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36-40,
*isstierney
writes:Hello!Okay, my best friend and I fell out last year (she was dumped by my other friend and had become OBSESSED with him, I told her I didn't want to be stuck in the middle and she turned on me, that's the jist of it). Anyhow, we have a few mutual friends who since then have taken her side and opt to meet her on nights out rather than me. This I find very hurtful, it wasn't me who went crazy and badmouthed her to everyone! Because she acts so sickly sweet and innocent (which I and her ex know she really isn't) and because I'd be the louder of us, people just sided with her. It really hurts, I've been there for her through thick and thin. I used to believe in karma. Help! :(
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reader, misstierney +, writes (30 March 2010):
misstierney is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have confronted my ex best friend, she's in complete denial. She cannot see past what she calls a betrayal (me not siding with her 100% after the break up). One of the reasons he dumped her is because she cannot be reasoned with. I feel selfish for hoping this; but I hope they all see through her soon and she's the one left out!
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (30 March 2010):
 It sounds like your friend is playing mind games, but I could be wrong. Have you confronted your friend about how hurt you are?
If she's been telling lies about you, you need to stick up for yourself. Make sure that you tell these mutual friends your side of the story.
If she tells lies about people, eventually she will get caught, and she'll look bad.
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