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51-59,
anonymous
writes: I am a married woman who fell in love with amarried man who I found out was seeing another married woman and still is. When I found out I confronted him and he got upset and no longer speaks to me but he is still sleeping with her. I still love him and want him back. He was my piece of happiness. Yes I do love my husband and family but the affair made me cope with some issues and also made me feel alive because we had a good frienship also.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011): What you both need is some counseling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2011): I dont think you know what love is, but I do think you know how to use excuses well to rationalize your behavior. If cheating makes you feel alive and not your family then I suggest your priorities are out of balance. Whatever excuses you care to come up with.
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (6 February 2011):
 Wait... let me get this straight. You cheated on your husband with a man who you knew was cheating on his wife, but got upset when he cheated on you with another woman that was also cheating on her husband? Your own cheating and his cheating, that's fine, but his cheating again was what made it a problem? Now you say you love your husband, but your challenge is trying to forgive the cheater you cheat with for cheating on you?
I think that right now, what you need is some counseling (both as a couple with your husband, and perhaps for yourself to deal with some of the issues you're coping with). This is a disaster waiting to blow up in your face and could go very badly very fast.
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