually. One night, after many a drink, he told me that he has a foot fetish (which I had subliminally picked up on in any case). He got really upset about it - saying ...
A. 29 July 2010: He's probably embarrassed about what he said. Even though you're cool with it, he might just feel uncomfortable with his fetish or ashamed. There's nothing wrong with it.
I wouldn't directly mention his foot fetish because it embarras... (read in full...)
I'm aroused by my older sister's underwear
Q. ok so i am 13. i have a sister that is 20 and she has big tits. And when she is not home I go in her room and go through her bra and thongs. one time i got one of her bras a 36 D and rubbed it against my dick and i kept doing it alll of a sudden i ...
A. 29 July 2010: It's normal to masturbate and have sexual desires, but going through your sister's stuff is NOT acceptable at all! Imagine how you'd feel if someone went through your stuff? I would be very angry if someone went through my stuff. I imagine that ... (read in full...)
I've been short of breath for a couple of days, when should I see a doctor?
Q. For the past few days it feels like I've had a shortness of breath, and I can't figure out what it is. I'm extremely scared, and I don't know when I should go to the doctor. Could it be because I haven't exercised in about a month?? Before that I ...
A. 29 July 2010: Anytime you have symptoms, you should see a doctor.
You're probably okay but with your health you MUST NOT take chances. If there's something wrong then it's important they catch it in time to fix it.
I sense that you might be depressed or hav... (read in full...)
Sheer bathing suits. OK, or not OK?
Q. I like it when my girl wears semi sheer bathing suits to the beach. Or even in the hot tub with friends. We experimented with cutting out the lining on a few pairs, and it seems to work well -especially with darker suits as her bits are then only ...
A. 29 July 2010: I would feel indecent and I would feel really uncomfortable if I had a boyfriend who asked me to do that. Yeah, I know in Spain that guys wear speedos, but that leaves SOMETHING to the imagination. Sheer bathing suits... her junk is visible to the ... (read in full...)
He's married, but I love him! How can I handle this unrequited love?
Q. Dear Agony Aunt I'm a single 24 year old living in the UK. My problem is that I think I'm in love with someone who is married and can never love me back. He is 29 and married with a kid. We used to work together and we got on brilliantly,...
A. 29 July 2010: It sucks so much to be in unrequited love. I'm sorry... I can tell you firsthand that it's devastating.
I don't know if this helps, but there's a silver lining in every cloud. This guy absolutely broke my heart; I nearly died of a broken h... (read in full...)
He's married, but I love him! How can I handle this unrequited love?
Q. Dear Agony Aunt I'm a single 24 year old living in the UK. My problem is that I think I'm in love with someone who is married and can never love me back. He is 29 and married with a kid. We used to work together and we got on brilliantly,...
A. 29 July 2010: It sucks so much to be in unrequited love. I'm sorry... I can tell you firsthand that it's devastating.
I don't know if this helps, but there's a silver lining in every cloud. This guy absolutely broke my heart; I nearly died of a broken h... (read in full...)
I've not had sex, so why don't I have my period?
Q. hello , I am 13 and im worried because my period has not come on at all this whole month. I havent had sex so I know im not pregnant. Someone please help im worried .!...
A. 28 July 2010: Just don't be afraid... you're probably fine! There is probably nothing seriously wrong with you, but if you have medical symptoms you should see a doctor. We're glad you wrote and want to help, but no one on the internet can give medical advice. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't go down on my unless I'm shaved
Q. My boyfriend and I were talking about "what ifs". and it came up, "what if i was nine months pregnant and couldnt shave "down there"?" his response, "i wouldnt go down on you". my thought was arent you suppose to love someone even in there natural ...
A. 28 July 2010: No offense but I think the pregnancy thing is hypothetical...... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't go down on my unless I'm shaved
Q. My boyfriend and I were talking about "what ifs". and it came up, "what if i was nine months pregnant and couldnt shave "down there"?" his response, "i wouldnt go down on you". my thought was arent you suppose to love someone even in there natural ...
A. 28 July 2010: I'm not trying to be mean, but things like this make me glad I'm single.
I can understand that all guys have their preference, but I think your boyfriend is a little insensitive... everyone's body grows hair there naturally, but it doesn't ... (read in full...)
I love sex but don't have orgasms!
Q. I'm a female and I love having sex. This may be a weird question to ask, but I'm curious. Every man that I've had sex with experienced an orgasim but myself. Even my friends have. Is it me? Are my sexual partners not pleasing me enough? I would ...
A. 28 July 2010: Babymonkey is right, very few women orgasm just from having a penis in their vagina, they have to have clitoral stimulation. It's an extremely high percentage of women- 90 percent if I'm correct- that can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation.... (read in full...)
What dirty talk do girls like?
Q. What r some dirty things I can whisper to my wife during sex to get her off? She's real good at the Nastybtalk during sex, and I really like it. Problem is, I am not sure what to say to her. What do girls like to hear. It's easy for girls, "fuck ...
A. 28 July 2010: It totally depends on the girl. A lot of girls go wild for dirty talk, but it turns me off. I want something romantic in sweet... and I go wild for Spanish... like "ay mi amor..." or "quiero acariciar tu lindo cabello" or something like that. ... (read in full...)
Should I marry someone who betrayed me like this?
Q. I recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me 1 time. We've been dating for nearly 5 years, and we recently got engaged. I found out that a year ago he slept with this girl, after major flirting went on between them for a few months (i.e., ...
A. 28 July 2010: Kick him to the curb!! How can you love someone and commit such a profound act of betrayal? I would never speak to him again. People in relationships shouldn't hide serious things from each other. I don't want to hurt you but this guy broke your ... (read in full...)
I was forced to marry and I am not attracted to my wife
Q. Iam a 29 year old married boy. Its been two year for our marriage, but from the day one i was never attracted to my wife. As she is dark, chubby.This marriage itself taken place becz of my family pressure and even i curse myself even today for that ...
A. 28 July 2010: Look, it really concerns me that you're wishing for death... you have your whole life ahead of you. Everyone feels hopeless at times.
It's NEVER ok to cheat and it's good that you realize it's wrong.
Sometimes we're faced with dilemnas, a... (read in full...)
Should I marry someone who betrayed me like this?
Q. I recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me 1 time. We've been dating for nearly 5 years, and we recently got engaged. I found out that a year ago he slept with this girl, after major flirting went on between them for a few months (i.e., ...
A. 27 July 2010: I would never marry him!
Remember the Mägo de Oz song lyrics "el alimento del amor es la confianza, el respecto, y un colchón" ( the food of love is trust, respect and a mattress)
Have you heard the song? I believe it, that if you love some... (read in full...)
What was your first time like?
Q. I am a teenage girl. I do not plan on having sex until I find someone I love and they love me back. But I wanted to know , what was your 1st time like? How did it feel? How old were you? What were you thinking? Was it someone you loved? Where was it ...
A. 27 July 2010: Kudos to you for planning to wait to have sex. There's nothing wrong with being curious or asking questions!
I'm going to tell you the truth, I've never slept with anyone yet.. and I'm a college grad. :-) So many people have sex when they're ... (read in full...)
My Sister Bullies Me, But I've Been Forced to Invite Her to My Wedding
Q. hey i need some advice. my problem is i hate my sister and my mum made me send my sister an invite to my wedding. i dont want her there! shes always been so jealous of me, to the point she used to physically, mentally and emotionally abuse me. ...
A. 27 July 2010: I can see where all the aunts are coming when they say that you should invite her because it would be taking the high road and possibly open the door to reconciliation. They have a point and that's something to think about. It looks like your ... (read in full...)
Has any one here had breast implants?
Q. I was just wondering if any women here have had breast implants, and if so, do you have any regrets? I've been thinking of getting breast implants for a long time now, I've never been happy with mine. I am aged 24 and a small 32b cup, I would like ...
A. 27 July 2010: Sorry to get off on a tangent but I've read about reconstruction surgery available to mastectomy patients. There is this new procedure which doesn't use silicone; instead they reconstruct breasts from fatty tissue that the woman already posesses; ... (read in full...)
Her parents want us to take a test to see if we had sex
Q. MOD NOTE: All signs point to the fact that the poster cannot be 33. okay i had sex with this girl and her parents kinda know so now they want us to go take a test to see if we did and i never cum in her would they still find out?...
A. 27 July 2010: A test to see if you had sex? Or a pregnancy test... or a test for STDs?
I hope you're using condoms and that you understand how to prevent STDs and pregnancy.
Please get educated about how to protect yourself and your girlfriend from ... (read in full...)
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