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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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Why is it that racism has all of a sudden become a big joke to people?
Q. Why is it that racism has all of a sudden become a big joke to people? I know some people (like me) HATE racism in any shape or form, and get really angry when people say racist things. To me, it's not right. Whether it's religion, skin colo...
A. 30 May 2009: Thanks... it's refreshing to hear your point of view.
I'm the queen of speaking out against things I think are wrong, lol. :)... (read in full...)
Would you forgive?
Q. My mother is diagnosed of a disease and lives in a different part of the country. I usually fly out to meet her. I have one good friend in my city. since my mother has been sick, i have not felt like being very social. this friend has been getting ...
A. 16 February 2009: With friends like that, who needs enemies?
If he comes round and sincerely wants to be a true friend, take the high road, but it sounds like he is being uncaring.
He's not being a friend.
I'm so sorry about your mom, and I do hope thing... (read in full...)
Will having anal sex hurt me or will I feel pleasure?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been toghether for 2 years. Our relationship got physical a while ago but he says he wants to try anal. I am really scared of doing it because it will be the first time I have done that but I don't know whether to let him ...
A. 16 February 2009: You and your boyfriend shouldn't be sexually active!
You have your whole life to have sex... I know that you have the urge, and it can drive you crazy... but, some of the consequences are severe and no young person of 13, 14, or 15 is ready to... (read in full...)
Would you forgive?
Q. My mother is diagnosed of a disease and lives in a different part of the country. I usually fly out to meet her. I have one good friend in my city. since my mother has been sick, i have not felt like being very social. this friend has been getting ...
A. 16 February 2009: I would forgive your friend if he were to apologize, as long as it is a sincere apology.
I feel bad for you because your friend doesn't seem understanding or supportive.
I hope your mom will be all right. ... (read in full...)
What interests older men about younger girls?
Q. What interests older men about younger girls? I'm not talking about a 40 year old and a 12 year old... I mean, like, a 30 year old and an 18 year old. She's too old to still be too innocent, and isn't that what mean are usually in to? i'm asking ...
A. 16 February 2009: I think it's the individual girl. Perhaps they have other interests that attracted them to each other.
The only thing wrong with dating someone considerably older is that if you wind up marrying them, sadly, one of you is probably gonna outlive ... (read in full...)
Did I take my jesting too far with her?
Q. My girlfriend and I went to this pool party (I live in Australia) with some our friends. My girlfriend never let me see her breasts (because of a scar on one) and she thinks it might turn me off. Anyway we were in the pool making out until my very ...
A. 16 February 2009: You're asking us if you went too far?
I think that you know the answer to this.
Britt 429 is right:
"It's funny, because it didn't happen to me."
I can tell that you were drinking, which you have no business doing, I think in A... (read in full...)
Do guys find nose piercings attractive?
Q. Hey :) Was just wondering if guys found nose piercings attractive? My friend is worrying about it at the moment as she is thinking of getting it done. Thanks x...
A. 15 February 2009: When it comes to guys' tastes, there's no way to speak for the majority of them.
Like we say in Spanish, "en gustos se rompen géneros."
Guys' tastes run the gamut from A to Z.
Some people can "pull off" a particular "look" better than anoth... (read in full...)
Article for all children thinking of having a baby
Q. This is not a question i know i just think it should be put out there to all children who are considering having/planning/keeping a baby. Literally 10 minutes ago, the lunchtime news was on and broadcast on there was the story of a 13 year old bo...
A. 15 February 2009: I looked at the article just now and I don't believe that kid is the father of the baby. Not everything in the news is true, and how do we know that this kid is the father?
I doubt it. Perhaps the couple said they had sex exclusively with eac... (read in full...)
Article for all children thinking of having a baby
Q. This is not a question i know i just think it should be put out there to all children who are considering having/planning/keeping a baby. Literally 10 minutes ago, the lunchtime news was on and broadcast on there was the story of a 13 year old bo...
A. 15 February 2009: I can't believe that the child is the father of that baby. The poor little thing needs to be put up for adoption. There's no way those parents are prepared to provide the baby's most basic needs, and every baby deserves to have the best of ... (read in full...)
Valentines Day Opinionaire...
Q. Quick Question for Valentines Day... I have been taking a poll on peoples opinion on valentines day and I'd really appreciate any answers I can get. Is Valentines day to you a holiday to be embraced and celebrated, or is it strictly re...
A. 15 February 2009: I think that Valentine's Day should be a day to celebrate friendships, not JUST romance. ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to give a valentine's card to my male teacher?
Q. Is it ok to give a valentine's card to my male teacher? I don't mean it romantically (the card says "You're a cool cat")... it's just that he's always been really nice to me so it's a thank-you. Is that weird at all? Could he take it the wrong way?...
A. 12 February 2009: I think it's sweet. It means a lot to teachers to feel like they've impacted their students' lives and built rapport. ... (read in full...)
I'm losing my platonic male friend because of his jealous girlfriend, help!
Q. I have a male friend who I have been friends with for 4 years. Nothing sexual just great friends, We do all kinds of things together, camp and even sleep in the same tent with never any sexual feelings. His new girlfriend is jealous of me and ...
A. 12 February 2009: I feel like some close female friends are on a par with a sister. As long as you guys don't do anything you wouldn't do with a sibling, I think she should accept your friendship.
I'm a jealous person by nature, but that it my nature and wouldn't... (read in full...)
Is looking at live nude webcam girls porn or cheating?
Q. I have asked this question before but feel the need to ask one more time. Has any girl out there had her boyfriend look at live nude girls on a video cam? Or are there any guys who watch it? Is it normal and I'm being old-fashioned or is it ...
A. 11 February 2009: I don't know if it conforms to the strict definition of cheating, but I will say this...
if it's something that you wouldn't feel comfortable doing in front of your girlfriend, and you wouldn't want your girlfriend to know you did it... that's a... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a student to be friends with a teacher after graduation?
Q. is it ok for a student to be friends with a teacher after graduation? like, keep in contact via email and maybe, meet for coffee once in a while? i mean, it's not like they'd exactly be student- teacher anymore, right?...
A. 10 February 2009: He's no longer your teacher; I don't see anything wrong with cultivating a friendship. ... (read in full...)
Is this a good idea in order to miss school one day?
Q. whats the best way to make yourself feel unwell the next day, for example, if you need a day off school?x...
A. 10 February 2009: Don't do anything to jeopardize your health.
If you have a reason that you need a day off from school, then illness would just be superfluous. Sometimes we all need a day just to regroup when we're under stress. I don't think that missing ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a man to get angry at his girlfriend for not liking anal?
Q. Is it normal for a man to get angry at his girlfriend of almost one year for not liking anal? I told him that I didn't like it while we were doing it and he insisted that we continue because I was only lying that it hurt so that he would think I am ...
A. 9 February 2009: What a creep!
Dump him, you deserve someone who respects you. He has no right to force you to have anal... that would be rape. ... (read in full...)
I'm losing my platonic male friend because of his jealous girlfriend, help!
Q. I have a male friend who I have been friends with for 4 years. Nothing sexual just great friends, We do all kinds of things together, camp and even sleep in the same tent with never any sexual feelings. His new girlfriend is jealous of me and ...
A. 4 February 2009: I'm gonna play the devil's advocate here, even if no one agrees with me.
The poster has said that the girlfriend doesn't want him to talk to her, email her, or have lunch with her. That's very different than sleeping in the same tent. I can un... (read in full...)
Does Pineapple Juice Make it Taste Better?
Q. Ladies, does drinking pineapple juice and eating fruits really make a man's semen taste better?...
A. 30 January 2009: I'd never heard of cranberry juice, but I have read that it's good for urinary tract infections (preventing them and curing them).... (read in full...)
Guys: Is the first thing you notice about a girl REALLY the size of her chest?
Q. So, I'm in high school, and I've come to notice a trend in guys' behavior. (well the ones I'm around at least) They always stare at your chest. There's one guy, when asked if he knew me, said, "Oh yeah, she has really big boobs." Swear to God. My ...
A. 26 January 2009: The dirty pig. ... (read in full...)
Feeling left out in this place
Q. Dear Cupid, My family and I live in a small town. It is a very nice community and everyone is friendly. My husband and I are both friendly people. We are both likable people. We mingle easily and have no problems when we are at a social gath...
A. 25 January 2009: I've never understood those people that exclude new people. It seems like you need all the friends you can get. If people behave this way, it doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, and maybe they aren't deliberately trying to make you feel left ... (read in full...)
Looking for a good read!
Q. Girls, are there any books that turn you on that aren't those cheesy romance ones?...
A. 16 January 2009: City of the Beasts by Isabel Allende. It's considered "young adult" fiction but I read it for the first time when I was 24. ... (read in full...)
Looking for a good read!
Q. Girls, are there any books that turn you on that aren't those cheesy romance ones?...
A. 16 January 2009: Love in the Time of Cholera, by Gabriel Garcia Marquez. It's a love story, but not cheesy. I'm not sure whether or not you know Spanish, but it's translated into English (and I imagine many languages).... (read in full...)
If I'm supposed to get pregnant it will happen no matter what
Q. Im not sure if it is just 17 year old logic or what, but my mom is putting me on birth control, because she doesnt want me to get pregnant before I am ready. I have had a pregnancy scare before, but the test said I wasnt pregnant and life went on. ...
A. 16 January 2009: You're not ready to become a mother, and there's something that you can do to prevent it... and you won't do it.
You have no business putting yourself at risk for pregnancy. Having sex without a condom is nothing more than a game of Russian ... (read in full...)
Should I thank my teacher?
Q. Today, i had ss class and then two assessments in the two periods following that class so i was kind of stressed. Coincidentally, our teacher started telling us how grades don't matter and that you don't need to go to the most amazing college ever ...
A. 16 January 2009: Yes, of course you should tell him!
It's things like that that make teaching meaningful. It means everything to him to know how he helped you.
As for grades... just do your best. Then you can say you have no regrets. :)
... (read in full...)
Should I thank my teacher?
Q. Today, i had ss class and then two assessments in the two periods following that class so i was kind of stressed. Coincidentally, our teacher started telling us how grades don't matter and that you don't need to go to the most amazing college ever ...
A. 16 January 2009: Yes, of course you should tell him!
It's things like that that make teaching meaningful. It means everything to him to know how he helped you.
... (read in full...)
I am scared to give him my virginity, I would if I knew for sure that he would marry me.
Q. Ok, this is my dilemma. I am 17 years and my boyfriend is 18. We became friends online and then moved our friendship off-line and met in person. We became close friends instantly. As our friendship blossomed even more he would hint to me stuff about ...
A. 16 January 2009: The only way to know for sure is to wait until you're married.
The decision to have sexual relations is a very personal one, but when you're young, most people don't know who it is that they want to marry... you're lucky if you know what you want... (read in full...)
I'm up at my dad's and BORED!
Q. I feel really depressed, I am on holidays at my dad's and the only kids I know up here are two girls who when we first met, got along really well but now I feel they only talk to me when they have to because they are friends of the family. I took a ...
A. 16 January 2009: I see that you're in Australia. The weather is really beautiful there. Man, I'm jealous! What can you do outdoors? Is there anywhere that you can go to swim? What other sorts of thing can you do outdoors?
Call the other girls and invite them... (read in full...)
I love him!!! And he needs to know before it's too late!!!!
Q. Hi, what it is... I really like this boy and I don't know how to tell him how serious I am about him, we have known each other for a while but I feel if I tell him he won't want to be with me or anything or he would just get put right off me :( We ...
A. 14 January 2009: Tell him, tell him, tell him. I've learned to be sincere with my feelings, because most of the time, if you hold back your true feelings, you may regret it.... (read in full...)
Abortion effects
Q. I am a grade 12 student and I am researching abortion. What I need is for women who have had an abortion, to tell me abit about the experience. Was it a negative experience? Was it a positive experience? Did you feel regret or releaf afterwar...
A. 14 January 2009: I hope you don't mind if I ask you something? I mean this respectfully but are you just doing research, or is there more to the story... if I may ask?
Remember this is an anonymous forum, I'm not trying to pressure you into sharing, but you ... (read in full...)
Abortion effects
Q. I am a grade 12 student and I am researching abortion. What I need is for women who have had an abortion, to tell me abit about the experience. Was it a negative experience? Was it a positive experience? Did you feel regret or releaf afterwar...
A. 13 January 2009: I've never had an abortion, but a friend had three and now she regrets it so much. Nothing will induce me to say her real name but I will say this: She sees things that remind her of her experience and they make her feel so sad. I've never told ... (read in full...)
Why does he want my trust when I can't have his?
Q. I am 16, my boyfriend is 17, I have met his family and we are very close but here lately I haven't been able to see him. He called me last night and we broke up, 20 minutes later he called me crying and I'm not sure if he wants to be with me or he ...
A. 12 January 2009: If you haven't done anything to lose his trust then he needs to trust you. Without trust, there's not much of a relationship.
I don't want to hurt you but it sounds like this guy doesn't know what he wants. :(... (read in full...)
Why is it that racism has all of a sudden become a big joke to people?
Q. Why is it that racism has all of a sudden become a big joke to people? I know some people (like me) HATE racism in any shape or form, and get really angry when people say racist things. To me, it's not right. Whether it's religion, skin colo...
A. 12 January 2009: Last night my mom's friend was making racist remarks against latinos. I get so angry when people do this because they do it out of ignorance. She's a nice lady and I respect my elders but I said, THAT IS NOT TRUE, and DON'T BELIEVE THE LIES THAT ... (read in full...)
Should I do oral?
Q. me and my boyfriend, which is 18 and im 15, where playing around in are secret spot at school this morning like always. and this weekend we got to know more details about each other, like small things about his future and past, and how he felt about ...
A. 12 January 2009: That guy is corrupting your innocence and you need to get rid of him and find a guy who will respect you.
I know that now your hormones are raging and that affects your judgement, but if you go too far with him sexually now, you will regret i... (read in full...)
Why is it that racism has all of a sudden become a big joke to people?
Q. Why is it that racism has all of a sudden become a big joke to people? I know some people (like me) HATE racism in any shape or form, and get really angry when people say racist things. To me, it's not right. Whether it's religion, skin colo...
A. 12 January 2009: Unfortunately, racism has been a problem for a long time.
I am impressed with your maturity and your thoughts on this subject. Many young people are very susceptible to pressure and if one person role models bad behavior, others follor suit.
Be ... (read in full...)
Do good looking people get advantages in life?
Q. does being goodlooking/cute looking have advantagaes in sport,getting job,finding love etc not talking about me just in gerenal.goodlooking people get treated better then plain looking people...
A. 12 January 2009: Unfortunately, good-looking people are at an advantage initially. I think that Obama, for example, has some very good qualities and hopefully he will change the country for the better. However, I know that the fact that he is a handsome man didn't ... (read in full...)
My wife is gorgeous & I hate men looking at her!
Q. Ive been married to my gorgeous wife for 7 years. Im very insecure about other men eyeing her up in public. When we go out she looks amazing, the trouble is this makes me feel very uncomfortable as im constantly being hyper-vigilent to see if any ...
A. 12 January 2009: If she's faithful and she's never given you a reason to lose your trust, then just be happy that you're married to a gorgeous woman.
I see from your slang and your flag that you live in Britain. I'm not familiar with the culture but where I'... (read in full...)
Is stuck-up and conceited the same thing???
Q. Is stuck-up and conceited the same thing??? People talk about me behind my back and think I'm stuck-up but I'm not. I just think very highly of myself but I dont think I'm too good to talk to anyone else. Can people tell that your conceited even ...
A. 12 January 2009: Satindesire gave you a definition.
I'm not sure what you did to get accused of this, and it could be that you are being accused unjustly.
On the other hand it could be that you need to work on your humbleness.
Humility is a virtue that we all... (read in full...)
Hairy chest--what do you do with it?
Q. For guys and girls... This is the first time I have dated a guy who has a really hairy chest. When getting intimate with him, besides just running my fingers through it, what else can I do? Girls, what kinds of things do you do? and Guys, what ...
A. 11 January 2009: Hi Friend Tom,
That sounds a lot like my Gretchen.
What's he doing? Is he misbehaving?
Gretchen has had a bad attitude lately, and she's been misbehaving a lot, but she has "issues." She was a rescue and unfortunately, I doubt t... (read in full...)
Facebook question.
Q. HI:) My boyfriend and I are friends on facebook. When I look at his profile it says that he has been tagged in 17 pictures but when I click to see them I am only able to see 11. Has he prevented me somehow from seeing the rest? how and why? He ...
A. 10 January 2009: Just talk to him about it, it's not good to jump to conclusions. If he's never betrayed your trust before, there's probably a simple explanation.
There's nothing wrong with having girls as friends, but he needs to be open and honest with you. Th... (read in full...)
They call me fat, will I ever have a boyfriend?
Q. just wana ask if a girl that is fat..., well they call me chubby, flat nose, w/ big legs...can possibly have a chance to have a boyfriend?...
A. 10 January 2009: Oops! It posted twice.
Either that, or I'm experiencing double vision. ... (read in full...)
They call me fat, will I ever have a boyfriend?
Q. just wana ask if a girl that is fat..., well they call me chubby, flat nose, w/ big legs...can possibly have a chance to have a boyfriend?...
A. 10 January 2009: Everybody has physical flaws, I'm afraid. The good news is that you can do something about the things you don't like, and that others probably see you in a different light. You're your own worst critic.
What may keep you from attracting a guy is... (read in full...)
They call me fat, will I ever have a boyfriend?
Q. just wana ask if a girl that is fat..., well they call me chubby, flat nose, w/ big legs...can possibly have a chance to have a boyfriend?...
A. 10 January 2009: Everybody has physical flaws, I'm afraid. The good news is that you can do something about the things you don't like, and that others probably see you in a different light. You're your own worst critic.
What may keep you from attracting a guy is... (read in full...)
Hairy chest--what do you do with it?
Q. For guys and girls... This is the first time I have dated a guy who has a really hairy chest. When getting intimate with him, besides just running my fingers through it, what else can I do? Girls, what kinds of things do you do? and Guys, what ...
A. 10 January 2009: I clarify that it's my PET!!!
Get your mind out of the gutter, all you sickos. :)... (read in full...)
Hairy chest--what do you do with it?
Q. For guys and girls... This is the first time I have dated a guy who has a really hairy chest. When getting intimate with him, besides just running my fingers through it, what else can I do? Girls, what kinds of things do you do? and Guys, what ...
A. 10 January 2009: I think the question is, what are some ways to play with the chest hair during intimacy. It's almost a given that she doesn't expect him to wax or depilate in any way.
If I were a man, however, and I had chest hair, I would wax it. I might gr... (read in full...)
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