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writes:Is kissing sexaul? My friend told me and my short kisses that I had with my ex werte sexaul even thougfh they only lasted one-five seconds, Are kisses sexaul??
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2011): The kisses I gave my ex were just "I love you" kisses.
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 Well sure if it's a frantic, passionate, on your way to bed and kissing while stripping sort of kiss, yes that's sexual. But a first date kiss, polite and timid? Or a kiss hello when greeting your significant other? I don't feel that would be. Even a soft kiss while cuddling on the couch is more intimate than sexual to me (though I realize many people don't differentiate between intimacy and sexuality). Something can be tender and loving without being sex. But yes, a wild makeout has crossed that line.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2011): but aren't kisses meant to be romantic and not sexaul? I.e the soft kisses I said before.
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (1 February 2011):
 I think it depends on the nature, and intentions behind the kiss. If he planned on kissing you, then laying you down and going from there, then yes it was sexual. But if he just wanted to kiss you good night, or hello, etc., then I don't think so.
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (1 February 2011):
 There are many types of kisses.
There is the quick peck on the cheek.
There is the kiss you give your gran.
There is the kiss you greet your friends with.
There is air kissing (if you are theatrical) a la mwah mwah.. helllooooo dahllllllling..
Then there are the kisses you give a boyfriend or girlfriend. The kisses you give to a partner ARE sexual - its the emotion behind them - you WANT to kiss them because you find them sexy and attractive. (also partner kisses may be passionate, slow, quick, or playful but they are all sexual in some way).
Its HOW you kiss someone. Snogging someone on a dancefloor with tongues down each others throats IS sexual. And rather gross if you dont really know the other person. This is not comparable to the quick peck on the cheek you have to give your Great Aunt at Christmas.
Anything that involves deep passionate kissing is a very sexual act, but also those short sweet kisses can often have a huge amount of sexual chemistry in them. Kisses in their very nature are always sexual, unless they are just a peck on the cheek.
For me, kissing someone is a very intimate thing, and there is a huge amount of sexual feeling in it. Kissing brings people together and builds the closeness of a sexual relationship.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (1 February 2011):
 Great answer chigirl! I agree. I tend to think that most kisses are sexual in nature if they aren't a greeting peck on the cheek though.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 I think they can be, and they can be friendly. It depends on your connection with the one you kiss, and what emotions you feel when you kiss.
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