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writes:I have a huge problem, my best friend and me have been friends since 8th grade, two years ago she started going out with a kid that i introduced to her. Before they were going out i thought he was kind of cute and felt really atracted to him but now that they been going out for so long i dont see him like that, but one day we were all drinking and i was really bad and he was kind of tipsy we were flirtng a lot and then we kiss, i dont want to hurt her but i have always felt a little atraction for him i guess its beacuse i always thought he was cute and i never got with him but now i dont see him like that, and i feel really bad.I love my friend, she is the nicest person ever and i dont wanna lose her for this because i know its not worth it, i know i wont kiss or flirt with her boyfriend again but now i dont know what to do. i feel really bad because what i did to her they did it to me and it is the worst feeling ever and i dont want her to go through that, i dont know what to do. I'm scared of telling her but i think i should, no one knows just me and him what should i do.... i really feel bad .. help
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (3 January 2010):
 You can't make your heart stop feeling love for someone, but you CAN control your behaviour, and you know how unwise it would be to act on these feelings. Think of your friend and how it would make her feel, and how sad it would make you to tarnish a great friendship.
This situation sucks a lot... because it's hard to have to deal with these feelings... but you need to leave this guy alone before he wrecks your friendship.
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