Too wet during sex?
Q. I'm having a problem with my sex life - I'm a pretty tight girl but i get extremely wet during sex to the point where my boyfriend complains that it doesn't feel as good! Does anyone know what I can do?...
A. 26 February 2011: "Too wet"? I wasn't aware that's possible. It sounds to me like you're just a healthy woman that is turned on by her boyfriend. He doesn't seem to know what he's talking about.
Really though, other that having sex when you're less turned on (less... (read in full...)
My crush used to sit next to me and flirt. Now that we've changed seats he ignores me! Why do boys act like this?
Q. So my crush, "Bob," and I used to sit next to each other in a class. We used to talk and he teased me (in a nice way) and we would laugh and he would kind of flirt. We changed seats and now he totally ignores me. He doesn't look at me or talk to me. ...
A. 26 February 2011: You have a crush on him, and he was friendly with you. Did he actually flirt or just make small talk? And if he did flirt, did you potentially give him the idea that you weren't interested.
Either he wasn't really that interested to begin wi... (read in full...)
Is it okay that he's going swimming with other girls?
Q. Just a general question Is it okay for me to feel a bit insecure about my boyfriend going swimming with other girls? Say 5 girls, 3 boys. Im not too sure why im bothered about it seeing as i dont believe anything would happen at all. Just make...
A. 24 February 2011: If he were going with just 1 girl, alone, I'd worry. If he were going with severak girls as the only guy, I'd be uncomfortable. But if it's mixed company and just going swimming with some friends, I'd be alright with it (but perhaps ask to go along ... (read in full...)
She won't reciprocate in the oral department
Q. Hi - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years, however she will not perform oral sex on me. I regularly perform it on her during foreplay, because she enjoys it, just like I do. She has said for the past 18 months on and off that she has had a ...
A. 21 February 2011: Unfortunately, there's not much you can do to make her change if she doesn't want to. Withholding oral frm her will only breed resentment and make a bigger issue. Demanding oral will only make you look like a jerk. All you can do is let her know how ... (read in full...)
Are there honestly guys who're immune to the media's crap and who honestly prefer A cups over DDs?
Q. I have small breasts and I'm sick of just having to put up with men prefering big. I've been teased my whole life, and I doubt they'll grow, I'm way past puberty. Even ex boyfriends have been jerks about it, but of course they all come up with "oh ...
A. 21 February 2011: I've never dated a girl larger than a large-A / small-B. I don't find D cups attractive at all. As the saying goes, "Anything more than a handful is a waste." Besides, too big means there aren't any attractive bras left (since they have to switch ... (read in full...)
Why DOESN’T my boyfriend take issue with anything I do?
Q. *Dave is great. We’ve been together for two years, and we’ve had a pretty smooth ride so far. He’s my first guy, and I’m thankful for the relationship I have with him. I love him dearly, and definitely see more years by his side. What stumps me, ...
A. 18 February 2011: Can't it be both? Yes, he's being careful not to be rude or upset you. You say he's traditional, so maybe he's just a gentleman too and doesn't criticize girlfriends? And yes, he's also able to overlook the small things because the relationship's ... (read in full...)
What do guys think about virgins?
Q. I'm turning 18 and finishing up my senior year of high school. I am a virgin and do not want to have sex until I am sure I'm with the right person. My mother had sex at 14, needed an abortion and lived a pretty messed up life for a while after that. ...
A. 16 February 2011: Funny enough, I was just talking to a female friend of mine tonight that thinks men will never want to marry her because she isn't a virgin. As much as you're worrying about getting rid of your virginity, many women with they could get theirs ... (read in full...)
Are my standards too high to get a girlfriend?`
Q. Hello all, I'm a seventeen (Virgin) year old boy. I do want a girlfriend but I'm worried that my standards are too high. I don't believe in ANY sexual contact whatsoever, I wouldn't date a female if she had voluntarily given her virginity away o...
A. 14 February 2011: Those are noble desires, but not terribly realistic unless you find a girl who's never dated anyone before you. You're still young enough that you might be some girl's first boyfriend, but as you age it will become pretty rare. When you find someone ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's libido!
Q. Ok, so when my gf and I get intense she loves it. She definitely gets satisfied each time, I literally make sure of it and give it my best effort. Over time I've learned how to get her off and I can do it most every time for her now. She tells me ...
A. 13 February 2011: 2 to 3 times a week is a pretty decent sex life, especially for a 17 year old! And yes, her sex drive is still getting going. And she may still have some confidence / body image / comfort issues that are keeping her from fully embracing her sexual ... (read in full...)
She won't go down on me!
Q. Ok so i have a bit of a sexual problem. My girlfriend does not like giving me oral. We have been sexually active for about 2 years now out of a 3 year relationship but at the begining she liked giving me oral. At the begining she gave me head ...
A. 11 February 2011: Re: Chigirl... I had a girlfriend for a few years that would let me eat her out, and yes I loved it too, but she would never touch me whatsoever. No oral, no vaginal, just empty promises and imbalance. Is that fair because I liked to eat her, so my ... (read in full...)
Is it okay if my boyfriend licks me all the time?
Q. My boyfriend keeps licking me is it ok ? I'm 18 he's 23 I do love him and he likes doing it. He licks my stomach my neck and my arms and I do enjoy it but I wanted to know if it's alright . ...
A. 11 February 2011: My ex used to love to be bitten. A couple I knew showed affection by tickling. Some girls I know hit the guys they like. Whatever makes you happy is perfectly fine!... (read in full...)
A dildo for valentines day?
Q. my boyfriend wants to get me a dildo for valentines should i be mad at that or hurt over it idk what to think of it as?please help...
A. 11 February 2011: So you want the dildo, and have talked about getting one, but just don't want it for Valentine's? But Valentine's is the day for romance (ad sex), so many couples give and get sexy gifts like lingerie or flavored lotions or take bubble baths ... (read in full...)
How much sexual history can you deal with?
Q. To all the guys out there how much sexual history would you be able to deal with about your significant other. Does it matter? What are some reasonable numbers? What numbers would make you least attracted to them?...
A. 10 February 2011: I fully acknowledge that my next girlfriend will be more experienced than I am. Likewise, my previous girlfriends have all been more experienced than I was. What matters isn't so much HOW MANY, but how she treated them. I'd rather a girl with 10 ... (read in full...)
After sex I'm immediately turned off and just want to get dressed
Q. hey, i'm not sure why but i can only have one orgasm, yes u read the gender right haha i am female and this shouldnt happen should it?, i dont really have much of a sex drive and when i do i'm normal then once i've orgasmed im imeediatly turned off ...
A. 10 February 2011: Sounds like it could be a heck of a lot worse, eh? You and your guy can each climax once, with whoever finishes first switching to oral/manual to finish the other, then both curl up and go to sleep with no hard feelings. Count yourself lucky that ... (read in full...)
From a mans perspective, how important is it that a marriage proposal is a surprise?
Q. From a mans perspective, how important is it that a marriage proposal is a surprise? Does it ruin it if she knows all the details (even if you told her?) I know everything about my boyfriend proposing to me this month, including the ring, when, ...
A. 9 February 2011: I proposed to an ex and she knew all about it. She even helped prepare her dad for my asking for his blessing. But we had been talking about it for a year and a half by then, so the only surprise was when. It worked for us, and there were still ... (read in full...)
Together for 3 months, had sex for the first time last week and now he is ignoring me! How do I fix this?
Q. ok so i've been with my boyfriend nearly 3 months. Overall he's a nice guy and we get along good. But a little over a week ago we had sex for the first time in our relationship (his first time ever) and for the next day or so everything was peachy. ...
A. 8 February 2011: Is it possible he's embarrassed at his performance? You said it's his first time, but it sounds like it wasn't yours. Was he clumsy or too fast or did he make stupid sounds? Coule he just feel like an idiot and be avoiding you since he feels ... (read in full...)
Wife is too wet and it turns me off!
Q. My wife is having this funny noise on her vagina when we having sex its not the farting sound due to air inside her vagina its like her vagina its too much wet and every time i go in and out the noise is there and it turns me off, so what should be ...
A. 8 February 2011: That's just what her body is like. Some women are so dry that they need lube to have sex. Some are so wet that they leave a puddle. Some are in between. Some vary from one extreme to the other on a daily basis. Your woman just happens to be really ... (read in full...)
Will she forgive me, and talk to me again? Should I give her time?
Q. My ex girlfriend and I broke up back in September. She broke up with me because she was feeling like she wanted to see other people. I was the best boyfriend she had and she loves me so much, but she is so upset because she has these feelings. So we ...
A. 8 February 2011: She broke up with you (repeatedly), got you to make love to her but never with any commitment on her end, dated another guy without feeling bad about it, only wanted you back when you were taken (asking you to dump your girlfriend for her), and yet ... (read in full...)
Geek/nerd guys?
Q. So, I've always had a thing for geek/nerd guys. There something adorable about them. When my friends talk about their perfect boyfriend,they are all about abs and stuff like that. I want a tall,skinny boyfriend that wears glasses. But,even if I find ...
A. 7 February 2011: I just want to say, you made me whole day right there! Ha! Awesome...
But just like any other interest, get involved. Does your school have any clubs, like an anime club or roleplaying groups or anything like that? Are there any cons in your are... (read in full...)
Shall I tell the girl whom I love that I saw her boyfriend in town with another girl or just sit on the side and watch?
Q. I recently upset a girl that I love a lot (she knows it) by saying her current boyfriend is using her. I said that to her because I care about her and put her at the top priority. I heard about that by coincidence, so I have no evidence to prove ...
A. 6 February 2011: DO NOT TELL HER THIS! You "saw him with another girl" but don't know for a fact what's happening, and more importantly cannot prove it. Maybe he's just friends with this girl, or she's a cousin, or maybe he IS cheating but will deny it. All I can ... (read in full...)
I want back my married lover even though he cheated with another married woman!
Q. I am a married woman who fell in love with amarried man who I found out was seeing another married woman and still is. When I found out I confronted him and he got upset and no longer speaks to me but he is still sleeping with her. I still love him ...
A. 6 February 2011: Wait... let me get this straight. You cheated on your husband with a man who you knew was cheating on his wife, but got upset when he cheated on you with another woman that was also cheating on her husband? Your own cheating and his cheating, that's ... (read in full...)
Lights On & Open Your Eyes during Sex means what?
Q. We know most women enjoy the lights off and men want the lights on, lol. Why is this? What does it mean when the lights are on and he looks into your eyes during sex and when he has an orgasm? What does it mean when a guy looks into your eyes o...
A. 5 February 2011: He's looking into your eyes, keeps looking at you and not just your body, but making real eye contact even as he climaxes? Sounds like there's no doubt that he's fully involved with YOU. No fantasies of other women. No disinterested sex just going ... (read in full...)
What do guys think of girls who blush?
Q. What do guys think of a girl blushing? My skin is white and it seems that I blush a lot and my cheeks turn red quickly. I only notice it when someone tells me, "you turned red", and then I start feeling the heat (probably because I'm getting ...
A. 5 February 2011: Personally, I think it's adorable! And lets me know she's interested (a nice bonus, with how subtle women aften are). ... (read in full...)
I want to explore having sex with a man but my girlfriend won't allow it
Q. Dear cupid. I am 24 year old and am currently in a relationship with a woman. we have a pretty healthy sex life and love each other like crazy. i've never had sex with men in my whole life, and im certain that i won't feel for men. i knew i'm gay ...
A. 4 February 2011: Yeah, what they said. Cheating is cheating. Even if all you're trying to do is see if you like sex with men. What happens if you do like it, a lot? Will you keep sleeping with men and telling your girlfriend that it's ok because you're lesbian?
... (read in full...)
Why did he stop running back to me?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend and now he has a gilfriend. I'm fuming because she's prettier and nicer then me. All of our mutual friends adore her. She's nice to me to and that pisses me off. How could my boyfriend move on from me so fast?!!! He ...
A. 3 February 2011: He did only what you asked. You dumped him. You told him to leave. So he left. If you wanted him to stay, you should have told him to stay. What he does (and who he dates) after you ended your relationship with him is his own business, whether she's ... (read in full...)
I really like him, but I'm helping a friend to date him!
Q. I really am in like with this guy at work. He has so much in common with me in so many ways, I feel like we are perfect for each other. And I know he can see it... I can see it when he asks me certain questions, because he's trying to figure me ...
A. 3 February 2011: I'm going to disagree with the, "if he was interested in you, he'd let you know," view. You're interested in him, but haven't let him know, right? Despite all the looks, the smiles, the closeness between you two, whenever he comes in ashamed about ... (read in full...)
Do his family have a problem with me?
Q. hi I am in a new relationship with my boyfriend, ive lived in turkey for 8 yrs and ive recently met a turkish partner, we are in love. the first week we met he stayed everynight it was great we are so happy together but is it normal for his ...
A. 3 February 2011: It sounds like they're just suggesting that he be careful, move slowly. They're accepting of you, and his spending the night with you, just don't want him to rush in too fast and possibly get hurt. They don't hate you, they just love their son. ... (read in full...)
So frustrated! I want to have sex with him but HE wants to wait!!!
Q. i am in this relationship there is a 8 year age gap. we have been together for 5 months and we love each other really much. but the thing is even though he is older he wants to wait for sex but well i want to fuck his brains out he is a personal...
A. 3 February 2011: Some people would have sex far sooner than five months, some people wait far longer than that. More important that what other people feel is how YOU TWO feel. Maybe it's the age thing. Maybe he's uncomfortable sleeping with a minor. Maybe he's not ... (read in full...)
Is kissing sexual?
Q. Is kissing sexaul? My friend told me and my short kisses that I had with my ex werte sexaul even thougfh they only lasted one-five seconds, Are kisses sexaul??...
A. 1 February 2011: Well sure if it's a frantic, passionate, on your way to bed and kissing while stripping sort of kiss, yes that's sexual. But a first date kiss, polite and timid? Or a kiss hello when greeting your significant other? I don't feel that would be. Even ... (read in full...)
Why swallow? whats the pleasure?
Q. dear readers, i would like to ask the men out there and possibly the women why men like a girl to swallow their semen? why is it attractive to men to see there girlfriend swalllowing the product of their energy? some women say it tastes awfu...
A. 1 February 2011: We want to finish in a girl's mouth for the same reason we want to be sucked to begin with: it feels good. Warm, wet, not unlike another place we like to finish. But then, while in afterglow and feeling good, she spits it out and goes to grab ... (read in full...)
Both virgins, on birth control pills.... do I REALLY need a condom?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are both virgins but we are planning on having sex in a couple of weeks. She's started taking birth control pills so there is no chance of her getting pregnant. We havent had sex so STI's are also out of the equation so do i ...
A. 31 January 2011: Well, the birth control pill is only 98% effective, so unless you want a baby, condoms are still safer. And I dated a virgin that cheated on me, so yes STD's are still possible. You've got a good situation, but without condoms, you're still taking a ... (read in full...)
How do I persuade my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me?
Q. How do i convince or persuade my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me,i have talked about it a couple of times but he said that he is not comfortable with it.What else do i do cause i really enjoy oral,moreover he doesnt last long during sex and i ...
A. 31 January 2011: If he won't give you oral, you shouldn't give him oral. Fair is fair.
But besides that, perhaps you should shower with him and get hot and bothered while getting squeeky clean, so he can't complain about odor or hygiene. If you're bushy, consider... (read in full...)
I hate condoms and she won't go on the pill!
Q. I am in a bit of a predicament with my new girlfriend. We're both 22 and have been going out for 2 months. Last week we talked about having sex with each other for the first time, it's not that one of us doesn't feel ready it's just an issue with ...
A. 31 January 2011: Sorry dude. I know it sucks. Condoms are not as pleasurable as bare sex, but still beat going without, don't they? And they still beat child support payments or catching/spreading a disease. If she doesn't want the pill, then your options are condom ... (read in full...)
Who cheats more - men or women?
Q. I just wanted to see other opinions.....Who cheats more.....men or women?...
A. 31 January 2011: Well, I've never dated a girl that was faithful to me, so you can guess what my hunch is. Really it's probably pretty even. Men and women are more alike than either would care to admit.... (read in full...)
Which one is better? To love or be loved?
Q. My bf is an egoist person. He always asks me to stay online 24 hours for him. And always said that i must reply his chats. If i late reply 1 or 2 mins, he will get angry. He never allows me to attend someone's call when i chat with him. While he...
A. 31 January 2011: I wonder how much of your love for this man is Stockholm Syndrome. He's controlling your every move and even training you to accept him with other girls while threatening to leave you if you have male friends. He's got control over you and he knows ... (read in full...)
Why are bigger breasts bigger?
Q. How to learn to love small breasts? I have small breasts, and I don't like how they look. I know women can look good with small breasts, like Kate Hudson or Natalie Portman, but I just don't think they look sexy or hot, just pretty. I'm also...
A. 30 January 2011: You've never heard of a woman fearing her husband leaving for smaller breasts (at least in those words), but I'm sure you've heard of men leaving for perkier beasts when their wives started to sag. Smaller ones don't cause chronic back pain, give ... (read in full...)
Are men really ok with small perfect breasts?
Q. my boyfriend is a boob guy.. i know that he loves boobs,..big boobs especially. Im about 34b. i lost a lot of weight and lost most of my breasts( i was 180lbs now im 125). they are perky, he tells me he loves my boobs but always comment's on boobs ...
A. 30 January 2011: I'm a fan of smaller ones. Less sagging, more perky, better options for bras, the ability to occasionally go without a bra, and YES I care that it means less back pain for her! To quote a friend, "Anything more than a handful is a waste." Sure you'd ... (read in full...)
I hit my girlfriend, is it my fault or hers?
Q. im 15 ma girlfriends 14 were in the same year but im not proud of what i did but i need some advice me and my girlfriend were arguing after something that happened at school i kinda said she was flirting with my bestmate because she was hugging him ...
A. 29 January 2011: There's a simple rule to determine whose fault it is when a man hits a woman. If she was pointing a knife/gun at you, it's her fault. If not, it's your fault. Period.... (read in full...)
Should I leave, so she can find someone who will make her happier? Don't want to lose the love of my life!
Q. I have been with my wife for 9 years, married for 3. I love her like no other and we have 3 boys together. About 4 months ago, we really had problems. I got so depressed and turned to trying to kill myself, but by the grace of god and my loving ...
A. 28 January 2011: As a depression prone guy, let me share something I had a hard time learning: Running away is selfish. Leaving someone that loves you does NOT make her happier, it breaks her heart! If you want to make her happy, get a good therapist, maybe go on an ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him to kiss me?
Q. ok well im 13 and i have a boyfriend and hes really shy and we have been dateing for awhile and he hasnt kissed me and he told my friend he was gonna kiss me awhile ago and he hasnt but i dont want to kiss him first so how do i tell him i want him ...
A. 28 January 2011: What's wrong with kissing him first? If he's shy and second guessing himself, you may have to either tell him outright, "kiss me," or just kiss him yourself. We've all been there, nervous and uncertain. Heck, I had to kissed first when I was ... (read in full...)
What drives a man to perform oral sex?
Q. When a man performs oral sex on a woman, during intercourse for the first time, how does he feel? What drives him to do it (i.e; to give pleasure, expecting something in return, closeness, or just being horney)? ...
A. 28 January 2011: I find that it turns me on to eat a girl out, not to mention how good it feels to know I'm giving pleasure to a girl I love, and it's even fun to do for its own sake, and I happen to like the taste and smell, and I've never found a better way to get ... (read in full...)
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