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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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One Year Anniversary Present?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are going to make a year in a month.. what is a great present for our aniversary? ...
A. 5 October 2010: I don't have a bf, but whenever I want a present to be really special, I make something, have it personalised or give someone something that you can't get just anywhere. I brought my mom a cool abanico (fan) back from Spain (I went there last ... (read in full...)
Guys, would older experienced man still try to pursue a teenaged girl??
Q. if your an older guy who likes a severely younger girl (bout 6 yrs) and you have a lot of sexual experience but she has none so she shyes away from stuff would you still try to get with her? ...
A. 3 October 2010: That's uncalled for and just wrong! a sexually experienced man pursuing an inexperienced teenage girl is BAD NEWS.... (read in full...)
Body imperfections making me uncomfortable, suggestions needed on how to cope??
Q. Have you ever felt uncomfortable infront of your boyfriend or girlfriend because of a flaw/imperfection you had? For example, a crooked nose, a birthmark smack dab in the center of your face. Did aknowledging the flaw ever come up in discussion ...
A. 3 October 2010: Everyone has imperfections; loving someone means accepting them in spite of that. Just change what you can if it really bugs you, but chances are that they love you, imperfections and all, they make you who you are.
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I need a pick-up line!
Q. So this guy is in one of my classes..and i think hes a total hottie! I saw him at the bar with my friend and he was with his. we all took shots and that was the extent of it no long convo or nothing. he works at another bar and he never IDs me so i ...
A. 28 September 2010: Instead of a pick up line, just initiate a conversation. Just be yourself!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xzNYfMTWpVs
The video is weird; just ignore it and listen to the lyrics. ... (read in full...)
Ugly duckling
Q. heyy well im 13 gunna be 14 years old and well i feel sooo ugly. ive always been the "ugly duckling" i was always teased about my hair and weight.. my friends say im ugly and wen my family say im pretty i think theyre on sumthing.. i fear i will ...
A. 28 September 2010: Guys your age can be real assholes! Your family cares about you; they wouldn't lie to you. Your true friends and your family are the people who matter.
A positive environment like a church youth group can hep too.
Looks are important and ev... (read in full...)
What do US guys think about asian girls?
Q. okay i'm a japanese girl and my family's moving to US in a few weeks. i have a lot of friends here in japan so i guess my personality's not bad, so i hope to make lots of friends in the states. and hopefully i would like to have a boyfriend too. but ...
A. 24 September 2010: Konichiwa (all the Japanese I know, but I want to learn more),
Dirtball is right. Players are everywhere, and this guy your friend told you about sounds like one of them. They're scum!! All they want to do is have sex with as many girls as... (read in full...)
Work crush... how do I handle it?
Q. Hi! I have a crush on a guy at my current work place. We are both interns and not getting paid for working, it's just work experience. The placement doesn't have a finish date, we are just working on a project and hoping to get funding which wi...
A. 24 September 2010: If neither one of you is married or committed, then go for it.
There's that silly rule about "never date a co-worker." I think it's silly because you don't get many chances at happiness in life. When you DO get one, you should take advantag... (read in full...)
Are older men better lovers?
Q. Is it true that older men make better lovers, due to experience?...
A. 24 September 2010: Picky is good. I'm picky, too... you have to sacrifice and compromise in a relationship and I wouldn't sacrifice it all for just anyone.
I don't think that older men would necessarily be better lovers; maturity and experience are importan... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be attracted to older men?
Q. I'm 18, and for as early as I could remember I've been attracted to older men (40-50). Maybe because of their masculinity and overall maturity. My dad recently told me if he found out I was seeing a man in that age group, he wouldn't approve of it. ...
A. 24 September 2010: I can understand that, as girls tend to mature faster.
That is a good point about an older guy dying before you.
I know that this is selfish of me, but if I were to get married I hope that I would die first. I don't want to die, but it's in... (read in full...)
Do guys pay attention to how fat or skinny we are when we have sex with them?
Q. Hello! All my life (or at least a majority of it) I've been self-conscious about my body because I have a lot of body hair, small breasts, and have a little pudge (not fat but just a little belly). Well up until just recently, I've thought of how ...
A. 24 September 2010: All humans have flaws. This has become cliché at this point but it's still true: even the models that you see in erotic magazines have been "enhanced," trust me. Body hair is easy to get rid of; just go to a decent salon and get it removed. The ... (read in full...)
Husband won't give me any money!
Q. Hey my husband say we got to save money but we have money and he don't give me none at all what should i do ...
A. 23 September 2010: I don't understand... do you have a job? Are you earning money of your own?
If you're earning your own money, then it belongs to you. The good thing about having a job is that you don't have to depend on him; you can earn your own money. ... (read in full...)
How to get my virgin girlfriend to have sex with me?
Q. Dear Readers, I would like to have some advise on how to convinced my girlfriend to have a sexual intercourse with me... Since she is still a virgin, it is extremely complicated to convinced her.. She always tells me to wait and wait and wait......
A. 19 September 2010: Why are you trying to pressure her to do something she obviously isn't ready to do? That isn't right. ... (read in full...)
I don't like being a mum... I want all my freedom back!!!
Q. Hey guys. Thanks for looking at my dilemma! And I will keep it short.,.. Basically, I'm 27 years old, single mum to a beautiful 5 month old boy. The father is my ex, we broke up when I was pregnant, he is still around for our son and is a great d...
A. 19 September 2010: Do you have any siblings who can help you out? What about your parents? A support group at a church perhaps? Is it that you miss the freedom you had before having a baby, or the stress of raising a kid on your own that is making you feel this way?... (read in full...)
I don't like being a mum... I want all my freedom back!!!
Q. Hey guys. Thanks for looking at my dilemma! And I will keep it short.,.. Basically, I'm 27 years old, single mum to a beautiful 5 month old boy. The father is my ex, we broke up when I was pregnant, he is still around for our son and is a great d...
A. 19 September 2010: There's something really important I forgot to mention: You must do what's in the best interest of the child. I imagine how rough it is to be a single mom. But, you brought him into the world and every child deserves to have a mother to love and ... (read in full...)
I don't like being a mum... I want all my freedom back!!!
Q. Hey guys. Thanks for looking at my dilemma! And I will keep it short.,.. Basically, I'm 27 years old, single mum to a beautiful 5 month old boy. The father is my ex, we broke up when I was pregnant, he is still around for our son and is a great d...
A. 19 September 2010: I've read about postpartnum depression... I am sensing that you have an underlying depression, and I'm not sure about the time frame in which ppd can strike, but is it possible that you're experiencing just that?
I know that none of us on the s... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to admit we're a couple!
Q. Well my bf and me, have been going out for like a month now, and there are some things that he does, that i absolutely detest, and i dont know if i have the right to or not. For example, he wants me to pay for everything, i once caught him looking ...
A. 19 September 2010: I realize that Tunisia is another country and the culture is different, but this behaviour isn't cool in any country. The way he's treating you isn't an acceptable way to treat a real girlfriend. He's being really disrespectful to you. Have you ... (read in full...)
Wife cheating on me and planning on leaving me. How do I get over this?
Q. Recently I found out that my wife is cheating on me with some other guy. Though, I think they have not slept yet but she is madly in love with him. We have been married for almost 15 yrs now and have kids. Our marriage has not been the best in ...
A. 18 September 2010: I can't believe her! You sound like a wonderful, caring husband and she sounds horrible!! My own PARENTS didn't pay for my college (I'm not bitter or resentful, I'm just saying that you've gone above and beyond), I had to pay for it myself. She ... (read in full...)
I'm scared to go to college...
Q. it all started when i was 14 and in school. i then couldnt be bothered to go but then my friends started to turn their backs on me and every time i went to go to school id have panic attacks and wouldnt go, so i ended up leaving and being ...
A. 16 September 2010: You live in the UK, I'm not sure what schools are like there but in USA, there's a world of difference between American public school and college. I HATED public school, and I was scared to go to college but in the end I was so glad I did.
One t... (read in full...)
12 year old boy caught "in the act"
Q. hi, im a single father and i have a question is it ok is my 12 year old son jacks off. I caught him in"the act" yesterday.i need help please help me....
A. 16 September 2010: Your son is completely normal. He didn't do anything wrong, he's probably embarrassed.
yes, I think that you need to have "the talk" with him.
There's nothing wrong with masturbation as it doesn't cause pregnancy or disease.... (read in full...)
I can't give my husband a baby! Shoud I tell him to leave me for someone who can?
Q. I'm not sure whether or not this is allowed to go on here, but this is my story. I have been married for five months to the guy of my dreams, we met at Uni and had been going out for six years before our wedding in April. All our friends think we...
A. 10 September 2010: I know this is a really sensitive topic and I don't wanna raise false hopes. But, I know that they're always making new medical and scientific discoveries... what if they come out with a new fertility treatment that could help you in a few years? ... (read in full...)
I can't give my husband a baby! Shoud I tell him to leave me for someone who can?
Q. I'm not sure whether or not this is allowed to go on here, but this is my story. I have been married for five months to the guy of my dreams, we met at Uni and had been going out for six years before our wedding in April. All our friends think we...
A. 10 September 2010: I'm really sorry that you're going through this.
I know that you want your husband to be happy and you want the best for him, but he loves YOU. If he were with another woman, and he didn't love her, something would be missing in his life. ... (read in full...)
Should I shave my chest hair?
Q. Hey ladies, and gentlemen if you can provide good info, should I shave my body hair? Is that something that women like or not? I know I'm over generalizing here but I would like some insight onto this. I'm not insanely hairy, but I have the standard ...
A. 10 September 2010: Whether you keep it or shave it off should depend on whether or not YOU like having it. Every woman's preference is different. ... (read in full...)
Ways to make my dog's life happier?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm an aunt here, and it's a great opportunity to help someone else out. I came to this site with a problem of my own and I got some really good advice and I really appreciated the answers-very helpful. Lately, I've had somethin...
A. 5 September 2010: Thanks again, guys...
just an update... I took Princess Gretchen for a walk and bought her some Canine Carryouts (her fave dog treat)... and she did something uncharacteristic... she RAN across the grassy field... which she RARELY does.
She ... (read in full...)
I'm freaked out! Girlfriend came home poured water on me at 3am! Why ???
Q. I don't know what to do. It's 3am, I was woken up by my girlfriend who dumped water on me to wake me up. What if I didn't wake up and drowned, there's a fan next to me and could have caught hypothermia and she's a nurse she would know about that....
A. 4 September 2010: That gives a new meaning to the term "wet blanket."
Sorry couldn't resist.
People act stupid when they're drunk, I'm concerned that maybe she can't hold her liquor. Perhaps she shouldn't be drinking?... (read in full...)
He throws ice water on me when I'm asleep!!!
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. we have 2 small kids together... in the past 7 years he has never been a really good boyfriend.. but in the past 2 years he has become very abusive and controlling. every day i get yelled at, threatened, ...
A. 4 September 2010: For the sake of your kids, please get out.
You say that everything is in his name, but there are ways to escape this. Please get some good legal advice or talk to someone from the United Way, many attorneys don't charge a consultaton fee.
... (read in full...)
Ways to make my dog's life happier?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm an aunt here, and it's a great opportunity to help someone else out. I came to this site with a problem of my own and I got some really good advice and I really appreciated the answers-very helpful. Lately, I've had somethin...
A. 29 August 2010: I don't really believe in evolution or not but if it is true (hypothetically) then I wish that humans had evolved from dogs and not monkeys, the world would be a better place.
I love Gretchen more than life; I would literally do anything... (read in full...)
Ways to make my dog's life happier?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm an aunt here, and it's a great opportunity to help someone else out. I came to this site with a problem of my own and I got some really good advice and I really appreciated the answers-very helpful. Lately, I've had somethin...
A. 29 August 2010: Thanks guys!! I really am grateful for your answers... they made me happy :) And, they made Gretchen happy too!
Yeah, I saved my money to buy her steak, it's just an occasional treat, though. This is probably really bad for her, but occasion... (read in full...)
I keep dreaming of a male celebrity!
Q. Hello! For over the past week or so I keep dreaming about a certain male celebrity. One night I dreamt that he was going to have sex with me, the next he was sitting in my house and on another occasion, he was walking along the beach with his wife. ...
A. 29 August 2010: I still have dreams about Gael Garcia Bernal... and I'm older than you!... (read in full...)
The older I get the less I want a partner and kids - is there something wrong with me
Q. I'm 25 years old, with a good steady job and a small close network of friends. I have been single for well over a 3 years now - I have tried online dating since this and Ive meet up with a few people but just lately im just not impressed with what i ...
A. 29 August 2010: Your time-line is very personal, and it's all relative. It's all about what's right for you, life isn't a race.
I'm a bit older than you and I'm still not ready! I keep telling myself that eventually I'll have to make that decision, one way or t... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a boy, who's taken. Help?
Q. Basically, I've known this boy for a while. I like him, he likes me, but the only problem is he has a girlfriend. We only started out as friends, but then I dunno, I started liking him more than a friend. I never told him this, because I was scared ...
A. 29 August 2010: Marriedlady is right.
I wouldn't break up their relationship, but if they break up on their own, then take advantage of your chance.
They're liable to break up sooner or later; they're young. ... (read in full...)
Opinions on "friends with benefits" relationships?
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago, and I've since picked up a friendship with an ex of mine who I've always been on good terms with. The other night, while we were sitting at his house talking, and one thing led to another and we ...
A. 25 August 2010: I would be insulted and hurt if someone asked me to be friends with benefits. Eventually someone will come along that he'll want to commit to and I would feel used. I feel that if I'm not good enough to be someone's girlfriend then they're not ... (read in full...)
I need some tips on loosing weight!
Q. I'm very uncomfortable with my body, my bf however loves it. He says he loves the curves. But, I'd like to find a good medium...lose some weight and get fitter w/o losing some curves :) So I thought ok, let me lose 20 pounds. I've done research but ...
A. 24 August 2010: You must exercise and eat properly. My trainer at the gym gave me a very important piece of advice... that eating is 90% of weight loss. If you don't eat healthy, it's not gonna work!
Fruits, vegetables, chicken... and drink loads of water. ... (read in full...)
Advice on going into a new church
Q. Ok I come from like a Baptist family. I just recently found out I have Catholic roots, and I have never been to a Catholic church before. And I just wonder what ladies will think of me if I goto a Catholic church? Will they be turned off or ...
A. 23 August 2010: Who cares what people think about you? You go to church to worship Jesus.
I was raised Baptist... which is weird because I have Irish and Spanish roots. Nothing wrong with either religion. I'm not sure if I'll become Catholic or not. I... (read in full...)
Questions on dying hair.
Q. Naturally my hair is a dark brown A year about I had about half of my hair died blonde, I have gone back to the hairdressers to get my roots re-died every time they needed it. I need to die my hair again soon, but I don't have the spare money to...
A. 22 August 2010: Revlon is a good brand! I've had good luck with them, and they don't do animal testing. Get something ashy, they have a good selection of colors.
I know it doesn't directly pertain to your question but I REFUSE to buy from a company that tes... (read in full...)
What can I do to convince her to call the cops on him?
Q. Help my friend guys!! About a year ago my friend joined a group on facebook and put a link on its wall to some pictures of her in sexy outfits. A guy messaged her saying that he thought she was sexy. She accepted his friend request even as he said ...
A. 22 August 2010: This story doesn't make any sense! I'm not trying to be mean, but your friend has terrible judgement to give out personal information to a stranger on the internet. I'm worried about the baby! This is horrible... what's wrong with this girl? And ... (read in full...)
Alcoholic dad
Q. ok right, im 14 now when i was 2years old my mam walked out on me my dad and my older brother (who was 4 at the time) she left for another man,, my nanny and grandad rared me and my bro because dad was always working. in 2008 my nan died.. my dad ...
A. 22 August 2010: Hi,
Here are some organizations where you live that might be able to help. Please contact them, they want to help you. So do I.
http://www.drugs.ie/
http://www.alcoholicsanonymous.ie/
My heart goes out to you!! Good luck!... (read in full...)
Total Babe in One-sided Open Marriage
Q. I am an average looking/height guy, though I make a good salary. I have been married about ten years. My wife is a beauty -- very attractive/sexy. She gets a lot of attention almost everywhere we go, even if she's only wearing sweats and a ...
A. 21 August 2010: I agree with Spiderweb, she sounds like a cheating tart. There's no country in the world- not Europe, not anywhere- where people appreciate getting cheated on!! And I hope that you got your money back from the marriage counselor she slept with. ... (read in full...)
Stabbed in the heart by her comment...
Q. So this morning was the biggest heart break I could ever handle. I found out my girlfriend... my best friend... my everything cheated on me a month ago. She told me this intoxicated and also took an e pill saying some guy performed oral on her, but ...
A. 21 August 2010: I read your post, and I feel bad for you because you sound like such a nice, decent guy. Maybe she will mature in the future, but I don't think she's ready for a committed relationship. You have to have trust in order to have a relationship, and ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't want our third baby!
Q. Hi I am 24 years old and have been married for four years.I recently found out that I am pregnant for the third time and was scared but excited.My husband does not want me to have the baby and says he will leave if I do.I can't understand how he can ...
A. 21 August 2010: That's heartbreaking... what the hell kind of a husband expects his wife to abort her baby? :'( I read your post and it broke my heart.
Have you thought about adoption, like other posters suggested? And why the hell is he blaming you? Unless ... (read in full...)
Honey boobs!
Q. Hi, For a very long time my hubby has had a wish that he wants to put honey on boobs and nipples so that he can lick my boobs and suck my nipples. Please advise... is it safe and okay?...
A. 21 August 2010: It's totally safe, people do it with chocolate and whipped cream.
Maybe he was a bee in a former life? ... (read in full...)
Is it true that a man's heart is through his stomach?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles, i have been secretly crushing on a friend for a year now. I know he" loves" me like a buddy, but that's not what i want. We have always been close and i think he suspects i have feelings for him. But he is still hung up on ...
A. 21 August 2010: Anon, I know how to play an instrument, play a sport, speak a foreign language or two, I have held my own in many different situations, I have different interests, I can cook a bit, the instrument is half my life but I can do all that other ... (read in full...)
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