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writes: Hi,I'm so embarrassed I don't know what to say but i have to ask I haven't had sex before and I was wondering about pubic hair do I have to remove it or its okay to leave it there? do men mind? I know its painful and I don't know what to do plz help.
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reader, Jessypj  +, writes (2 December 2010):
Shaving my pubes was the worst thing I ever did. So itchy! My boyfriend tol me to grow it back because of the stubble!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): youre too young for sex. but when it comes to pubes. i would take a girl either way. shaven or unshaven, doesnt matter to me really.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): First of all, your too young to be having sex. As for the pubic hair. I am a male and i don't mind it, and i don't any guys that do mind it. In fact i don't like the looks of having it all shaved off. A woman doesn't look natural completely shaved, so it is actually a turnoff for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): Your too young for sex. As far as the pubic hair goes... just keep it trimmed. There is no reason to shave it all off. It is a part of your body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): okay so I've heard most girls shave it but I'm young and don't thinkim having sex anytime soon but I'm just afraid when I do the guys gonna be like ew if I didn't shav it but I'm afraid if I shave it the hair will get longer and thicker and it will hurt
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2009): children are produced from sex which happens between a man and a woman and you're a child-at the START of approaching womanhood "do men mind" no true "man" will have sex with a child- screw what men, the media society claims, it's all psychological cons the only one you should listen to is yourself the embarrassment the anxiety the insecurity you're feeling is the ultimate sign you're far from ready-
think of it like skydiving you can't just do a tangent jump like that you need training you're so curious about it at first but actually throwing yourself out a plane something completely drastic altogether everyone's curious at this age but wait until you're a woman and you know your mind body and are emotionally mentally mature don't ask US how to have your own body be honest with yourself and froevr more.
seriously just leave it go out and get some chips and some ice-cream and ring your mates just enjoy the understated pleasures of youth like freedom goofing about and peak health lol!! losing your v is once in a lifetime and you've got another 80 years or so screw stuff you don't need to worry about go out and feel the sun on your face and take time to love your mind and body life is a miracle!!!!
soz carried away as usual TAKE CARE!!!!!!!!!! :D:D
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reader, JSBach +, writes (26 June 2009):
I'm a man - I like it natural.
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reader, Skellington  +, writes (26 June 2009):
 I guess some do...I've heard of guys that like shapes cut out of pubic hair..like triangles and lightning bolts and stuff...
My girlfriend shaves, she likes it better that way and so do I.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): I have to agree with some of the other answers; YOU ARE TOO YOUNG! but when you do decide to become sexually active, please for goodness sake protect yourself (condoms) and watch out for guys, too many are interested in one thing, don't be pressured. Being only one person, I don't know if I can speak for all, but I think most sensible mature guys would prefer if you DON'T shave, it can be prickly and uncomfortable for both partners. Finally, above all, it's your body, you do what makes you comfortable.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (25 June 2009):
 Depends on the guy.
No offense but at your age, you shouldn't be sexually active. If you do, then PLEASE talk to a doctor or nurse about birth control, and PLEASE use a condom.
When all's said and done, what to do with THAT hair is a personal decision. You should do whatever YOu want with it.
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reader, imcurioustoo +, writes (25 June 2009):
Well firstly I think you need to talk with your mom about birth control before you are sexually active .. I got pregnant at 16 and it wasn't fun .. And abortion was even harder.. It'll be a wierd topic but your mom would rather have you protected ahead of time then popping up prego take it from me!! Just tell her your thinking about becoming sexually active and she'll be upset at first but more than anything wants the best.. Parents know were gonna have sex we're teenagers.. And always always use a condom ... and shave .. Its cleaner especially on that time of the month and doesn't hurt at all. Im baby smooth at alllll times .. Get a bikini razor for your bikini line and a reg. Razor for the rest .. Men prefer a shaved area especially if they like eating girls out!! So shave believe me you'll be much more compy
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): I have to agree you are much too young to be thinking of that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): Okay, firstly it doesn't hurt to shave it off. Just use a razor, but be careful if you do.
if you don't like it, it will always grow back. my boyfriend doesn't mind if theres a little bit of hair, and sometimes he prefers it completley shaven.
But never mind about men, it should be how you want it. stuff them. whatevers more confortable for you =]
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (24 June 2009):
 *chuckles at Eyeswideopen's answer*
Until you are women enough for a rug, don't have sex.
And sex don't have to be painful, you so don't sound ready for this. Curious maybe, not ready.
But to answer our question with a straight face, no most men don't mind.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 June 2009):
 Sigh...I was hoping for just one week without a pubes question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): Leave it where it is - it's a sign of approaching womanhood. As for what to do with it, the best thing is to shampoo it.
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