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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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Is it true that a man's heart is through his stomach?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles, i have been secretly crushing on a friend for a year now. I know he" loves" me like a buddy, but that's not what i want. We have always been close and i think he suspects i have feelings for him. But he is still hung up on ...
A. 21 August 2010: Anon, I know how to play an instrument, play a sport, speak a foreign language or two, I have held my own in many different situations, I have different interests, I can cook a bit, the instrument is half my life but I can do all that other ... (read in full...)
Why do people keep photos of their ex?
Q. Why do people keep photos of their ex'? I girl i've been seeing for almost a year keep photos albums of her ex' on her bookshelf in the living room. There must be hundreds of them. Should i be freaking out here? She gets angry if i keep anything ...
A. 21 August 2010: It depends on the person I guess; in my case, throwing away the pictures would mean losing something forever that can never be gotten back. I've moved on but I can't wrap my mind around the idea of my last link to the past, obliterated forever. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend isn't interested in my breasts, should I get implants?
Q. My boyfriend never really touches or looks at my breasts. They are small, about a 34B or so, and I have a bit of insecurity about them because I'd prefer to be bigger. Not porn-big, just... big enough to turn a few heads even when I'm not wearing a ...
A. 21 August 2010: You're only 22-25, who knows if this is the guy you;'re going to spend the rest of your life with. Going under the knife and permanently changing yourself for someone else is a mistake. It sounds to me like he just doesn't like breasts, period, ... (read in full...)
My mom found my vibrator!
Q. Okay,well just a few minutes ago I went into my parents room because I have an earache and we were looking for the special tylenol that only works for my ear and I had left the vibrator underneath my pillow the night before and had fallen ...
A. 20 August 2010: That's really embarrassing, but not a big deal. It's something really private but not horribley wrong. It's one of those awkard situations that will pass soon. ... (read in full...)
How to deal with a stalkish type ex girlfriend? It's annoying me!
Q. How do you get rid of a psycho/demented ex-girl-friend that was and is still stalking me on internet (facebook, myspace,etc...)? I had a monogomous friendship with her off and on for 1-3 months, when I was single and dating/seeing other women at the ...
A. 19 August 2010: The sneezing thing is even more ridiculous than the notion that you can get pregnant from kissing.... (read in full...)
We broke up, but I'm stuck with her dogs
Q. My girlfriend and I have been on and off for the last 2 and a half years. She had two dogs when we meet.Shortly after our meeting she had to sell her house. (which I helped get ready to sell with her)After this she had no room for the dogs which I...
A. 14 August 2010: Please think of the best interests of the dogs... I know that it shouldn't be your problem, but your ex gf has been extremely irresponsible at her poor dogs' expense.
You have to do what's right. If you take them to an animal shelter, they're ... (read in full...)
Urinary tract infections
Q. okay so I gotta question about Urinary Track Infections... well I'm going on like my 3rd one!!! does anybody know how to not get them?? I was told to drink ALOT of water and not alot of dark soda, well that hasn't worked. Could I get some help?...
A. 13 August 2010: I've heard that honey can help with UTIs... is this true?
... (read in full...)
Do white guys like to date black girls?
Q. hi. i have a question. im a beautiful black 16 year old girl. and ive always been attracted to older white guys, well... white guys period. im very sweet and i luv to smile. do u think a white guy would ever date me Because i heard white men dont ...
A. 13 August 2010: I meant to say, I'm happy that my cousin is happy... but there are bound to be loads of guys like him... sorry, put my foot in it... oops... (read in full...)
14 and want to help my family financially
Q. I am 14 years old and my family is (financially) in a tight spot . I want to start selling some of my stuff on Ebay to help them out . Am I too young ? How will I get the money ? How do I send it out ? ...
A. 13 August 2010: You sound like a great daughter!!
The other aunts are right, you should talk to your parents before you use Ebay.
You could probably mow lawns, babysit, walk dogs or do similar chores in return for money. Perhaps gather cans/bottles for... (read in full...)
Do white guys like to date black girls?
Q. hi. i have a question. im a beautiful black 16 year old girl. and ive always been attracted to older white guys, well... white guys period. im very sweet and i luv to smile. do u think a white guy would ever date me Because i heard white men dont ...
A. 13 August 2010: Hi,
I'm glad you asked that question!
You can't generalize about ALL white guys or ALL black girls... there are billions of each.
I have a cousin who is whiter than I am- blue eyes, blond hair- and he thinks black women are amazing. Unfo... (read in full...)
Urinary tract infections
Q. okay so I gotta question about Urinary Track Infections... well I'm going on like my 3rd one!!! does anybody know how to not get them?? I was told to drink ALOT of water and not alot of dark soda, well that hasn't worked. Could I get some help?...
A. 12 August 2010: Those suck. You need to get some medical help, go to a urologist. The other posters are right about cranberry juice; they are supposed to flush out the bacteria inside the bladder that cause them.
Are you sure it's a UTI? Have you been dia... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to believe that sex outside of marriage is immoral?
Q. I am still a virgin at 34 due to mostly my own religious convictions. I believe it is immoral to have sex outside of marriage. I feel like a freak due to this fact. I hope that nobody knows since only the ones closest to me know about it. Am I wrong ...
A. 11 August 2010: Why is it wrong to have an opinion? You're entitled to it.
In order for a relationship to work, though, you have to have similar values. ... (read in full...)
We're teenagers and we really want to have a baby!
Q. Hi :) My boyfriend and I realllyyyyy want a baby!! We've been trying for about 2 months and it doesn't seem to work. Everyone says I'm too young for a baby, but I know this is what we want. I love my boyfriend to death, and we want a baby and ...
A. 10 August 2010: That's nuts!! Once you bring a kid into the world, it's a permanent commitment, and it would be cruel for you guys to do that. You'll regret it so much, and I'm not judging you but it would be totally irresponsible to bring a kid into the world. ... (read in full...)
Engaged... but I don't love her!
Q. Hello, We're engaged for nearly a year now, I like her but I don't think that I love her. We're sexually attracted to each other but other than that we have nothing in common. I told her once that I am not sure where our relationship is headin...
A. 10 August 2010: Don't get married! If you don't love her, then you'd be making a terrible mistake.
Don't marry ANYONE unless you're 100 percent sure you love them with all your heart and that they feel the same!! Marriage is binding, and should be for life. ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of being alone forever!
Q. I know im only 13, but im afraid of being alone forever. I havent had a father in my life since my parents got divorced when I was 6. I dont have any brothers, so I dont know whats it like to be around men. My mom says that all men are pigs and that ...
A. 10 August 2010: Just ignore your sister, you don't need her approval to realize that you ARE special, and that you deserve good things! Don't ever settle for anything less, you deserve the best of everything. ... (read in full...)
Adding strangers on msn - what should I say to him?
Q. so i added this one guy that i think is really cute on msn , he doesn't know me , i don't know him him ... YET ! what can i say to him ? if he says "do i know you ?" what can i say back ? ...
A. 8 August 2010: Furthermore, not only is it physically dangerous to add strangers, but they could send you dangerous material, such as a virus, spyware, or malicious software that wipes out your files/computer. I wouldn't open ANYTHING that an absolute stranger ... (read in full...)
My phobia prevents me from seeking medical help. What is wrong wth me?
Q. hi im hopeing maybe i can get some help on this health question. Im 23 yrs old and have resently started suffering with terrible head aches im constantly tierd and in the past few yrs my eye sight has gone very poor. i recently visited my opticions ...
A. 8 August 2010: The eye pressure test ain't that bad though... I barely felt it. ... (read in full...)
My phobia prevents me from seeking medical help. What is wrong wth me?
Q. hi im hopeing maybe i can get some help on this health question. Im 23 yrs old and have resently started suffering with terrible head aches im constantly tierd and in the past few yrs my eye sight has gone very poor. i recently visited my opticions ...
A. 8 August 2010: You MUST see the Dr. Miamine is right... you CAN'T play with your health!! If something IS wrong then you can't waste any time, the sooner you see a Dr., then sooner they can fix it.
I have a very similar phobia... I'm terrified of getting ... (read in full...)
Unreqited love - best friends
Q. what should i do? so.. a few months ago i posted another question, cause i had a problem.. i started having feelings for my best friend (female best friend) and we were almost like brothers we were best friend, i wanted to tell her what i feel but...
A. 8 August 2010: Aww I'm sorry... that sucks... a lot. I was in a very similar situation and it hurts so much.
She wasn't sincere with you, perhaps she just didn't wanna hurt you. But, she should have told you that she was seeing someone because in a way she ... (read in full...)
Unreqited love - best friends
Q. what should i do? so.. a few months ago i posted another question, cause i had a problem.. i started having feelings for my best friend (female best friend) and we were almost like brothers we were best friend, i wanted to tell her what i feel but...
A. 8 August 2010: Aww I'm sorry... that sucks... a lot. I was in a very similar situation and it hurts so much.
She wasn't sincere with you, perhaps she just didn't wanna hurt you. But, she should have told you that she was seeing someone because in a way she ... (read in full...)
I need suggestion on how to ask out this girl I met at camp?
Q. This summer I went to a camp and met this girl. When I first saw her, I thought she was pretty, but that was just about it. But as time passed by, I got to know her personality and I started to like her regardless of her apperance. I admit there ...
A. 8 August 2010: You need to be sincere with people while you have the opportunity because it might not always be there. You'd regret it if she found someone else, who knows, she might reciprocate your feelings but think "he's not interested, he would have ... (read in full...)
Sex painful after an abortion?
Q. Is it normal for sex to be so painful after having an abortion??...
A. 8 August 2010: If I were you, I'd see a doctor! ... (read in full...)
Terrible University experience...
Q. I am having a terrible university experience! All the people i know that go to university are having a great time and love it. I find myself very lonely and sometimes not enjoying what im taking either. I'm a music student and though i love music, ...
A. 8 August 2010: I was very disappointed at university, and it seemed like everyone else had found their place, and I was all alone but trust me things aren't what they seem.
I would give it a chance, if you're new to university then sometimes things just take tim... (read in full...)
Why is it so hard to find a man with Catholic values?
Q. Why is it so hard to find someone with Catholic values? i.e. a guy who is waiting til marriage to lose his virginity. i know many guys want to marry a virgin but if they are not virgin themselves, no deal. Are there any virgin male out there wh...
A. 8 August 2010: I went to RCIA classes and quit but that's a long story; I'm not sure if I'll ever become Catholic but I just need to sort some things out before I make the commitment. I was raised Baptist but I'm more spiritual than religious. So... I can still ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friends laughed at me and my boyfriend doesn't care
Q. hi everyone i have 15 years old and i am dating a boy who has 19 years old. i'm still in middle school but he is going to the university. i have some problems with him. he say that he loves me and all that stuff but i don't really believe him beca...
A. 8 August 2010: What a jerk! Kick him to the curb. You deserve so much better. ... (read in full...)
I'm not a virgin but I want a virgin wife
Q. Okay, so... I have been very active in my life, more so than most people. I put it down to my confidence levels but many put it down to me being an ass. Except for this I'm always good, never harm anything or anyone and any chance I get I help ...
A. 7 August 2010: Thanks :) No mean answers from me here.
This is a really sensitive topic, but I want to help you, which is why I asked where you're from.
Sometimes, when there are cultural differences in a relationship, misunderstandings can arise. Ther... (read in full...)
What exactly does being a virgin mean?
Q. How is a virgin man? Does it mean that the man has not have sex with any girl? What about if he does masturbation then is he still a virgin?...
A. 7 August 2010: A virgin is someone who has never had sexual intercourse... a penis entering a vagina. ... (read in full...)
Why are women attracted to big penises?
Q. Granted I myself am not very well equipped, being at 4 inches long and 4 inches in girth. I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them. Some girls have told me that smaller penises aren't attractiv...
A. 7 August 2010: The only woman I know who ever cared is Kathryn the Great; that's why she shagged a horse.
Who has this penis measuring job anyway? ... (read in full...)
Help!! I had a party today and i'm:
Q. OP's ownm title: help!! i'm drunk i went to this party and i did a pole dance in front of mans my boyfriend was waiting for me like 2 hours. i haven't told him yet. what to do??...
A. 7 August 2010: If you've been drinking then for God's sake DO NOT DRIVE ANYWHERE!!!!!! Even if you've had a LITTLE ALCOHOL... and you've had WAY too much!!
I'd be concerned about getting home safely, then deal with your boyfriend. A pole dance isn't a big deal... (read in full...)
My guinea pig is like a family member; the vet says he will pass away soon. How do I cope?
Q. I know this sounds really stupid but basically I have this 6 year old guinea pig and it sounds really daft but I am really close to him and the vet said he won't make it throuh the winter. I'm so upset and I know a lot of people will probably scoff ...
A. 7 August 2010: I know this is a really old post but perhaps I can still help someone, it's worth it.
It's totally normal to feel sad about this... it's devastating and heartbreaking to lose a pet but I think it's sensitive and sweet for a bloke to show his... (read in full...)
Uncircumsized, is it really that gross?
Q. Are there any girls out there that prefer an uncircumcised man? I just had a girl in a club push me into a bathroom stall in the mens room. After some kissing she got on her knees, and unzipped my pants. When she saw my stuff, she visibly reco...
A. 7 August 2010: I would totally marry a Spanish man, and circumcision, like I said, is NOT customary over there.
... (read in full...)
Hair part 2.
Q. [OP original title] In connection with the other "Hair" question - What age should a woman get her hair cut shorter? Long hair looks great on women and girls - but not so much on older women (ie 50s, 60s) - so at what age should a woman get it cut?...
A. 7 August 2010: People always compare ME to Bonnie Raitt!! So I hope SOMEONE out there does. :-(
I think that what they mean is that I play slide guitar but I don't think I sound like her... so I don't know why they compare her to me.
I don't think she'... (read in full...)
Uncircumsized, is it really that gross?
Q. Are there any girls out there that prefer an uncircumcised man? I just had a girl in a club push me into a bathroom stall in the mens room. After some kissing she got on her knees, and unzipped my pants. When she saw my stuff, she visibly reco...
A. 7 August 2010: Throughout most of the world, uncircumsised is the norm.
They did an international sex survey and (no offense to anyone not from Spain) Spanish men were ranked #1 as world's best lovers. As a recent resident of Spain I know (NOT from personal... (read in full...)
Why are women attracted to big penises?
Q. Granted I myself am not very well equipped, being at 4 inches long and 4 inches in girth. I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them. Some girls have told me that smaller penises aren't attractiv...
A. 7 August 2010: I couldn't care less about penis size. It doesn't even matter to me! And YOU should be looking for a girl with some depth. These girls sound like shallow *******. Your size is normal anyway. A girl who is at least as profound as a glass of ... (read in full...)
Hair part 2.
Q. [OP original title] In connection with the other "Hair" question - What age should a woman get her hair cut shorter? Long hair looks great on women and girls - but not so much on older women (ie 50s, 60s) - so at what age should a woman get it cut?...
A. 6 August 2010: I think a lot of guys look amazing with long hair. Not all, but a lot. It's not a universal preference, but I just always thought long hair was cool on a guy. Am I an oddball, lol?... (read in full...)
Pregnant from blow jobs?
Q. I'm wondering if you can get pregnante through blow jobs exetra.Is that possible ???...
A. 6 August 2010: Only if sperm get in the vagina.
However, you CAN get sick (STDs, HIV)... not trying to scare you... but for God's sake both partners should get tested, and use precaution... condoms, dental dams, and learn to use them properly!!... (read in full...)
Is there anyway that you can get rid of a tan?
Q. This may sound like a stupid question - everyone wants to get a tan: how can you get rid of a tan??! I am a model and naturally dark skinned so I tan in ridiculously short spaces. A week ago, I walked to the store (10mins walk) and when I returned I ...
A. 6 August 2010: Miammine I'm sorry if I offended u... I didn't mean to.
Never been to Britain... but only two weeks?
Don't forget, though, I'm from the Sunshine State (Florida) and went to college in Sunny Mexico... and going back to sunny Mexico... so I'm... (read in full...)
Hair
Q. This is for all you guys out there what do you like a womans hair long or short? Witch is more of a turn on? Me personally I like my hair long. :) what do you guys think? Thanks for reading ~Lucy...
A. 6 August 2010: It depends on the person. Halle Berry looks really good... but I HATE how I look with short hair. ... (read in full...)
Hair part 2.
Q. [OP original title] In connection with the other "Hair" question - What age should a woman get her hair cut shorter? Long hair looks great on women and girls - but not so much on older women (ie 50s, 60s) - so at what age should a woman get it cut?...
A. 6 August 2010: I don't think there's a "should" because it's not a moral decision, just a personal choice. People should look how they want to look. Look @ Bonnie Raitt... she's 50 if she's a day... and always had the same hairstyle and probably always will!
... (read in full...)
I'm not a virgin but I want a virgin wife
Q. Okay, so... I have been very active in my life, more so than most people. I put it down to my confidence levels but many put it down to me being an ass. Except for this I'm always good, never harm anything or anyone and any chance I get I help ...
A. 6 August 2010: Hi new guy,
No problem. I'm glad my answer helped a bit.
I'm just curious. You say that English is not your mother tongue. Where are you from originally, if I may ask? ... (read in full...)
Stuck in a LDR. Is it ok to look for a FWB?
Q. i am a 23 year old lady who is in a stable relationship.however my boyfriend and i are miles away we see each other once in a while like once a month or once in two weeks.when we see each other we make love and we both get contented however the rest ...
A. 4 August 2010: That's cheating!! You know it's wrong... it's just that doing the right thing is hard. But, it's still the right thing to do. Ask yourself, "Do I love this person enough to be true to them?"
Long distance relationships are hard, period. ... (read in full...)
I'm not a virgin but I want a virgin wife
Q. Okay, so... I have been very active in my life, more so than most people. I put it down to my confidence levels but many put it down to me being an ass. Except for this I'm always good, never harm anything or anyone and any chance I get I help ...
A. 4 August 2010: No mean answers here; I think that there's not real connection betweeen virginity (or lack thereof) and honesty... unless someone was sexually unfaithful. the problem here is that she's told you a series of lies, and you found out.
You need to ... (read in full...)
Is there anyway that you can get rid of a tan?
Q. This may sound like a stupid question - everyone wants to get a tan: how can you get rid of a tan??! I am a model and naturally dark skinned so I tan in ridiculously short spaces. A week ago, I walked to the store (10mins walk) and when I returned I ...
A. 4 August 2010: You've GOT to be kidding me!!
But yeah, I understand why tan lines can hurt you in modeling. Still... in this digital age, can't they just airbrush or photoshop your picture?
I'm sure it will have faded in a few weeks. Just wear a big hat t... (read in full...)
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